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Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by SlurUsername1: 1:13pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
MhisTahrah: Under which law? Can you quote any source please? 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by NOwazobia: 1:13pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
jamesharryson:i hate it when inlaws charge you as if they are selling their daughter away. Greed in all realm of life. 3 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by setobaba: 1:15pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
NOwazobia:Especially ladies with countless body counts 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Passionate888: 1:17pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
fatymore:With the mentality that most Nigerian girls have, finding a girl that will support one when it comes to the wedding finance is very hard 3 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by NOwazobia: 1:18pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
2dice01:i won't be marrying frivolity. I can't do white and black together when both are meant to achieve same contract. It's wastage. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by SimplePlan34: 1:18pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Huston be careful I just came back from work yesterday only to realize my neighbor's wife gave birth by herself inside there house by herself. Men marriage is not child's play gain oo money they yab ppl |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Gabbriell: 1:20pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
This world no just balance. Women will be looking for whom to marry. Men will be looking for money to marry. Reason why some men they like give girl bele to reduce her bride price. Bride Prices this days are not helping matters...some men never carry eye see 1million before (Even the girl wey them wan marry) but bride price and related expenses are totally up to 3million. Women will be blaming men...men will be blaming money. Me i cannot COME and GO and kill myself. I go gegely cut my coat according to my size. 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by PhillipPHD(m): 1:21pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Cheatnotagain: Oh wow. So 1 + 1 is no longer 11? Motivational speakers will not kill somebody. 3 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Goalnaldo(m): 1:22pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Marrying in Nigeria now is difficult let alone an Igbo girl. My elder brother will be tying the nuts in January and I can tell you it's only God that has been helping him. The drinks our potential in-laws listed amounted to over 300k!! I wonder why most parents see their daughters marriage as a means to amass possessions. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by faste: 1:22pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Pofgrace:even robert kisoyaki filled bankruptcy |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Nobody: 1:25pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Yamiriflathead:You will pay child support to your baby mama, it's inevitable. Except you intend to be a useless babydaddy. 3 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by 2dice01: 1:26pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
NOwazobia:To find your wife to be no be beans |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by namexyz: 1:27pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
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Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by NOwazobia: 1:27pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
setobaba:that one looks as if you are buying a secondhand car for the price of a brand new. . Marriage is meant to acquaint both families (the man and the lady) and to consent to the relationship, which the first introduction rites already took care of. Marriage rites should end at the introduction level, but no, the lady's family always want to build mansion and buy cars out of it as if it's a trade. So much greed in this small world even as far to the thing of love. Spits. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by adubam(m): 1:27pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
mastermaestro: God bless you. The moderator gave him the forum to display his stupidity. 3 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by dljbd1(m): 1:28pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
setobaba: I just got married last weekend. At a point I just decided to stop keeping track of the expenses especially when cost of feeding increased due to the increase in price of foodstuff. But eitherway...I have done it because I want to and I am happy I took the step. You could say I'm still excited cos its still fresh...lol...IS IT YOUR EXCITEMENT ![]() FYI...I married a beautiful and amazing Igbo lady ![]() I believe you can do all with 1m brother and still have a few change to kickstart. You just have to agree with your woman on what is necessary and what is not. 7 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by vivilafrosh(f): 1:28pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
2dice01: So who told you that another reasonable well to do man won't cover up friend. Hustle and stop blaming our parents for nothing. I will not marry a man who can't boost of at least two million naira |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by mastermaestro(m): 1:31pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Yamiriflathead: I won't waste my precious wisdom on a pea brain. You can continue to toe the path of idiocy and senselessness, good for you. ![]() ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by delawal: 1:31pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
times has changed. before they use to say dt if u born and train ur children early they will grow quick and take care of u the parents.but nowadays wit d high unemployment rate and bad economy u will see many parents keep taking care of their kids till they die.even d kids wont have resources to take care of their parents. some children even got married and their bills are stil been paid by their parents. iw ill advise anyone to be financially stable before thinking of marriage. that woman telling u that love is d only thing that matters will be the one dt will abuse and compare u with ur neighbour dt bought car for her wife. with the current inflation in nigeria many parents are finding it difficult to even feed their kids. this has given rise to so many social vices. alot of girls has turned into prostitutes in orfer to make ends meet. some girls who do salesgirl work for people re paid 15k a month. if u add d cost of transport to work on daily basis dt amount dn finish. so many of them resort to sleep wit men on a fee or even for food. some dont even have where to work .they wake up dress up and look for men to sleep with them for money. alot of men dt use to do well have gone back to ground zero.some re owing their suppliers in the market. and their shops have closed.. so @op. plan well and dt allow urself to be entrapped in a life of perpetual poverty. 11 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by NOwazobia: 1:31pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
2dice01:it only tell negatively of the types of ladies we have presently. Copy and paste ladies who love following trend at the expense of their life and serenity. When my time comes, i will be doing only one though or she foot the bill of the wedding if she so wanted it. |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by isax(m): 1:31pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Cheatnotagain: God bless you sir... You just opened the young bros eyes to seeing beyond the frivolities btw me gaan never marry and I ain't ready to do any large shii... we would have many things to celebrate later in life so kini big deal |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by cbrezy(m): 1:33pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
mechanics: Where is that? |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Gabbriell: 1:35pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Goalnaldo: Sometimes its not about "a means to amass possessions". They just want a sound sent-fort for their daughters..something that will shake the community and will not make people to laugh at them. Imagine the whole community gathered at your weeding with nothing to eat...that is how most of them think. The whites don't take this things serious as we Africans do..most of their weeding featured very few people except when the person want something big but in Nigeria, whether you like it or not its going to be big as long as na church weeding. |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Jaelxchloe(f): 1:35pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
This one na jamb question oh! It's not about money, do you have a good paying job that will be sufficient for you, partner and potential children, do you have a roof over your head? These are more important than the wedding itself imo 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Mabeejunia: 1:36pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
JOACHINpedro: Correct� 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by setobaba: 1:36pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
dljbd1:Which part of the country are you from, and you said you married an igbo lady? Are you saying you did all this with less than a million base on the part you married from |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by SlurUsername1: 1:37pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
[quote author=MhisTahrah post=96389274] You will pay child support to your baby mama, it's inevitable. Except you intend to be |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by SlurUsername1: 1:37pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
MhisTahrah: Alright then, be my baby mama here in Nigeria and drag me to court and let's see how it pawns out... There are no such stringent extant child support laws in Nigeria like we have in europe and the rest. Infact most cases are only judged based on precedence and ofcourse the discretion of the judge and are open to negotiations You can receive as low as 5k a month as child support in case you don't know because it's very open to negotiation.. and Nobody goes to jail for defaulting With regard to where you suggested that baby daddys who do not accept to be milked by their spouses are useless, you just exposed how y'all see any relationship with the opposite sex as an employment of some sort.. Trying to shame or manipulate me into seeing reasons with you won't work here. I'll try my best as a baby Daddy for my kid, if it's not good enough my baby mama should augment the rest. Period 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by Goalnaldo(m): 1:37pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
Gabbriell:True sha 1 Like |
Re: How Much Should I Consider Safe To Have In My Bank Before Thinking On Wedding? by NOwazobia: 1:38pm On Nov 24, 2020 |
womenareapes:from a person whose sisters and mother are all white. It's really great seeing a white man on nairaland. 3 Likes |
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