Merimental:


I see many of shading Paul are just sympathetic to Lola cos u share same tribe or somtin.

What a small mind you have! Yes, I'm Yoruba, but I believe that every man should prove his humanity and be judged thereof not by ethnicity. The Igbo of Eastern Nigeria are one of the noblest people you can be fortunate to meet anywhere. I've been lucky to have been yielded the opportunity to be friends with certain individuals of this great race. So you see, I should still have condemned Paul for speaking the way he did to the WIFE of his twin brother even he is my blood brother.

NwaAmaikpe:





The vilest and cruelest of all serpents are the most subtle.

Don't worry Rudy
We see through her schemes and social media sainthood but we are comforted from knowing that every evil has an expiry date; one day the veil will fade and the other Pea in your pod will know that women are not worth creating enmity over.

Posterity will forever use these twins as the perfect example as to what marrying an evil woman can do to a family's unity.

The evil wife is lucky I am not Okpara Jude, she would have been back to her maiden name since 2015.
She has not only divided a great family but has deprived the fans of Psquare from hearing great music.

This is why the bible is a complete book.
We've been warned not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers and for this reason did Abraham, Isaac and Jacob insist that their sons went back home to marry amongst their kin.
But the wayward one went against his late mom's dying wish and brought a termite-infested rotten log back home now no one can sleep in peace.

Tufiakwa!
2 green bottles were standing on the wall till one green bottle decided to carry condemned oil.
Now the condemned oil has stained both bottles and even the wall.

Quoting Bible to shame her because she is not their tribe but ignoring the stupidity of the twins. Who are the believers and unbelievers?

nuelyoyo:

I have never castigated Lola. I have always been on her side after observing that Peter's family have issues with him (and her) because he married her against their wish. But since Lola knows how her in-laws feel about her, then she should stay in her lane. No need forcing yourself on people who don't like you.

When it comes to marriage, people should learn to accept other people's choice, you can advice, but if they insist, then accept and wish them well.

So true, love who loves you, greet who greet you!!anything outside of that is eye service...

sweetmelanin:


I'm a woman and I disagree. No one should have to put up with anyone they don't like.
They left him alone with his wife since he made his choice.

Listen to yourself!!! So he was supposed to marry their own choice of woman. Who are they? God created both them and the person they don't like. Who cares if they don't like her. Doesn't her husband like her? Chaiii. Na wa oo

ebenezer202l:
you are very stupid for this foolish post

I hate to say this; but you are the stupid one here! This is a forum where people air their opinions! What I posted there is my opinion, be civil enough to air yours without the insults! I take exceptions to internet trolls who hide behind their keyboards to hurl insults. Thankfully, your opinion is not my reality

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backnbeta:

I hate to say this; but you are the stupid one here! This is a forum where people air their opinions! What I posted there is my opinion, be civil enough to air yours without the insults! I take exceptions to internet trolls who hide behind their keyboards to hurl insults. Thankfully, your opinion is not my reality

[/s] Shut up

ebenezer202l:
Shut up

Rudeness truly is the weak's imitation of strength

Kingrudy is not happy with that woman atall. And anti Lola no even get smile for face at all she fi be witch o, Mr P come and defend ur wife in the hand of your twin broda.....

Your profile means nothing and I don't really care how you see anything.

I'm called Omoluabi doesn't mean I should be stuppid and allow people to get away with shitt.

You are beholden to public opinion and can go ahead and live your fantasy out here, miss me on that.

You won't be this way if you are not a pushover iddiot looking to please people or hiding who you really are. A nut in your head is either screwed too tight or loose.

Well I still don't believe you are Yoruba.

luminouz:


My profile is enough to answer your questions and no sane Yoruba man behaves raucously like you just did. Haba, we are called omoluabis for a reason..
Check my response and check yours here, isn't it evident that hate breeds in you?

DCatt:
Your profile means nothing and I don't really care how you see anything.

I'm called Omoluabi doesn't mean I should be stuppid and allow people to get away with shitt.

You are beholden to public opinion and can go ahead and live your fantasy out here, miss me on that.

You won't be this way if you are not a pushover iddiot looking to please people or hiding who you really are. A nut in your head is either screwed too tight or loose.

Well I still don't believe you are Yoruba.

You confirmed it again that you are raucous. All I read from your writeup are insults upon insults. Can't you see that even though I ain't Igbo, I still manage to rile you up and make you lose control. I'm already living rentfree in your consciousness.....

It doesn't matter what tribe you are. Evil is genderless,tribeless and raceless. Anyone can hurt you or save your life. Tribe has nothing to do with that. How many times must I say this or are you so clouded by igbotic hatred,you can't even see sense anymore?.....

Told you my tribe. Whatever you believe is your cup of Lipton, ain't it?

Jonathan39:
If you are wise, you should know that the problem is from Lola. Why wish him happy birthday online when you are not in good terms with him? He don't need it and she know. She is an hypocrite

can you tell me how Lola is the problem with the Okoye family please?

I have a twin bro and I won't say I totally accept the behaviour of his wife but I manage to keep it cool for the love of my brother.

It takes wisdom to deal with women. A bitter and manipulative one can destroy a peaceful loving bond amongst families.

I just find the common ground for us all to breed. Since I love my brother, I'll respect his choice and make sure no one penetrates our togetherness.

Rudy, should have found another route to dealing with this but it's his life and choice.

He should have focused on the bigger picture, considering their kids and whatnot.



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Well that's you... not everyone is capable of being pretentiously cordial with someone they have issues with.

They are grown adults and are free to associate or disassociate with whomever they wish! There's a reason Peter is standing ALONE in this matter. He has made his choice. [/quote]

bottom line is , Lola should face her front and Rude boy shouldn't learn how to overlook things . there should be a by force relationship between them cos they are not Nigeria that lives in force union .

You are just too dumb to get yourself where you really want. What part of I don't care who you are you don't get? If riling people up is your dream achievement, count me out, the only place you will be living rentfree is in your imagination. You are just a ghost on the internet looking to live your best life online.

Again keep everything you know about tribes to yourself, you need it more to guide you to be true to yourself first. One thing I'm not is an impostor or a pushover like you. One of these is who you are and I have no time of day for your kind. No one can beat Igbos in hating others, Igbos would be the most racist if they are white, so choke on that your hatred sermon, you are fooling no one.

luminouz:


You confirmed it again that you are raucous. All I read from your writeup are insults upon insults. Can't you see that even though I ain't Igbo, I still manage to rile you up and make you lose control. I'm already living rentfree in your consciousness.....

It doesn't matter what tribe you are. Evil is genderless,tribeless and raceless. Anyone can hurt you or save your life. Tribe has nothing to do with that. How many times must I say this or are you so clouded by igbotic hatred,you can't even see sense anymore?.....

Told you my tribe. Whatever you believe is your cup of Lipton, ain't it?

DCatt:
You are just too dumb to get yourself where you really want. What part of I don't care who you are you don't get? If riling people up is your dream achievement, count me out, the only place you will be living rentfree is in your imagination. You are just a ghost on the internet looking to live your best life online.

Again keep everything you know about tribes to yourself, you need it more to guide you to be true to yourself first. One thing I'm not is an impostor or a pushover like you. One of these is who you are and I have no time of day for your kind. No one can beat Igbos in hating others, if Igbos would be the most racist if they are white, so shoke on that your hatred sermon, you are fooling no one.

*sighs*

They really dealt with you sha..

I pray you find your peace. You will need it,in these perilous times....

My last reply

See you hallucinating!

Who dealt with you?

So you are were the lunatic I've been talking to all along?

Hope you find healing.

luminouz:


*sighs*

They really dealt with you sha..

I pray you find your peace. You will need it,in these perilous times....

My last reply

cococandy:
I’m Igbo and I agree with you to an extent.
Simply because I know not everyone or every part is like this. But Anambra tribalism is on steroids.
They don’t even want to marry other igbo people.

Had a friend divorced in his 40s after having teenage kids and the main issue is that he never listened to his mother on whom to marry. The sister of this person too ended up divorced. All due to family interference.

Other igbos call them “Ndi mmanyi si “ meaning “our mother said”. Once their moms said something (especially regarding your choice of spouse), it’s final.

Who wants that kind of daily frustration?

So wetin Anambara do una again this time around?

Is Paul's wife an Igbo?
He is from Rivers

It's someone that never knew the origin of psquare problem that will be talking like this.

The okoyes never supported Peter's relationship
Then afterwards it's the same Peter that called for a break-up of the group

Peter was the weakest link in the group
His contribution was negligible compared to Paul and Jude

So the family feels that the warning they gave has come to pass.


Now they broke up
How has Peter's music been?


See it has nothing to do with tribe
It's more to do with the person in question

Sometimes a guy may want to marry a lady
And the family don't give consent
It's better the person in question move on
Because sometimes the feud may last for generations


I listened to a popular radio presenter in FCT Abuja early this week
He is a northerner
Married a northern woman
But her family never accepted the guy
Unfortunately for the guy
The wife later died by sickness
The guy said the ordeal he went through
He never wished it on his enemy
In conclusion
He said that when you are going to marry someone
Once the family no like you
Na long thing for you
That the family may never accept you
That based on what he went through
He won't advise anybody to go to family where they are not accepted for marriage
Rather go to where you are accepted
And I fully agree with him


In Africa
Marriage involves extended family
And if anyone don't put that fact into perspective

He or she will have themselves to blame

omoolokunEsin:
Paul, this is highly unreasonable of you! You make it look like you and your Sister-in-Law are vying for a trophy. Quite bucolic the way you speak to her. Know what? Your tantrums here is unbecoming of a Star like you and it has really revealed the kind of bottled up anger you're carrying, year in year out like an albatross. You really fall my hand talking this way to a woman. If you ask me, looks like you're the one who has allowed bitterness of the liver to gnaw ceaselessly at your innards.

Wake up and be a man. Nothing your Sister-in-Law may have done is greater than what we Christians did to Jesus Christ.

One of Dem have to man up, n call for a reconciliation meeting. Buh bro e no easy. I novde one I de pass Tru now. I don't hate people, buh de way o mind my business makes Dem feel I hate dem

TheLionofLasigi:
A cautionary tale for my Yoruba sisters planing to marry any flat he@d Igbo.

I hope ur sister is not older than her spouse

All the while before them blow, she wasn't manipulative. Na correct girlfriend that time. If Rudeboy and Lola Omotayo had issues then, there wouldn't even be a PSquare beyond Get squared(2005). Worst case scenario, they push their relationship till Game over(2007). PSquare blow finish na im she turn manipulative. Dem try. They are simply pissed because the woman refused to be used and dumped.

Chirowman:
Paul just hate this woman , but I believe everyone should respect people's choices . you can't tell me what to do with my life, Paul is just been the manipulative one here.

I de tell u. De guy de miss him brother seriously. Peter say him hate Jude buh him like him twin brother die. If Lola die today in less than one second Peter n Paul go come back together. E no de easy to mingle with person way u knw say deep down she hates u n u hate her too

First of all I didn’t say all Anambra families are like that. Common sense tells me it can’t be all of them.

Well it seems you have more insider knowledge of what’s going on, so what did Lola do wrong?

Of course her crime is that they don’t like her. I doubt there’s anything they can actually pinpoint that she did to earn it. Usually such dislike stems from an influential member of the family (like the matriarch or patriarch) disliking the person first and others fall in line in other not to be on the bad side of the family matriarch or patriarch.

And henceforth every little human fault the disliked in-law exhibits is magnified in justification of the dislike they already feel.

Humanity 101.

.

djon78:



So wetin Anambara do una again this time around?

Is Paul's wife an Igbo?
He is from Rivers

It's someone that never knew the origin of psquare problem that will be talking like this.

The okoyes never supported Peter's relationship
Then afterwards it's the same Peter that called for a break-up of the group

Peter was the weakest link in the group
His contribution was negligible compared to Paul and Jude

So the family feels that the warning they gave has come to pass.


Now they broke up
How has Peter's music been?


See it has nothing to do with tribe
It's more to do with the person in question

Sometimes a guy may want to marry a lady
And the family don't give consent
It's better the person in question move on
Because sometimes the feud may last for generations


I listened to a popular radio presenter in FCT Abuja early this week
He is a northerner
Married a northern woman
But her family never accepted the guy
Unfortunately for the guy
The wife later died by sickness
The guy said the ordeal he went through
He never wished it on his enemy
In conclusion
He said that when you are going to marry someone
Once the family no like you
Na long thing for you
That the family may never accept you
That based on what he went through
He won't advise anybody to go to family where they are not accepted for marriage
Rather go to where you are accepted
And I fully agree with him


In Africa
Marriage involves extended family
And if anyone don't put that fact into perspective

He or she will have themselves to blame

bignero:


This does not make sense.. Unless you don't understand whats being said here..

The lady is being snaky and you expect the brother to be happy.. We dont talk in private but you come on social media to wish me birthday.. What type of snake are you.. Unless you yourself are a witch.. These are traits of witchcraft.. Not all witchcraft is about flying.

Am talking based of experience of evil people ive lived with

Which one be snaky" abeg. English hard o. Very soon I go say person de dogy" bcus to de shout for me

DCatt:
You are a liar, Yoruba don't care about what and how you speak, you are the ones insecure when yoruba speak because you are always trying to fit in where Yoruba are.

Nice try dragging another tribe in but everyone knows the only tribe with cut-throat obsession with Yoruba and that is Igbo, your very own tribe.

Denying your tribe makes you less of a human.

Every language does dat.

Y did de Marry. Must de marry? Y didn't dey have baby Mama's around. Dem no see timaya lifestyle, davido n wizzy. Women heart de always bitter llike bitter leave, most of Dem no suppose marry. Na to jst dash Dem belle Waka go.

YoungAncient1:
Paul okoye aka rude boy is a fool nothing less. He keeps repeating this line of accusation year in year out. If you don't want her birthday wishes, ignore it. What measure do you take to reach out to your brother for reconciliation? Why are you so pained that he chose to be more of a husband and father than a brother?

Once a man marries, his immediate constituency changes to his wife and kids. Learn to live with it.

Dats y I no wan Marry

Collinsaik:
If i were peter and wife i'll cut ties completely with rudboy who is obviously a negative bitter person and let it remain dat way . its very foolish of rudeboy to stil be fighting a woman, ur brothers wife after all these years hav past. u have to accept the fact that she is ur brothers wife and have come to stay

U funny. Are they together b4. They have already cut ties since.. dats y Peter de para. Person way una no de talk for almost 5 years go de come social media de do lyk say she no get issues with am. Forget I be Yoruba buh I go do waitin Paul do. My brother marry Edo na so we de face am.

vickydevoka:

I hope ur sister is not older than her spouse

I hope your 20year old wife isn't looking like a 40year old because of stress and poverty.

pocohantas:


The man that will make me call my father a wizard hasn’t been born. For a gender that claims to be logical and superior, I always wonder how men blame all their wrongdoings on a woman.

A man will make a thousand right decisions and it is because he is a man- men are wired biologically to make better decisions. The second he makes a bad one, he won’t rest till he finds a woman to pin it on... I really envy your gender.

Pocochant if u never Ph.d u Neva start. Sense wan kill u dere

superior1:
At the age of almost 50 you still think you can still be manipulative and always trying to be in control as usual...

Omotayo isn’t close to 50. You gossipers sha will see what is not there

Person wen dey close to am say she be almost 50, you wey stand outside gate with bathroom slippers dey follow am drag .

pocohantas:
Anambra people no dey allow any outsider wey them no want to rest. Once their mother doesn’t approve of you, you are toast.

Lola, ngwanu leave Paul. Face your husband...

Poco where are you from?

dangotesmummy:
broda ode.at your age you no still get Sense


When the twins were collecting money from her to shoot music videos she wasn't manipulative, when you were driving her Car before you blew she wasn't manipulative.youre lucky you have such a sweet and peaceful sister in-law in the person of lola.if it were other Yoruba women for each Time you talk shiii they'll keep reminding you that they were the ones that made you and without their money and support you will not have been better than those selling CDs under the bridge.

Lousy Razz he goat.very immature

And as for you nairaland lout,think before you type.no be every time you go dey do like say Na from gutter you grew up

Where you dere wen dey were collecting money.