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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Nahdeh: 9:13am On Nov 13, 2020 |
The question is - if a woman test you will you pass? 1 Like |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by angelfallz(m): 9:31am On Nov 13, 2020 |
CaveAdullam: Unfortunately many many many men would not listen. We have been speaking about this for a very long time, even Reno Omokri has weighed in on this. But yet there would remain many many men that would not listen. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by angelfallz(m): 9:33am On Nov 13, 2020 |
pansophist: what if A woman who has hit the wall is the one that chose you first? 1 Like |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by deewhydoski(m): 9:40am On Nov 13, 2020 |
Sisijetue:Marriage wey no go crash no go crash if u don't allow it |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Shortyy(f): 9:45am On Nov 13, 2020 |
CaveAdullam: In other words a 26 year old lady shouldn't marry because a hymen has cut. I'm sorry to say this, but this is a very useless post. 8 Likes |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by pansophist(m): 10:03am On Nov 13, 2020 |
angelfallz: Because a woman choose you, doesn't mean you must commit to her. So you reserve the right to eliminate potential partners for whatever reason you deem fit. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by jimmychang: 10:09am On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007:. So the above things he mentioned are hard to do ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 22 Likes |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:16am On Nov 13, 2020 |
I cannot but laugh, so many men are so naive it's actually funny, some humans have perfected pretense with utmost conviction, deceit, and humility, that you can never see them coming, till it's rather too late. 5 Likes |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Moneysoldier007(m): 10:17am On Nov 13, 2020 |
I took my time to read through till the end. I I don't know about any other niggas out there but I ain't got that time to put anyone through all those phases of rigorous test before I commit. Once you meet a woman that ticks all the boxes, if you've been with lots of women you'll know. If pussyyyyy is all that you bring, my actions will let you know with time this nigga isn't taking me serious cos I don't know how to hide things or pretend, Na you go use your hand run. I just believe the first step to reasoning committing is if she's not a liability cos if money is her problem first I don't see us working no matter how pretty you want to be. If she has her shit together then let's ride and this way we can work on building something even if there's still no guarantee we'll get married cos at a time to get to that point it has to get built to that stage and I mean from both parties, not the guy investing heavily in himself and her, it won't end well. Presently there's so much frustration in the land and it has so fuckeeeed with this generation that most of our girls are fuckkkkedd up cos they weigh you by the amount of cash you have, the car you drive and where you live before measuring the kind of love to give you, the guys are wiser now, so they kick relationships to the back door and rather have a good time and once her excesses becomes too much backs out of relationship without having to be hurt. In all as a real Gee, she should be the one trying to impress and do everything to be with you and even while at that she has to be your Spec, never because of loneliness settle for less. When you know what you bring to the table, you don't beg others to come eat. 36 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by jimmychang: 10:19am On Nov 13, 2020 |
Shortyy: The hymen to me doesn't make sense though..if she loves me like mad I am good ....Every mallam with their own kettle.... 2 Likes |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by jimmychang: 10:20am On Nov 13, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth: Exactly this is another point sha ..but a leopard cannot hide it's spot forever.. 1 Like |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:26am On Nov 13, 2020 |
jimmychang: They are actually pretty easy to do, I don't actually see anything difficult there, Example; why will I feel stressed when it comes to unplanned vacation or a cancelled one, when I know las las we will still go on a vacation at anytime? It's vacation o ![]() Thing is, pansophist is saying all.these cos that is what he did for his present partner, and this is same guy that boasted of.being extremely rich and handsome, so tell me, which materialistic lady won't do everything to be with a guy like that who also has the sweet looks and the dough(if what he said about himself is true though) 4 Likes |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:29am On Nov 13, 2020 |
jimmychang: True, that is when she has reached a point where baring it all wouldnt matter much or will make no difference. 3 Likes |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by dominique(f): 10:30am On Nov 13, 2020 |
When will the female Nairalanders start writing epistles upon epistles on top man matter? ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:32am On Nov 13, 2020 |
dominique: We are bigger than that, we leave the epistles upon epistles of wailing and crying to the so called stronger sex ![]() 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by krownie: 10:32am On Nov 13, 2020 |
pansophist: What of if you try all this ones she still come break ur face? 2 Likes
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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by jimmychang: 10:36am On Nov 13, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth: By then she might have put the man in a trap ![]() ![]() |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Magnoliaa(f): 10:37am On Nov 13, 2020 |
Davash222: Asinnn. Just pick one, put for house make she dey do care-taking ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:37am On Nov 13, 2020 |
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Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by jimmychang: 10:38am On Nov 13, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth: Exactly you have a point ...but that is how life goes . |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by dynicks(m): 10:41am On Nov 13, 2020 |
The way I go take SAVE this page eh!!... For future reference!! ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Nobody: 10:47am On Nov 13, 2020 |
jimmychang:You have comprehension issues! If you are to stress yourself going from one test to another before you commit, why not just join the mgtow movement. Obviously the shallow one here is YOU. 3 Likes |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Magnoliaa(f): 10:48am On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007: Yess. I like how you're reasoning, because according to another legend, WORDWORLD and some others - virginity is all that matters. If she's a virgin, it's a tamper-evident seal. You can build her into your kind of woman. ![]() Op: are non-virgin women worth these stress? Remember, they've likely exhausted all adhesiveness for commitment and attachment in their youths for bad boys. |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by joe17: 11:02am On Nov 13, 2020 |
CaveAdullam: Damon!! 2 Likes |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Magnoliaa(f): 11:02am On Nov 13, 2020 |
DirtyGold: Contradictions upon contradictions everywhere. Buh well, you are saying, in other words, there's a possibility for another OG with better games to snatch her, yeah? After all, men need to practice... Another man conquering another man's adds to his portfolio and all, abi? That means you'll have to keep your pets on a tight leash - 'cos they are mindless and swayed by illusions, sweet words. I wonder who is the controller and the head here. Hmm. "The things we read here," like someone said. |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by pansophist(m): 11:02am On Nov 13, 2020 |
Magnoliaa: If by stress, you're asking whether a non-virgin woman is worth a ring, then yes, of course. Though, being a non-virgin doesnt mean a woman should not uphold sexual integrity. Same way I wont advice a woman to be with a man that has experimented with more honeypot than a gynaecologist. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by jimmychang: 11:04am On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007: Are the tests that much?......Babe these test are what a reasonable man should have at the back of his mind. The hymen aspect I don't give a hundred percent support though .Let's be honest when a woman is truly in love those test are not even tests.It is what she will do willingly. 3 Likes |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by CaveAdullam: 11:07am On Nov 13, 2020 |
Shortyy:The average age of menstruation in women is between 8-14years. The essence it starts early is to quickly prepare women to make good use of their fertility, because as they grow older their fertility decreases which is fully collaborated in menopause: age 40 and above. Now, a very large percentage of women, to be lenient enough; 70% and above, are approach for marriage immediately they hit their first menstruation, and begin to develop womanly qualities at puberty/adolescence. Since 18 years of age is when she becomes an adult and a legal age of consent, men in hordes will begin to fight for her attention in order to claim her personally. Many will declare their marriage proposals, but because she is naive, beautiful, young and can garner attention from all the cardinal points, she will decline their proposals, and cling to the men and bad boys who just want a taste of her flesh, and move away when satiated. All these happen between age 18-25. In the age range of 18-25, many women are still young, fertile, beautiful and elegant. As a result of the sexual market deregulation, confusion on what it really means to be feminine or masculine, social obfuscation, liberalism, poor economic system, crazy ideologies and poor parental training, women resist their innate biological and natural ordination: which is to raise and nurture a family under the auspices and home of an alpha man. Instead, they focus on nonsensical careers, become social media narcissist; garnering likes, exposing their genitals for cheap pays, disrespecting good young men with marriageable potentials, enter into lion dens where they become objects of depravity, embellishing themselves in masculine traits. All these factors listed jeopardizes her fertility, and put her at a great risk as she approaches the wall---age 30. Like I said earlier virginity/the presence of a hymen should be the first and necessary prerequisite any reasonable and high quality man should consider in a woman before committing to her in a long term relationship or marriage between age 18-25, because women at this stage are highly fertile, and still beautiful. Women around age 25-30 can also qualify if they are virgins with a high percentage of femininity. Although, at this age range it is difficult to find such women, and many put masks of superiority in order to mimic high quality women, and manipulate innocent and ignorant men into commitment. So, any woman can get married to whomever she desires depending on her subtlety and manipulations. In this present day, many women eat their cake when young, and have it back when they catch a beta male on tenterhook. This is possible because more than 80% of men were raised in a gynocentric and blue pilled society to please women, dance to their tunes and satisfy their desires dangling the slogan: HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE before their faces. My advice is for men who through thick and thin has upheaved themselves to the upper echelons and other males below the pyramid. So, a lady above 26 who is not a virgin or one who is a repentant wh0re can still get married, but not to a high quality man who understands the outer and inner layers of the female nature, and how the intersexual dynamics works. Thanks. 39 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Magnoliaa(f): 11:09am On Nov 13, 2020 |
pansophist: Okayyy... a balanced and sensible submission. One more question:- where does Okafor's Law fit in in all these? It's a fact, right? Sexual integrity—Okafor's Law? Isn't it likely for the latter to destroy a marriage's foundations, in the case of a non-virgin? To you, personally - would you wife her (and say she's passed your tests above)? Will Okafor's Law suddenly vanish? Or it doesn't apply to all women, the ones with InTEgRiTy? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by Dayoebe(m): 11:11am On Nov 13, 2020 |
Its easier for a 10 years old boy to solve Schrodinger Time Equation than to see any Lady that will have all this attribute 2 Likes |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by BabbanBura(m): 11:12am On Nov 13, 2020 |
pansophist: Person go see wife so! |
Re: Traits a man should observe in a woman when considering commitment by pansophist(m): 11:24am On Nov 13, 2020 |
Magnoliaa: Okafor law is not synonymous/interchangeable or could be used in verbatim with sexual integrity. Having said that, the realities of ''Okafor-law'' doesn't handicap a woman from upholding virtue and be sexually faithful. A committed relationship is all about compromise, as no one has all the complete package. I also think Okafor law is not a gender thing, it's even a law of nature. Humans will always seek after the best thing they've had and may choose to settle when there are other equalizing forces that compensate for the lack in other places thereof. intimacy gadgets play an important role here. 5 Likes |
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