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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Pelxmiye(m): 10:04am On Nov 07, 2020 |
pocohantas: On point, I know a friend who's just 32 , basic salary is 130K at this primary, works multiple jobs , totalling up to like 250-300K monthly salary, he's a graphic designer, video animator, already has a land, married, his wife has her own Cake making /eateries kitchen....they intend to buy their first car, thinking of using for Uber and driving by himself,both of them are hustlers,I just look at them and I wish ,women can open their eyes and see that, everything that is need for any marriage to work is the will to make it work, support each other,kill all expectations and get to work in the marriage, the basic issue every Nigerian woman and most women have is the believe that they're princesses, eggs to be treated the best whether or not they've earned it, sometimes when this my friend wants to blow money on something unnecessary, she's sit him down and even analyze the best possible way and projects they should spend,I think the two of them were made for each other, it's hard to find such sha,but women need to drop the "I'm a princess" attitude, whoever is lying to them need to stop 13 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by hardeytarhyour(m): 10:04am On Nov 07, 2020 |
The main reason for that is WIDESPREAD OF ZINA (Prostitution/Adultery), through unnecessary Dating (Boyfriendand Girlfriend) that is the main reason that make men delay their marriage because, One of the sweet that you will enjoy in marriage you have already enjoying much of it, and that is has caused so many problem 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by udomma1005(m): 10:05am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:Are you okay like dis? With this your style of reasoning, dear sister, you WON'T get married to! A man saves up funds to pay your parent & kindred, money as dowry, who basically have a poor/selfish mentality, even if they might be rich and you spew the thrash that "a woman's money isn't ought to be shared"? If I wasn't married, I would have stalked you, married you, no matter what it takes or your folks high demands, then I would have gladly sacrificed you for money rituals to recoup my expenses!
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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by hartson(m): 10:05am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Liposure:Yes,We need to change that narrative going forward. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by 4ckyou: 10:06am On Nov 07, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: I agree with you 100%, most 21st century men are lazy. 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Dididrumz(m): 10:08am On Nov 07, 2020 |
rawfact: That one na still true sha |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by 4ckyou: 10:09am On Nov 07, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: Exactly what my sister is doing, some men self 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Dididrumz(m): 10:10am On Nov 07, 2020 |
udomma1005: Uncle You no get chill oooo 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Flows001(m): 10:11am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:Go to the Western World and see how your fellow women hustle and earn almost equally with men. I swear I hate this entitlement mentality of Nigerian ladies. Thank God I was rescued from one desperate intending "housewife". No go find work, dey wait make man hustle pay the enormous bride price and still feed u till you die. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by emoney09: 10:11am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Kranediggy: Bro you read my mind. I’m rich but remains single and for now too many hungry ladies out their even the ones that are working have their eyes opened wide still want the man to spend endlessly on them .take your time before you take this decision you might end up regretting |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by PhillipPHD(m): 10:12am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: So what should happen to the woman’s money? Only a jerk will marry someone with this mentality. Don’t blame him when he turns you to a punching bag. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by SmartPolician: 10:16am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: I can't believe that people with your kinda mentality still exist God! You are a disaster waiting to happen! |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by MrNipplesLover(m): 10:16am On Nov 07, 2020 |
I need to see women cum in this thread. guys on the beat. make I just dey laugh kikikikikikikikikiiiiiiiiii 2 Likes
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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by victons(m): 10:18am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:Lol, such mentality. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Pelxmiye(m): 10:21am On Nov 07, 2020 |
specialmati: I just opened that portion of the Bible, truly the Bible is complete, I just opened my Bible in a long time...women should should Proverbs 31 to the end... there's a whole lot for men and women to understand in there |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by lordally(m): 10:21am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: My dear I understand that you might be upset about the OP write up...but to be frank any man who ask his wife to sit at home to become a full time house wife is not a real man...cos at the end of the day, it doesn't always end well....any man who does that should be ready to work his ass out this country isn't funny and one person shouldn't carry the whole burden...that's why men die quicker than their wives cos of lots of thinking and struggle .... although there a few exceptions to this. My dear it never ends well..it's either the man is a serial cheat etc.... And Suh meen treat the woman with so much disrespect and there nothing she can do about it!!! She would say she's just Managing to stay in the marriage because of the kids!!! That's a very big lie!!! The truth is islf she leaves who would take care of the kids their fees and her needs But if she has her own income omo if the man do nonsense madam will simply walk out and take care of her kids!!!! Please and please I beg you!!! Let no man marry you and keep you at home!!!! It never ends well 3 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Agbebakun22: 10:24am On Nov 07, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: If this kids are grown up who do you think they will definitely of is it not their momma... I don't even pray to even involved my wife when it comes to monetarily aspect in my home.. Just that the way the country is that's why things are going zigzag for me but all the best things will get back to place for everyone that knows his way's |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by 4ckyou: 10:25am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Mutemenot: I agree with you on this |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by foolbuster: 10:26am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: My dear the thing tire me. Men of this generation sef. Imagine a full grown man coming out in public and asking a woman to take up a part of his natural responsibility. No shame. Tomorrow you'll expect that same woman to treat you as the head of the family. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Agbebakun22: 10:27am On Nov 07, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: If this kids are grown up who do you think they will definitely of is it not their momma... I don't even pray to even involved my wife when it comes to monetarily aspect in my home.. Just that the way the country is that's why things are going zigzag for men but all the best things will get back to place for everyone that knows his way's.. All I need from my wife to take care of home and help her own career too not necessarily putting her on pressure concerning bills.. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by pocohantas(f): 10:28am On Nov 07, 2020 |
dominique: The other day I was at the market, I took a rough count and apart from meat sellers, most traders were women. Under hot sun, selling ugu and tomato. I don’t know any woman that will take such inconvenience if that money isn’t important to her. The girl I bought vegetables from nko? Beautiful girl with low cut. She asked if I wanted her to help me buy everything- I get that offer a lot. I allowed her buy the ones I wasn’t so sure of where to buy and how much to price them. I was na wondering, Nairaland guys wey dey whine from morning to night- them no see this one marry? No be hardworking girl be this? Majority of the married women in my offices have taken loans for their housing projects. In fact, once you marry in my office, they start waiting for your loan application. It is a ritual... 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Omoobong1(m): 10:28am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:Please if you're not married yet, don't ever accept any offer to become a full housewife no matter how rich your man is. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Benbelor(m): 10:30am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:shut up madam. Look at what you are wishing for, to be a full time housewife and be growing fat. The money is not the problem but nobody wants an obese wife. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by sammugbes(m): 10:30am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:you need help aunty, see your life, I pray u won't end up being a divorcée |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Omezif(m): 10:32am On Nov 07, 2020 |
I Totally disagree, i totally disagree, a lazy man would hear this and rejoice but a real and hardworking man like me would totally disagree. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 10:33am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Look at your useless mouth saying "full time house wife" aren't you ashamed of that tittle? So your very existence in life is to become a full time house wife. LAZY ASS virginprincess: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by SmartPolician: 10:33am On Nov 07, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: Sweetheart, marriage is not by force You can be a single mom by adopting a baby or engaging a jigolo |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by udomma1005(m): 10:34am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Dididrumz:Check am nah! How can a human created by God, with the ability to reason, say vehemently that, "a woman's money is not to be shared" in marriage? After the hassles of dowry, marriage planning, successful execution of the TM/Wedding, befitting accommodation for honeymoon and you tell me her money can't be shared? I take charge of the bills in my home but wifee knows what she can readily sort out without stress,considering the state of our "Great" nation. 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by CapitalBank: 10:34am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:How to spot leeches who are so useless that they can't afford the basic things they wish for. Only a stupid man will make his wife full time housewife in the current states of the world. Even women in developed worlds are working. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by PrinceofAgoAre(m): 10:36am On Nov 07, 2020 |
udomma1005:Abeg leave that one jare. She thinks d world is some fantasy island. E go soon clear 4 her eye. 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 10:37am On Nov 07, 2020 |
THUNDER4real: Mr interpreter, I refer you back to the verse, and take cognisance of pronoun used.........HE.......I will also refer you back to ur primary school, study more about pronouns and how to use them Let come back to bible & culture, ...I beliv in ur family ,its woman that use to 'own' family. Go and get work and start taking care of family sir. See I know some guys who their ages range from 36......50 and yet no plan for marriage, the only obstacle is income, many of those guys were biggest boys in town in *yesteryears, fast forward to future, they find it difficult to get directions in life. If you don't want ur own to be 'directionless too, its not too late. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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