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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by JoeEeL(m): 10:18pm On Nov 28, 2020
Sorry bro.

Most of the ladies we have now na olosho o. Coded and non-coded oloshos.

It's the new normal cos in the end, na still men dey f*ck them. The problem is believing you have a jewel as gf or wife. You just gats have very low expectations to be sane.

Girls will always f*ck for money and for flair. They will always do runs whether u like it or not.

As a guy, introversion does not pay at all. You sef be bad. If you won't be bad, ensure u catch a very young girl whom u can vouch for that is not bad. Otherwise, you'll end up being a loser cos na girls f*ck pass when them young. Both young and old men want to f*ck them. But as a young guy, your options are really limited, unless raba full your hand o.

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by JusthowIfeel: 10:20pm On Nov 28, 2020
Lol
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by OgaTheTop2: 10:21pm On Nov 28, 2020
What is the title of this movie script?

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by iceberylin(m): 10:21pm On Nov 28, 2020
Oga go and make money.
We no dh listen to one sided story

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by LEOSZ(m): 10:22pm On Nov 28, 2020
Mehnn may God help your life . You tried I swear me go run fire grin grin grin grin pack my kids and run .

Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by UCHIHAmask: 10:23pm On Nov 28, 2020
Perfectsouth:
Cc royalroy

Well, I don't wNt my kids to go through what I went through so I forgave her.. God was answering my prayers and things started picking gradually.. I went to meet them, took them all out and did shopping for them..
I was planning on how to relocate them to where I was...
Now this is the revelation..
My wife has been used,thats the fact...
My photography business first collapsed.
I did about 5 businesses that just one of it can make me a millionaire, every business collapsed.. The more I sleep with her, the more things become worse for me...
All these revelation came after I was told to pray and fast..

When things started picking gradually for me this year, I payed for a shop 300k,it was almost my son's birthday. So I went to see them.. We slept together, I came back after the birthday.. Could you believe, I was chased away from that shop and till now, I was only able to recover just 50k from the money..
Before my mom's birthday again, I was doing some business and it started picking. Went for my mom's, she came for the birthday too, we slept together, and when I came back to my business, the war I fought was unfathomable.. It collapsed too..
I am a very prayerful person and believe me, in the 8yrs we've been together, I never slept with another woman. I sweared with everything they gave me cos they couldn't believe me..
Before my daughter's birthday, God was merciful to me and I started another business.. I was warned severely never to sleep with her again.. Till now, my business is gradually picking and am able to send them money for upkeep and my kids school fees....

Now this my wife have an immediate younger brother who is a travel agent, I remember last year I introduced a friend to him and even vouch and stood for him that nothing will go wrong.. Truly he did this guy's traveling to Dubai and the guy went.. But we didn't know what happened and this guy came back.. Maybe he was deported or not, nobody knows but this my friend came to arrest me and I was told to produce my Inlaw.. He came and we were both locked up for 3days..along the line, the matter got settled, I parted with some money after selling one of my equipment. And he too also raised some money.. So this year, when things were already picking up for me, he got into another problem and this time, they were gonna jail him, so I borrowed him 100k and he promised to pay them 50k monthly till he complete the payment.. It was a travel gone sour though I know some people he has done traveling for and they are doing fine in their respective country of choice.

So this year, someone decided to help me travel out, he gave me UNIVERSITY OF MANITOBA admission processing fees, it was 120cad, but I gave this my Inlaw 150$ believing that atleast, since I am his Inlaw and have done him alot of goods before nothing will go wrong..
That was in August..
Fast forward to 2days ago, I messaged University of Manitoba since I wasn't getting any update, and I was told my application was not submitted neither paid for, I almost collapsed... So what he did was doctored some documents and sent to me and I believed him..
Right now, I am in a fix..
About my wife's promiscuity, I have all evidence of their chat..
After forgiving her over that chat, when I went for my daughter's birthday, I wanted to go through her phone, she gave me a heavy fight that I can't go through her phone, the phone I bought for her with my money..
When she slept, I opened it with her Fingerprint.
The chats there are so damaging. Some have slept with her and still wanting to do more, some she is already negotiating with.
She works in a beer parlor now and she is already using waist beads, she knows I hate these things..

I can't tell it all but if you have a question to ask, or anything you think I missed, ask me and i will tell you the truth..
My Inlaw hasn't pick my call to tell me why that happened..

If you think this is a fabricated story,
I have all evidences.
If enough people ask for it, I will release it here..
Using redpill in dating and being an alpha by putting your future first during your university days could have saved you from all this shit,thank your stars that the most alpha and omega has decided to look into your case and grant you spiritual help..
you are disgustingly weak,docile and totally unobservant,this goes to the niggas who believe money can buy love and loyalty....
Quickly do a paternity test on your children because that your "two beautiful kids" might not be biological.

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Ihuaku1: 10:23pm On Nov 28, 2020
Wow!!!!!!
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by luminouz(m): 10:24pm On Nov 28, 2020
What exactly do you want from us bro? undecided..


You had everything figured out na

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Fortune109: 10:24pm On Nov 28, 2020
Another Seun Format grin grin


If you know...

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Bigseven(m): 10:24pm On Nov 28, 2020
Op Must have studied sociology!
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Lizabettie95(f): 10:24pm On Nov 28, 2020
Dear poster, I am deeply sorry you had to go through this again.it's enough hurt that you had to get a grip of your self and forge through life in your own only to be back still on a path you have always avoided . You're a good man and sometimes I wonder why bad things happen to good people...I really wish people could hook and end up with people who suites them...exact people of their kind but you see, this life is just not balance. First thing first, you have to do away with that woman.leave her to run the street where she belongs to. Put women and marriage aside for now and please get custody of the kids.. your kids don't deserve such a woman.. you'd kill their innocence and future if you let them stay with that woman. I am a lady and I understand what it feels like to be stucked with the wrong person.. honestly , person way get head no get cap o. .. please be strong.. and leave women matter for now and focus on getting back on your feet. It's the best you can do for yourself and your kids.. they deserve nothing else but the best ..

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by KossyKiss97(f): 10:25pm On Nov 28, 2020
First things first, if all you say about your wife's promiscuity is true, then you need to pull out those kids from her custody asap. Evil communication corrupts good manners. They will most likely trace her footsteps if left within her care

Please I am inviting you to church tomorrow. Please visit any living faith church (Winners chapel) closest to you or join us online. God bless you.

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by orgylover: 10:26pm On Nov 28, 2020
guy your brain has been used. a confirm olosho that u know and u are still screaming lov?

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by sexuential: 10:26pm On Nov 28, 2020
Perfectsouth:
no matter what happens, those kids will never suffer their mother's sin....
Wish she could give me my kids but she is using them as her bargaining chip

Aprroach a good family lawyer for proper guide. The kids would grow to a certain age b4 you can get them. So, for the mean time, prepare your evidences from receipts of funds you send for their upkeep to the atrocities she indulges in. It would help you to prove that she is incompetent to care for the kids and for you, u av been doing ur duties and would be competent to continue.

Also, just as u said earlier that body no be firewood, prepare for your future as in old age, and the coming of ur kids, a woman to love them like her own. And care for you too in ur old age.

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Lawsaite: 10:26pm On Nov 28, 2020
Op your business failing is not related in any way to your wife. If you have evidence of her promiscuity, sue for divorce and claim your children. It's biblical, you wouldn't be commiting a sin. You've given your wife too much free hand already

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by meetme01: 10:27pm On Nov 28, 2020
With my experience in marital issues, one party info should not be used to judge the other. Rarely will you see or hear someone accept faults.

I can only advice if your wife can state her own side of the story.

Meanwhile, don't attach your loss(es) to your wife's promiscuity. You may also be suffering from your own or father's sins. Lots of things might the cause. Remember, things cannot always be rossy, there will definitely be hiccups. Count those loss(es) as hiccups of life.

The more you listen to other people's advise, sooth saying and fake prophesy, you will continue to hate yourself and your wife. I have a vivid example but I would let it slide.

Sit your wife down. Talk to her from your heart. Tell her all you stated here. Ask her needs and let proffer solutions to problems she think might have caused her promiscuous as you alleged. Let her understand why all these will continue to affect the family especially the kids. Start praying together.

Both parties can make it work when you communicate properly. Say it all. No hidden words. Cry, smile and laugh when need be. It's a good way for reconciliation.

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by orgylover: 10:27pm On Nov 28, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Because they brought the person into this world? If it ain't working, if they got no loyalty, simply walk out d door.
i always walk out but i make sure i break their legs. the last one cant walk till now. thanks to me. dont mess with an extremist

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Prinnce1: 10:28pm On Nov 28, 2020
Nuyokoi:
any possibility you made poor business decisions leading to the collapse of your businesses?
always easy to blame another than to admit your faults in these typa situations
so you don't believe this That some girls brings bad luck to people. sad sad sad
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by IJOBA2: 10:28pm On Nov 28, 2020
Perfectsouth:
yeah he slept with her and she felt cheated according to her..

I was legally married to her, do you wish I become promiscuous?

1st born Sept 2
2nd Sept 28..
We are not living together, we stay in separate states and body no be firewood.

I am not a gum gum guy, from what I experienced in my family, I decided to stick to one woman to avoid my kids going through whatever I went through in life.

HAVE YOU GONE FOR HIV TEST



FIRST RUN THAT TEST BROS.


MAKE WE START FROM THERE embarassed

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Happyguy201: 10:29pm On Nov 28, 2020
More reason why single life is Bae by the way I have 2 kids

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by InvertedHammer: 10:30pm On Nov 28, 2020
/
When your in-laws are very excited about your marriage to their daughter, it is either:

She is from a very good family
OR
They are glad they have pushed their liability to a loser.

Knowing the difference is very difficult. Sometimes a tad too late.

If my mother-in-law dance too much, I no do again. Something is fishy.
/

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Themandalorian: 10:31pm On Nov 28, 2020
Perfectsouth:
yeah he slept with her and she felt cheated according to her..

I was legally married to her, do you wish I become promiscuous?

1st born Sept 2
2nd Sept 28..
We are not living together, we stay in separate states and body no be firewood.

I am not a gum gum guy, from what I experienced in my family, I decided to stick to one woman to avoid my kids going through whatever I went through in life.

This is my advice to you. After all she has put you through from cheating on you, to talking bad about you to people she want to get money or whatever from with sex as the form of exchange I say divorce her and let her continue with her prostitution full time. Since you are not even staying with her again divorce her and have peace of mind. Is it until she plans with one of her numerous lovers and do something terrible to you. Or are you waiting until you contract STD from her?
Divorce her and if you want to kids to stay with you full time you can proceed to court with all your evidences and prove she is not fit to take care of them.
Act fast before it's too late.

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Themandalorian: 10:32pm On Nov 28, 2020
IJOBA2:
HAVE YOU GONE FOR HIV TEST
Very important question. Cos what I'm picturing in my head is having sex with a full time prostitute without using condom.

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by ricson11(m): 10:34pm On Nov 28, 2020
if you don't divorce her now na she go finally kill you. wahala for who him wife dey follow Yahoo boys

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by calcal: 10:35pm On Nov 28, 2020
I did not read your story but one thing I know is that no family is right nowadays, but you can make thing right for yaself
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by leisuretym: 10:35pm On Nov 28, 2020
Wow! bros ... You talk plenty oo

Talk talk talk, the story come dey boring.
Nawa oo.

Give this story to Desmond Eliot to act a movie, you guys will make money
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by IMO01: 10:35pm On Nov 28, 2020
Fortune109:
Another Seun Format grin grin


If you know...

Another seen must eat thread grin
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by xtervaganza(m): 10:37pm On Nov 28, 2020
Perfectsouth:
Cc royalroy

Well, I don't wNt my kids to go through what I went through so I forgave her.. God was answering my prayers and things started picking gradually.. I went to meet them, took them all out and did shopping for them..
I was planning on how to relocate them to where I was...
Now this is the revelation..
My wife has been used,thats the fact...
My photography business first collapsed.
I did about 5 businesses that just one of it can make me a millionaire, every business collapsed.. The more I sleep with her, the more things become worse for me...
All these revelation came after I was told to pray and fast..

When things started picking gradually for me this year, I payed for a shop 300k,it was almost my son's birthday. So I went to see them.. We slept together, I came back after the birthday.. Could you believe, I was chased away from that shop and till now, I was only able to recover just 50k from the money..
Before my mom's birthday again, I was doing some business and it started picking. Went for my mom's, she came for the birthday too, we slept together, and when I came back to my business, the war I fought was unfathomable.. It collapsed too..
I am a very prayerful person and believe me, in the 8yrs we've been together, I never slept with another woman. I sweared with everything they gave me cos they couldn't believe me..
Before my daughter's birthday, God was merciful to me and I started another business.. I was warned severely never to sleep with her again.. Till now, my business is gradually picking and am able to send them money for upkeep and my kids school fees....

Now this my wife have an immediate younger brother who is a travel agent, I remember last year I introduced a friend to him and even vouch and stood for him that nothing will go wrong.. Truly he did this guy's traveling to Dubai and the guy went.. But we didn't know what happened and this guy came back.. Maybe he was deported or not, nobody knows but this my friend came to arrest me and I was told to produce my Inlaw.. He came and we were both locked up for 3days..along the line, the matter got settled, I parted with some money after selling one of my equipment. And he too also raised some money.. So this year, when things were already picking up for me, he got into another problem and this time, they were gonna jail him, so I borrowed him 100k and he promised to pay them 50k monthly till he complete the payment.. It was a travel gone sour though I know some people he has done traveling for and they are doing fine in their respective country of choice.

So this year, someone decided to help me travel out, he gave me UNIVERSITY OF MANITOBA admission processing fees, it was 120cad, but I gave this my Inlaw 150$ believing that atleast, since I am his Inlaw and have done him alot of goods before nothing will go wrong..
That was in August..
Fast forward to 2days ago, I messaged University of Manitoba since I wasn't getting any update, and I was told my application was not submitted neither paid for, I almost collapsed... So what he did was doctored some documents and sent to me and I believed him..
Right now, I am in a fix..
About my wife's promiscuity, I have all evidence of their chat..
After forgiving her over that chat, when I went for my daughter's birthday, I wanted to go through her phone, she gave me a heavy fight that I can't go through her phone, the phone I bought for her with my money..
When she slept, I opened it with her Fingerprint.
The chats there are so damaging. Some have slept with her and still wanting to do more, some she is already negotiating with.
She works in a beer parlor now and she is already using waist beads, she knows I hate these things..

I can't tell it all but if you have a question to ask, or anything you think I missed, ask me and i will tell you the truth..
My Inlaw hasn't pick my call to tell me why that happened..

If you think this is a fabricated story,
I have all evidences.
If enough people ask for it, I will release it here..
maybe I should tell you my own story but it's too long. All I will advise you is to leave that family. I was once like struggling from hand to mouth despite working hard like a mad man with nothing to show for it. All my suffering ended the moment I dumped my ex wife and moved on to better things.


Now I look back at my life 2/3 years ago and just thank God cos I've been blessed beyond my own imagination

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by humilitypays(m): 10:37pm On Nov 28, 2020
Perfectsouth:
As I type this, it's with tears in my eyes.. I am pained, they've done everything bad to me.. Sincerely, I don't deserve this ill treatment have gotten from this family...
It is gonna be a very long read but I know you will learn a thing or two from this..
I might not be able to touch everything but if you feel there is something I need to share and I didn't, point it out and I will shed more light on it....

This may seems a bit lengthy but you should learn one or two lessons from it..
I come from a not broken not memded marriage same as my wife but hers was worse than mine..
My father used to be a rich man. When car dealing was very lucrative, he was a top notch car dealer in akure.. So along the line, he started fornicating. His was on another level, he always take them abroad to sleep with, shop for them and do every every.. We are five in my family, I being the first born..
I had to train myself through university with photography with the help of my mum too. I remember when I was looking for project money, one of my father's wife, the one that went to give birth in Dubai just came back and they were doing naming ceremony.. I could remember I was in the rain with my mum and they were pointing at us, though we couldn't hear what they were saying.. How did I raise my project money? Sponsoring 5 kids wasn't an easy task since 3 of us was in the university. So I went with my to her work place, she was a nurse so we collected all the aprons used during immunization and washed them.. Then I also hustled to complete the money...
It was a very rough and tough life but all along, we didn't even seem like someone who has a father..

Let me jump to the reason for this thread..
I vowed never to allow whatever happened in my family happen to me in the future..
I met my wife when I was in 200 level.. I was 23 and she was 21..

Cc royalroy
Your father have nothing to do with your current predicament in life. Everything you are passing through now was caused by you alone.


But you are very lucky oh, God loves you. God have revealed to you the source of your problem yet you don't want to make a decision, are you that stupid

My kids my kids, it is better you forget them for some time and get back on your feet and then go back and fetch them and if their mother refuses, you leave and prepare financially to help them when they become adult by then, they will realize how useless their mom is to them.


Fix your life first and forget about your wife and kids and her entire family. I wonder why you are still calling her your wife self. Wife ke, you don't have a wife na with the things you narrated.


Guys that love women so much usually have problem.


Delete that your wife and her family from your data memory and face your life oh.


How you saw a girl that sneaks out at night from your house to go to club and still went ahead to marry her will shock devil himself.


You guys love carrying problem.


Sometimes I wonder how guys like you reason sha. Woman this and that.


Must you be with a woman


You better forget her and even the kids for now and go fix your life first. Somebody that need savior don't go about saving others oh. Save yourself first before thinking of saving your kids.

If you die now or enter into bigger mess, your kids will cary on. Remember despite your dad messing up, you still carried on with life without his assistance as a dad.


Face your life squarely, forget your kids for now and your so called wife, and get back on your feet first, then go for them (your kids oh).

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Nobody: 10:37pm On Nov 28, 2020
You are an idiot

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Griffon: 10:38pm On Nov 28, 2020
You got the signal early enough that you were dating a throwback yet you went ahead to knot the tie? I have your iberiberism in my prayers!

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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by 7BigSquids: 10:39pm On Nov 28, 2020
Perfectsouth:
thanks for your words bro..
You see, some of us just want to live a life of one man one wife, no broken home, peace of mind and have a very happy home..
There is no way I explain it that people will understand the indept of it but I thank everyone for understanding..
Am even surprised no one is saying maybe am lying or trying to paint her bad, seems most people have witnessed this type of thing first hand



Stop it. Stop the I don't want anything to touch her. I have much to say to you too but because I'm not assured of your attention, I'll keep to myself. Go and divorce her and prove she's unsuitable to hold on to the kids. This is where to start

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