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How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by setobaba: 11:35am On Nov 23, 2020 |
Hello Nairalanders, I’m 30yrs of age, and I never for once consider getting married, I lost interest totally, but this should incase i decide to tie the nut, how much should I have in my bank account to be on safer side before dragging myself into a life time contract with someone else daughter?? I currently own a car, and managing a salon plus other bussiness thag comes once a while, I’m working towards having a building of my own before getting married, but you see the country is so messed up right now that building a three bed room apartment for yourself is so difficult. Families and friends are dragging me to get married without considering my financial status, they all felt I have what it takes to get myself a wife......lol tho I’m not moved or shake by their claims but I really need to know this. Can one settle down with an available balance of a million naira and feel safe? If you recently get married here, can you pls do a cost implication of the said wedding and cost of running your marriage since inception?? Many guys are scared, I swear 51 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by EmptyGarden(m): 11:44am On Nov 23, 2020 |
In marriage, a steady income works better than a fixed savings. As far as the ceremony goes, and considering the rising cost of things... 1 million Naira may not cover much. 239 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by setobaba: 11:47am On Nov 23, 2020 |
EmptyGarden: You see what I’m saying, thanks I’m going back to my hustle. No more wedding for now baby mama can do 240 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by 2dice01: 11:48am On Nov 23, 2020 |
setobaba:@ Bolded Pride Price and Wedding Ceremony have swallowed the 1milli I have a friend in your kinda situation He is also a nairalander He has postpone his wedding simply because his in-law are demanding above 300k for Traditional wedding ![]() Now guess how much he will spend on the White Wedding ![]() If only our Parent can cut their greed of milking their Potential son in-law Also the wives should cut their coat accordingly That is why ladies marry who is ready not who they love 207 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Chinemeremjosh0(m): 11:50am On Nov 23, 2020 |
Wahala for who never married 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by setobaba: 11:53am On Nov 23, 2020 |
2dice01: Bro right I see no lady that worth such huge amount for me to acquire We move 56 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by 2dice01: 11:59am On Nov 23, 2020 |
setobaba:When you hustle legit You won't spend like a G-Boy ![]() Fact the odd isn't in our favour 68 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by yomi007k(m): 11:59am On Nov 23, 2020 |
In the presence of a lawyer have a written aggreement with the family and friends asking you to get married that; 1. They will fund your wedding ceremony. 2. They will be responsible for your marital life expenses. OR They forever hold their mouth. 205 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by setobaba: 12:06pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
2dice01:I swear Only dem G gangs Dey marry now Like how would I get myself attached to someone when myself and my dog never feed to stupor lol 58 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by setobaba: 12:06pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
yomi007k: 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Cheatnotagain: 12:11pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
* The marriage journey is a walk of faith... From what you’ve said I think you are okay to start the process, your write up was focused on the financial part of the marriage, you’ve not even mentioned the choice of who you will marry which I think is the most important... * Always focus on the marriage and not the wedding as the latter is just an event of a day or two while the former is for life... * The steady income part is very important also... * You also need to know that when you get it right (which I know God will help you to), marriage is a synergy (1 + 1 = 10) where you join efforts with your wife and get tremendous results, so stop seeing everything from your own side of the divide... 135 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by LordVaiki: 12:16pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
setobaba:Have a baby mama instead,she will remain loyal while waiting for marriage... maybe? But if you go for them pussy people,guy life go tire you. #1M go dissolve for your eye under few months...no risk am 45 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by 2dice01: 12:19pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
setobaba:No be small matter Bros That is why most Igbo men dont marry early The country isn't friendly too ![]() 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by JOACHINpedro: 12:22pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Propose to person wey get sense. Do a lowkey wedding Manage una assets No born pikins wey you no fit Carter for. Work smart, live good and retire better. It has never been easy for anyone 215 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Agboki: 12:23pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
MONEY NO B NUMBER 1 HERE,many tins dey to consider b4 marriage some dey broke enter marriage hit and some dey well enter marriage come broke so no amount dey enough to get 4 account b4 marriage. 30 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by setobaba: 12:32pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
LordVaiki:God my precious 1M that I saved daaam! Amma keep digging free holes around till i have more than surplus 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by setobaba: 12:33pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Agboki:Are you joking ?? What should I consider first Sir?? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by fatymore(f): 12:33pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
setobaba:why don't you cut your coat according to your cloth. Sebiotimo. 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Womanizer(m): 12:34pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
setobaba: Just make sure you have a steady source of income otherwise love will fly out of the window after the wedding ![]() 58 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by setobaba: 12:34pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
JOACHINpedro:You were right, but then answer my question, is it safe for me with the said amount to do all these you listed ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by setobaba: 12:37pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
Cheatnotagain:Sir ladies out there don’t see it as a 1+1 affairs, the moment they enter your life, all their burdens becomes yours 40 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by setobaba: 12:40pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
fatymore:By getting married to someone i don’t fancy or by arranging a low key wedding?? I’m not even worried that much on the cost of wedding, I’m aggressively worried about the cost of running the marriage. With the situation of this wreck country 5K daily income is not a match for married couples else they want to be static at a spot 12 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by fatymore(f): 12:42pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
setobaba:I am talking about the planning part. Your wife would support you now 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Nobody: 12:43pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
![]() Bros, abeg lend me your ear. No marry when you never ready financially. Even the baby Mama you're considering can cost you more. This is the time you begin to understand your father(if you grew up in a nuclear family) and why he never had time to stay at home with you. A family man's sacrifice cannot be overemphasized. Pure unrefined love family men had for their wife and children. Once in a while when they err we're quick to castigate them because it's a man's duty to provide. Trust me it's never easy. A family man is an embodiment of responsibilities right from childhood till his death. Yes! Cos upon his deathbed the bone of contention would be the properties he left behind for his family. Choose wisely! 144 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by setobaba: 12:44pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
fatymore:All my life I’ve never had the Luck of a supportive gf to the barest minimum. I don’t see that as an alternative but an option if need be 31 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by StubbornGENIUS: 12:45pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
20 Million in cash,a steady source of income and a car will do. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by fatymore(f): 12:46pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
setobaba: God will help you. Your personality attracts them. Maybe you are one of those alpha males who always feel they don't female support. 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by setobaba: 12:48pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
fatymore:Maybe and maybe not but this is about luck, know your luck and don’t ask for more than what you don’t deserve at times not all times tho 3 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by setobaba: 12:49pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
StubbornGENIUS:Oga I’m not getting a senator daughter for a wife, Biko 22 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by JOACHINpedro: 12:56pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
setobaba:A mil can only do the first 3 listed 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by 400billionman: 2:09pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
![]() But girls are after what you do for a living. Sir, " What do you do for a living ?". I run a salon, I kid you not, she will first frown her face. She wants to hear that you work in UBA or Zenith Bank before she smiles at you. Even if you are a teller or gateman in Zenith, a Nigerian girl will value your talk better than, a key distributor with Unilever or Dangote cement. You are on your own. 34 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by mechanics(m): 2:31pm On Nov 23, 2020 |
It depends from the area you want to marry from, but on the average, you should have up to ₦1,500,000. 11 Likes |
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