I asked and asked https://www.nairaland.com/6175879/asking-people-better-than-dying but so very hard for people to believe me even when I said I am ready for videos calls or home visitation... Now is getting worse and worse every day. I am just like a crippled man due to my 2 little kids saying with me. There is nothing I can do anymore even to leave them to go out is a problem. The only thing I do every evening is to back my son at the back and go to where they are molding block to help them load the truck. You get paid per block loading which is 7 kobo per block. as in 7 KOBO then you have to load enough blocks before getting at least someone to feed the kids on. Please NL family... Someone should please look into my matter and help me to set up a small indomie cooking business please so that I can start up immediately and with that my kids will be able to feed on and they will not go hungry or suffer anymore. Education is not even sure for them anymore because I can't even afford to feed them not to talk of registering them in school. Please I really need your help please so that I can the indomie cooking business just around us here please 50,000 will do it for me both paying for space and buying of things needed

Where is your location? Can you do teaching job?.

Thank you so much and God bless you. I'm here in Igesus Ayobo. Chaiii teaching sheybi na person that went to school will even teach. I stopped school in SS2 around 2008/9 or so still due to family issues and hungry. I had to face street hustling to support. And now I stay with my 2 little kids alone as my wife left. I am now a single father of 2 little kids 2 and 4yrs old kids. I don't even know how to be taking them to work or where to keep them. I don't know how I will even meet up. That is why I am crying for support to start up the indomie cooking business just in front of our house here with that. I can monitor and stay just with the kids then when growing a bit from the profit I will then put them in lesson. Oh God I just don't know how to go about the offer.

pozehnani:
Where is your location? Can you do teaching job?.

MondayUche:
Thank you so much and God bless you. I'm here in Igesus Ayobo. Chaiii teaching sheybi na person that went to school will even teach. I stopped school in SS2 around 2008/9 or so still due to family issues and hungry. I had to face street hustling to support. And now I stay with my 2 little kids alone as my wife left. I am now a single father of 2 little kids 2 and 4yrs old kids. I don't even know how to be taking them to work or where to keep them. I don't know how I will even meet up. That is why I am crying for support to start up the indomie cooking business just in front of our house here with that. I can monitor and stay just with the kids then when growing a bit from the profit I will then put them in lesson. Oh God I just don't know how to go about the offer.

Oww.. thought its something you could do.
Ok

MondayUche:
Thank you so much and God bless you. I'm here in Igesus Ayobo. Chaiii teaching sheybi na person that went to school will even teach. I stopped school in SS2 around 2008/9 or so still due to family issues and hungry. I had to face street hustling to support. And now I stay with my 2 little kids alone as my wife left. I am now a single father of 2 little kids 2 and 4yrs old kids. I don't even know how to be taking them to work or where to keep them. I don't know how I will even meet up. That is why I am crying for support to start up the indomie cooking business just in front of our house here with that. I can monitor and stay just with the kids then when growing a bit from the profit I will then put them in lesson. Oh God I just don't know how to go about the offer.

Oww.. thought its something you could do.
Ok.

op I'm sorry o and I may be judging unfairly but you seem like an irresponsible fellow. Dropped out of ss2 in 2008/2009 and now you are a father of 2 kids with no trade, skill, education, no money, no means of livelihood. As a drop out you have extra work to do not to end up a loser for life. You went to go and start a family. You can't be more than 27 years old o. You no serious o

bigjackass:
op I'm sorry o and I may be judging unfairly but you seem like an irresponsible fellow. Dropped out of ss2 in 2008/2009 and now you are a father of 2 kids with no trade, skill, education, no money, no means of livelihood. As a drop out you have extra work to do not to end up a loser for life. You went to go and start a family. You can't be more than 27 years old o. You no serious o

Werey waa oooo.

If you can't help him, just let him know. Not by adding salt to his injury.

He has learn from his mistake. He is ready to correct those he is capable of correcting now.

At least morally, he is better than some people that has forced abortion on ladies. He is also showing responsibility by putting the care of his children to heart.

If you are in position to help him. Just help

yean1:


Werey waa oooo.

If you can't help him, just let him know. Not by adding salt to his injury.

He has learn from his mistake. He is ready to correct those he is capable of correcting now.

At least morally, he is better than some of us that has forced abortion on ladies. He is also showing responsibility by putting the care of his children to heart.

If you are in position to help him. Just help

Bastard what's immoral about abortion?!

Nopanties:
Bastard what's immoral about abortion?!

A lot is immoral about abortion.

You're able to type this because your mother didn't abort you.

I'm also able to type this cos I wasn't aborted.

No one can tell or control ALL circumstances.

7KOBO per block? So one has to load up to 10,000 blocks per day to earn N700?

If you don't have relatives or friends around who can effectively mind your kids while you go out to earn an income, it is better you meet your town's people or church members to help you raise money to relocate back to the village, the earlier the better before the usual Christmas fare hike sets in.

I recall you once posted your mum and your brother are there as there is no need hanging on to Lagos for now, there are public schools in the village your kids can be enrolled into, as it is way better than them not being engaged in any form of formal education.

While in the village, think out what is realistic for you to achieve in 2021 and plan towards it.

That's why my posts have links on them where to read just 20% of my struggling life and how everything started. You can as well check all my other posts under my profile then you will understand before concluding. Thanks any ways

bigjackass:
op I'm sorry o and I may be judging unfairly but you seem like an irresponsible fellow. Dropped out of ss2 in 2008/2009 and now you are a father of 2 kids with no trade, skill, education, no money, no means of livelihood. As a drop out you have extra work to do not to end up a loser for life. You went to go and start a family. You can't be more than 27 years old o. You no serious o

My life was not even this way when I got married in 2016. The table can turn on anyone at any time. Everyone has a story to tell. My too much trust in people kept me where I am today. My predicaments started earlier in 2018 and I have been holding and struggling so hard to see if I can get back to my feet but nothing is working. Now problems and tough situations from every angle adding up to my depression. I was brought back to life by God's grace after I discovered that someone I trusted so very much for over 14yrs+ duped me after I sold everything I had to pursue the greener pasture but this man made away with everything I struggled for. Here I am. I know is tough out there and all I am asking for is an assistant and support please everyone so that I can set up an indomie cooking business and to feed my kids please NL family...

yean1:


Werey waa oooo.

If you can't help him, just let him know. Not by adding salt to his injury.

He has learn from his mistake. He is ready to correct those he is capable of correcting now.

At least morally, he is better than some of us that has forced abortion on ladies. He is also showing responsibility by putting the care of his children to heart.

If you are in position to help him. Just help

The 9 inches is even 10k per block to load them in the truck then some other guys will follow the truck to where they will offload them. My month is very very sick in the village as we speak and my younger brother is there in the village with her they all depend on me even to take her to the hospital even common village chemist medicine na problem to get for her. She has already given up self and said anyhow the life meets her so be like and this breaks my heart so very much. I have been struggling without concentration but nothing is working out. I have been asking for an interstate driving job since December 2019 till date but since no connection to get the job no one is even calling me. Even the GEE I have some experience on I tried to see if help from also come from there even legitly still yet. I never want to try betting but that one is more than evil once you are addicted to it. So I have been trying any means to see if I can get at least 50k naira so that I can set up an indomie cooking business immediately. But nothing is working for me and my kids are drying up and crying every morning and night for hunger. My son is very sick like this like this. Please NL I beg of you all to help me please no amount is small please. We can get to the 50k if few people can assist me if not for anything please for the sake of my 2 little hungry kids please.

Mindlog:
7KOBO per block? So one has to load up to 10,000 blocks per day to earn N700?

If you don't have relatives or friends around who can effectively mind your kids while you go out to earn an income, it is better you meet your town's people or church members to help you raise money to relocate back to the village, the earlier the better before the usual Christmas fare hike sets in.

I recall you once posted your mum and your brother are there as there is no need hanging on to Lagos for now, there are public schools in the village your kids can be enrolled into, as it is way better than them not being engaged in any form of formal education.

While in the village, think out what is realistic for you to achieve in 2021 and plan towards it.

Good morning to you... How I wish I can and I was even looking for a driving job before this get to this level . Please NL I beg of you all to help me please no amount is small please. We can get to the 50k if few people can assist me if not for anything please for the sake of my 2 little hungry kids please so that I can start up the indomie cooking business please I beg of you all please....

pozehnani:


Oww.. thought its something you could do.
Ok.

MondayUche:
Thank you so much and God bless you. I'm here in Igesus Ayobo. Chaiii teaching sheybi na person that went to school will even teach. I stopped school in SS2 around 2008/9 or so still due to family issues and hungry. I had to face street hustling to support. And now I stay with my 2 little kids alone as my wife left. I am now a single father of 2 little kids 2 and 4yrs old kids. I don't even know how to be taking them to work or where to keep them. I don't know how I will even meet up. That is why I am crying for support to start up the indomie cooking business just in front of our house here with that. I can monitor and stay just with the kids then when growing a bit from the profit I will then put them in lesson. Oh God I just don't know how to go about the offer.

You seems good with the words you pen down.

I think you will be fine with a teaching job for now.

Nopanties:
Bastard what's immoral about abortion?!

Bastard. The mistake your parent did was not to have aborted you during pregnancy. At least the world will be short of one stupid MF.

What do you mean by "Just like a crippled man because of your two kids staying with you?"

Are they not your children? Where should they stay? Did your partner die or abandon you ?

Having children is a really serious thing and one should not bring children into the world under dire circumstances.

What's your location? I can give you indomie, eggs and gas cooker for free. Your English is too good for you to be carrying blocks my friend.

Have you tried cleaning for people? Like washing clothes, cars or scrubbing? You can go door to door to ask for this type of job. Recently, I realised my washwoman makes up to 30k monthly just washing clothes. She also works as a cleaner and closes by noon at a fashion designing institute.

yean1:


Bastard. The mistake your parent did was not to have aborted you during pregnancy. At least the world will be short of one stupid MF.

Bless!!

In one of your previous thread, u said someone gave your children scholarship.

In another, u said ur wife was back

Too many stories from you Monday.

Yes someone announced a fake scholarship for my kids on Twitter but not knowing it was just for clout. Just for him to be praised and gather followers from 19th of September till now he did not talk to me anymore he even blocked me on Whatsapp and removed me from his WhatsApp group and never for once replied to me on Twitter till now. After he told me to go and look for a school to register my kids. It took me almost 3 weeks going from school to school looking for the cheapest at least for my kids to be in school. I also used my little savings to buy the kid's school bags thinking they will be going to school. But this person was just fooling I and my kids, even the lesson they used to go I couldn't afford it anymore so since then, they are staying at home with me and I can't even leave them to go and do any hustle no one to leave them with as we are still new in this place. As for my wife. She has gone and to date, I do not know where she is but she only told her elder brother that no one should bother looking for her that she is tired of the condition and everything. Some of her friends discouraged her and she made the choice now the kids are just and big load on me right now as I can't even go out to do anything.

Foodqueen:
In one of your previous thread, u said someone gave your children a scholarship.

In another, u said ur wife was back

Too many stories from you Monday.

Yes, what I mean by crippled is like they are just like a big load on my head right now as I can't even leave them with no one to go and do normal street odd jobs. They are still small to leave at home and they are not going to lesson anymore because I couldn't even afford the 14,000 for their monthly lesson. And as it is right now school is not even sure for them anymore. And someone who saw my cry then on Twitter and verified my situation by sending someone who brought my kids some foodstuff then later promised and gave them scholarship but not knowing it was just for clout and to gather followers on Twitter. From the 19th of Sept till now he never talked to me anymore he even blocked me on Whatsapp and didn't reply to all my messages on Twitter. After he asked me to go and look for a school. It took me more than 3 weeks looking for a cheap school around here but he DISAPOINTED me and my kids. Now every day they are here I do back my son to the place I do pack blocks but I can't even do any salaried job at this situation cos what will my kids eat. My son has been sick since Monday till now I know what I am facing running from door to door nothing I have not done. We stay in the village side of IGESU AYOBO where everyone minds their own business. Is only normal street odd jobs that you can get here or you open a simple small business like PAGA (POS) or this Indomie cooking stuff. Washing my kid's clothes alone has already pilled off my fingers you know as a man things I don't even do before I have all this weak-low or what is that finger infection called but still, I had to be pushing because kids must eat. I am here in IGESU AYOBO the boundary between Lagos and Ogun State. Home visitation is allowed too or if you want me to come and meet you anywhere to collect them I will find a way to track down

Chiquitq:
What do you mean by "Just like a crippled man because of your two kids staying with you?"

Are they not your children? Where should they stay? Did your partner die or abandon you ?

Having children is a really serious thing and one should not bring children into the world under dire circumstances.

What's your location? I can give you indomie, eggs and gas cooker for free. Your English is too good for you to be carrying blocks my friend.

Have you tried cleaning for people? Like washing clothes, cars or scrubbing? You can go door to door to ask for this type of job. Recently, I realised my washwoman makes up to 30k monthly just washing clothes. She also works as a cleaner and closes by noon at a fashion designing institute.

Please where is the school located and how do I go about it.

yean1:



You seems good with the words you pen down.

I think you will be fine with a teaching job for now.

MondayUche:
Good morning to you... How I wish I can and I was even looking for a driving job before this get to this level . Please NL I beg of you all to help me please no amount is small please. We can get to the 50k if few people can assist me if not for anything please for the sake of my 2 little hungry kids please so that I can start up the indomie cooking business please I beg of you all please....

I'll advise you go to job section and post your need for a driving job. I believe there will be someone who will be in need of one and will reach you. I think thats what you'll need as a family man.

Chiquitq:
What do you mean by "Just like a crippled man because of your two kids staying with you?"

Are they not your children? Where should they stay? Did your partner die or abandon you ?

Having children is a really serious thing and one should not bring children into the world under dire circumstances.

What's your location? I can give you indomie, eggs and gas cooker for free. Your English is too good for you to be carrying blocks my friend.

Have you tried cleaning for people? Like washing clothes, cars or scrubbing? You can go door to door to ask for this type of job. Recently, I realised my washwoman makes up to 30k monthly just washing clothes. She also works as a cleaner and closes by noon at a fashion designing institute.

I sent you a PM ma'am

I posted so many times over and over that was even when my wife was around. But now that my wife is not with us driving job won't even help because no one to leave the kids with as they are not going to school anymore. So according to people they said small business will really help me and feed my kids then also make me to stay close to them also

pozehnani:



I'll advise you go to job section and post your need for a driving job. I believe there will be someone who will be in need of one and will reach you. I think thats what you'll need as a family man.

collinsuchendu:


I sent you a PM ma'am

are you the same person as mondayuche or you want to hijack her offer for him

bigjackass:
are you the same person as mondayuche or you want to hijack her offer for him

No bro. It's not about the thread.

MondayUche:
I posted so many times over and over that was even when my wife was around. But now that my wife is not with us driving job won't even help because no one to leave the kids with as they are not going to school anymore. So according to people they said small business will really help me and feed my kids then also make me to stay close to them also

Oh.. I see.

I'm really surprised that you carry block at 7 kobo per block. When I did my fence in the village, those guys were charging me 15 naira per block to just carry it from where they molded it to the site which is a stone throw.

So, maybe you need to change location of work.

You are in this position today because you choose to live on the fast lane. Little money entered your hand and instead of investing it, you felt the right thing to do is to get married.

Again, you have not tangible achievement in Nigeria but want to travel abroad in search of greener pasture. When they say that the devil you know is better than the one you don't know, it was not a riddle.

People should learn to have a backup in whatever they do. You don't sell all you have because you want to travel abroad with too many uncertainties.

I know the deed has been done, but I always let people know that the things that come to you in life are 80% of the choices that you make.

You have to find a way to leave the kids with your neighbors to go and hustle because no real hustle can take place with those kids with you.

I finished secondary school around the same year that you dropped out, went to university, now working but yet, the thought of marriage is still far from me.

Women are not running away neither are they finishing on earth. I wonder why some men are in a rush and feel accomplished carrying women so early.

bigjackass:
op I'm sorry o and I may be judging unfairly but you seem like an irresponsible fellow. Dropped out of ss2 in 2008/2009 and now you are a father of 2 kids with no trade, skill, education, no money, no means of livelihood. As a drop out you have extra work to do not to end up a loser for life. You went to go and start a family. You can't be more than 27 years old o. You no serious o

Chiquitq:
What do you mean by "Just like a crippled man because of your two kids staying with you?"

Are they not your children? Where should they stay? Did your partner die or abandon you ?

Having children is a really serious thing and one should not bring children into the world under dire circumstances.

What's your location? I can give you indomie, eggs and gas cooker for free. Your English is too good for you to be carrying blocks my friend.

Have you tried cleaning for people? Like washing clothes, cars or scrubbing? You can go door to door to ask for this type of job. Recently, I realised my washwoman makes up to 30k monthly just washing clothes. She also works as a cleaner and closes by noon at a fashion designing institute.

Foodqueen:
In one of your previous thread, u said someone gave your children scholarship.

In another, u said ur wife was back

Too many stories from you Monday.

If you guys want to help, stop all this questioning. Things aren't easy for him please

PuZZyNegro:
I'm really surprised that you carry block at 7 kobo per block. When I did my fence in the village, those guys were charging me 15 naira per block to just carry it from where they molded it to the site which is a stone throw.

So, maybe you need to change location of work.

You are in this position today because you choose to live on the fast lane. Little money entered your hand and instead of investing it, you felt the right thing to do is to get married.

Again, you have not tangible achievement in Nigeria but want to travel abroad in search of greener pasture. When they say that the devil you know is better than the one you don't know, it was not a riddle.

People should learn to have a backup in whatever they do. You don't sell all you have because you want to travel abroad with too many uncertainties.

I know the deed has been done, but I always let people know that the things that come to you in life are 80% of the choices that you make.

You have to find a way to leave the kids with your neighbors to go and hustle because no real hustle can take place with those kids with you.

I finished secondary school around the same year that you dropped out, went to university, now working but yet, the thought of marriage is still far from me.

Women are not running away neither are they finishing on earth. I wonder why some men are in a rush and feel accomplished carrying women so early.

If you guys want to help, stop all this questioning. Things aren't easy for him please

Abiababe:
If you guys want to help, stop all this questioning. Things aren't easy for him please

If you guys want to help, stop all this questioning. Things aren't easy for him please

I rendered the last help I had yesterday sadly.

poster, please state in clear terms what you will buy with the 50k (you are asking for) to support your indomie business.