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Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Nazgul: 1:23pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Hello everyone... Just decided to Share this here... There's this guy in my office (a colleague) he's been in love with a girl for quite some time now. In fact they were supposed to get married this year but due to the covid 19 Lock down and how cash suddenly vanished from everyone's account, he and the girl in question decided to postpone the marriage till Easter period next year. (March/April) The guy in question says he wants a low key wedding which is understandable, no thanks to the high inflation rate of food and other commodities, but this his babe wouldn't want to hear such. He was just telling us now that his babe is saying her friends would be coming from PH (she schooled in uniport) and she intends to do something presentable. That one of her friends who wedded earlier in the year, her wedding was the talk of the Town. And she wants theirs to be just like that. From what he was explaining, the girl in question is just interested in having an expensive wedding just to show off to her friends not minding what it would cause her supposed husband...very selfish of her if you ask me. I just asked him to talk to her about it...cos I was very careful so I won't say anything that I would be blamed for later in the future. Ladies should understand the current situation in the country, if you want an expensive wedding please show commitment by contributing to it. If you don't have the finance for it please manage the one your guy is working towards. There's more to marriage than a one day wedding...the guy even told us that if she continues to insists he'll just call the whole thing off. I just calmed him down and advised him to talk to her about it. What do you all think? Cc Lalasticlala, mynd44, Dominique 5 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Olunmercy56(f): 1:25pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Different ladies with different thinking, not all ladies. The guy must not eat more than he can chew. He should not start what he can't continue in future. Wedding is just a day, marriage is forever, let her spend the expenses, the guy should not be mumu Nobody is interested in costly wedding, they are waiting for how long you will both last . There are many things to invest in after the wedding. Thank God I hate anything crowd, my wedding guests must not be more than 10 15 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Bornsinner7: 1:29pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Marriage is the new female champions league It's a big competition.. -Amaka own been loud, if you see her wedding gown, her husband get money oh.. Make we see how Bisi own go be, you know say she dey like do her things in a big way- 14 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Nazgul: 1:30pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Olunmercy56:True...not all ladies but most tho. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Nazgul: 1:31pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Bornsinner7:So they'll prefer to loose a prospective husband simply because he told them he can't or wouldn't shoulder the expenses of and expensive wedding? That's weird if you ask me. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Bornsinner7: 1:33pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Nazgul:You never know naija babes 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Nazgul: 1:35pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Bornsinner7:That's a very shallow way of reasoning 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Bola146(f): 1:35pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Most ladies are now wiser unless she is still young or her parents are rich. A man should know how to manage his family likewise the lady, no more useless spending, many ladies are now investing their money into good businesses. That is why I don't have any female friends that will push me into dead trap, I can use my number six wella, I love my privacy. There are many things to use money do after the wedding, I can't let hunger kill me because of one day program 14 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Bornsinner7: 1:41pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Nazgul:What do you expect?? 99% of the wedding expenses is covered by the dude 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by MrTAnonymous(m): 1:42pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
If she insist on an expensive wedding then she should be the one to finance the wedding since she doesn't want to be considerate. I am sure the lady has nothing upstairs, no wonder cases of divorce keeps skyrocketing nowadays. Incase you don't know na me talk 6 Likes
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Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Bola146(f): 1:48pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
MrTAnonymous: Exactly, let her do the funding but will she be the one feeding the family forever Some ladies no get sense at all The guy should think twice before doing anything 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by ValCon888: 1:51pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Because they want all their friends and family to know the scam has paid off. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Chenko001(m): 1:55pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
After Wedding na fight straight. Dem think say marriage na easy commitment? Better save the money and spend to your capacity because you go still need the remaining later 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by frozen70(f): 2:02pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Nazgul: Am not against an expensive wedding so far she will be the one to sponsor it If the guy can not let her know his budget then he will have a bigger problem setting his family He can as well go and and start having kids until she is ready for wedding carnival 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by 2dice01: 2:03pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Peer Pressure My wedding will be the Best amongst my friends infact in my family That is why most marry someone that is ready not someone they love 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Harshreality: 2:39pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Empathy Understanding Intelligence If the person you want to tie yourself to forever lacks these qualities then only God knows what you're marrying. Marriage is not just about boobs and ass or six packs and money. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by virginprincess(f): 3:00pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
if the guy is capable of sponsoring a big wedding, then he should do it the way the lady want it, but if he is not capable enough, then the lady should try and be considerate, let them manage to do it anyway they can. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Nazgul: 3:00pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
2dice01:To what end...I've been opportuned to attend a couple of weddings. The harsh reality is that after a week people forget all about how Behind your wedding was and move on with their lives. So why put a man through hell just to brag... 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Nazgul: 3:03pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
frozen70:Exactly...I'll tell him this...he should just impregnate her and ask her to move in. By the time she remembers marriage again she would be nursing about 3 kids...sense will not kill you. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Nazgul: 3:05pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
virginprincess:The problem is that he isn't capable and the lady has refused to be considerate and she isn't ready to support with even a penny...that's terrible if you ask me. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Nobody: 3:14pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Nazgul:They should reach an agreement and separate if that's not obtainable. AGREEMENT 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Nazgul: 3:19pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Zzor:Hmmmm...it's not as easy as that. The guy in question brought up the issue of canceling the entire wedding if she wouldn't shift grounds, but the girl isn't ready for any form of cancellation...she keeps uploading pre-wedding pics on social media and tagging everyone along reminding them of the date. So such a person wouldn't consent to any form of agreement that wouldn't be beneficial to her unless the guy breaks off the whole stuff, then she'll cry like most ladies do and form victim. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by virginprincess(f): 3:19pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Nazgul:Hmmm the matter hard o, but i think what the lady is asking for is a normal wedding celebration, but the guy want to do it in a very small way, seriously it difficult to see a girl that will agree to a low key wedding, moderate wedding is the best. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Nobody: 3:23pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
virginprincess:i think they should both agree on the moderate wedding considering his financial status 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by 2dice01: 3:25pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Nazgul:Cus most don't really care about you Their needs first before anybody 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Nazgul: 3:28pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
virginprincess:It's true...but up till now I don't know why ladies fancy colourful weddings. If the guy is the one paying for it then it's wise to allow him decide how he wants it. If she wants certain side attractions, she can add her own widow's mite... regardless of how small the guy would oblige and consider doing it her way...that's what I feel 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by virginprincess(f): 3:29pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Zzor:Exactly my point. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by AfroKnight: 3:32pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Why wouldn’t she be talking nonsense? She’s not spending her money on the wedding. That’s why she has the nerve to impose ideas on how to spend another person’s funds. I pity the groom. After the wedding, he will find out the danger of marrying a woman who lives her life just to impress/intimidate other people. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Nazgul: 3:33pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
2dice01:Honestly that's the truth...I do pity most men. This generation isn't fair to men. Imagine trying to beg a girl to accept the kind of wedding you want. And she's objecting telling you that you must agree to do it exactly the way she wants it without even supporting you with a dime. Well I like myself sha. If I don't have the resources for the kind of wedding you want and you're refusing to do it my way, my dear Waka pass...I can't come and go and kill myself. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by virginprincess(f): 3:36pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Nazgul:True, but all women are not same. |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by Nazgul: 3:40pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
virginprincess:Obviously...we have the good, the bad and the ugly. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Girls Insist On An Expensive Wedding? by 2dice01: 4:00pm On Nov 25, 2020 |
Nazgul:Babymama Pro max Loading everywhere 1 Like |
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