This seems like a subjective view. Many marriages are healthy and enjoyed. If this is your belief, it's fine. Marriage really isn't mandatory

A305:
Marriage benefits women more than men, this is why its every girls dream to be married.





Marriage is the death of a free man and I’d rather have dangerous freedom over peaceful slavery.

You think i don't know that

Why on earth did i mention 'having fun outside sex'?!

Please @Zzor calm down, by the way a marriage can end because of a poor sex life. Go and meet those divorced due to sex-deprivation or adultery.

Zzor:
marriage is not all about sex,a marriage without a Godly foundation will crash, sex does not hold marriage together.I dy fear una

This will probably be the most important point. A bad relationship or misunderstanding tells during sex.

nwaezeemmanuel:
6. Have Fun Without Having Sex.

Outside the other room, what is happening?!

Sex gets more enjoyable when there is an agreeing reason for it in the first place. Try sustaining a healthy relationship on a day-to-day basis.

Couples aren't too old for fun or daylight romance. Your partner needs to know that they are being loved without their presence in bed.

New settings can create new experiences.

nwaezeemmanuel:
1. Try Another Place, Not Just The Bedroom

What happened to the bathroom or kitchen counter or the couch?! Ever thought of changing locations?!

Your matrimonial bed is not your only option - go wild! This way there is something to look forward to.

If you have kids, you can still stick to your bedroom - but perhaps try moving around rather than just gluing yourself to the bed.

Even married couples should fantasise. It is not sinful or 'carnal' to want to tweak a few things so you get the best out of marital sex.

nwaezeemmanuel:
7. Explore Fantasies You Both Agree On

If you read taboos to everything, there is a chance you will have a very dry and conservative sex life with your spouse.

Don't be afraid to consider fantasies. Some partners may love being gently spanked, some may love having sex with their spouse in certain dresses or while playing music in the background.

Negotiate on your preferences, and agree on the kind that works for both of you.

You can't afford to be stubborn spirited with your partner. Talk things out, make it a commitment to get better because sex is mutual.

nwaezeemmanuel:
9. Pillow Talk

This is more of an intimate conversation post-sex.

Here you can confess love, say what you enjoyed the most or what can be improved ahead of the next round.

Sadly, some couples in Nigeria sleep off immediately after sex or in worst cases act like nothing happened.

OP the doctor please i saw three girls this afternoon and i wanna foorkk the 3 pussy tonight is their any idea for me to spice things up with them,?


Don't talk about strength i get strength , i can carry 3 of them at the same time,


So give me idea on how to forrkk the 3 pussy

You just saw them and you're thinking of sex already

Bruh, calm down.

SILENTandSMART2:
OP the doctor please i saw three girls this afternoon and i wanna foorkk the 3 pussy tonight is their any idea for me to spice things up with them,?


Don't talk about strength i get strength , i can carry 3 of them at the same time,


So give me idea on how to forrkk the 3 pussy

If you're married or just want to pick up a few things. This thread i created is about sex starvation in marriages. You may like it.

Titled it:

SEX-STARVED MARRIAGE: Share Your Experience And Get Listened To

Some wonderful people shared personal experiences and indirect experiences. I learnt a lot

https://www.nairaland.com/6237485/sex-starved-marriage-share-experience-get

nwaezeemmanuel:
You just saw them and you're thinking of sex already

Bruh, calm down.

Abeg sir

Just advise me as a doctor , that's all


Aswear those girls are beautiful and sexy,

I just wanna enjoy them for the night that's all

I will advise you as a friend. Leave those girls, it seems like you don't know them from anywhere with your story.

If you still choose to make advances, and they refuse - that's enough signalling that they are not interested.

If they consent, use protection always. Personally, i don't support pre-marital sex, just too care free for me and against my beliefs.

SILENTandSMART2:


Abeg sir

Just advise me as a doctor , that's all


Aswear those girls are beautiful and sexy,

I just wanna enjoy them for the night that's all

To those married, feel free to bless us with your wisdom.

WHAT DO YOU THINK MAKES MARITAL SEX BORING?!

I'm not married and may not have a full understanding. Sure many here will learn something

nwaezeemmanuel:
I will advise you as a friend. Leave those girls, it seems like you don't know them from anywhere with your story.

If you still choose to make advances, and they refuse - that's enough signalling that they are not interested.

If they consent, use protection always. Personally, i don't support pre-marital sex, just too care free for me and against my beliefs.

I don't say i don't know them oo,they said they're from the next street or something , and they don't refuse at all , they're even glad to come over,


So this is the advice you can gimme as a doctor abi ?


Okay which style do you think i xan use to forrkk the 3 pussy ?


I wanna go like three hours

Now, you're just joking

I'm not a sex therapist by the way. This your story looks made-up.

SILENTandSMART2:


I don't say i don't know them oo,they said they're from the next street or something , and they don't refuse at all , they're even glad to come over,


So this is the advice you can gimme as a doctor abi ?


Okay which style do you think i xan use to forrkk the 3 pussy ?


I wanna go like three hours

nwaezeemmanuel:
Now, you're just joking

I'm not a sex therapist by the way. This your story looks made-up.

I'm not joking bro,

I serious

Which style can you recommend please ,

I love those girls they all get nice shape

@OP I'm really enjoying ur topics .
I'm not married but ur topics gives better insights on sexual health. Keep it up ��

Zzor:
Of all the options,it is sexual health you chose,lets try and be truthful always

let's enjoy this thread woman biko

nice one op.

Thanks, that is my intention

JenIke:
@OP I'm really enjoying ur topics .
I'm not married but ur topics gives better insights on sexual health. Keep it up ��

Zzor:
its still kind of sexual even though it's a religious topic

You must have a dirty mind to relate all his topic to sex.. @OP she might be crushing in you.

I was shocked when she said all my posts are carnal

Perhaps she is easily triggered by these topics, would put up a disclaimer for anyone in her category next time.

Crush? I doubt!

Bellotelli:

You must have a dirty mind to relate all his topic to sex.. @OP she might be crushing in you.

You did not talk about cunninlingus, or how men can help women reach orgasm cos na we lack am most, not me though

Thanks for adding, i had this in mind.

Thing is not every woman is comfortable with someone going down on their vagina with their tongue, lips or hands.

Still, it can come with a ton of female orgasms and may be in some cases more stimulating for women than normal penetration.

Fountainofyouth:
You did not talk about cunninlingus, or how men can help women reach orgasm cos na we lack am most, not me though

Before anything though, consent first!

nwaezeemmanuel:
Thanks for adding, i had this in mind.

Thing is not every woman is comfortable with someone going down on their vagina with their tongue, lips or hands.

Still, it can come with a ton of female orgasms and may be in some cases more stimulating for women than normal penetration.

Lol i asked OP question he didn't reply me ,

Wow e be things sha


God gimme money so dat i will be garaing

Sorry, i didn't answer because i didn't have an answer to begin with.

SILENTandSMART2:
Lol i asked OP question he didn't reply me ,

Wow e be things sha


God gimme money so dat i will be garaing

nwaezeemmanuel:
Thanks for adding, i had this in mind.

Thing is not every woman is comfortable with someone going down on their vagina with their tongue, lips or hands.

Still, it can come with a ton of female orgasms and may be in some cases more stimulating for women than normal penetration.

I understand the fingers, but tongue and lips? Who would hate that?

All others you typed is correct.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Sorry, i didn't answer because i didn't have an answer to begin with.

Lol the issue is they don't beg me at all because once i got angry like this, hmmmm

Just don't offend me,


Why can't you tell me dat you gat no answer,

Please lemme alone

LMAO kikikikikiki

Buhahahaha


Dem don lick this one plate die


Hehehehehe

Some women will definitely feel vulnerable if it's their first time, even if they're married.

That's because they have no control of what is happening. Their husbands may get it wrong and bite things!

It's best they walk through it prior and take things slow. I agree with you, it's very enjoyable for women - if done right.

Fountainofyouth:



I understand the fingers, but tongue and lips? Who would hate that?

All others you typed is correct.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Some women will definitely feel vulnerable if it's their first time, even if they're married.

That's because they have no control of what is happening. Their husbands may get it wrong and bite things!

It's best they walk through it prior and take things slow. I agree with you, it's very enjoyable for women - if done right.

Ok.

Yeah, thanks for contributing.

Some people would consider it a taboo

Fountainofyouth:



Ok.