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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Newman20(m): 11:43am On Oct 20, 2020
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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Nobody: 11:50am On Oct 20, 2020
Newman20:



Being a virgin is stupid bruh. Just means you're not appealing enough to get a girl.

Wtf
it could be a matter of choice

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by olukaygold(m): 12:05pm On Oct 20, 2020
SimplyFacts:


The bolded is married now.

Don't worry, I don avenge you tire; for your money she chopgrin
The one im talking is still single,still saw her last week at her Papa house

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Nobody: 12:13pm On Oct 20, 2020
Newman20:



Being a virgin is stupid bruh. Just means you're not appealing enough to get a girl.


Which type of mentality full dis world like dis,,,,,,,,grin

So if you're a virgin it means such a person is ugly abi,,,,, lmaooooooo,,,,grin

See me laughing on d floor,,,,grin

Being virgin is stupid lol,,grin

the thing sure for me die,,,

If your girl friend see me she will deny you instantly,,,,,wink

I don't like unproductive conversation,,,


Peace,,,,❤️

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Nobody: 12:15pm On Oct 20, 2020
senjutsu:

Oshe! virgin nigeria! grin

Abi nah,,,grin
Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by stevebond007(m): 1:44pm On Oct 20, 2020
lefulefu:
how such students will be able to concentrate on their academics who do husby and wife in school baffles me cheesy

I dey wonder am o.

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by thesilentman(m): 2:00pm On Oct 20, 2020
Fact1:


Which type of mentality full dis world like dis,,,,,,,,grin
So if you're a virgin it means such a person is ugly abi,,,,, lmaooooooo,,,,grin
See me laughing on d floor,,,,grin
Being virgin is stupid lol,,grin
the thing sure for me die,,,
If your girl friend see me she will deny you instantly,,,,,wink
I don't like unproductive conversation,,,

Peace,,,,❤️
Take it easy guys!
Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Nobody: 2:16pm On Oct 20, 2020
Zyxsc:
This is my confession

I first saw her profile pics on Nairaland. Let's call her Rachel. Later, I got to know she stays in the same hostel as I. She was into me more than I am into her. She attempted to come closer but I wouldn't have that. I resisted because my kind of introvert prefers being alone. I can't tolerate people's presence for long. Even my girlfriends, ex and then-present, I can only tolerate for a maximum of three days. Afterwards I would become hostile towards them till they eventually leave. But Rachel, she would leave and come back the following day, no matter how hostile I was the previous day. Gradually, she taught me how to tolerate people's presence more. I started getting comfortable with her. Then comes the second issue.

I have a very short temper. I flare up on any slight provocation. Rachel, she would remain calm while I'm angry. Once she notice I'm calm, she would come to me and ask me to reminisce the reason for my anger if it's bigger than an issue we could have resolved by discussing. She uses many other vices to correct me in a very respectful way. In the event I get angry while being corrected, she wouldn't raise her voice. She just wants to teach me, most things that trigger my anger can easily be resolved through communication. Gradually, I learn to be slow to anger and speak my temper. There, she taught me to be a better communicator and have a better grip over my temperament.

While all these went on, the sex wasn't amiss, even though it's usually my 2 seconds jiggy-jiggy. She noticed I was bogged by my inability to last long. Then she told me a secret that spurred me into action. I made my research. I found how to last long and give better pre-intimacy and got really good at the game.

From the start of my narration till the last paragraph, it was 5 years of cohabitation already, but it was a blessing. I would still be the primitive version of myself if I hadn't engaged in that.

So in case you're thinking it's bad to cohabit in school, of course it is, but that's your opinion. It's okay to have one, but don't shove it down our throat.[b]

[b]Does it affect my grades?

sure, it does. I came out with a second class upper. Strong or not strong, second class upper na second class upper. I might not have had a first class even if I didn't live a couple's life. And come to think of it, I am doing better than the first class graduate of my set.

Will I be glad if my daughter does it?
Of course, no. I wouldn't. But shit happens and life goes on yet. To the best of my knowledge, my Dad didn't even attend any tertiary institution, talk more of doing it. So my doing it or not doing it wouldn't affect my daughter's decision to either do it or not. Just live your life and enjoy it the best way you can

I and Rachel are not dating presently, but I value her more than any lady I've ever come across because she's had great impact in my life. The changes I experienced while cohabitating with her formed the foundation of any positive change I am presently undergoing.

Don't you think you'll be better off married to her. Reconnect with her if she is still single.

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Nobody: 2:27pm On Oct 20, 2020
thesilentman:
Take it easy guys!
Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by ArticleBeast: 3:04pm On Oct 20, 2020
Newman20:



Being a virgin is stupid bruh. Just means you're not appealing enough to get a girl.
Never read anything as stupid as what you typed. Did you smoke crack? So, those that jump from one woman to another is what you consider appealing.

Jesu kristi

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Dayoebe(m): 3:07pm On Oct 20, 2020
angry Couples' life is not meant for bipolar like me
Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by WoeBetide666: 4:20pm On Oct 20, 2020
Cohabiting is good for the first two days
Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by mkoabiola: 4:23pm On Oct 20, 2020
I loved couples life while serving my father's land....



Free pussy.

Chai


Very sweet life

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by thesilentman(m): 4:36pm On Oct 20, 2020
WoeBetide666:
Cohabiting is good for the first two days
Until...
Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Nobody: 5:43pm On Oct 20, 2020
AfroKnight:
Palema0 07 should come and share her experience. Who was the guy you were cooking jollof rice for?

Don’t tell me you didn’t do it cos I have chosen what to believe and you cannot stop me! grin

I know one guy who did it with a babe in his department. He helped the girl pass in exams. After school she broke up with him and married a rich guy. grin I couldn’t do it anyway cos I loved my space most of the time. Didn’t want one babe around all the time getting in the way or monitoring my life.
Lol @couple's live in school. I never had the thoughts of it, nor suggestions for it or desire for it. I don't have experience.


@your last statement, won't you get married? Someone will share your space with you last last tongue

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Nobody: 8:27pm On Oct 20, 2020
Kenmatt:


Kelvin from PH, your number hasn't been going


Hit me up for the real deal.

08068125041>>>To be deleted soon
Real deal...just praying it has something to do with my signature..

I've drop a message on whatsapp
Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by JIMMY1393: 3:24pm On Oct 24, 2020
dukeprince50:
Those that did it knows it didn't end well.
I was so dissapointed that it couldn't lead to marriage, we dated for four years, I came out of school with nothing but just a certificate, life as a young graduate ain't easy mehn. we decided to go our separate ways and stand so we could come back together but distance killed the love and that was how a relationship of five years ended.

I was depressed, frustrated and ask why will God just let my first romance just die like that, i was so helpless to even do anything, but thats just it o, I learned that, in life most things don't always go the way u planned and there is so much about life u couldn't understand why it happens but that's just it, u can't forget the pains, u just have to carry the pains and move on, and don't give ppl a reason to see ur depressed face, we all have gone through a lot

Sad stuff to read cry
Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by olukaygold(m): 3:26pm On Oct 24, 2020
SimplyFacts:


The bolded is married now.

Don't worry, I don avenge you tire; for your money she chopgrin



Oga, so you never comot eyes for the girl grin

Premium tears loading for the second bolded cheesy
Actually my right eye don comot from the gal but my left eye is still on her,to be sincere I still want chop her but I think it's high time to let go of her

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by paul100(m): 4:07pm On Oct 24, 2020
Many students do this couple's life stuff.He give the girl money to cook for them,they sleep together,she sometimes wash his clothes etc but I no say all these things no how lead to marriage.

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Nobody: 4:39pm On Oct 24, 2020
olukaygold:

Actually my right eye don comot from the gal but my left eye is still on her,to be sincere I still want chop her but I think it's high time to let go of her
You had better do, so that you don't cause any damage to your current r/shp.

Good luck

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by naijadrivablog: 8:05pm On Nov 25, 2020
October 2019 and this made FP on Novermber 23,2020 shocked

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Ayo2004: 8:10pm On Nov 25, 2020
naijadrivablog:
October 2019 and this made FP on Novermber 23,2020 shocked
U must be a virgin grin
Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by bluefilm: 8:13pm On Nov 25, 2020
thesilentman:
Couples' life is when students live together like they are married. This trend is almost unavoidable in the higher institutions.

I had about a dozen experience and surprisingly, none led to marriage even though we tried.

I Would have to write a romance novel on that if am to share my experience. The memories still haunts me even now that i have tied the nuptian knot.

What do you guys think about Couples' life? Is it avoidable? How did yours end? Any regret?

Enjoy Your night, guys!!

You didn't even manage to share any of those experiences you claimed to have experienced, and yet you are expecting people to tell you theirs so that you will use it to write that novel abi?

Guy na wa for you o.

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by DimIsaac10(m): 8:13pm On Nov 25, 2020
Here to read lies...
Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by OlujobaSamuel: 8:15pm On Nov 25, 2020
I did in my final year, was it worth it? I don't think so.
There is this couple during my 100l, they share similar names, Ade. The two were advised to withdraw after year 1 despite banging all couples award for the year, they couldn't bang their gp

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by mespusinglez(m): 8:15pm On Nov 25, 2020
Can't do that...she is not even allowed to sleep over self...even if she could, it must be that it was kinda late for her to go home.

I Like being Alone

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by onyxo76(m): 8:16pm On Nov 25, 2020
never liked the idea, never did it, i love my space and freedom, you can come around, spend the night and that's it
i don't want you hanging around my crib all day long, wearing almost nothing.

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by uncleck: 8:17pm On Nov 25, 2020
thesilentman:

only a handful of such students,especially the females,made good grades.
i did it. Both myself and the babe made good grades. In fact, babe was the best graduating student of her class
Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by shekauvsbuhari: 8:17pm On Nov 25, 2020
Zyxsc:
This is my confession

I first saw her profile pics on Nairaland. Let's call her Rachel. Later, I got to know she stays in the same hostel as I. She was into me more than I am into her. She attempted to come closer but I wouldn't have that. I resisted because my kind of introvert prefers being alone. I can't tolerate people's presence for long. Even my girlfriends, ex and then-present, I can only tolerate for a maximum of three days. Afterwards I would become hostile towards them till they eventually leave. But Rachel, she would leave and come back the following day, no matter how hostile I was the previous day. Gradually, she taught me how to tolerate people's presence more. I started getting comfortable with her. Then comes the second issue.

I have a very short temper. I flare up on any slight provocation. Rachel, she would remain calm while I'm angry. Once she notice I'm calm, she would come to me and ask me to reminisce the reason for my anger if it's bigger than an issue we could have resolved by discussing. She uses many other vices to correct me in a very respectful way. In the event I get angry while being corrected, she wouldn't raise her voice. She just wants to teach me, most things that trigger my anger can easily be resolved through communication. Gradually, I learn to be slow to anger and speak my temper. There, she taught me to be a better communicator and have a better grip over my temperament.

While all these went on, the sex wasn't amiss, even though it's usually my 2 seconds jiggy-jiggy. She noticed I was bogged by my inability to last long. Then she told me a secret that spurred me into action. I made my research. I found how to last long and give better pre-intimacy and got really good at the game.

From the start of my narration till the last paragraph, it was 5 years of cohabitation already, but it was a blessing. I would still be the primitive version of myself if I hadn't engaged in that.

So in case you're thinking it's bad to cohabit in school, of course it is, but that's your opinion. It's okay to have one, but don't shove it down our throat.[b]

[b]Does it affect my grades?

sure, it does. I came out with a second class upper. Strong or not strong, second class upper na second class upper. I might not have had a first class even if I didn't live a couple's life. And come to think of it, I am doing better than the first class graduate of my set.

Will I be glad if my daughter does it?
Of course, no. I wouldn't. But shit happens and life goes on yet. To the best of my knowledge, my Dad didn't even attend any tertiary institution, talk more of doing it. So my doing it or not doing it wouldn't affect my daughter's decision to either do it or not. Just live your life and enjoy it the best way you can

I and Rachel are not dating presently, but I value her more than any lady I've ever come across because she's had great impact in my life. The changes I experienced while cohabitating with her formed the foundation of any positive change I am presently undergoing.
oboy dt ur rachael na dope. Not good to leave such asset.
Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by prodev986: 8:22pm On Nov 25, 2020
Im here for the comments
Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by Creeza(m): 8:23pm On Nov 25, 2020
NeoWanZaeed:


grin

actually ... I like you..
SIMP!! she disown you and you then 'actually' like her. smh

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Re: My "Couple's Life" Experience In Higher Institution by spiralwedge(m): 8:24pm On Nov 25, 2020
Zyxsc:
This is my confession

I first saw her profile pics on Nairaland. Let's call her Rachel. Later, I got to know she stays in the same hostel as I. She was into me more than I am into her. She attempted to come closer but I wouldn't have that. I resisted because my kind of introvert prefers being alone. I can't tolerate people's presence for long. Even my girlfriends, ex and then-present, I can only tolerate for a maximum of three days. Afterwards I would become hostile towards them till they eventually leave. But Rachel, she would leave and come back the following day, no matter how hostile I was the previous day. Gradually, she taught me how to tolerate people's presence more. I started getting comfortable with her. Then comes the second issue.

I have a very short temper. I flare up on any slight provocation. Rachel, she would remain calm while I'm angry. Once she notice I'm calm, she would come to me and ask me to reminisce the reason for my anger if it's bigger than an issue we could have resolved by discussing. She uses many other vices to correct me in a very respectful way. In the event I get angry while being corrected, she wouldn't raise her voice. She just wants to teach me, most things that trigger my anger can easily be resolved through communication. Gradually, I learn to be slow to anger and speak my temper. There, she taught me to be a better communicator and have a better grip over my temperament.

While all these went on, the sex wasn't amiss, even though it's usually my 2 seconds jiggy-jiggy. She noticed I was bogged by my inability to last long. Then she told me a secret that spurred me into action. I made my research. I found how to last long and give better pre-intimacy and got really good at the game.

From the start of my narration till the last paragraph, it was 5 years of cohabitation already, but it was a blessing. I would still be the primitive version of myself if I hadn't engaged in that.

So in case you're thinking it's bad to cohabit in school, of course it is, but that's your opinion. It's okay to have one, but don't shove it down our throat.[b]

[b]Does it affect my grades?

sure, it does. I came out with a second class upper. Strong or not strong, second class upper na second class upper. I might not have had a first class even if I didn't live a couple's life. And come to think of it, I am doing better than the first class graduate of my set.

Will I be glad if my daughter does it?
Of course, no. I wouldn't. But shit happens and life goes on yet. To the best of my knowledge, my Dad didn't even attend any tertiary institution, talk more of doing it. So my doing it or not doing it wouldn't affect my daughter's decision to either do it or not. Just live your life and enjoy it the best way you can

I and Rachel are not dating presently, but I value her more than any lady I've ever come across because she's had great impact in my life. The changes I experienced while cohabitating with her formed the foundation of any positive change I am presently undergoing.

Your experience is similar to mine, though outside the country. I hold her in high esteem and respect, though married.
If this your Rachel is still available, bros I will like to reach out. At least, date to see if we are compatible

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