Is It Just Me? I'm Not Attracted To Prostitutes

Guys, Living in Enugu and as a young man who is in active service, I do have my bit of adventures sometimes but I noticed I'm not attracted to professional sex workers.

So many times I had been in the midst of professional sex workers and today being bored I decided to visit one of the nearby hotel and chill out around the swimming pool.

I'm sited with my bottle of Heineken thinking about all the crazy stuff in the world and this particular lady got dancing the normal erotic dance towards my table.

She, wearing just a swimsuit that reveals all the contours; with her body dripping of water as she just came out of the pool, at the very closest range the usual evidence of the subjection of the female gender in liquid, the tip of her mammary gland otherwise known as niple had betrayed the partial enclosure of the massive heritage that lies in there, it was almost a center of attraction until I observed that her buttocks otherwise known as nyash by majority of nairalanders is way darker than the rest of her body.

Then I had to speak to the bottle of beer on my table then a sip and my senses was rebooted now, my observation. If it were a usual lady I would sure had fallen for her, also usual lady won't display her nyash unless she's cought up already in which moment I won't have the time to judge.

I'm not being so critical though, does it look like I'm not attracted to professionals or just the fact that they don't give me that curiosity that is common with regular women. Or is it the hot weather, apparently it is quite hot in Enugu now.

Mtcheew

Not just you, lots of men are not attracted to prostitute. The act of paying for sex for these men immediately turns down any horniness or attraction, as it signify low value in them.

Its like paying for a bottle of water with insult attached. A complete no no.

Wahala for who waste time fancying n falling for those bunch of dirt rag tags called 9ja girls

pansophist:
Not just you, lots of men are not attracted to prostitute. The act of paying for sex for these men immediately turns down any horniness or attraction, at it signify low value in them.

But for me once in a while I do give prostitutes money just to talk, when I'm super bored I do call meet a prostitutes ask her price, tell her I want talk instead, they as human as anyone else and some are really nice

AlexBells:

But for me once in a while I do give prostitutes money just to talk, when I'm super bored I do call meet a prostitutes ask her price, tell her I want talk instead, they as human as anyone else and some are really nice

Don't go and find something useful to do with your life, of all the girls that's around, why pay for slut you won't shag, is just like buying cloth that you won't wear

Gang90:

Don't go and find something useful to do with your life, of all the girls that's around, why pay for slut you won't shag, is just like buying cloth that you won't wear

Okay, I haf heard Sir

AlexBells:

But for me once in a while I do give prostitutes money just to talk, when I'm super bored I do call meet a prostitutes ask her price, tell her I want talk instead, they as human as anyone else and some are really nice

give ashewo money just for conversation? haba, na give us the Uganda small small. if you have that much to waste, why not give the money to any of ur neighbor wey be bae just for conversation

gunners160:
give ashewo money just for conversation? haba, na give us the Uganda small small. if you have that much to waste, why not give the money to any of ur neighbor wey be bae just for conversation

I do give my neighbours money but not like that, for me I prefer if I enter bus, once the drive drop me, if I give him money before he reach down to give me change, I'm gone leaving the change for him, there is the problem of being too nice to people you know, they going to question your source and even question whether you carry your eyes do am, but I help out people when I can but if I want to just make someone smile for no reason I'm going to go for someone I may never meet again or someone, or just anyone, note that many people think I'm weird atimes

AlexBells:

But for me once in a while I do give prostitutes money just to talk, when I'm super bored I do call meet a prostitutes ask her price, tell her I want talk instead, they as human as anyone else and some are really nice

Are you scared of talking to girls that ain't doing prostitution?


Do you know one man's good girl, is another man's prostitute? With this knowledge, will you pay all women for having conversations with them?



Many stupid Nairaland guys fantasies is to kiss, hold a girl tight, kiss her neck, cuddle her, she talks and he listens as she complains about life and her boyfriend but behind the scenes there is another guy that smacks her ass of that same girl, puts his dick down her mouth, fvck her pussy recklessly, fondles her bress like..he might give her 2k or nothing. Don't be stupid guys

i926:

Are you scared of talking to girls that ain't doing prostitution?


Do you know one man's good girl, is another man's prostitute? With this knowledge, will you pay all women for having conversations with them?

Many stupid Nairaland guys fantasies is to kiss, hold a girl tight, kiss her neck, cuddle her but behind the scenes there is another guy that snacks


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I'm not scared of other girls, honestly I have at least five girls that is out there and willing to be with me but I'm scared of commitment, the problem with regular girls is if you treat them well they will fall in love, I'm feeling guilty somehow because of the so many times I had to break girls heart with my non serious attitude, am fairly popular as I play football coach a junior team and sing, I usually got problem with women, that's why I'm scared of commitment, if you give a regular girl 5K, treat her well and buy her icecream when you dont look that bad, she will fall in love do same to a prostitute she will call you better customer that's why I usually do that

AlexBells:
Guys, Living in Enugu and as a young man who is in active service, I do have my bit of adventures sometimes but I noticed I'm not attracted to professional sex workers.

The mere fact that they're available to any man or woman with the right price is a put off.

They're just like public toilets.

AlexBells:

I'm not scared of other girls, honestly I have at least five girls that is out there and willing to be with me but I'm scared of commitment, the problem with regular girls is if you treat them well they will fall in love, I'm feeling guilty somehow because of the so many times I had to break girls heart with my non serious attitude, am fairly popular as I play football coach a junior team and sing, I usually got problem with women, that's why I'm scared of commitment, if you give a regular girl 5K, treat her well and buy her icecream when you dont look that bad, she will fall in love do same to a prostitute she will call you better custom that's why I usually do that

Hmm, I see. I see.

Like you, I don't like commitment. Reason why I go straight to the point, which many finds offensive.."let's be fvckmates" and I have met some girls cool with it.

Paying prostitutes just to have a talk time is quite strange to me. You are bit weird sha

AlexBells:

But for me once in a while I do give prostitutes money just to talk, when I'm super bored I do call meet a prostitutes ask her price, tell her I want talk instead, they as human as anyone else and some are really nice

what do u two discuss about?
nairalanders wee not kee me

not just u.
PersonalyI can't even have sexual feelings for a girl I am not friends with, not juat sex workers

lefulefu:
what do u two discuss about?
nairalanders wee not kee me

The last one I was with we discussed about a lot of things, like how she feel being a prostitute, how do she feel having all sorts of men on her and what's it like always having to worry about STD and above all how much she makes in a day, I once offered to pay up one of the prostitutes daily earning just to lodge her in a decent hotel for a day have a drink and talk. Apparently she told me she makes an average of 5K to 10K a day, I also learnt through our conversations that most of them consume a whole lot of painkillers drug by self medication, a terrible risk

I'll believe you if you say that you aren't attracted to women whom you personally know are into official prostitution because that woman who you're attracted to might be an official or unofficial prostitute without you knowing.

AlexBells:

The last one I was with we discussed about a lot of things, like how she feel being a prostitute, how do she feel having all sorts of men on her and what's it like always having to worry about STD and above all how much she makes in a day, I once offered to pay up one of the prostitutes daily earning just to lodge her in a decent hotel for a day have a drink and talk. Apparently she told me she makes an average of 5K to 10K a day, I also learnt through our conversations that most of them consume a whole lot of painkillers drug by self medication, a terrible risk

if u want to help any lady at all it would be better u start with the ones in legit hustle so as to encourage them.a young girl doing mobile resturant selling rice and stew on her wheelbarrow under the hot sun or the one doing makeups or sewing.those ones will make good use of the money.u give ashi money na probably hard drugs or ciga she go use am buy.many street ashis need rehabitation not money per say

lefulefu:
if u want to help any lady at all it would be better u start with the ones in legit hustle so as to encourage them.a young girl doing mobile resturant selling rice and stew on her wheelbarrow under the hot sun or the one doing makeups or sewing.those ones will make good use of the money.u give ashi money na probably hard drugs or ciga she go use am buy.many street ashis need rehabitation not money per say

I help people Sir, I help both men and women within my very little capacity, just that today it is about the prostitutes, I don't want to talk about the other times I support young hard working people, but it feels nice also when you don't always follow the norm,

RightToReject:
I'll believe you if you say that you aren't attracted to women whom you personally know are into official prostitution because that woman who you're attracted to might be an official or unofficial prostitute without you knowing.

I think you are right, it is all more in the knowing

i926:

Are you scared of talking to girls that ain't doing prostitution?


Do you know one man's good girl, is another man's prostitute? With this knowledge, will you pay all women for having conversations with them?



Many stupid Nairaland guys fantasies is to kiss, hold a girl tight, kiss her neck, cuddle her, she talks and he listens as she complains about life and her boyfriend but behind the scenes there is another guy that smacks her ass of that same girl, puts his dick down her mouth, fvck her pussy recklessly, fondles her bress like..he might give her 2k or nothing. Don't be stupid guys

no mind dat small boy

He 4got thy are different styles of prostitution, women do

AlexBells:
Guys, Living in Enugu and as a young man who is in active service, I do have my bit of adventures sometimes but I noticed I'm not attracted to professional sex workers.

So many times I had been in the midst of professional sex workers and today being bored I decided to visit one of the nearby hotel and chill out around the swimming pool.

I'm sited with my bottle of Heineken thinking about all the crazy stuff in the world and this particular lady got dancing the normal erotic dance towards my table.

She, wearing just a swimsuit that reveals all the contours; with her body dripping of water as she just came out of the pool, at the very closest range the usual evidence of the subjection of the female gender in liquid, the tip of her mammary gland otherwise known as niple had betrayed the partial enclosure of the massive heritage that lies in there, it was almost a center of attraction until I observed that her buttocks otherwise known as nyash by majority of nairalanders is way darker than the rest of her body.

Then I had to speak to the bottle of beer on my table then a sip and my senses was rebooted now, my observation. If it were a usual lady I would sure had fallen for her, also usual lady won't display her nyash unless she's cought up already in which moment I won't have the time to judge.

I'm not being so critical though, does it look like I'm not attracted to professionals or just the fact that they don't give me that curiosity that is common with regular women. Or is it the hot weather, apparently it is quite hot in Enugu now.

na small boy dey worry you.

U never see anything
Thy are different style of prostitution

Whala for who no fit help himself
Who prostitute elp.....

millionboi2:
na small boy dey worry you.

U never see anything

I totally have no problem with your opinion, you could also be right so thanks for your kind words

AlexBells:

I totally have no problem with your opinion, you could also be right so thanks for your kind words

as u keep growing,u encounter things that will change ur perception.

Xperience changes alot of thing.

That will make u to understand that a woman is a woman

millionboi2:
as u keep growing,u encounter things that will change ur perception.

Xperience changes alot of thing.

That will make u to understand that a woman is a woman

You last word just made me laugh really hard, a woman is a woman, sounds like what my mother will say, if you marry an ugly, older or bad attitude woman in my place, the elders will always say that all the beauties of the ear lies in it's ability to hear by that they are saying that as far as a woman can give birth, every other aspect can be overlooked.

Okay Sir I think I get you now, I'm also working and praying to grow so that I don't make terrible mistakes that can ruin me, once again, thanks for the advice

AlexBells:

I help people Sir, I help both men and women within my very little capacity, just that today it is about the prostitutes, I don't want to talk about the other times I support young hard working people, but it feels nice also when you don't always follow the norm,

You might have a good heart towards them or even seek to know why they do what they do like a psychologist but thing is, you can't fix them up. Prostitutes are damaged women. It's not your job to fix damaged women, they can fix themselves up when they decide to.

Channel your resources and time to other directions, bro

AlexBells:

You last word just made me laugh really hard, a woman is a woman, sounds like what my mother will say, if you marry an ugly, older or bad attitude woman in my place, the elders will always say that all the beauties of the ear lies in it's ability to hear by that they are saying that as far as a woman can give birth, every other aspect can be overlooked.

Okay Sir I think I get you now, I'm also working and praying to grow so that I don't make terrible mistakes that can ruin me, once again, thanks for the advice

welcome.
Never you see anything as to have ruin you,to avoid succide thought in life.

At the end of it all,both good and bad will taste death.
Life is very deep

AlexBells:
Guys, Living in Enugu and as a young man who is in active service, I do have my bit of adventures sometimes but I noticed I'm not attracted to professional sex workers.

So many times I had been in the midst of professional sex workers and today being bored I decided to visit one of the nearby hotel and chill out around the swimming pool.

I'm sited with my bottle of Heineken thinking about all the crazy stuff in the world and this particular lady got dancing the normal erotic dance towards my table.

She, wearing just a swimsuit that reveals all the contours; with her body dripping of water as she just came out of the pool, at the very closest range the usual evidence of the subjection of the female gender in liquid, the tip of her mammary gland otherwise known as niple had betrayed the partial enclosure of the massive heritage that lies in there, it was almost a center of attraction until I observed that her buttocks otherwise known as nyash by majority of nairalanders is way darker than the rest of her body.

Then I had to speak to the bottle of beer on my table then a sip and my senses was rebooted now, my observation. If it were a usual lady I would sure had fallen for her, also usual lady won't display her nyash unless she's cought up already in which moment I won't have the time to judge.

I'm not being so critical though, does it look like I'm not attracted to professionals or just the fact that they don't give me that curiosity that is common with regular women. Or is it the hot weather, apparently it is quite hot in Enugu now.

Not only you bro.
Been there.
Done that. Twice.
But my worst sexual experience with any ex gf was better.
I can't seem to dissociate the fact that a girl constantly fvcks random men everyday for cash.
Fear of HIV is real even with high quality condoms.
No romance.
Prostitutes aren't for me.

Gang90:

Don't go and find something useful to do with your life, of all the girls that's around, why pay for slut you won't shag, is just like buying cloth that you won't wear

Nothing wrong in dashing a girl money. Us it not better to pay for a conversation than to pay for sex. The prostitute need friends too. By chatting, he may convert her.

i926:

Are you scared of talking to girls that ain't doing prostitution?


Do you know one man's good girl, is another man's prostitute? With this knowledge, will you pay all women for having conversations with them?



Many stupid Nairaland guys fantasies is to kiss, hold a girl tight, kiss her neck, cuddle her, she talks and he listens as she complains about life and her boyfriend but behind the scenes there is another guy that smacks her ass of that same girl, puts his dick down her mouth, fvck her pussy recklessly, fondles her bress like..he might give her 2k or nothing. Don't be stupid guys

Prostitute are normal human being. How are we sure your girl is not a prostitute.
I have met an honest, intelligent girl who ventured into d trade to help cater for her younger ones and finish her education when her dad died suddenly.
She hated the job but she love education more. She has saved enough to. Rent a shop, her younger ones sell in. She plans to stop immediately NYSC. She hated the job
If she can get a financial assistance, she will stop but men do not assist for free that is how d job began, even her uncle wanted to sleep with her before helping her.

Prostitute need someone to love them for who they are and not for their job. If you can do that, they make best friend. They know the bad boys in the hood and can help you when you get into trouble.
Never under value them. They are human like every one
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AlexBells:

The last one I was with we discussed about a lot of things, like how she feel being a prostitute, how do she feel having all sorts of men on her and what's it like always having to worry about STD and above all how much she makes in a day, I once offered to pay up one of the prostitutes daily earning just to lodge her in a decent hotel for a day have a drink and talk. Apparently she told me she makes an average of 5K to 10K a day, I also learnt through our conversations that most of them consume a whole lot of painkillers drug by self medication, a terrible risk

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