DSC7:
Hmmmmm...and she be gospel singer....


mk i no talk wetin dey my mind first.....

Hello! That was once upon a time. And it's no news.

eyinjuege:


And he has doubly failed again after going to social media.
Now what?
The daughter not only knows him as a deadbeat, but now also despises him for embarrasing her publicly. Her mother didn't tell her this, she saw it with her own eyes and is the direct victim of his manipulations this time around.
From the tone of this interview, I doubt she will ever want to have anything to do with him again.
Perhaps if her father that raised her wades into the matter, she might consider.
The sperm donor needs to go and grovel before the man she calls father, if he truly wants a relationship with his daughter. She will only probably agree because she has utmost respect for Mr Alabi, the man whom she proudly bears his name.

maybe that's the only way the man knows to get across to her.

I didn't read beyond your second paragraph

Marrying yoruba is like marrying dog. Na so another yoruba musician don't know his father till date

Sperm donor. You want to claim an adult after 22yrs. Awon bombastic element.

kolafolabi:
DNA test will still be required even if they eventually meet in the court of law.

Meet in court for what? The girl in question is an adult now. What concerns court with this issue.

I don't even understand why the girl mentioning court sef

Every adult has the right to choose who fathers him/her. Some people disowned their parents due to one problem or another and was adopted by their desired individual. In this case there's nothing their biological parents can do about it.

Oyinprince:
No scandal here though!

From the girl's words, Tope Alabi did not hide knowledge about the man from her and I don't think she'll be saying all that boldly if her mom blocked the man from reaching out.

The question is why is he coming out now?

The only revelation I see here is that Tope played outside game before marriage . , I'll take it that she wasn't born again then

Tope Alabi never hid her past , her present husband played a vital role in her change of lifestyle.

abimic:
This is kind of challenge having kids for men out of wedlock brings, i hope they mend fences soon. Why would the man be coming out of nowhere after this long to claim paternity? what a useless father, who wants to reap where he never sow. I am sure the young girl would not give him the attention a father would get, and thank God she is of age to determine her company. Like she said, the only place to see with him is in court.

This type of ugly & irresponsible situation is very common among my people. This is a bad attitude that must be corrected. The erroneous believe thst ..Bope boya baba lo lomo i.e. the father owns the child at the end of the day or ...aya ole leyan le gba kiise omo ole..meaning that you can only snatch a lazy person wife & not his child or ...bope boya, omo ama baba e meaning that ...sooner or later, a child is bound to know his/her father should be discarded as times are changing as those sayings seem not to working in this case. Rather than going to the Social media, the man could have approach Mr Soji Alabi directly or indirectly for understanding and an amicable settlement. He should have first show his heart of appreciation to him for the roles that he had played in the life of his daughter over the years rather than trying to use ogboju. He could have achieved this thru Mr Alabi's close friends, family or associates. After all nothing is strange in life & the Almighty God has destined how things will turn out for everyone. I would therefore strongly advise him to quickly retrace his steps as an Omoluabi and not to follow bad advice.

marcelo12:
weytyn concern me. Mai Shai abeg do indomie for me

tell am make e prepare my own join

dawnomike:
Not enough proof... A father that failed to be present for 20yrs is questionable.

I guess you missed where he stated that Tope blocked all avenues to reach her.

Dchampion65:


Did you read through at all.

Nah, I read the back page

why now?

joefelin2345:
This type of ugly & irresponsible situation is very common among my people. This is a bad attitude that must be corrected. The erroneous believe thst ..Bope boya baba lo lomo i.e. the father owns the child at the end of the day or ...aya ole leyan le gba kiise omo ole..meaning that you can only snatch a lazy person wife & not his child or ...bope boya, omo ama baba e meaning that ...sooner or later, a child is bound to know his/her father should be discarded as times are changing as those sayings seem not to working in this case. Rather than going to the Social media, the man could have approach Mr Soji Alabi directly or indirectly for understanding and an amicable settlement. He should have first show his heart of appreciation to him for the roles that he had played in the life of his daughter over the years rather than trying to use ogboju. He could have achieved this thru Mr Alabi's close friends, family or associates. After all nothing is strange in life & the Almighty God has destined how things will turn out for everyone. I would therefore strongly advise him to quickly retrace his steps as an Omoluabi and not to follow bad advice.

You spoke well bro, i cannot imagine nursing a child, to adulthood, that even in my weakness, i served a good father's role, only for one man to be claiming paternity from nowhere, well, it is left for the child who is wise to apply discretion, and the mother to play a valuable role, So far to me, the girl has done well and is intelligent. We would meet in court, see pikin wey get good upbringing. "Won ki fi oju olore gungi".

Time would tell

Lexusgs430:
DNA test is required....... For her sake, let's hope it's fake news...........

Read dumbass

dawnomike:
Not enough proof... A father that failed to be present for 20yrs is questionable.

Which proof again do you want? The woman already told her daughter she has a father outside, her biological father. It is not a matter in dispute. The mother didn't cover it up. The daughter knows and her husband knows the girl is not his biological child but raised like his own. The problem is the daughter refusing to acknowledge her biological father because she feels he was absent and not a part of her life growing up. The headline is just being sensational like as if Tope Alabi cheated on her husband with another man and had a child. She definitely had this child before getting married to her husband.

Dchampion65:



Meaning!!!

She never denied that she is in second marriage. She is not accused of infidelity either.

first marriage. Probably had a fling with the other man

you can't change the blood.

the resemblance is striking...

the babe is old enough to know what to do!

And as for y'all commenting rubbish up there, your opinion for the time being is grossly insignificant.

uBuNiT:
Marrying yoruba is like marrying dog. Na so another yoruba musician don't know his father till date

You are complete bastard. Which tribe don't have this type if thing? Rubbish.

Chai...dead beat fathers.

abimic:

You spoke well bro, i cannot imagine nursing a child, to adulthood, that even in my weakness, i served a good father's role, only for one man to be claiming paternity from nowhere, well, it is left for the child who is wise to apply discretion, and the mother to play a valuable role, So far to me, the girl has done well and is intelligent. We would meet in court, see pikin wey get good upbringing. "Won ki fi oju olore gungi".

God bless you my brother. My only advice for Mr & Mrs Alabi as well as to the young lady is just for them to find some space in their hearts to forgive the man whether he repented or not to enable them close this chapter of their lives.

This country get as e be. Just wen you thought u'd seen it all

Take them to the paternity court, they will get the answer really quickly.

dawnomike:
Not enough proof... A father that failed to be present for 20yrs is questionable.

""I cannot blatantly deny him because I have heard about him, but I have never had anything to do with this man before.

She added, “My mother never blocked any avenue for us to see. My mother even tried for me to have a relationship with him. I remember when I was about 15 years old, she used to tell me to try and talk about him. Even when we discuss marriage, they tell me that they would want to inform him.""

Can a total stranger be this important to them?

abimic:

Exactly, the girl is of age, and can decide who she treats as her father, and can choose to severe ties with whoever she is not comfortable with.

nothwithstanding blood is thicker than water. Don't get me wrong

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Might be true though

I heard Tope used to be a fvckin pet before she changed.

Changed?

Praktikals:

I guess you missed where he stated that Tope blocked all avenues to reach her.

She didn't, judging by what her daughter said. It's the daughter that chose not to relate to an absentee dad. She appreciates her stepfather who brought her up much more.

kolafolabi:
DNA test will still be required even if they eventually meet in the court of law.

They did not deny now. What's the need for DNA again?

""I cannot blatantly deny him because I have heard about him, but I have never had anything to do with this man before.

She added, “My mother never blocked any avenue for us to see. My mother even tried for me to have a relationship with him. I remember when I was about 15 years old, she used to tell me to try and talk about him. Even when we discuss marriage, they tell me that they would want to inform him.""

Can a total stranger be this important to them?

Onnasucs1:
Read dumbass

Tell same to your father......

DSC7:
Hmmmmm...and she be gospel singer....


mk i no talk wetin dey my mind first.....

She look so angry and bitter.... Wonder if this people know the meaning of true love. What if the irresponsible father repented of his ways and want to make ammends. And this gospel artist will now want to be singing about Christianity.

wise girl, they think its to pour sperm that is the koko, !! I trust children of this generation, they'll tell u blatantly that they don't know you and be enjoying life like you don't exist plus this one wey con get better step dad, the biological one has lost her naturally and forever

priceaction:

She used to be a runs girl, she has said it several times,. Going out with married men, this is one of the results. She never hide it from her history until she became born again and singer that was discovered by her current husband who also happened to be her keyboardist. The man denied the pregnancy at first and because he was married, may be he later agreed secretly but irresponsible to take care of the baby for years until she met her husband. Now that the girl has started singing and going places with lots of achievements, he now showed up. Who does that..Many women and children are like that and the men involved will never accept their responsibility. But let them blow, they will show up useless people. .

Hmm, I never knew she had that kind of past...