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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by bluefilm: 9:07am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Kranediggy: You may be partly right because in our world today, I don't see no reason why the wife should not be able to be earning at least something, no matter how small. But as for me, the main reason why I am still not yet married is simply because I am so afraid of the BOREDOM that comes with marriage. The idea of doing the same set of things over and over again with just one person for the rest of your life is pretty much life threatening to me!!! 7 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by ijoba22(m): 9:08am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:a choice? See wife material ooo. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Erastuslove: 9:08am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Since Govt cant pay even minimum wage, guys too don wize up 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 9:08am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Lovelies1:Sorry for being rude was boiling then Dem MFs made me angry If is from poly Ibadan Then it's Me |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Lordhades23: 9:09am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by josiegirl27: 9:09am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Churchill6767:truly shameless. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by myrates: 9:10am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:Do women who are succesful in their careers or businesses have two heads? Learn from Folorunso Alakija, she's a typical example of an ideal wife, not lazy gold diggers 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Mineisgrace(f): 9:10am On Nov 07, 2020 |
It's true partial but what about people who are married and it is only the wife that has a job but the husband doesn't. 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by pocohantas(f): 9:11am On Nov 07, 2020 |
tobe1985: This is Nigeria, everyone would never earn 100k, let alone 400k. I remember making my hair somewhere and one lady there said the only way she can work in corporate Nigeria is if they pay her like 150k. I was shocked at her target, but it reminded me of the reality in Nigeria. The most important thing is to get a supportive partner and cut down on unnecessary things. We should also watch the number of kids we have. Nigerians too born abeg! Wedding has never been compulsory. Especially when the couple cannot afford one. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Raalsalghul: 9:11am On Nov 07, 2020 |
denjjy: ... 3 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by friday2011(m): 9:11am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: Are you married? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Johndyk(m): 9:12am On Nov 07, 2020 |
In my own opinion, i think most times its because we are scared of ending up with the wrong person. What scares me most is i dont believe anyone is meant for anyone...i believe we are supposed to make the best out of anyone we end up with. I dont think a broke person is a liability, i think we are meant to add value to whomsoever lacks it. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 9:13am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:and u do u have two heads what stopping u for working, stop being lazy leech. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by MartinsD12(m): 9:13am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Kranediggy:These days men Don wise up, it's only a fool that will marry a woman as housewife liability, such a person will suffer that's why you see men dying before their time because of family burden and sufferness, go around Nigeria for instance different villages and places especially those poor families you will find out that their papa no dey, no only mama go dey 5 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by RedPhoenix: 9:13am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Chii59: Sense kill you there. You too get mouth |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kranediggy(m): 9:13am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Front Page at last! Thanks mods... |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by ello29(m): 9:14am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Please don't crucify me, I'm only saying my mind and what I think when you think deeply on this subject matter. Marriage is sacred. Marriage is an oath sworn to be protected. Marriage is meant to be kept and fulfilled etc. Based on understanding Marriage is a legally and socially sanctioned union, usually between a man and a woman, that is regulated by laws, rules, customs, beliefs, and attitudes that prescribe the rights and duties of the partners and accords status to their offspring (if any). When you get married you have taken an oath an obligation with your spouse you both will take responsibility for the fruit of the marriage. When you both get married what it really means is that you both have agreed to the families involved you will kept the oath and your obligations. You have also agreed to the law that you both will live peacefully together and you will train and ensure your children be law abiding and contribute positively to the society (if any) etc You both have also agreed to God your creator to kept your promise and you will not fail. You can now be honest to yourselves because they will be a judgement. 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Raalsalghul: 9:14am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Kog45: The bold statement is plain stupid. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by doscar(m): 9:14am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: Why on earth do you think like this?!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by BigDawsNet: 9:14am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Marraige is a beautiful thing... Marry if you think you want it and ready for it Don't let anyone force you into it 3 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by demmymoney(m): 9:15am On Nov 07, 2020 |
MAY WE NOT MARRY FEMINIST, PRO ABORTIONISTS AND PRO LGBTQ IN JESUS NAME.... MARRIAGE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING, ITS JUST ABOUT TIMING, BEING RESPONSIBLE AND GOOD WEALTH ESPECIALLY FOR THE MAN AND THE WOMAN MUST B SUPPORTIVE IN ALL AREAS 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Joygift3666: 9:15am On Nov 07, 2020 |
If only ladies will stop giving birth out of wedlock then marriage will be the only avenue of procreation. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Lovelies1: 9:17am On Nov 07, 2020 |
ZIINI: Thanks, it's not you. But you answer the name of the person. Thanks |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Hassanmaye(m): 9:17am On Nov 07, 2020 |
ZIINI: Haha uncle why na are you a misogynist? 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by sukar886: 9:18am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: who is ur father? keep on depending on men, no go hustle... lazy tin 3 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Dreyton36: 9:18am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Let's be honest with ourselves , all men want a lovely and trustworthy wife to marry There's no man who wouldn't want to have his own house His own car, his own children , his own business and everything going smoothly for him The koko be say bar no they for hand Most men are ready to get married, just 5 things are delaying their plans 1... MONEY 2... GOOD WIFE 3... MORE MONEY 4... PLENTYYYY MONEY 5... GALLANT MONEY Meanwhile some people still they knack inside this hot weather Sha , wahala for who no get money to cure konji Lights up my kpoli in peace 4 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Chrisjay1998(m): 9:21am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: Babe see ehhh have been reading ur Comments and the people Quoting you your Reasoning is below Average to be Honest with you Did you Just said a woman's Money is not meant to be shared ?? which Century do you think your living ?? in the 1990s ?? Your Fellow girls are out their Hustling and your here getting angry because people termed you a " leech " and Seriously you sounded like One if your dating or you have a fiancee , I seriously Hope and pray The Young Man would see the kind of Person you Are and take his life from your Miserable Life don't go And Upgrade your self wait for a Prince charming to do Everything for you A saying Goes that " It's only a Girl that is dependent on her boy friend in a relationship Fears Break up more Dan Anything 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by THUNDER4real(m): 9:21am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Fussion1000:Go and read the whole chapter in Timothy, that chapter is referring to widows and it's referring to both gender. stop spewing gibberish |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by stacyadams: 9:22am On Nov 07, 2020 |
MartinsD12: Only a bigger fool will marry them wit thier 20 body counts and still waste money on an unemployed Leech join. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by shugabasbn: 9:22am On Nov 07, 2020 |
1.Education pursue. Before getting admission for average men in Nigeria is 19 yr and above , with strike along the line and Services 2. Jobs. No payable employment. Many men graduate after school are left out with dim future, no job and many end up doing menial works 3. Financial constraints. Take home for average Nigeria youth is 30-50k with over exhausted work from working place 4. Poor background, many of us face one challenges and the others before reaching the level will find ourselves. And a lot will not want his children to experience one tenth of it 5. Family expectations: parent struggled to send a lot to school without any pence so we really want to pay them back at least to assist them in our younger siblings 6. Ladies factors: sorry to say this, to find a marriageable ladies nowadays someone needs to combine Yaweh with Jehovah. Female expectations are just too much, they like golds and diamonds on the player of gold. The decent ones are not ready, the fair ones are wasting their times looking for Senators children, comparing their lives with someone else, the manageable ones are lobbying with one Yahoo boys n the others, the available ones want u to buy everything from ShopRite to any available shopping malls, nothing to contribute 7. Men expectations. It is just too high, many are carried away with social media lives. Want to buy Venza, latest fashion etc 8. Many are just not serious. With cheaper and non expenses available female genitalian alot are not ready to be tight down to one lady. 9. In conclusion, the country is tough, future is not bright, the challenges are many, time is going, people are dying youngers, we prayed to God to help us. Nobody that don't want good things, there is nobody that don't want to marry earlier, there is no man that don't want to see his wife welcoming home with his loving children. I prayed God Almighty open His blessed ways to young men there 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by MusaChukwudi: 9:24am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: Ku ku say your Pusey is for sale! Alakoba, ako si ba ero! Destroyer of men’s destiny, sender of husband to early grave!!!! Ffk off! |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by GOFRONT(m): 9:24am On Nov 07, 2020 |
MARRIAGE IS THE NEW SCAM... 4 Likes |
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