Shortyy:

You don't understand. As a lady, it's not easy to lose someone you love.

This is why, I'll advice any virgin to make God their friend, and forget men. When the time comes, your own husband will come.

Well that feeling isn't reserved for ladies only you know.

Ladies should set their priorities right,relationship is 80% love and 20% Brain (logic).

A man that insists Premarital Sex is his demand for staying or marriage,Does he truthfully mean well for you as a lady?.Knowing fully well you can never force him if shit goes otherwise.

In some cases this same man will label you cheap when he brags to his buddies on how an easy lay you were at the mention of marriage

MMXX:
Well that feeling isn't reserved for ladies only you know.

Ladies should set their priorities right,relationship is 80% love and 20% Brain (logic).

A man that insists Premarital Sex is his demand for staying or marriage,Does he truthfully mean well for you as a lady?.Knowing fully well you can never force him if shit goes otherwise.

In some cases this same man will label you cheap when he brags to his buddies on how an easy lay you were at the mention of marriage

Hmm you haven't met naive ladies.
It's well.

Shortyy:


Hmm you haven't met naive ladies.
It's well.

oh I have

Even the sophisticated and Polish ones fall for that also.

I'm not judging anybody,you were trying to push blame and justify the act for the ladies. Which in my opinion was wrong

They are not under any pressure or held at gunpoint.. So they should accept sole responsibility for their actions

MMXX:
oh I have

Even the sophisticated and Polish ones fall for that also.

I'm not judging anybody,you were trying to push blame and justify the act for the ladies. Which in my opinion was wrong

They are not under any pressure or held at gunpoint.. So they should accept sole responsibility for their actions

It is their fault. As a man, a lady tells you "I'm a virgin" wouldn't it be normal to encourage the person instead of telling her it's nothing? All men do that. That's why most virgin ladies don't even go about telling people they're virgins, to avoid these predators and the rapists.

Ferrocene:
How about settling with a virgin then she chooses to explore others, curious of how having sex with others feels like.

It doesn't happen often. It can happen, but it is rare.

What she did not try when single, is it in marriage she will now do it?

teejaymoremoney:
Bullshit....so u now use virgin as a criteria of marrying a lady? Dat will be ur biggest mistake ever..... I don't care if u ar a virgin or not,all dat matters is smart,loving,caring and beautiful lady.... nonsense post

Not until she serves u a borehole .... Simp
.. Mumu

Shortyy:


It is their fault. As a man, a lady tells you "I'm a virgin" wouldn't it be normal to encourage the person instead of telling her it's nothing? All men do that. That's why most virgin ladies don't even go about telling people they're virgins, to avoid these predators and the rapists.

Lol who goes about telling people that they'r a virgin or not..isn't that myopic?

Again, if someone with a zeal to study in a university fails jamb twice,and Someone walks up to him and says forget school jare "who school help or school na scam"..

Who is it left for to make the final decision??

MMXX:
Lol who goes about telling people that they'r a virgin or not..isn't that myopic?

Again, if someone with a zeal to study in a university fails jamb twice,and Someone walks up to him and says forget school jare "who school help or school na scam"..

Who is it left for to make the final decision??

Those are two different things.

okay, awesome

Shortyy:

Those are two different things.

It's the same thing dear.You just didn't get the context.

If No one encourages and appreciates you, encourage and appreciate yourself.You're solely responsible for you.

Don't do stuff because you were promise a suppose marriage or to please him cos you love him.

Let's be guided o
Who f**ked the "non virgins" y'all like saying crazy things tho
If she gives in she's a bad person
If she doesn't she's termed hard to get and turned to a prey

I pity the younger generation
They are being trained to save their virginity for men that have slept around anyhow tueh

Virgins reading this KEEP YOUR DAMN VIRGINITY FOR YOURSELF NOT FOR ANY MAN periodtt

Factfinder1:
RUBBISH and vibes...

What my eyes see on nairaland ehnn only GOD will deliver my eyes

You need to get your facts right man..how can you come here and say such BS?? Which one is foreign genes mess with DNA in a woman's womb? Does it even sound right to you? Please stop misinforming people; your child's genes is made up of a combination of her ovum and a single sperm and won't look like or have genes of previous sexual partners..in case you don't know, the maximum number of days sperms can survive in a woman's body is just a week,after that the sperms die off and that's it! The only way a child can look like another man is if it is that man's child..back to the main issue; last time i checked my bible, both man and woman are supposed to be virgins on their wedding night so if you want a virgin, be one and equally tell your fellow men to stop sleeping around and wait for their virgins on their wedding night..and please stop using the "used car" example to vindicate yourself, if you think you deserve a new car, doesn't she deserve a new car too?

Raise your standard as a man. Do not settle for less. Marry only virgins.

The Low self esteems can settle for less.

@factfinder1, statistics for the low IQ's.
Summary: Virgins/very low sex partners among women guarantees;
1. Absence/low sexually transmitted diseases.

2. High marriage stability.

3. High happiness in marriage.

4. Absence/low depression experience in marriage.

Non virgin women, the low self esteems and those with little or no integrity to hold onto can wail till eternity. Wh0res and damaged women can screech too.

Chastity is a standard!

Men needs to be chaste too. But, comparing male and female virginity to prove a point is blatantly absurd and very silly! It's not me. Go ask God or ask mother nature.

The hymen until the wedding night proves loyalty, trustworthiness and sincerity----at least, a calculated risk is better than uncertainty.

F^ck you losers.

Guys that have disvirqined girls and girls that have been fvcked mercilessly will not like this post.. Just watch, by their comments you shall know them...

Ferrocene:
How about settling with a virgin then she chooses to explore others, curious of how having sex with others feels like.

decent virgins dnt think that way

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Not until she serves u a borehole .... Simp
.. Mumu[/qu

Continue searching for ur virgin oponu...wake up this is 21st century

MMXX:
It's the same thing dear.You just didn't get the context.

If No one encourages and appreciates you, encourage and appreciate yourself.You're solely responsible for you.

Don't do stuff because you were promise a suppose marriage or to please him cos you love him.

Why you saying you you? I'm talking about complaints I've gotten from girls.

Like I said, you'd never understand this until you're in a woman's shoe.

virginprincess:
All those non-virgin men that are looking for virgin women, may God never grant you your request, a non-virgin man deserves a non-virgin lady and vice versa.

Don't be this harsh nah!! So some of us that desire virgin wives should not have it because we have deflowered others? Be calming down biko. Funny enough, I've seen where one dude who was known for deflowering ladies and announcing it ended up with a fresh and untouched lady in marriage. Such is life.

Flows001:
Don't be this harsh nah!! So some of us that desire virgin wives should not have it because we have deflowered others? Be calming down biko. Funny enough, I've seen where one dude who was known for deflowering ladies and announcing it ended up with a fresh and untouched lady in marriage. Such is life.

That is just one in a million, you don't expect a lady who is a virgin, someone who has never being touched, to settle with a man who runs after everything under skirt, it not supposed to be like that na, even God will not allow that to happen.

Shortyy:

Why you saying you you? I'm talking about complaints I've gotten from girls.

Like I said, you'd never understand this until you're in a woman's shoe.

Let's agree to disagree then

I still don't find that to be a valid reason, nobody should allow themselves be coerce for whatsoever reason into doing what they not ready for..Otherwise take responsibility for your action, not pass blame..


If faced with such (hypothetical speaking) will you give in cos of love or not wanting to lose your partner?

One bad thing about marrying non virgin is that u may never know their sexual history, is she just a deflowered lady or a completely spoiled n perverted one

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Na ut type won know aay virgin no fit come una way cuz of the amt of pussy una don deflower.... Ode

Zzor:
I agree,its the same thing marrying a non virgin man,let us all try to keep our virginity for our spouses

God bless you!
Post reeks of extreme patriarchy

@OP i need hymen intact virgin for wife, where can i get one?, now for those over used pussy, listen men are not virgin that is why d!ck don't come with hymen, only brand new pussy come with hymen

If you people like, preach virginity over a million times, it won't change the fact that non virgins are getting married every Saturday and living happily in their matrimonial homes.

virginprincess:
That is just one in a million, you don't expect a lady who is a virgin, someone who has never being touched, to settle with a man who runs after everything under skirt, it not supposed to be like that na, even God will not allow that to happen.

How do you know a virgin man? Of course every guy can feign virgin if that's the only "condition" to convince a virgin girl into marriage. The bittter truth is that nature has been unfair on ladies when it comes to "sex" related matters. A lady who sleeps around will definitely depreciate both physically and down there but a guy who has slept with a hundred ladies will still look fresh and virgin like.

FahBuLous:
decent virgins dnt think that way

Oshey chairman of thinking virgins association of Nigeria

CSTRR:

It doesn't happen often. It can happen, but it is rare

What she did not try when single, is it in marriage she will now do it?

@bolded so we are agreeing it happens

Ferrocene:

Oshey chairman of thinking virgins association of Nigeria

T.V.A.N

was your mother a virgin before she marry your dad

Who will marry the ones you disvirgined?