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Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by askings: 6:38am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Sir/Ma, Please we just got married recently. She is a non teaching staff at unilag. she told me she would coming home only Saturday night. She said her reason is transportation fair. I told her how would a lady stay out home for almost a week. And now she already away for a week now. Please I need to hear your advice before I start taking drastic actions. Thanks 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by PedroEastman: 6:39am On Nov 07, 2020 |
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Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by Humanoid01(m): 6:39am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Wahala! Both of you should have talked about this before tying the knot na. How can this be? Was there some sort of unusual occurrence that led to the marriage? This is just too shocking to believe. 30 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by raphretle: 6:44am On Nov 07, 2020 |
You no know Before 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by askings: 6:44am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Humanoid01: She didn't tell me she spending a week until after wedding 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by chatinent: 6:45am On Nov 07, 2020 |
What happened when you guys were courting? You didn't look out for these signs? It's either you talk it out with her or find her a better paying job. BTW, what job in Unilag keeps one for a week! Courtship failures are marriage failures. 11 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by askings: 6:45am On Nov 07, 2020 |
raphretle:That what? 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by onyidon22(m): 6:46am On Nov 07, 2020 |
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Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by askings: 6:46am On Nov 07, 2020 |
chatinent:She is senior porter at unilag 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by Burgerlomo: 6:46am On Nov 07, 2020 |
If you think what I am thinking please raise your hand. 46 Likes
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Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by askings: 6:46am On Nov 07, 2020 |
onyidon22:I have told her but she still insisted |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by thesicilian: 6:48am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Get another job for her. Or rent another accommodation closer to her place of work for you two. 12 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by Humanoid01(m): 6:48am On Nov 07, 2020 |
askings:She didn't have to. You should have discussed this with her beforehand since it was so obvious her workplace isn't close to your home. It's either you get her another job or you find a way to sort out the transportation issues, with the latter highly unlikely. This is a serious matter. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by askings: 6:50am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Humanoid01:Her reason is transportation fair |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by Lexusgs430: 6:56am On Nov 07, 2020 |
askings: What yeye drastic action?...... You knew before marriage, this was her pattern of work....... Your only solution if you still want to remain married.......... Get her something else to do...... Put your money, where your mouth is....... Let your pocket talk, not your mouth........ 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by austine4real(m): 6:58am On Nov 07, 2020 |
This is unbelievable |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by coolsegun2002: 6:59am On Nov 07, 2020 |
askings: My guy.. looks like u have entered one chance.... how will i go and work for 6days, come back nd u will say u want to have sex ...u want to kill me.. It’s not good to jump into conclusions but this one has another man outside that is kpanshing her steady...99% sure, the remaining one percent is for the benefit of doubt.....’U are just the guy that offered marriage first...and she ddnt want to miss the opportunity 15 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by Jessepaid(m): 7:01am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Bro.... Some newly married ladies still think they are single until... They get pregnant and give birth... Offer to give her the transportation fare every week 6 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by blinking001(m): 7:01am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Stories like this only happens when you've been living within her frame throughout your courtship. You've been allowing that woman to call the shots in your relationship and now this is happening due to your weak ass. You need to set things right by being a man. Solutions Get a pen and paper, make your calculations how much you think her transportation for a month would look like, if it's on the high side then you'll have to assist but ensure she pays the most from her own pocket. Ensure you put it straight to her that if she doesnt work from home you were going to end the marriage. This will put her back into your frame. If she's still indifferent about the whole thing then play the dread game with her. This will surely bring her to her senses. If it doesnt work get ready for a divorce. Always be willing to walk out from people who disrespect you and what you stand for. Deep down you know your wife might already be cheating on you. 19 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by Kriss216: 7:04am On Nov 07, 2020 |
askings:Female porter in male hostel. I rest my case. I pray God should give you the fortitude to bear this prospective tragedy. 9 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by bdchange(m): 7:05am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Sometimes you guys bring marriage issues here that are disturbing to the singles. Imagine a newly married couple who are supposed to be in honey moon mood is already complaining of marriage palava. How can you not discussed in totality the nature of your works and other essential things before marriage? Marriage seems to be the hardest contract to make since it involved the two parties to be 50/50 in agreement. 12 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by askings: 7:13am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Lexusgs430:Point of correction, this is not porter pattern of work. And all I know is night shift!! But staying a week is not part of our discussion. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by Mozino007(m): 7:18am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Kriss216:So female hostel no dey for unilag? ode! 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by doggedfighter(f): 7:26am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Get an accommodation close to to her work place. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by dederocs(m): 7:35am On Nov 07, 2020 |
konji na bastard |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by ABANGWABOI(m): 7:39am On Nov 07, 2020 |
#ILMOVON #Attitude #Bliv Either you made up this story or you are daft.. Moreover from you post you are immature, childish and without spine.. She should deal with you Weakling.. if the story is true.. |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by instinct57vm(m): 7:42am On Nov 07, 2020 |
askings: Where do you guys stay? Let’s examine the distance in fairness before we give advice |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by Kobicove(m): 7:44am On Nov 07, 2020 |
askings: If your residence is very far from Unilag, then I think you guys should consider moving closer to her workplace 5 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by ABANGWABOI(m): 7:45am On Nov 07, 2020 |
blinking001: Bro no waste better advice for were this Weakling of a Boy dey.. If you tell them to be in charge as a man Dem go talk say na misogyny abi na patriarchy.. now this weak Ass beta male cannot handle his affair and is already crying like a kid that had his candy taken away from him.. It would definitely end in premium tears for him.. 6 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by Mrscarter(f): 7:47am On Nov 07, 2020 |
askings: Try find out if she's really at where she's saying she's at. Take it from there. If was me newly married to my hubby I'd wanna be with him every day 5 Likes |
Re: Help!!! My Newly Wedded Wife Only Comes Home Once In A Week by majamajic(m): 7:53am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Kobicove: Did u consider the man's job ? Let her stop the job with immediate effect till u get her another comfortable work , unless she is the bread winner for now 3 Likes |
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