Sorry, this is a bit long though.

Okay, so i once created a thread where I talked about how I am suspecting my girlfriend is cheating on me. What actually led to that was when she visited and she handed me her phone. I went to her gallery and from there to WhatsApp. Immediately I opened the app, I noticed she suddenly became uncomfortable and started nagging to leave but I insisted she waits and not too long, I saw the love chats with a suppose state house of assembly legislator.

The chats were talks about love, meeting up for sex and included nude videos being shared by both parties. Going through the chats, I could feel the words as if she was actually chatting with me meaning she was the one chatting but when I confronted her with same, she denied saying it was her elder sister, who was chatting with her phone. The funny thing is that I never knew neither have I heard of this her sister before but she insisted that she just came from Lagos and all that... The next proof I needed was to watch the nude videos sent but she kept pestering me as to why I would want to watch her elder sister's nude and see her unclothedness. Feeling that it would be bad, I decided to leave my suspicion in suspense.

Fast forward to last week, I invited her to a mini restaurant so that we can chat and get to know ourselves more since the thing is moving like it's gonna lead to marriage. There, discussion about how my phone memory is full came up and she offered to give me her SD card which she did.

After that meeting, I was just relaxing one evening and going through her stuffs on the SD card when I stumbled upon a screenshot of a chat that took place on her phone. She was like calling someone,
"Baby, please my data just got finished. can u help with card so that I can renew my sub n check up some stuffs"
The receiver sent the card and she replied asap with still the use of "baby" stuffs.

From there, I knew this was an intimate something. Further findings reveals the chats was with that same legislator, she previously denied. I can see the same "PDP" logo used as profile picture. I immediately cropped out the number part and invited her over for a confrontation the next day so that she will tell it was her friend this time around.

When she came over the next day, I showed her the screenshot and she wanted to laugh over it telling me 'it is a normal thing na'. I was like this is normal to you and she said the person was just a friend. I told her not to play with my intelligence for no lady will just be calling a man "baby" just like that and in case she don't know, she would notice the number part is not in the screenshot because I never wanted her to know it was that same man and then, maybe she can deny that it was a friend this time around.

She was dumb founded. That simply meant she has been cheating, sending nudes, sleeping with other men. This was a girl I trusted o and do use to go raw with her cause I trusted so much and do use to boast with her not knowing that I was fooling myself. Long story short, I ended the about 6years relationship yesterday, advised her and escorted her to take a ride home. She later called pleading to meet with me today.

We met where she explained she did all that just to get some stuffs she was lacking and because I don't use to give her listening ears and that it was not recent stuff rather it was during a period when we had an issue. I countered her lies/excuses in the best way possible and insisted I can't go back on my decision for us to part ways as I will continue to see every act of hers even when genuine as pretence.

But since we departed, I have been thinking if I really did the right thing. Like she was loving and nice during the period with her, cares and constantly communicates with my family members even I am uncomfortable with dat and do use to support me in various ways but then, are all these enough reasons to pardon a cheating girlfriend? :PSorry, this is a bit long though.

Okay, so i once created a thread where I talked about how I am suspecting my girlfriend is cheating on me. What actually led to that was when she visited and she handed me her phone. I went to her gallery and from there to WhatsApp. Immediately I opened the app, I noticed she suddenly became uncomfortable and started nagging to leave but I insisted she waits and not too long, I saw the love chats with a suppose state house of assembly legislator.

The chats were talks about love, meeting up for sex and included nude videos being shared by both parties. Going through the chats, I could feel the words as if she was actually chatting with me meaning she was the one chatting but when I confronted her with same, she denied saying it was her elder sister, who was chatting with her phone. The funny thing is that I never knew neither have I heard of this her sister before but she insisted that she just came from Lagos and all that... The next proof I needed was to watch the nude videos sent but she kept pestering me as to why I would want to watch her elder sister's nude and see her unclothedness. Feeling that it would be bad, I decided to leave my suspicion in suspense.

Fast forward to last week, I invited her to a mini restaurant so that we can chat and get to know ourselves more since the thing is moving like it's gonna lead to marriage. There, discussion about how my phone memory is full came up and she offered to give me her SD card which she did.

After that meeting, I was just relaxing one evening and going through her stuffs on the SD card when I stumbled upon a screenshot of a chat that took place on her phone. She was like calling someone,
"Baby, please my data just got finished. can u help with card so that I can renew my sub n check up some stuffs"
The receiver sent the card and she replied asap with still the use of "baby" stuffs.

From there, I knew this was an intimate something. Further findings reveals the chats was with that same legislator, she previously denied. I can see the same "PDP" logo used as profile picture. I immediately cropped out the number part and invited her over for a confrontation the next day so that she will tell it was her friend this time around.

When she came over the next day, I showed her the screenshot and she wanted to laugh over it telling me 'it is a normal thing na'. I was like this is normal to you and she said the person was just a friend. I told her not to play with my intelligence for no lady will just be calling a man "baby" just like that and in case she don't know, she would notice the number part is not in the screenshot because I never wanted her to know it was that same man and then, maybe she can deny that it was a friend this time around.

She was dumb founded. That simply meant she has been cheating, sending nudes, sleeping with other men. This was a girl I trusted o and do use to go raw with her cause I trusted so much and do use to boast with her not knowing that I was fooling myself. Long story short, I ended the about 6years relationship yesterday, advised her and escorted her to take a ride home. She later called pleading to meet with me today.

We met where she explained she did all that just to get some stuffs she was lacking and because I don't use to give her listening ears and that it was not recent stuff rather it was during a period when we had an issue. I countered her lies/excuses in the best way possible and insisted I can't go back on my decision for us to part ways as I will continue to see every act of hers even when genuine as pretence.

But since we departed, I have been thinking if I really did the right thing. Like she was loving and nice during the period with her, cares and constantly communicates with my family members even I am uncomfortable with dat and do use to support me in various ways. I was even trying to give myself reasons why i should forgive her like almost all women cheat but then, are all these enough reasons to pardon a cheating girlfriend?

why put your self in unnecessary bondage ?

if you still love her keep her and if you don't let her go

Depending on the level of cheat and the level of caught, but this your own go take forever o

But wait, you are dating someone for 6years?? Really?
Not my business though, but if it can be that long, you should know who she really is already.

The first time you caught her, you could have forwarded the video to your contact and delete the video from your chat so she won't know.

With these details, you are dealing with a cheat, a sloppy one at that. And you know what, a cheat will always be a cheat. É no dey finish for body.

The cat is out of the bag you are the main the legislator is the side guy.I don't know but all have sin.Forgive her provided she is not a serial cheat,obviously she did for the money.

Should a cheating girlfriend be forgiven?

No

N.B: OP I didn’t bother reading through coz it didn’t matter. Just move on

So she chose to run the man's package on the side because she is lacking some stuffs?

That is to tell you she is a greedy being.
All these silly ladies that wants to do or use what other person have, will always go extra mile to get it by all means. They have got bad upbringing.

I hate discontentment in any form.
If you can't make do with what you have or what your parents can afford, I will rather boot you out.
I can't kill myself because of a lady that isn't disciplined.

She was even trying to manipulate you that it was because you aren't giving her listening ears. #Nonsense


Now she got those stuff she was lacking in exchange for her body, she is nothing but a "prostitute".

No two ways about it.

Guy, let her go with her ashewo body.
You can't always provide all, and she will still use it as a silly excuse to go mount multiple men out there.

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I didn't read that project u wrote up there.
I had this girl that can fvck like kilode, she had no qualms having sex seven times a day, when I want to have sex, all I do was to wear just boxers, she get aroused and start touching me all over, and she can also give BJ, the girl cheated on me, I got very angry and threatened to break up, she pleaded and cried, despite the fact that she was spending on me, she still sex me a lot of times.

To cut the long story short, I caught her twice and never broke up for once, am I mad, until I used her to my satisfaction, I enjoyed both her money, her bj and the hot sex, I later dumped her after using her, with one stupid excuse, she cried and cried, asked people to beg me. For where, I moved on and after moving on we still continued our sex life until I left the place

dukeprince50:
I didn't read that project u wrote up there.
I had this girl that can fvck like kilode, she had no qualms having sex seven times a day, when I want to have sex, all I do was to wear just boxers, she get aroused and start touching me all over, and she can also give BJ, the girl cheated on me, I got very angry and threatened to break up, she pleaded and cried, despite the fact that she was spending on me, she still sex me a lot of times.

To cut the long story short, I caught her twice and never broke up for once, am I mad, until I used her to my satisfaction, I enjoyed both her money, her bj and the hot sex, I later dumped her after using her, with one stupid excuse, she cried and cried, asked people to beg me. For where, I moved on and after moving on we still continued our sex life until I left the place

hahaha your girlfriend in NDU abi

sageb:
hahaha your girlfriend in NDU abi

how do u know I attended NDU? yes it was my babe in year 1 first semester but I later got a serious gf sha.

That one come even use me, na after she left me nai my eyes clear