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As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by smartxyz(m): 1:44pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
Hello guys, Please have you ever been asked "what do you want from me?" by a lady that you just wanted to help with no strings attached? I was driving home yesterday after work and a lady (average looking) flagged me to stop and i decided to stop and gave her a lift. I asked her where she was going and she mentioned a bustop before mine and i said lucky you... We had a lil chat as i drove her and she seemed really fun, We got to her bustop and i offered to be taking her to work in the morning since she stays close to my place. Then suddenly her face changed and she asked the annoying question "Oga what do you want from me?".. at that point i was dumbfounded and sad at same time. But i had to quickly smile and said "nothing" then i drove off. For me i find it sad, a lot of people are not used to good people doing good things without wanting anything in return. How do you feel and react when asked that question? Please share yours 730 Likes 45 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by debbydams(f): 1:52pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
smartxyz:sorry.. 108 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by DaddyRochie1642: 1:56pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him 3782 Likes 412 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Humanoid01(m): 1:56pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
Na so dawan take miss opportunity so o, but you can't really blame her. Well meaning people are difficult to find these days, especially considering the fact that you're a stranger to her. What I don't understand is why someone would flag down a complete stranger to take a ride, considering the dangerous times we live in. 520 Likes 32 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by 2dice01: 1:57pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
She asked the Perfect Question bro No sane man will turn himself to an Uber driver every morning to please a lady you just met some minutes ago Cus if she was a Male You won't even see his hand when he wave 2465 Likes 206 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Kondomatic(m): 1:58pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
At least she was kind enough to ask you what you want. In my own case, the lady told her friend that she knew what I want but I am not man enough to ask. 352 Likes 22 Shares
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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by ALADD(m): 1:58pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
smartxyz: Yes...dats the exact respond u needed.....y can't u give her the lift drop her Nd mind your business...I'm sure if it's was a guy dat flagged, u won't stop ooo thinking he will hijack Ur car.. 481 Likes 34 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by 2dice01: 2:02pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
Kondomatic:And why are you shy ? She won't bite or kill you 49 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by HalpyBee(f): 2:02pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
smartxyz: You've said it all, a lot of people are not used to receiving help without giving something in return. I'm sure she was shocked at your kind gesture but she could have handled it better. 83 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by smartxyz(m): 2:10pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
DaddyRochie1642:If am cool with him just like the way i was cool chatting with the lady...Why not?? 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by SarutobiEky(m): 2:43pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
DaddyRochie1642:very good question. Him no go ask am o..simping man 90 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Herculex03(m): 2:48pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
Na only woman u see Op how many times u don stop carry your fellow man for road ? 379 Likes 30 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by SILENTandSMART2: 2:58pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
Lol one smart girl above me don spoke my mind , If nah man you will you do dat ? Moreover people do what you did alot but i can never do dat, I cannot entertain a stranger inside my car, If you ask for a ride i will lie or give you money, Life is so risky, Yunno see a man with six-pack or potbelly OP issa character, 51 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by blinking001(m): 3:25pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
I don't help women. 74 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by hectorr(m): 3:31pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
I think seriiiously before helping any Lady that's not related to me. Complex species. 65 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Raydos: 4:56pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Ayo2004: 6:46pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
Op wan chop kpekus dey disguise...him come dey use Uber driver front Radarada 244 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by smartxyz(m): 6:54pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
HalpyBee:Yea I thought so too 4 Likes |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Richardonald(m): 7:02pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
DaddyRochie1642:nne na God go bless you 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by sharpwriter(m): 7:48pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
DaddyRochie1642: No mind am.. Na like play like play clap dance go take person enter market 40 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by smartxyz(m): 8:54pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
Herculex03:I de carry oO, but I de select 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Nobody: 9:04pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
not that i would blame her asking u that question of what u wanted from her but then she was quite rude asper u give her free ride if na smart babe she would codedly discharge u and tell u ohh she wont be in the route tommorow or dat ohh her boyfriend will give her a ride tommorow thats how sensible ladies discharge guys who are interested in them but they are not attracted to and op u cant tell us u were not attracted to her nau for u to be offering to be taking her to work every morning nobody here will judge u so why are u lying even if u no wan kpansh her but then u were obviously attracted to her and used the free ish as means to toast her and she declined but she was too agressive in her decline this is where a white girl does it best if u chyke a white girl and she is not attracted to u she will use scope to discharge u but a naija lady she will just start vibrating and shouting cos the guy toasting her she finds him repulsive well op take heart and stop giving girls free rides to give the impression that u are a knight in shining armour if possible help ur fellow paddies before u help a babe afterall its not a crime if u give ur fellow guy who is late to work a free ride in ur car abi na crime? 104 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
ALADD:as if they dont use women to hijack cars 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Nobody: 9:40pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
Oshe Uber driver. 64 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Nobody: 9:49pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
If na guyman like u dey beg for help u go zoom zoom zoom,now u wan turn Uber driver for kpekus Simping is a disorder 214 Likes 12 Shares
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Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by OMOJOHN001: 10:06pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
Ole eee eee, Thief eeeeefff, Bara ooooooo,. He wants to use car to snatch another man Girlfriend, for the lady to even decline you, it means your car is not standard and does not have AC, air conditioner. TUEEEEEH. If na VENZA or better BENZ, or RANGE or that better Lexus with full AC be your car, the babe won't even have the gut to ask you such question. Stop turning to an UBER DRIVER CUZ OF PUSSSSY 154 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by smartxyz(m): 7:11am On Nov 12, 2020 |
OMOJOHN001:Bros na lexus 330 oO 57 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by Originalsly: 7:31am On Nov 12, 2020 |
Smartxyz... you need to be Streetsmart. In general... in the society... men do not do a woman a favour without wanting something in return. You picked her up... very kind of you... never mind a bit risky... had a good chat ... she was comfortable with you and I'm sure considered you a nice guy seeing that you showed no signs of wanting anything in return... no contact info... no asking if she had a man etc..... the reason why she was happy. All that you messed up by asking to pick her up.... and that's the question that spoilt everything because she would now believe afterall... you want something in return... just like the other men. You should've said nothing... maybe she would've asked... or... you simply note the time you picked her up and most likely she will be there again waiting for a ride and will have no problem hopping in. Should you see her today... same scenario.... she may not want to hop in because she believes you want something. Always look first in the mirror bro before pointing fingers. 142 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Have You Ever Been Misinterpreted By a Lady Your Trying To Help? by smartxyz(m): 12:48pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
Originalsly:I feel you bro... Spot On.... Thanks 37 Likes 4 Shares |
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