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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Cerebellum: 1:07pm On Nov 16, 2020
TheCork:


dont rest..please delete the dumb thread. ..thanks!! smiley

Guy I didn't create the post nah Eleribu you be??!

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by stacyadams: 1:07pm On Nov 16, 2020
Nazgul:

True.

It's so annoying that's why most guys have become wise. I have a colleague who told me that the highest money he can give to any girl he's dating is 2k if she feels it's too small she can leave. Cos if a guy choose to foolishly give her the money she's asking for, more request would come sooner or later.

Their problem no de finish


Some toto I Bleep for free ,na some other guys dey pay d house rent...

Na boys no wan wise up...u can decide to be paying there bills,while some others RE doing d bleeping...na guys go decide which role suit them

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Michelle55: 1:11pm On Nov 16, 2020
Sorry about the nasty experience you've had with the girls. They've forgotten that men has grown up and no longer after sex only, when you encounter such ladies kindly drop them as e dey hot and move on quickly.
You owe them nothing, and likewise them. They keep disgracing us everywhere they go angry mtn candidates

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by BrokeNhustling: 1:12pm On Nov 16, 2020
stacyadams:



Some toto I Bleep for free ,na some other guys dey pay d house rent...

Na boys no wan wise up...u can decide to be paying there bills,while some others RE doing d bleeping...na guys go decide which role suit them
not entirely true boss...one way or the other you must pay oo..thing be say nor go dey do pass your sef..except say na just hit and run you one do..but some toto you need hold am for some time oo..that one you must collect billing one way or the other sir..money for hand back for ground...just get money..aside women sef..everything lately money dey involved..

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by stacyadams: 1:16pm On Nov 16, 2020
BrokeNhustling:
not entirely true boss...one way or the other you must pay oo..thing be say nor go dey do pass your sef..except say na just hit and run you one do..but some toto you need hold am for some time oo..that one you must collect billing one way or the other sir..money for hand back for ground...just get money..aside women sef..everything lately money dey involved..
grin grin

I got my selling point grin grin

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by BrokeNhustling: 1:34pm On Nov 16, 2020
stacyadams:
grin grin

I got my selling point grin grin
you must still drop boss...and really nothing bad to drop money..na the life be that.. na just to get the money boss..enjoy.

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by dprincedej(m): 1:35pm On Nov 16, 2020
You have spoken well. Still, I blame the guys that allow themselves to be milked by these uncultured and unskilled dullards. Many ladies need sex even more than we men so why would I pay for your wig or credit your account just to sleep with you? it is even women that should credit my own account . A woman needs a man more than a man needs a woman. I have written a similar write up recently but I know it is dumb guys that allow themselves to be patronized in this way. A lady should be ashamed to tell a man that she has no food at home or has no money for data. Even handicapped people earn a living. Those girls would end up being used as rituals and their parents who didn't raise them right would bury them. Beggars with a B. I have female friends that lost their jobs and I sent money to them without them asking. Successful ladies that have also been there for me. Don't get me wrong.

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by TheCork(m): 1:36pm On Nov 16, 2020
Nazgul:

For your mind you've made sense ko?


thanks for deraling your dumb thread sir....thank you!!!
Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by TheCork(m): 1:38pm On Nov 16, 2020
Cerebellum:


Guy I didn't create the post nah Eleribu you be??!

u didnt?...they why are u posting dumb replies?....if u dont have moiney to chase women then stay on yor lane and watch us...Quit naggin sir!! (real talk) angry

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Cerebellum: 1:41pm On Nov 16, 2020
TheCork:


u didnt?...they why are u posting dumb replies?....if u dont have moiney to chase women then stay on yor lane and watch us...Quit naggin sir!! (real talk) angry

Shut ur mouth bro
Was my reply directed to your dirty ass?!

Tot I told you before you are an Arindin, why can't you then change ur dumb lifestyle

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by TheCork(m): 1:46pm On Nov 16, 2020
Cerebellum:


Shut ur mouth bro
Was my reply directed to your dirty ass?!

Tot I told you before you are an Arindin, why can't you then change ur dumb lifestyle


brother.. I have moiney...u dont. U need moiney..u ask nicely!!(,real talk) angry

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Nazgul: 2:00pm On Nov 16, 2020
BrokeNhustling:
no no no..you got it wrong boss...it is greed...them dey chop 3 or 4 times a day oo..roof over their head..papa and mama dey work and still give you money once once...the main problem is social media..they go on Instagram and Facebook and see things..say fake lifestyle and real people balling..women are moved by what they see..they are easily deceived reason the devil went to Eve and not Adam..social media is the main problem..influence and friends too get hand..na just to find one old aunty to born for you o..put am for house..take care of am..that one you know say she done waka all the waka she want..if she like sef make she continue the waka..me nor send.. just born for me and care for me and my kids..me too go waka my own..just don't kill me or stress me with your waka..this life nor too hard..
I agree with you...greed is what drives most of them. That's why girls are easier prey for ritualist than guys

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Thereddevil: 2:02pm On Nov 16, 2020
TheCork:



...Brother being a man means being alpha mame...u either a man or man dressed as women...meaning u either a man or u choose to be gay. Women are supoose to be treated like queeens....
Sir, if u can afford women than u are free to wear womens cloths so guys can spend on u...QUIT MOANING I BEG!!!!!(no oofense)
angry angry
Queens don't beg, slaves do... Queens run a palace, slaves run errands.. A King showers his Queen with gifts which she needn't ask for..

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Nobody: 2:02pm On Nov 16, 2020
Same way some men will see a lady for the first time and the first thing they will say if you snub them is ''I can take care of you...''

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by FahBuLous: 2:05pm On Nov 16, 2020
Thats how i meant this my old classmate on facebook, we started chatting so well, funny thing is that I had her on my list for over 6 years but we never chatted, immediately i sent her "HI" .. She was like, oh long time, the next line was asking me for urgent 4k... Not like I didnt have the money but i couldn't send it... As in we didn't even chat up to 3 lines...

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Edeyoung: 2:07pm On Nov 16, 2020
anochuko01:
I'm a very introverted person so I've not really met alot of girls in my life. But I've recently decided to go on a spree and I've got about ten of them I'm currently chatting with.

It's very funny how they expect you to start dashing them money just like that without bothering to even create any form of friendship.

I however have two outstanding ones who have never asked me for a dime, one of them being a student and the other one losing her job due to coro.

It'll also be fair to also condemn guys who are only interested in entering ladies pants as soon as they meet them.


Every gender got thiers


Ladies demand for many


Guy demand for sex


Me two days after meeting a lady i wana sex her
Some guys that very day self

So both gender are hypocrite

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Nazgul: 2:07pm On Nov 16, 2020
Aileexa1:
Same way some men will see a lady for the first time and the first thing they will say if you snub them is ''I can take care of you...''
They've been given the impression from girls they've met in the past that all you people want is money. Doesn't it surprise you that 90% of guys who make use of that statement actually can't take care of the girl in question.

And the girl being greedy would be drawn to the guy by that silly statement who would obviously sleep with her and give her the little money he can afford then discard her.

My dear if you want a guy to respect you, remove your eyes from his wallet and let him know that you're capable of taking care of yourself and watch how he'll treat you with respect.

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Nazgul: 2:09pm On Nov 16, 2020
FahBuLous:
Thats how i meant this my old classmate on facebook, we started chatting so well, funny thing is that I had her on my list for over 6 years but we never chatted, immediately i sent her "HI" .. She was like, oh long time, the next line was asking me for urgent 4k... Not like I didnt have the money but i couldn't send it... As in we didn't even chat up to 3 lines...
Na their way... they're always in need. problem no de finish

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by konkonbilo(m): 2:09pm On Nov 16, 2020
Nazgul:
angry

I say this with annoyance and it's a very irritating reality.

I have noticed the high rate of begging amongst our girls. One guy even wrote on one of the front page threads some months back that dating a Nigerian girl is like taking care of an orphan. I'll say orphans are even better cos you know they have no one. But these girls have parents, siblings, uncles and aunts...etc yet they still beg shamefully.

I have so many experiences but I'll share only 5 of them cos it's really annoying.

1sf experience...an ex who is married. She called me during the pandemic and complained how things are hard and all that, kids bla bla bla. I sent her 20k just cos of the kids I was like at least let them eat. After that this girl turned me to her great provider starting telling me how she regretted marring her husband and she still loves me, bla bla bla. She even told me she won't mind having sex with me as long as I can be assisting her financially if she asks for it. I just deleted her number and blocked her.

2nd experience...a girl who lived in my neighborhood years ago. Facebook brought her up as people you may know so I added her and we started chatting. I then asked her to share some of her recent pic with me let me see how she looks currently cos I noticed that the ones on her profile were quite old 2017 to be precise. She told me to subscribe for her so she can send them. I was like WTF are you that miserable that you can't afford less than 5mb to send pictures please keep 'em

3rd experience...I was in a bus going to Abakaliki from Lagos so there was this girl sitting with me. Initially I ignored her but knowing that it's going to be a very long journey I decided to engage her in a discussion at least to pass time. We got talking from Lagos till we got to ezzillor in Ebobyi state I told her I'll drop at Ezzambo she started tell me to assist her with some money to buy things for her parents that she hasn't seen them in a while imagine? I told her I don't travel with excess money because of thevies she told me to do transfer that she'll withdraw it. I just ignored her till we got to Ezzambo I came down.

4th experience...a friend invited me to his church, after the service I met this girl very good looking. I took her number and we started chatting. She then told me that the following week was her birthday. I replied congratulations, she then told me that she wants to celebrate it. I told her that I'm not stopping her she can go ahead. She then replied that she needs money to do so. I ended the chat. This is a girl we haven't even started talking for up to a week.

5th experience..I went to Airtel office to upgrade my sim to 4g they've been sending me silly messages and I was very tired of it. When I was done I saw a girl there so I decided to give her a lift. Truth is she wasn't going my direction but I just decided to take the stress of passing through her direction so as to strike a conversation with her. I dropped her off collected her number. This girl's hunger couldn't even wait for 2 days the following day she sent me a text that she ordered for some goods pay on delivery and her atm is bad I should help her transfer 60k that once she sorts out her ATM she'll remburse me. I mean which guy falls for such silly format?

Ladies please change.

If you want guys to value you then place value on yourself. Stop cheapening for crumbs. A lot of responsible guys loose interest in girls with this attitude leaving only the players who obviously can afford your excesses for a short period after which they'll dump you and you'll be back to square one.

I do love and respect women but stop this attitude it's bad. Very bad.

Concerned male
OP, you no lie at all. Some of these ladies have no shame at all. That's how one on Saturday after we met for the first time we decided to hangout at an eatery, as she order wetin she like me sef order as hunger de catch me too. After she chop finish we con de talk when she won go she say whether she fit buy go house, can you imagine? Shame she no get.. Haba! It's the first time we're meeting and you prioritize food.. Mehn, I just weak. I just told her No! She sef surprise.. Since that day the our conversation have reduced drastically.. She no even fit pretend to act accordingly.. Make gals de try get small shame abeg. Place value on yourself make ona no de behave like "ebina" up and down.

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by BabbanBura(m): 2:10pm On Nov 16, 2020
Nazgul:
angry

I say this with annoyance and it's a very irritating reality.

I have noticed the high rate of begging amongst our girls. One guy even wrote on one of the front page threads some months back that dating a Nigerian girl is like taking care of an orphan. I'll say orphans are even better cos you know they have no one. But these girls have parents, siblings, uncles and aunts...etc yet they still beg shamefully.

I have so many experiences but I'll share only 5 of them cos it's really annoying.

1sf experience...an ex who is married. She called me during the pandemic and complained how things are hard and all that, kids bla bla bla. I sent her 20k just cos of the kids I was like at least let them eat. After that this girl turned me to her great provider starting telling me how she regretted marring her husband and she still loves me, bla bla bla. She even told me she won't mind having sex with me as long as I can be assisting her financially if she asks for it. I just deleted her number and blocked her.

2nd experience...a girl who lived in my neighborhood years ago. Facebook brought her up as people you may know so I added her and we started chatting. I then asked her to share some of her recent pic with me let me see how she looks currently cos I noticed that the ones on her profile were quite old 2017 to be precise. She told me to subscribe for her so she can send them. I was like WTF are you that miserable that you can't afford less than 5mb to send pictures please keep 'em

3rd experience...I was in a bus going to Abakaliki from Lagos so there was this girl sitting with me. Initially I ignored her but knowing that it's going to be a very long journey I decided to engage her in a discussion at least to pass time. We got talking from Lagos till we got to ezzillor in Ebobyi state I told her I'll drop at Ezzambo she started tell me to assist her with some money to buy things for her parents that she hasn't seen them in a while imagine? I told her I don't travel with excess money because of thevies she told me to do transfer that she'll withdraw it. I just ignored her till we got to Ezzambo I came down.

4th experience...a friend invited me to his church, after the service I met this girl very good looking. I took her number and we started chatting. She then told me that the following week was her birthday. I replied congratulations, she then told me that she wants to celebrate it. I told her that I'm not stopping her she can go ahead. She then replied that she needs money to do so. I ended the chat. This is a girl we haven't even started talking for up to a week.

5th experience..I went to Airtel office to upgrade my sim to 4g they've been sending me silly messages and I was very tired of it. When I was done I saw a girl there so I decided to give her a lift. Truth is she wasn't going my direction but I just decided to take the stress of passing through her direction so as to strike a conversation with her. I dropped her off collected her number. This girl's hunger couldn't even wait for 2 days the following day she sent me a text that she ordered for some goods pay on delivery and her atm is bad I should help her transfer 60k that once she sorts out her ATM she'll remburse me. I mean which guy falls for such silly format?

Ladies please change.

If you want guys to value you then place value on yourself. Stop cheapening for crumbs. A lot of responsible guys loose interest in girls with this attitude leaving only the players who obviously can afford your excesses for a short period after which they'll dump you and you'll be back to square one.

I do love and respect women but stop this attitude it's bad. Very bad.


Concerned male

Man I get am flenty por exferience I go tell am por u ip u want

Thumps up for the bolden!

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by konkonbilo(m): 2:10pm On Nov 16, 2020
Aileexa1:
Same way some men will see a lady for the first time and the first thing they will say if you snub them is ''I can take care of you...''
Even though, does that mean you should become an alimanjiri?

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Edeyoung: 2:12pm On Nov 16, 2020
fati2001:
BECAUSE THEY ARE SO LAZY.....

ONLY TO WEAR LATEST FASHIONABLE STUFFS FORMIN BIG GIRLS..


We rush any ladies as far say she set well

Even if she wear dirty clothes but make she get attraction we will go for her
















BUT NAH THEIR TYPE MEN DEY RUSH PASS.
















Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Nazgul: 2:23pm On Nov 16, 2020
fati2001:
BECAUSE THEY ARE SO LAZY.....

ONLY TO WEAR LATEST FASHIONABLE STUFFS FORMIN BIG GIRLS..
















BUT NAH THEIR TYPE MEN DEY RUSH PASS.
















I learned when I was a student never to live above my means. And it has really helped me till date. Girls should learn it too.

So girls are jobless yet they want to maintain a cream of 10k, wig of 20k, expensive clothes like you mentioned. It's madness.

Warri people would say...."make I chop him money small, make I chop him money small, na so ashawo de take start"

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Cerebellum: 2:23pm On Nov 16, 2020
TheCork:



brother.. I have moiney...u dont. U need moiney..u ask nicely!!(,real talk) angry

grin Wetin I do this mofo o

Nah how much u get self

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by TheCork(m): 2:24pm On Nov 16, 2020
Thereddevil:

Queens don't beg, slaves do... Queens run a palace, slaves run errands.. A King showers his Queen with gifts which she needn't ask for..

^^^^^^ WEEL SAID!!!!

you a pure 0G...nice one bro...This broke azzzzz little pikins will never gerrrrrit. I have explained 3 million times but they still dont gerrrrrit.
My only option now is to advise them to be gay since they have no clue how to treat women...Nice one bro!!!
wink

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Nazgul: 2:24pm On Nov 16, 2020
Cerebellum:


grin Wetin I do this mofo o

Nah how much u get self
Bro leave this one him own madness na another level. Na cruise he de catch for Nairaland. grin

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by OwenJesse27(m): 2:25pm On Nov 16, 2020
Nazgul:
angry

I say this with annoyance and it's a very irritating reality.

I have noticed the high rate of begging amongst our girls. One guy even wrote on one of the front page threads some months back that dating a Nigerian girl is like taking care of an orphan. I'll say orphans are even better cos you know they have no one. But these girls have parents, siblings, uncles and aunts...etc yet they still beg shamefully.

I have so many experiences but I'll share only 5 of them cos it's really annoying.

1sf experience...an ex who is married. She called me during the pandemic and complained how things are hard and all that, kids bla bla bla. I sent her 20k just cos of the kids I was like at least let them eat. After that this girl turned me to her great provider starting telling me how she regretted marring her husband and she still loves me, bla bla bla. She even told me she won't mind having sex with me as long as I can be assisting her financially if she asks for it. I just deleted her number and blocked her.

2nd experience...a girl who lived in my neighborhood years ago. Facebook brought her up as people you may know so I added her and we started chatting. I then asked her to share some of her recent pic with me let me see how she looks currently cos I noticed that the ones on her profile were quite old 2017 to be precise. She told me to subscribe for her so she can send them. I was like WTF are you that miserable that you can't afford less than 5mb to send pictures please keep 'em

3rd experience...I was in a bus going to Abakaliki from Lagos so there was this girl sitting with me. Initially I ignored her but knowing that it's going to be a very long journey I decided to engage her in a discussion at least to pass time. We got talking from Lagos till we got to ezzillor in Ebobyi state I told her I'll drop at Ezzambo she started tell me to assist her with some money to buy things for her parents that she hasn't seen them in a while imagine? I told her I don't travel with excess money because of thevies she told me to do transfer that she'll withdraw it. I just ignored her till we got to Ezzambo I came down.

4th experience...a friend invited me to his church, after the service I met this girl very good looking. I took her number and we started chatting. She then told me that the following week was her birthday. I replied congratulations, she then told me that she wants to celebrate it. I told her that I'm not stopping her she can go ahead. She then replied that she needs money to do so. I ended the chat. This is a girl we haven't even started talking for up to a week.

5th experience..I went to Airtel office to upgrade my sim to 4g they've been sending me silly messages and I was very tired of it. When I was done I saw a girl there so I decided to give her a lift. Truth is she wasn't going my direction but I just decided to take the stress of passing through her direction so as to strike a conversation with her. I dropped her off collected her number. This girl's hunger couldn't even wait for 2 days the following day she sent me a text that she ordered for some goods pay on delivery and her atm is bad I should help her transfer 60k that once she sorts out her ATM she'll remburse me. I mean which guy falls for such silly format?

Ladies please change.

If you want guys to value you then place value on yourself. Stop cheapening for crumbs. A lot of responsible guys loose interest in girls with this attitude leaving only the players who obviously can afford your excesses for a short period after which they'll dump you and you'll be back to square one.

I do love and respect women but stop this attitude it's bad. Very bad.

Concerned male

guy nor be only you oh.... can u imaging a girl that I am trying to date on Facebook say I should give money for business when we have not even see I told her to ho ask her parents she said they don't have ...so how on earth did she expect me to have that kind of money before.....it so sad I promise my self to just stay single for now ....Nigerian girls are so dependent on men

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by TheCork(m): 2:26pm On Nov 16, 2020
[quote author=Cerebellum post=96103199]

grin Wetin I do this mofo o

Nah how much u get self


..son...women will not make sence to u until u reach age of 18years old......go n learn from Thereddevil.(real talk). angry
Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by OwenJesse27(m): 2:28pm On Nov 16, 2020
TheCork:




^^^^^^STORY
.....errmm bro..i dont meannnto sound rude but ONLY broke guys that say women are gold digger.........Quit nagging & juss find a job, i beg!!!(no oofeinse)
angry

ur a mugu ...no offence

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by 4gunners(m): 2:30pm On Nov 16, 2020
BrokeNhustling:
no no no..you got it wrong boss...it is greed...them dey chop 3 or 4 times a day oo..roof over their head..papa and mama dey work and still give you money once once...the main problem is social media..they go on Instagram and Facebook and see things..say fake lifestyle and real people balling..women are moved by what they see..they are easily deceived reason the devil went to Eve and not Adam..social media is the main problem..influence and friends too get hand..na just to find one old aunty to born for you o..put am for house..take care of am..that one you know say she done waka all the waka she want..if she like sef make she continue the waka..me nor send.. just born for me and care for me and my kids..me too go waka my own..just don't kill me or stress me with your waka..this life nor too hard..
You see that istagram, na the major wahala be that. I hardly check Instagram, but the few times I did, I had to filter the content I was taking in. Unconsciously, you start to think of meeting up with the glitz and glamour on the platform. Now, imagine the effect it will have on many of our ladies, who don’t have the mind of their own, and stay on this platform almost throughout the day.

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by 4gunners(m): 2:33pm On Nov 16, 2020
Nazgul:

I learned when I was a student never to live above my means. And it has really helped me till date. Girls should learn it too.

So girls are jobless yet they want to maintain a cream of 10k, wig of 20k, expensive clothes like you mentioned. It's madness.

Warri people would say...."make I chop him money small, make I chop him money small, na so ashawo de take start"
Thank you. You earn 50k but want to use iPhone 11. Isn’t that illogical?

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Chicago213(m): 2:33pm On Nov 16, 2020
Nazgul:
angry

I say this with annoyance and it's a very irritating reality.

I have noticed the high rate of begging amongst our girls. One guy even wrote on one of the front page threads some months back that dating a Nigerian girl is like taking care of an orphan. I'll say orphans are even better cos you know they have no one. But these girls have parents, siblings, uncles and aunts...etc yet they still beg shamefully.

I have so many experiences but I'll share only 5 of them cos it's really annoying.

1sf experience...an ex who is married. She called me during the pandemic and complained how things are hard and all that, kids bla bla bla. I sent her 20k just cos of the kids I was like at least let them eat. After that this girl turned me to her great provider starting telling me how she regretted marring her husband and she still loves me, bla bla bla. She even told me she won't mind having sex with me as long as I can be assisting her financially if she asks for it. I just deleted her number and blocked her.

2nd experience...a girl who lived in my neighborhood years ago. Facebook brought her up as people you may know so I added her and we started chatting. I then asked her to share some of her recent pic with me let me see how she looks currently cos I noticed that the ones on her profile were quite old 2017 to be precise. She told me to subscribe for her so she can send them. I was like WTF are you that miserable that you can't afford less than 5mb to send pictures please keep 'em

3rd experience...I was in a bus going to Abakaliki from Lagos so there was this girl sitting with me. Initially I ignored her but knowing that it's going to be a very long journey I decided to engage her in a discussion at least to pass time. We got talking from Lagos till we got to ezzillor in Ebobyi state I told her I'll drop at Ezzambo she started tell me to assist her with some money to buy things for her parents that she hasn't seen them in a while imagine? I told her I don't travel with excess money because of thevies she told me to do transfer that she'll withdraw it. I just ignored her till we got to Ezzambo I came down.

4th experience...a friend invited me to his church, after the service I met this girl very good looking. I took her number and we started chatting. She then told me that the following week was her birthday. I replied congratulations, she then told me that she wants to celebrate it. I told her that I'm not stopping her she can go ahead. She then replied that she needs money to do so. I ended the chat. This is a girl we haven't even started talking for up to a week.

5th experience..I went to Airtel office to upgrade my sim to 4g they've been sending me silly messages and I was very tired of it. When I was done I saw a girl there so I decided to give her a lift. Truth is she wasn't going my direction but I just decided to take the stress of passing through her direction so as to strike a conversation with her. I dropped her off collected her number. This girl's hunger couldn't even wait for 2 days the following day she sent me a text that she ordered for some goods pay on delivery and her atm is bad I should help her transfer 60k that once she sorts out her ATM she'll remburse me. I mean which guy falls for such silly format?

Ladies please change.

If you want guys to value you then place value on yourself. Stop cheapening for crumbs. A lot of responsible guys loose interest in girls with this attitude leaving only the players who obviously can afford your excesses for a short period after which they'll dump you and you'll be back to square one.

I do love and respect women but stop this attitude it's bad. Very bad.

Concerned male

You are part of the problem. Women do read vibes you know? Maybe u unconsciously give out this "I am a big boy" image which makes them see u as an ATM.. Always try to be yourself while having convo with them and leave out talks about u and what u have achieved and focus the discussion on them instead. My opinion tho!

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