Holumhidey:
make i nor talk wetin dey my mind

ImaIma1:
Abeg we decided that our bed is for us alone. We didn't want the problem of allowing our child sleep with us because getting them to sleep in their beds later becomes extremely difficult. Besides, it is a major intimacy killer.

So she had her bed beside us and started sleeping there straight from the hospital. Off course there were days she needed attention we would bring her to sleep with us. But once she falls asleep, she's back in her bed. It helped her get used to sleeping in her bed.

My colleague complained about the fact that intimacy is hard because their child has been sleeping with them. And my friend told me how the other night her five year old son who still sleeps with them was rummaging her body with his hands looking for breast .

The best thing is don't start what you cannot finish. Once they start by sleeping with you, just deal with it.

mardis:



I like you guys method, what about when you have more than one?

ImaIma1:


We will have to figure it out in a way that doesn't include them sleeping in our bed. Besides, my daughter is trying to settle in her room. Then the new baby will sleep in the baby bed on our room.

We will sha find a way.

EmperorMaria:
Crackhaus where is ur comment,,,ure more experienced than married people

mardis:



Ok much thanks

Missis:
I married a troublesome person that loved making things hard for me at night when we slept on the same bed, he would regularly push me to the very edge of the bed or kick me or elbow me till I moved to the edge and was no longer comfortable.
After our first baby I decided to move to a foam on the floor of the room with our daughter for more comfortable sleep, that was when he became angry and was complaining that married couple should sleep on the same bed, when he was the one that pushed me out in the first place.

Long story short, marry your friend and a compassionate person and you will always want to be with them and sleep on the same bed, no matter the discomfort you might feel but your feeling of love and togetherness will help you overcome.

Zzor:
I'm so used to sleeping alone, I don't think I will be able to to sleep in same bed with any man,its hard, sex timetable could be an advantage here

Zzor:
I'm so used to sleeping alone, I don't think I will be able to to sleep in same bed with any man,its hard, sex timetable could be an advantage here

Zzor:
is he not a married man?

Zzor:
is he not a married man?

crackhaus:

VERY married and unavailable please...

EmperorMaria:


Who will marry dat 1?

mariahAngel:


You don't like being affectionate?

Zzor:
your wife must be a Nairalander which warrants your forming yen yen yen principles. She's a strong woman to have been able to keep you in check

Zzor:
Some women go still manage, at all at all na im bad pass

mariahAngel:


How was he (treatment to you) before he married you?
Were there signs of the type of person he is?
Do you regret marrying him?

crackhaus:

That Banshee you're quoting is a spawn of hades.

Help me tell her it's not by force to want 'something' like her – men full road naw...

Missis:


1. Pretended big time, I even had to ask of his niceness was fake cos of my gut instinct but he took offense at the question
2.No
3. Yes

mariahAngel:

You don't like being affectionate?

ADUKKY:
Hubby and I sleep in the same room and we have two children. From babies, I make them sleep in their own room even when they wake in the middle of night i make sure they return to their room.

Zzor:
Its like she's obsessed with you,i went through her posts why?is she your ex ?