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Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by AdesewaAde(f): 7:44am On Nov 10, 2020 |
She’s 27 ,married but no kids yet ,she lives so close to my house,last week she was down with malaria,after treatment,her parents said she should come over to there place (they lives in the same local government) for a week so as to have eyes on her till she gets better,maybe she has been stressing herself lately. Her husband came to visit her once but they do communicate on phone always. Yesterday,the guy called her as usual and they exchanged pleasantries,the guy asked when she will be coming back home and she told him maybe next week Friday,few hours later she was called from her place of work that she should forward one important document into the office mailbox,she had to pick up her own spare key, rush down home to get the documents ,on getting home she met the husband at home which was quite usual,she rushed into the bedroom and found out that her belongings were no where to be found,both the shoes that she arranged on the shoe hanger,her clothes in the wardrobe,her framed pictures on the wall,her jewelleries box and all other things,she said she thought she entered into another apartment cause there was no trace of a woman living in the house ,the husband now asked her that why can’t she tell him she will be coming home when he called in the morning? After lot of arguments on why will I take permission from you before coming home,the husband now opened the laundry basket,where he packed few of her things and then opened the store for her to see the rest of her belongings ,she bursted into tears and she packed everything together ,went to the junction to get a cab and moved everything back to her parents house while the guy was standing there doing nothing. Few minutes later,he messaged her that her lack of patience will only ruin her,that he kept her things because a friend of him wanted to bring his girlfriend to the place ( can you see what some men took women for? Your friend is bringing in a woman and all you can do is to trash your own wife’s properties,who doesn’t know that it was just a lame excuse) he said will she leave the house if she already has kids? He has been apologising since then ,but she said she won’t go back to the house cause she already caught him cheating once before this incident,her parents said she should go back ,her husband said she should come back home but she’s insisting not to go back to where she doesn’t have respect. I already told her that I will get back to her if I discussed the issue with my big family here,guys what do you think she can do now,the marriage is just eight months. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Nobody: 7:50am On Nov 10, 2020 |
she has entered,she has entered,let her find a way to tame his randy husband,most women of these generation aint aware of the natural power they posses over men.No randy husband can survive me, you will become so responsible overnight 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by lincsnuel: 7:54am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Zzor: Can you explicitly explain how she can "tame" the man? 13 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by lincsnuel: 7:54am On Nov 10, 2020 |
![]() If she's no longer interested in the marriage and have made up her mind, then she should file for a divorce. Since she doesn't have kids yet, she could be "lucky" to marry again (i.e if she's still interested in marriage) But in all honesty, she should weigh in a lot of options... If she's 27 without a child, she should understand that time is not her friend and it could be a contributing factor to her husband's cheating ways (especially in this part of the world where child bearing is the priority and in this age where early menopause is now a thing) 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Nobody: 7:55am On Nov 10, 2020 |
lincsnuel:not for the public. |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by AdesewaAde(f): 7:56am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Zzor:can you please shield more light on your statement? |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by AdesewaAde(f): 7:58am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Zzor:hummm |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Nobody: 7:59am On Nov 10, 2020 |
AdesewaAde:. |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by MJBOLT: 8:07am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Let's hear the man own side of the story,no man will treat his wife like that without justification.I'm suspecting infidelity on her part. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by lincsnuel: 8:09am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Zzor: Does it involve cooking with your period to "pin" the man and compel him to obey your every command? He'd literally turn to your puppet! ![]() Africa and superstitious beliefs sha 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Shortyy(f): 8:12am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Hmm. It is well 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Godada(m): 8:14am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Zzor: Talk is cheap. So talk on! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by SILENTandSMART2: 8:15am On Nov 10, 2020 |
We don't believe dat, Op u a man or woman ? International man is confused ![]() She need patience She think say man easy nowadays you have to manage and stick to the one you gat, She like to para alot, We don't know the man's side of the story so we won't say anything,, OP my be a story teller, Boys are good ![]() Most of the girls ain't loyal at all ![]() Who knows maybe nah because one man dey promise her money causes her to para and run away from his husband, Whala for who no no girls character ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Shortyy(f): 8:16am On Nov 10, 2020 |
lincsnuel:Balderdash 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Bodyodour: 8:17am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Zzor: ![]() |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Nobody: 8:18am On Nov 10, 2020 |
lincsnuel:it has nothing to do with all that, nothing fetish but just a natural possession most women ain't aware of. |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by lincsnuel: 8:18am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Shortyy:Alright then, so what do you advise she do in this situation?? |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Nobody: 8:20am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Bodyodour:hmm this is a very very very very very very deep secret, women ain't just women anymore |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Nicoswit(m): 8:21am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Zzor:So you get juju 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Nicoswit(m): 8:25am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Zzor:I don dey fear you oo...so nowadays women are different from the old |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Nobody: 8:25am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Nicoswit:where have i mentioned Juju,let me delete that post before you start insinuating things.Let me tell you that all women posses that natural powers over men,women of these days don't just know the reason behind being a woman |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Shortyy(f): 8:25am On Nov 10, 2020 |
lincsnuel: She should go back, give him benefit of doubt. But, her being 27 and time not being on her side isn't a reason she should be disrespected and treated like trash. She not being able to conceive isn't her fault, might even be the husband's. And if the man wants to marry another woman, let him just tell her straight up. Not this hide and seek game he's playing. It's disrespectful. Let her just go back and talk things out. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Nicoswit(m): 8:29am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Zzor:M really curious about it |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by lincsnuel: 8:37am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Shortyy: Look, I'm just being realistic here. What you wrote up there is an ideal situation in an ideal marriage but we all know that no marriage is ideal/perfect because it comes with ups and downs. In Nigeria, most married women don't get the respect they deserve from their husbands or husband's family unless she gives the man a child (which is the number one reason most people marry around here anyway) I agree he should tell her if he's no longer interested though but you get my point? |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:37am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Your story doesn't even have source, toor |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Nobody: 9:03am On Nov 10, 2020 |
He's a cheater/is cheating + a liar: There's no friend anywhere. It's obvious he has another woman and must have told her he's single/not married, hence the reason he hid the wife's belongings. Really pathetic. He's manipulative: The intent of his senseless comment that "her lack of patience will only ruin her,that he kept her things because a friend of him wanted to bring his girlfriend to the place" is to blame her when she has done no wrong. He has no respect for her and I'm tempted to say he doesn't love her: Bringing another woman into the home to stay when he's a married man is bad enough as it is, but him hiding his wife's belongings shows he's merely trying to protect the other woman's interests and feelings, not his wife's. He was likely unfaithful to her prior to the marriage: He must have hid it well. He will continue to cheat if she goes back to him: Based on the above points, there's a 99.55555% probability that this is what will continue to happen. If all these is happening 8-months into the marriage, I wish her good luck because she's on a long tin. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by BigJoe19: 9:14am On Nov 10, 2020 |
So what? ![]() If she is tired of the marriage let her leave, no be by force. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Shortyy(f): 9:14am On Nov 10, 2020 |
lincsnuel: As if men don't cheat even with children. Please enough of this double standard. If this act was committed by the woman, you wouldn't be this nice. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by lincsnuel: 9:28am On Nov 10, 2020 |
Shortyy: Okay you're being sentimental, but I understand. You fail to understand that a man differs from a woman. The society sees them differently. To be frank with you, double standard is a thing in the society no matter how we try to deny it (even in western countries where people are segregated by race, age, gender etc.) I understand your emotional outburst, you're a woman so it's perfectly normal. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Mandela27: 9:30am On Nov 10, 2020 |
First of all,zzor is a male human beign. The lady in question is a confused monkey.marriage never hungry her.rubbish!Let her go and never return if she is really angry 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Nobody: 10:18am On Nov 10, 2020 |
If she doesn't wanna go back, nobody should advise her to. It should entirely be her decision and by the way, marriage is a choice and not an obligation. A man who moves his wife's property (a newly married sick wife he should be worried about and cared for) simply because a sidechick is coming over is capable of killing the wife if need be. So, let the lady have a deep thought about her marriage before going back to the idiot. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Lack Conscience? by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:53am On Nov 10, 2020 |
[s] Zzor:[/s] Nothing like she has entered, she has entered, enduring a cheat is a death sentence, especially one that can lie foolishly, and watch her as she packed her things with no remorse whatsoever, Lilith forbid bad thing, God bless the schmuck of a husband that will cheat on me, I know reluctantadult my sweet hubby wouldn't try that, so I'm covered ![]() 3 Likes |
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