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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 11:03am On Nov 07, 2020 |
shapman:Amen |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by pagorino(m): 11:03am On Nov 07, 2020 |
I'm enjoying this |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Collegelove: 11:04am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:You are lazy and it is one of your many problems. 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Sweetiliscious(f): 11:08am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:person wey no even get future is talking when reasonable ones are talking 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by sybersofty(m): 11:09am On Nov 07, 2020 |
[s][/s][quote author=Mizfabulous18 post=95778284]You know the issue with Nigerian men is that they want to have it all in life you cannot have it all ...most couples abroad the man works the woman works yes nt all of them but most of them now in a scenario like that the chores in the house are also shared infact the women are allowed to have a life socially regardless of having children or not and if u are divorcing the women it more of a disadvantage to u than an advantage atimes....that y u see Nigeria or African ladies go there and when their African spouse is expecting them to do as we in Africa do there is a separation...Now in Nigeria m nt saying your wife shouldn't work but it possible to marry a woman that is working class nd after children she just chills nd face the home it also possible to marry a woman that is a housewife then after the kids r a bit grown she start working nd even becomes the breadwinner later just like my mom so saying she must be working before u marry her doesn't guarantee anything trust me that a fact ..now Nigerian men will want to hv a working class wife but still expect u to do the chores and not hv a social life outside them ...u hv to be submissive be a wife a mother 100% work and still share the Bill's with them those westerners u use in comparison dont dont do that ..that y thet hire cleaners nannies the women over there basically just works nd in the weekend spend time with the family but will a Nigerian man allow this that the question ..like I said u cant have it all if ur rich enough for ur wife to be a housewife fine if ur nt then get a working class lady but stop with the pressuring..most men nowadays r even lazy compared to our fathers time....if u don't want to marry then dont marry u dont hv to carry a speaker explaining to us why nd blaming it on not seeing good ladies around because there are ...the problem is u r lazy u dont want to work hard enough but u want to be crowned head of the family and still cheat on ur wives....those men who hv made it big before marrying do they hv two heads? I know guys that started from nothing nd r doing very well in this same Nigeria that to tell u ..dere is no need to always generalize things ..look at ur celebrities they have money y r dey not getting and staying married are they not working class?? Nigerian boys nw r just lazy..do u think if Nigeria was like America all the women won't be working??[/quote Ka'rya banza 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by YoungDaNaval(m): 11:12am On Nov 07, 2020 |
This post just remind me of a girl I was dating. She was in year two then. So we were conversing one day at her campus's love garden then she said something that made me raise my eyebrows lol. She said whoever that is going to marry her will take up her school sponsorship from year three then they'll get married after her graduation. That was when I knew am not the only one dating this girl. I had to take my three point and jakpa Cc lefulefu 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by HMarshal(m): 11:12am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: It's a pity, seriously,& u don't even know when to stop cos u are so so lost in ur "ignorance". Anyways I take back my pity for u,ild wrap it as a present for the "unfortunate" man who will wed u. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Smile4mee01: 11:13am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Once women start to become scarce, many Men go dey rush marry but unfortunately just like in the bible a time will come where there would be 7 women to 1 man. I wonder how this makes women feel? Especially Christian women, knowing that a prophecy would come where they will compete for a mans attention. Also, women have always worked from time.but a lot changed when you started schooling and landing good jobs outside the household thereby displacing some men in the workforce. Some men actually feel threatened that breadwinner status is under attack. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by vivypreety(f): 11:13am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:wonders they say shall never end. this one that comitted all sorts of abortion still get mouth to talk. umunwanyi ibe anyi 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by AududuNine11: 11:14am On Nov 07, 2020 |
pocohantas: Wisdom personified 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Coolgent(m): 11:14am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:I concur |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Davash222(m): 11:14am On Nov 07, 2020 |
pocohantas:Please, that beautiful girl on low cut selling ugu, is she slim? Do you have her contact? |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by MadeMan01(m): 11:14am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: It is this your impoverished Nigeria girl mentality that is leaving me torn between leaving my Nigerian girlfriend and emigrating abroad and settle with a American lady as against taking my Nigerian girlfriend with me, sponsoring her nursing program and only to be hearing this rubbish you said after she must have graduated. Just imagine. You expect a man to do the things your father failed to do in the life his daughter but expect not to be a part of the growth process. Dear God, Help me decide right. Do not let me fall into the hand of such a woman. Guide my steps Father. Amen. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by AududuNine11: 11:15am On Nov 07, 2020 |
tobe1985: Na yahoo plus you go end up doing |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Freeman50(m): 11:15am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:Wanted to save my breath when I saw your comments on this thread, decided to ship in. And so after taking my time to go through this trend. Have come to realize that your comment is the most quoted & non of your fellow girls are backing you up. A woman's money is not supposed to be shared, says who? What would she be doing with her money if not to support her family. It's women like you that will be lazy waiting for men to do everything. Making money is unisex my dear. Bible didn't say it's only the men that will make money. Women are now walking up from slumber and be challenging the men. Am still wondering where and how you come about such mentality. At this juncture, you might have realized that you spewed rubbish. With all this bashing, i know you might have been regretting the day you joined Nairaland & why you typed such rubbish here. How could you have come up with such comments here? When next you want to comment on any platform rather than Nairaland, you have to bite your tongue with your teeth. It's okay guys, she have had enough already. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Kingzeez10: 11:16am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:Don't you feel bad after yarning this dust? 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Edge1(m): 11:16am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Chii59: Women who are bread winners don't ever do those chores you mentioned here. They rather employ a nanny to do the chores. So stop looking for baseless points to justify your claims. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by pocohantas(f): 11:18am On Nov 07, 2020 |
PrinceofAgoAre: My point is, contrary to popular opinion that most Nigerian wives are lazying about, they are actually working. If comprehension isn’t your forte, do ask for clarification. Don’t tell me my point is very invalid, I know the post I replied and the point I made. Davash222: Sadly I don’t. I met her at Ijesha market and if your intentions are noble, I can take you there. Yes she is slim... 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Starzo: 11:18am On Nov 07, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE:may u never get married in Jesus name oya shout amen 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Davash222(m): 11:18am On Nov 07, 2020 |
pocohantas: Nigerians too born, courtesy of our girls. Zip Up is not their thing. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Davash222(m): 11:21am On Nov 07, 2020 |
pocohantas:If my intentions are noble? Lol You don see me finish na, bah Lol. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by HustlerGurl(f): 11:24am On Nov 07, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE:ride on my abortion mate. our body count is uncountable |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by BlueAir: 11:24am On Nov 07, 2020 |
you're finished already virginprincess: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by when2(f): 11:24am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Kranediggy: In conclusion, men are now gold diggers! |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Starzo: 11:26am On Nov 07, 2020 |
denjjy:well time still dey at least you never reach 30 |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Sunrise258: 11:28am On Nov 07, 2020 |
I asked out one girl yesterday and immediately she told me she has no phone! Whereas, I am still struggling with rent as it expired shortly after final lockdown! I told her about my rent but she's insistent I get her a phone in just a day relationship that we haven't even set eyes on each other!! Me too now, I said she should snap pussy n boobs for happy view, shocked she vexed. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by pocohantas(f): 11:30am On Nov 07, 2020 |
Davash222: Lmao. Ejaculation is sure your thing. “Let me put the tip, I won’t cum inside”, ifeanunwa bu isi okwu anyi. Davash222: Yes na. Men are never ready till they are ready. 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by humilitypays(m): 11:30am On Nov 07, 2020 |
It all boils down to harsh economy which has made more single men unemployed, underemployed and hopeless......and the women who have been empowered by the modern world policies like gender equality in job opportunities refused to take up the responsibility of gender equality in footing the marriage bills and raising kids, and running the entire family. Modern Nigerian ladies must wake up from their sleep and realize that the era men foot all the bills (pay house rent, pay children school fees, provide food, clothing, transport, etc) is gradually fading away like shadow......all thanks to civilization that have led to more single ladies having better paying jobs, contracts, political appointments than their single male counterparts........so whoever much is given, much is also expected from you. Ladies, stop waiting for that superman, if you are lucky and find one, thank your God and take very good care of him.....but if you can't find that superman that will cater for all your needs and that of your family members, just swallow the pride and find a reasonable young man and settle down with and join force and resources together with him and build that your dream family you ever desire......that you cannot find Aliko Dangote or Don Jazzy kind of man with money bag to marry does not mean you are a failure or that you are not lucky in life or that God does not love you......the end justifies the beginning.....your today does not matter....what matters is how your your tomorrow will end! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Alexaonfleek: 11:30am On Nov 07, 2020 |
pocohantas:Lol I don't know where they get this mentality that ladies are sitting down and waiting for urgent 2k. Sometime before the endsars protest I was coming back from bank and I entered keke that a young lady drove. What really surprised me was not even the fact that it was a young lady,but the fact that she looks like your average slay queen: weaveon,fake long lashes and all. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 11:32am On Nov 07, 2020 |
pocohantas: This is even one of the reason most business men marry female bankers... easy access to loans. 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Babara1994(m): 11:32am On Nov 07, 2020 |
ZIINI:35k can't buy anything in Quilox o |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by FahBuLous: 11:34am On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:Be truthful to yourself, would you as an intelligent woman get married to a man and stay in the house day in day out while your husband cater for the whole house and you sit around doing nothing... If you know you are not willing to be plain and truthful, don't quote me... |
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