From your post, you are a religious person.

Adultery is a basis for divorce.

Divorce her and move on.

Hope you took the evidence as you will need it in court!

Perfectsouth:
yeah he slept with her and she felt cheated according to her..

I was legally married to her, do you wish I become promiscuous?

1st born Sept 2
2nd Sept 28..
We are not living together, we stay in separate states and body no be firewood.

I am not a gum gum guy, from what I experienced in my family, I decided to stick to one woman to avoid my kids going through whatever I went through in life.

Those advising you are wasting their times cos definitely you will still go back to her. You have done it before and the odd that you will do it again is high.

To end your problem

Eliminate her and her brother out of your way.

Na you know how you wan take do am

Op, I pray this your wife will not be the end of you... cox if you still wish to take her back, she will keep doing her 'runs', the way you narrated this sef, it's like the woman was not even remorseful after forgiving her many times, pls move on and try to fight for the custody of your kids... thank God you have evidence, I hope it helps in court...

crackhaus:

Spanish series...

Oh.
Thanks

Carry ur children run. If not your kids would start developing bad attitude they learnt from their mother

guysis:


@Op listen to this! It's a sound spiritual advice. Ensure to tackle it from the spiritually as stated. All the best. Well done JourneytoEL

thanks

O boy

Some women dey sha, I won't make a mistake in choosing a spouse, e too sure for me, I can't.

True true, wahala be like bicycle.

CsRockefeller:
O boy

Some women dey sha, I won't make a mistake in choosing a spouse, e too sure for me, I can't.

The problem isn't with the choosing.

Atimes, even perfect partners turn rogue.




If I were ever compelled to get married and the woman gives me one over one hundred of what was given to this bros, I'd just pack my things inside a big Ghana must go and disappear. I will literally disappear.

I can not come and go and die abeg!

Being from a family which your father was negligent might have made you emotionally unbalanced. Your kids are already separated from you so your vow not to let them go through what you want through is no longer within your control.

Apart from her beauty, what value has this woman ever added to your life? Can she be that beautiful? Is outward beauty that important to you?

You are in a very toxic relationship because you are being used as a means to an end. Why did her family make you swear that you have never been with another woman? How is that an issue after everything she has done?

She doesn't deserve your forgiveness and you are not doing good to yourself by keeping her. Don't dwell too much on the spiritual revelations because they further lead people astray. Be practical in your decisions.

Having a broken marriage is not the end of the world. You need to let her go and send your kids school fees directly to their school. henceforth.

U had better relocate and leave that woman and regain ur sanity.

That woman is a bunch of evil character. I have never seen any woman thats engaged in this kind of acts that would allow the husband to prosper.

One thing I fear most as a married man is adultery and fornication...it can tear everything good in marriage and destroy the foundation of a blessed home.

Pls,relocate and tell no one where u are except ur mum.

Perfectsouth:
yeah he slept with her and she felt cheated according to her..

I was legally married to her, do you wish I become promiscuous?

1st born Sept 2
2nd Sept 28..
We are not living together, we stay in separate states and body no be firewood.

I am not a gum gum guy, from what I experienced in my family, I decided to stick to one woman to avoid my kids going through whatever I went through in life.

Just because your father abandoned you guys when he married other women doesn't mean you should do the same. You should still cater for your kids, even if You Are seperated from their mum.

Please have some self esteem and stop acting weak.

murphyrichy:
[b][/b][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font][color=#990000][/color] This your story looks somehow, you said that your wife slept with the Yahoo guy, and that the Yahoo boy knows both of you, but some where along the line you said someone she has not met before. so how come?

Read the story again . . . . Slowly!

Nuyokoi:
any possibility you made poor business decisions leading to the collapse of your businesses?
always easy to blame another than to admit your faults in these typa situations

Actually, I don't even belive his businesses are failing because he sleeps with her, but let's just leave him to keep believing that. Maybe it will prompt him to leave the toxic relationship.

Karleb:


The problem isn't with the choosing.

Atimes, even perfect partners turn rogue.




If I were ever compelled to get married and the woman gives me one over one hundred of what was given to this bros, I'd just pack my things inside a big Ghana must go and disappear. I will literally disappear.

I can not come and go and die abeg!

It is well,may God not allow us get married wit d wrong person.Amen

With all due respect you are a weak man. Even if they advice your type you wont accept so stay like that.



Your wify knows you cant divorce her, reason she is jonzing.

Be a strong man.

What do you you mean by you dont want your kids to pass tru wat you passed tru? So you go die abi?

Use ur head.

Ur wife is evil.

people are really going through alot

Oga those children u are calling urs may not be yours

Say u dey fuk woman no mean say na u give am belle

Perfectsouth:
no matter what happens, those kids will never suffer their mother's sin....
Wish she could give me my kids but she is using them as her bargaining chip

Please sir kindly do a DNA test on this kids to be sure if you not fatherly another's man child.

murphyrichy:
[b][/b][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font][color=#990000][/color] This your story looks somehow, you said that your wife slept with the Yahoo guy, and that the Yahoo boy knows both of you, but some where along the line you said someone she has not met before. so how come?

Na you no understand am well .

Perfectsouth:
thanks bro for the words.. Since I stopped mating with her, have seen improvement.. Don't just don't want to break up with her yet cos she will do everything to stop me from seeing my kids

Oga, It seem you don't want to become fully liberated... How are you even sure those kids are yours?

Even if they are, to survive, you must dine with this devil with a long spoon.

You actually got married to a stranger...it's quiet unfortunate that already you have two kids but to be candid marriage is not a do or die affire. Your wife is possessed and she needs deliverance but for now I will advice you separate with her if you want progress in life else you will drain and drown.

Perfectsouth:
I don't even watch football

this one weak me, But Op your wife she is from Im*?

Im struggling not to call you mumu. How can you see one girl sneak out to club leaving a whole you in the house, and you still ended up marrying her, it's unbelievable. Well sha, some people dey carry their own hands curse themselves after dem go dey find advice up and down. Honestly, this your post made me to be so angry

Perfectsouth:
Cc royalroy

Well, I don't wNt my kids to go through what I went through so I forgave her.. God was answering my prayers and things started picking gradually.. I went to meet them, took them all out and did shopping for them..
I was planning on how to relocate them to where I was...
Now this is the revelation..
My wife has been used,thats the fact...
My photography business first collapsed.
I did about 5 businesses that just one of it can make me a millionaire, every business collapsed.. The more I sleep with her, the more things become worse for me...
All these revelation came after I was told to pray and fast..

When things started picking gradually for me this year, I payed for a shop 300k,it was almost my son's birthday. So I went to see them.. We slept together, I came back after the birthday.. Could you believe, I was chased away from that shop and till now, I was only able to recover just 50k from the money..
Before my mom's birthday again, I was doing some business and it started picking. Went for my mom's, she came for the birthday too, we slept together, and when I came back to my business, the war I fought was unfathomable.. It collapsed too..
I am a very prayerful person and believe me, in the 8yrs we've been together, I never slept with another woman. I sweared with everything they gave me cos they couldn't believe me..
Before my daughter's birthday, God was merciful to me and I started another business.. I was warned severely never to sleep with her again.. Till now, my business is gradually picking and am able to send them money for upkeep and my kids school fees....

Now this my wife have an immediate younger brother who is a travel agent, I remember last year I introduced a friend to him and even vouch and stood for him that nothing will go wrong.. Truly he did this guy's traveling to Dubai and the guy went.. But we didn't know what happened and this guy came back.. Maybe he was deported or not, nobody knows but this my friend came to arrest me and I was told to produce my Inlaw.. He came and we were both locked up for 3days..along the line, the matter got settled, I parted with some money after selling one of my equipment. And he too also raised some money.. So this year, when things were already picking up for me, he got into another problem and this time, they were gonna jail him, so I borrowed him 100k and he promised to pay them 50k monthly till he complete the payment.. It was a travel gone sour though I know some people he has done traveling for and they are doing fine in their respective country of choice.

So this year, someone decided to help me travel out, he gave me UNIVERSITY OF MANITOBA admission processing fees, it was 120cad, but I gave this my Inlaw 150$ believing that atleast, since I am his Inlaw and have done him alot of goods before nothing will go wrong..
That was in August..
Fast forward to 2days ago, I messaged University of Manitoba since I wasn't getting any update, and I was told my application was not submitted neither paid for, I almost collapsed... So what he did was doctored some documents and sent to me and I believed him..
Right now, I am in a fix..
About my wife's promiscuity, I have all evidence of their chat..
After forgiving her over that chat, when I went for my daughter's birthday, I wanted to go through her phone, she gave me a heavy fight that I can't go through her phone, the phone I bought for her with my money..
When she slept, I opened it with her Fingerprint.
The chats there are so damaging. Some have slept with her and still wanting to do more, some she is already negotiating with.
She works in a beer parlor now and she is already using waist beads, she knows I hate these things..

I can't tell it all but if you have a question to ask, or anything you think I missed, ask me and i will tell you the truth..
My Inlaw hasn't pick my call to tell me why that happened..

If you think this is a fabricated story,
I have all evidences.
If enough people ask for it, I will release it here..

I am surprised u Neva knew your wife! she can never change! she is not a type of woman for keeps, she is just chop and go! for u to even marry her u take ur two legs enta one chance. its very easy to spot such ladies.

Perfectsouth:
I don't know him but I happen to be popular in the city I work.. Seeing our wedding photos on my wife's Facebook, it is easy to locate and know me.. And he said we have a mutual friend, jendo..
The guy used a rich guy profile on Facebook to toast my wife and she agreed, that's how he was able to enter her

okay, it's clear to me now. She ain't a wife material atol.

I understand you.

It's best you stay away from her now.

And when she's ready to change, take her to the same spiritualist to help her.

Your dad isn't the issue here again.

Blame no one for your misfortune in other to get your blessings on time

Perfectsouth:
for a fact, she didn't connive with her brother... I will release evidences soon.. I thought she will change, I don't want my kids to go through the trauma of separation like I did.. I was trying everything to avoid a reoccurrence of what happened to my parent and since same thing happened to her, I thought she will change

OK.
Unfortunately ur children may have to cope with separation or divorce because in moving forward u've to let her go.
But u can prevent them from experiencing the trauma of separation. Pray ur way for divine guidance and help and u and ur kids will be fine.
To keep that woman is Death. Move on and Live ur life to the fullest in grand style.

ruggedtimi:
this one weak me, But Op your wife she is from Im*?

no

Nobody is perfect except God. everyone makes mistakes.
Be strong enough to let go of your promiscuous wife. You don't wanna die before your time. She is a disaster.
You have got kids. Focus on them.
Stay off serious relationship with women for now and deal with your situation.
I pray God see you through.

Perfectsouth:
not that, I could have said this with my main account, but it was banned..
You see in life, if your first step was a mistake, you will keep having problems....
The mistake I made early in life keeps bringing more problems..
The one his brother did recently was what brought about this thread..
I have been through alot in life, from one problem to another, I keep fighting, I keep praying but if your problem lives with you, you hardly get an escape route..
Those kids should never suffer for what they knew nothing about believe me... Every decision am still making revolves around my kids..
Till today, I blame my father for every thing that has happened to me cos he was nowhere to be found when we needed him most..
And let me shock you, we now give him monthly stipends to feed himself.. The wife he wanted to die for abandoned him.

As per your dad and what you are doing for him now, that's not new. Many have done that for their dad's under the same circumstance as yours while others have abandoned theirs. Kudos to you and your siblings but nothing new.

As per your wife, bro, you will never learn or progress as you continue to sleep with her. I couldn't believe you said with your own mouth that " I'm married and body no be wood".
I just pray for you that that body no be wood no go make you be lying inside wood 6 feet below ground. Amen.
With all these revelations and things you know about her, ur deek still dey rise for her? Dem use vajina swear for you no fa? All d times you no sleep with her, se you die ni? If you go to her location, sleep in a hotel and don't even let her know which one it is.

As per the kids, you don't have to be with her or continue sleeping with her for them to turn out good or have a better life and turn out good in the future. Just try your best for them and make provisions to make sure they don't suffer.

The mistake you made was accepting her back. I don't think your destiny is tied to hers and even if it is your eyes don open.
I pray we don't read another topic from you saying
"Please help me!! My wife is after my life after everything I did for them".

The time to take a decision is now and move on with your life. Good luck and God bless.

As per you bro in law, what do you expect?
These people have been scruing you and will continue to do so until you man up.
Forget him and look for another avenue to make ur travel plans.