CaveAdullam:
Nice one from pansophist.

A little add: women by default are machiavellians, they know when, where, and how to mimic to any situation regardless of whether it's good or bad. Women, especially those who are approaching the wall, hit the wall or past the wall will play the chameleon game effectively, pretending to pass your vetting scrutinization. Many of them at their epiphany phase or wall phase, will then discover a need for a religious salvation, and begin to act as wise sages. And any man that approaches them in their religious salvation phase will definitely fall for their whims, with little or no cognizance of their past.

We all have a moment of change, but women change not for the sake of change itself, it is a subtle act of game and manipulation; an attempt to eat their cake during the h0e/party phase, and desire it back during the epiphany/salvation phase. What propel this change is because of a decline in beauty, attention, age, fertility and to quickly latch onto a man for marriage.

Therefore, as a man, entering into a long term relationship or marriage, the vetting process for women should be between the ages of 18-25, using the "virgin/hymen" requirement as a prerequisite. If a woman is a virgin, there is a very high probability of passing other tests. In addition to the vetting process: stir all forms of emotions in her; anger, pain, joy, gladness, anxiety etc. This is to determine her balance and extremes, and how to counter it when you eventually commit to her.

You don't need to like this, a man that has upheave himself to a king standard will never find problem searching and finally engaged himself to a virgin with a high dose of femininity. Other lower men can settle for repentant wh0res who wear a facade of intellect, logic, good behaviour, good character etc.

So, as a man, become high quality in every areas of your life, and only commit to a high quality woman. Settling for less is an unbalanced equation and a waste of your resources. Take a detailed analysis of her past, her sexual escapades, her social behaviour, ideologies and belief system.

Do not commit to a woman in her epiphany phase, because it is foolish to buy the cow when the milk is free. If she freely gave the milk in the past, there's no need paying for it in the present. Do not be deceived by the appearance of the cow, it is a facade.

Thanks.

God bless.

DirtyGold:



Sure... and the love is more true in this sense. Men who do the lowest jobs enjoy the loyalty of their wives more than people in the proletariat and upper class.

That women can love men for who they are in an ideal world does not preclude the idea of women being drawn to certain kinds of men. Which woman doesn't want a strong, intelligent, rich, confident man?

This takes me back to my earlier post wherein I said, the thread is about finding the woman worth committing to. A woman knows what she wants in a man and some qualities rank higher than others. A woman's personality will inform her choice of who her ideal man is. Her love language and a man's ability to speak it well can rock her world. Her previous experiences also plays a role etc.

The job of the man is to find a woman that likes him like that before committing to her. An average girl will agree to date and even marry a presentable, comfortable man who is showering her with attention but her heart wont necessarily be with him which is why the OP's test are valid though not foolproof.

What's tha business?

realtalk19:


I just hope you are perfect enough not to have flaws , very tolerating and never get pissed.

There is no perfect human anywhere.

Shortyy:


In other words a 26 year old lady shouldn't marry because a hymen has cut.

I'm sorry to say this, but this is a very useless post.

Sundrus:
Na very few ladies i don meet with such attributes....the truth be say, once woman really love u, she fit do anything for u. U go be like her God...but most mumu men no dey appreciate such love.

Magnoliaa:


Lol... So love can fully thrive in lack/poverty? And there's the possibility of those lower class couples who truly love each other in the sense that you say moving up the social ladder. I do not think material acquistions can change that base.

I think exceptions do apply in some cases. Exceptions. I can't tell how common... There are women who aren't about all those qualities (I'm not one). And depending on other qualities of his... A man might just be all that and yet be a beast or an empath that is emotionally intelligent in his private dealings.

No p. We agree that different women and different men can find love, irrespective of labels and societal classifications sometimes.

Fountainofyouth:



They are actually pretty easy to do, I don't actually see anything difficult there,

Example; why will I feel stressed when it comes to unplanned vacation or a cancelled one, when I know las las we will still go on a vacation at anytime? It's vacation o

Thing is, pansophist is saying all.these cos that is what he did for his present partner, and this is same guy that boasted of.being extremely rich and handsome, so tell me, which materialistic lady won't do everything to be with a guy like that who also has the sweet looks and the dough(if what he said about himself is true though)

philosophy25:


Wow. Dis exactly wats happening in my current relationship wit ma girl.. She actually chooses me ryt frm wen she saw me back den in nysc camp.. Am telling u guys up to dis day, she was so submitted n treated me like a king.. She actually calls me king

DirtyGold:

See yourself? I never said poverty. People working low end jobs still have families, they have roof over their heads and can afford food and even dare to have multiple kids. Their happiness is tied to basic thing, simple pleasures... content and happiness are things of the mind. They don't know or care about iPhones and shits the woke generation hinge "living the life" on.

Sure! There are always exceptions to every rule because we are human beings - not robots. But, there are better easier ways of achieving fantastic results and as far as the topic of the OP is concerned, the author is right.

What's tha business?

MhisTahrah:
Nigerian men- Women who have no jobs or means of livelihood are liabilities in marriage.

MhisTahrah:
Nigerian men- Career women, independent women are unsuitable for marriage.

MhisTahrah:
Same Nigerian men want virgin brides but are well-known fornicators in their neighborhood.Geez!

Magnoliaa:


Pfft. What you said was opened to interpretations. There's a limit to which a paltry sum can sustain a family. That's reality, no matter what their values are on, and it could cause frictions from time to time that'll threaten their stability and love.

I'm literally not on about this. Never been.

Magnoliaa:


[s]This. Has he said anything about "her" or her background before? [/s]I'm thinking [s]she just might be like the kind of person he says he is. Equally beautiful, intelligent, came from wealth and status, can afford to treat herself and a man, too. You are seeing it from a parasite-on-a-host way, unless he's revealed that she's lacking in those things, then yeah, this could be valid... If you aren't basing any of it on what you can -see- on NL's e-life[/s].

CaveAdullam:
From our evolutionary days, women were nurturers, took care of their children and the weak people among them, while the men were hunters, protectors and major providers for the family. Even from the Christian Bible, men were assigned to till the ground, and women to experience labour pain yearly or as the case maybe. Men and women of old were capable of performing their activities and carrying out their responsibilities, and still able to love each other. Men proved to be men by leading, women by submitting, children by living according to their parents instructions and lifestyle. This was a very balanced equation.

However, there was a shift in this balanced equation because of different revolutionary phase humans encountered; Agricultural revolution, industrial revolution, technological revolution, and sexual revolution. These revolutions in themselves are good but they come with inevitable unintended consequences. For example:

1. Men were no longer close to their wives and children as a result of office works,

2. Women neglected their innate and biological desires: to raise children and have a wonderful family, and seek full scale independence,

3. Children became liberal and degenerated because they lack proper parental guidance.

4. The government rewarded anyone who will work for them without no care for the nuclear family,

5. Introduction of birth control pills which is messing a lot females without them being aware of it, etc.

A high quality man who can provide for and protect his family does not require his wife to work, and will not see her as a liability, because a woman cannot serve two masters at the same time. It is either her husband or her boss. This is not a free ride to gossiping, laziness, nonchalant behaviours. There are many ways a man can engage a full time house wife;

1. Open a business for her so that she can be able to device proper time allocation for her husband and children, because for her they must come first.

2. Assign minor works to her e.g she can help you to do minor office works at home like typing, arranging files, sending emails, writing etc.

3. If you're an entrepreneur, give her some roles to play e.g analysis of goods, accounting details, taking inventory etc.

4. Encourage her to start writing novels, books, articles etc.

5. Begin to think about other sources of income and how to established and start it running. Use her brain.

There are not too many differences between the male and female brain, but I think if women are conditioned to act according to their brain capacity, they will do fine in their own suit.

No man want a full time zombie housewife.

Career women are masculine. They exhibit masculine traits because they want to climb to the top by wrestling with men and other females. Aggression is for the male, and when a woman suppresses her feminine traits, she becomes aggressive and seen as a man. And as you know, men don't get attracted to---masculine women---men.

Career women have sacrificed their biology for wages, and cannot really perform like real feminine women. They don't have respect for men below them, and always seek to become like the men on top. They are unattractive!

This should not be confused with independent women(entrepreneurs) that make good cash for themselves, do not leverage their body for money and gifts, and of course, they are very few in numbers.

Independence is not the ideal state for a woman, If a woman sacrifices her career in becoming a scientist, she can raise many scientists among her children. But because of the revolutions I mentioned before, women are forced to work. If she can't served her boss more than her husband, she gets sacked, and if she served her boss more; her family is neglected.

So, to at least maneuver this problem, become independent for the main time, get engaged to a high quality man by maintaining your femininity, and dump your career for family when fully married. You cannot serve two matters synchronously.


Life is a game full of manipulations here and there. You either shield yourself or learn the game to win or learn how to counter the game to not become a victim.

Sexual intercourse above age 18 is consensual my dear. A woman ought to know the man who is ready for marriage or not. If she fails the test, become enthralled by his seductive tongue, no one is to be blamed. I'm not a partner of hypocrisy, but this is life, nobody cares about your morality. If you're ignorant of the game it is your fault.

It is not a crime to desire and want anything for yourself, if you work for it, you will get it. Men must beware of women who has come to parasitize on them, and women must beware of men who just want a taste of their flesh.

Nonetheless, the foolish and ignorant dwells among us, they will be leveraged, used and dumped: this is the very core of the game.

Thanks.

dominique:


With all your brain, you don't have anything tangible to write other than spewing garbage after garbage on top women matter. How does writing epistles about the other gender translate to IQ? The only thing you succeeded in doing with your post is making a fool of yourself.

Nonsense and red pill

21cents:
Seeking an intact hymen is one of the paramount qualities of a virtuous and morally upright woman for marriage. that hymen is not only physical but its needed to cement bonding within spouses. don't get disturbed when men are seeking for it.


Settling with a perforated hymen is disastrous. her spirit is tied to that first man forever, reason why God in his infinite wisdom placed it there as part of "pair-bonding mechanism" for whom it is meant for -(husband).


sorry if you've given out yours for coke and indomie, but na you Sabi as God cannot be mocked. Wahala for whatever man that marries those non virgins. they can never love another man wholeheartedly no matter how much they deceive you with their fake love. they only love what you're providing and seeking a better future for their unborn kids.

Any man that doesn't agree with the last paragraph is free to delude himself. time will tell.

Fountainofyouth:



[s]@bolded disqualified the rest of what you typed, or better yet, direct your assumptions in form of questions to him if you're really curious to know what or how his gf is, its his thread, he is right here.


And I wonder what my comment has to do with nl e-life, the Op concerned didn't even bother to quote that part cos he knows I'm right, so keep your funny thoughts to yourself.

DirtyGold:

Madam, everything isn't about money! Anything (including intangible things) can cause friction in any relationship



Okay.

What's tha business?

pansophist:


Yes, if you go enter your village. Stop to de pursue Instagram girls

BabbanBura:


Shey bad boys no dey ya village ni?
Abi City boys no dey runaway go back village ni? - na dem be rhe baddest sef!!!

pansophist:


Bad boys full Lagos, but guys from abroad de come back and collect them for una hand. Na lie? Even yahoo boys sef, guys de collect their babe steady. So you see, class pass class. And wetin stop you from being a bad boy sef, abi bad boys de get two head ni? level up ma guy.

Raalsalghul:
Maybe foreign women, no Nigerian lady will pass 30% of these tests.

Magnoliaa:
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The same bolded is proof I was not making assertions.

You seem defensive. I don't know where you're coming from but I clearly stated that IF you weren't saying that from what you could tell on NL, then it's valid.

(And you do say stuff about women staying for materialistic gains). So, there's that.

Palema007:

.... If you are to stress yourself going from one test to another before you commit, why not just join the mgtow movement..

Shortyy:

...All my course mates that married when we were in school were runs girls, who married men they met in bars. High class men for that matter. And most of them are overseas with their hubbies.
Virginity or what not isn't a criteria for a peaceful and successful marriage.
This messed up mentality of some of you men is very disgusting...

Shortyy:
After you've broken girls hymen you'll be looking for a virgin to marry

The truth is if you as a lady already see these natural consequences of love as too much of a burden, then it shows you never seek a person you'd love but only one you'd use.

Palema007:
SpeciMental I don't have issues with op's standard, and I do more than op's lists in love. My problem is the deliberate intentions, energy and time placed in the tests. To me, it's offensive, and total waste of time!