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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by millionboi2: 9:53pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
virginprincess:is your father broke? How do you know then 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by virginprincess(f): 9:56pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
ZIINI:No it still happen till now, especially with a particular tribe in nigeria, i am not aspiring to be a full time housewife, Godforbid, if i am then why am i wasting my parent money going to school, i just said that because it still happening in this era. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 10:00pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Unik3030:As in eeh...am touched by this. Even Folorunsho Alakija dey hustle too o! 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by virginprincess(f): 10:03pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
millionboi2:Maybe you should read my comment before typing TRASH. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 10:03pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
virginprincess:Only illiterate will want to be full house shit Maybe those that didn't go to school And some of them are learning trade now. I hate girls with entitlement mentality when I spot them I can shoot them a grand 100 k9 pistol FÛCK Dem MF got two legs and arm let them work their pussy up ![]() 39 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by virginprincess(f): 10:11pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
ZIINI:Zini take take it eazy na, a good wife is always a good wife, whether school or no school. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 10:16pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
400billionman:Thumbs up man! 10 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Liposure: 11:17pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
I blame the traditional upbringing of the female child where the man is seen as breadwinner and provider while the woman is seen as caregiver. We need to change that mentality and start reorientating these girls 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by DaInferno(m): 11:22pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
virginprincess:maybe in this part of the world; dude from Canada would boast of ladies splitting the bills. Sounds kinda strange to him to hear what happens on this side 13 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by zanshi: 1:04am On Nov 07, 2020 |
We love being single dont entrap us with problem. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by MrTAnonymous(m): 1:23am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Kranediggy: You've said it all. Most ladies nowadays don't value true love, most of them are too materialistic and "emotionally and mentally" childish. Nothing bad in been materialistic but extremes of everything is bad you know. No man wants a liability, it is better to remain single than marry a lady who isn't emotionally and mentally ready for marriage. Incase you don't know na me talk 37 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 2:47am On Nov 07, 2020 |
MrTAnonymous:Correct! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 2:49am On Nov 07, 2020 |
zanshi:You sound like a future single mom dear...I can perceive it. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 2:49am On Nov 07, 2020 |
ZIINI:Ever childish ZIINI. When will you grow and have sense? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 2:51am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Liposure: ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 2:52am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Liposure:A lot of women are taking up such roles as breadwinners, even women who have husbands. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 3:03am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Chii59:No doubt they exist. The problem is that, most of such women see that breadwinner role they assume; as doing their men a favour, while they're assumed one, in the union of marriage. Common! Women, anything you do is for the own good of the family. Although I frown at a man purposely leaving the burden for his wife, as real men don't engage in that. In fact most women, in such scenerio make life unbearable for their men, even though its not the man's fault to be broke. An average natural man has his pride, most men who end up being fed by their wife didn't plan for that; but women of this contemporary age believe that a man be the one to take the full responsibility. This is wrong. This follow for why widows plenty for Nigeria... 30 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 3:28am On Nov 07, 2020 |
MiaB:LOL |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 3:36am On Nov 07, 2020 |
The truth is, without love marriages won't last; no matter how rich the man or woman is... 10 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 4:27am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Kranediggy:To be honest, it is a favour for a woman to add being a breadwinner to her traditional roles as wife and mother. A big favour. How many men who are breadwinners are very active in being a father to their kids? Changing diapers, taking them to/fro school, doing homework, making sure they bath, eat and are ready for school on time, each day? How many breadwinning men are hands-on daddies? You think it's just to drop school fees and go off to work? When you see a woman who is a breadwinner, wife and mother and you say she's doing as if it's a favour, it reveals a lack of understanding on your part. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by celwonder(m): 4:59am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: This your thought is absolutely archaic. You still don't fully grasp wat marriage is. Most Nigerian men will succumb to this kind of your thought because of their pride. A reasonably responsible woman won't even be comfortable with the whole "choice" idea. She would want to be involved financially no matter how little she is alloted to bring to the table. Personally, there's nothing special to being male or female in marriage, the important part is know your role to play and play it effectively while fully ready to drop in to help your partner when they seem not fully equipped to handle any function while performing their functions. Pls don't see my comment in bad light. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 6:13am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Chii59:Chii59 I'll have it when I suck your boobs dry ![]() 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by CHoccolaTE: 6:29am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Men these days are the ones who are liabilities in marriage, very lazy and entitled golddiggers. You want a woman that will be breadwinner and share the bills but you cannot share cooking and cleaning house and taking care of children equally. No, you still expect women to be in charge of the household even while she is stressing herself to provide money. Marrying men of these days has no benefit whatsoever, it's just losses after losses, fvcking liabilities. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by CHoccolaTE: 6:33am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Skepticus: There is no benefit to marrying them oo, only men benefit from marriage, the children a woman bears answer their fathers name and add to fathers lineage, Even companionship you spoke of na scam because the idiots will still cheat on their wives or attempt to cheat on her. The only thing they used to do before which is provide, they cannot do it again and these days many women are the ones carrying the family. Very useless people. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 6:38am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: Shatap ur mouth!!!! Shey u want marry and with this OGBONI MENTALITY? I shame 4ur mama and papa because you will spend ALL ur days here on earth in ur papa house ![]() ![]() Lmao, A man should carry ur RESPONSIBILITY ![]() Chaiii, I don't blame that SIMP that u currently have as a bf that provides all ur request on TOP JUST SEX ![]() ![]() 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 6:47am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Chii59:Don't be confused dear. Am talking about women who their husbands even help out in chores & caring for their kids. Read this comment u've quoted well, digest & understand it, before quoting me. Am not even supporting men that leave the whole burden for their wives, Nah! I don't support that dear. Mind u most breadwinning mother's hardly do all u listed here O! 12 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 6:49am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: Mark today's DATE,,, this ur ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY will lead you to SINGLE MOTHERHOOD ![]() ![]() Are you CRIPPLED ![]() ![]() ![]() 15 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 6:50am On Nov 07, 2020 |
celwonder:Well said... |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by dominique(f): 6:54am On Nov 07, 2020 |
There's hardly a family I know where the wife doesn't cover a considerable amount of family expenses, so I don't know where all this crying and groaning is coming from. So in addition to taking care of kids and unending house chores, there's now pressure on the Nigerian wives to provide for the family. What exactly is the usefulness of the Nigerian husband in the 21st century? If only (working class) women know the type of favour they're doing this men in getting married to them, they won't be so desperate for marriage. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 7:17am On Nov 07, 2020 |
dominique:You didn't reason well before saying this dear. How can you say such thing? By marrying a man you're doing him a favour? See O! Don't favour any man, remain single. Make I hear say E no get one dude you're dreaming about and praying God brings him your way. You sef get boyfriend wey you not fit endure if he dumps you mtcheeeew...All these ones forming shit here sef 37 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 7:21am On Nov 07, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE:Judging from this comment you ain't smart baby... 11 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by CHoccolaTE: 7:21am On Nov 07, 2020 |
dominique: They have no usefulness at all, none. In many cases, once the woman starts earning considerable amount of money, the men abandon breadwinning for them and start spending their money on frivolities like carrying girls up and down. Only them want to boss women around and expect submission from women but the same women must be earning money to feed them an pay their bills, these same women must throw away their fathers name after marriage and start bearing the name of a man she is feeding and paying his bills. 19 Likes 5 Shares |
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