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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by ThEGodFaThEr101(m): 11:34pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
egopersonified:Colleague or Friend? A case of birds of a feather Nothing wey person no go see for this Nigeria Oh, Lord! Come to our rescue. Give us the wisdom and knowledge to discern Abanda's and their circles.
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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by BadBradley: 11:34pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
stacyadams:the bad effect of booze and smoke is seen when you had to quote all that to type this poo. It can only be booze and smoke if not natural mental illness. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by emmyN(m): 11:35pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: Stop repeating that nonsense. The woman your dad abandoned you for, hasn't she left him now? No, continue till you find yourself six feet below, then you will tell me how you intend to give your kids that life you so much crave for . You are really being a dummy. Yes, I say this with every offense meant, if that would knock some sense in your darn skull. How do you have further sexual relation with a woman that's had her hole screwed by another? A wife, not even a girlfriend! My kids this, my kids that... Stop being a whimp! Cut off every form of intimate relation you have with her. Initiate divorce. With the evidence you claim to have, you have a huge chance of winning custody of the kids. She is morally corrupt and is capable of influencing those kids by her lifestyle. Is that the environment you want to raise your children in the name of not wanting to put them through the trauma of separation? I'm so darn pissed at you. You don't cheat but you can stand a cheat. How did you get so emasculated? 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Perfectsouth(m): 11:35pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Epicji:most people don't understand how emotionally draining this is to me especially when I love those kids so much.. They Re my source of inspiration to strive hard in life 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by hustla(m): 11:35pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: This guy no ja at All, e say mating Lmao You better enter street make You ja 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by harmony75: 11:37pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Perfectsouth:nothing good comes out in such life..you're good children that's why you can still care for your dad and God will bless you for that ..you're right the life one lives can have a negative impact or positive impact. I think you should plan your life alone not involving any of your wife or her persons. the heavens sees all your troubles and He will restore for you beyond your imagination because again you have kept yourself holy God almighty will surely grant you your hearts desire � |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Goalnaldo(m): 11:37pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
AddictedToTech:na him be that the popcorn seller? |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Xxx123xxx(m): 11:38pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Perfectsouth:..Na beg u beg you no release any picture here it won't take away the pain or change a thing. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Antoeni(m): 11:40pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by coldFLARES1(m): 11:40pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Perfectsouth:I am assuming your story to be true and would first express sympathy for all the troubles you've had to deal with. This part about not making your kids suffer for their mom's sins or/and their mom using them as a bargaining chip is one thing, which may ultimately prevent you breaking from the apparent cycle of poverty which entanglement with your wife causes. I have lived long enough to be sensitive to situations and flee any relationship/entanglement to could lead to further complications of this "just" one life I have live for several decades that has really not been "balanced". To help you understand fully, I am married with an adorable 2.5yr old daughter, but should any misfortune befall me on account of my wife's commission or indiscretions (God forbid!), then she can take my daughter along with her if she so chooses. If a sequence has been established wherein you lose economic standings after intercourse with your wife, and this was buttressed by a revelation, then what are you waiting for? To keep moving in circles until you are drained of youthful vigour or the desire to be ambitious? Wetin dey do you? 7 Likes |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by ThEGodFaThEr101(m): 11:40pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
murphyrichy: Mumu, big head nor be big sense. Didn't you read all that the Op stated? Na wah o for you sef.
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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Slimdan360: 11:43pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Please Sue for custody of your kids,don't let your daughter learn from her mother |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Nobody: 11:43pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
The truth of the matter is, the only solution to OP's problem, op will not do it. I know this type of men. They will keep going back to there vomit. No matter the advice you give him he will won't follow it. The only solution is to break up with the woman totally and take custody of those children but Op won't do it, I can bet my balls. Take those children away from her else the female one will turn exactly like the mother a cheap slut just as your wife learn everything from her mother too. And let me tell you, that woman will be the cause of you death in the long run if you keep on with her. 1 Like |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by alexmakaay(m): 11:44pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Series from Mike ejeagha |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Goalnaldo(m): 11:45pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
RightToReject:let me open my phone dictionary. Your verbosity is extra 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Jaelxchloe(f): 11:46pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Yam pepper scatter scatter.... Na wa o |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by johnpaschal(m): 11:47pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
there's no perfect marriage or life here in Earth.... Gradually you are entering into what you feared but you failed to understand that you love your children contrary to what your father did to you Now here's my advice from the stand point of a believer..... part from your wife ...she's only with you for the name of marriage and I have a husband but she would destroy you and your kids if you don't stand up and fight that demon in sheep's clothing just reading you type is sorrowful enough message me I've got words for you but I can only relay it privately I know you love her with all your heart but until she's really ready to give her life to Jesus and do away with all that's evil..your marriage will never progress but your business will if you don't copulate with her .... I ask you to message me because it's not gonna be easy at all this battle you are shying from ..you must fight it oooo if you love your home I didn't ask you to divorce her I meant part from her but only temporary |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by andyanders: 11:48pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Op, you just knowingly messed up your life. Cannot welcome a promiscuous woman, even if kids are involved. You knew her life style before you settled as husband and wife. Before then, she use to sneak out and go clubbing and still come back to beg you. Left with kids, same of her mom that told you off, still came begging and you accepted her back because of the kids. Listen, you are a weak man and cannot run a home. Bleep her and the kids. Are you even sure you fathered those kids in the first place? Back off, you just messed your life. 1 Like |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by millionboi2: 11:49pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Lawsaite:please quote him with this |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Goalnaldo(m): 11:49pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
ststyreal:truth. I've never been to a club in my life. So what will make me to date a club girl? |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by shortgun(m): 11:49pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
I don't know if someone else have told you b4 ...pls go and run HIV and other STDs tests. Sorry to say this but men as weak as you should not have any business with marriage. When you lack the power to lead and subdue a woman she will run wild....this is what happened to you. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by KcAngel(m): 11:50pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
GO DNA TEST.... TO BE VERY SURE THAT THOSE KIDS NA YOURS... SO U NO COME DEY FATHER ANOTHER PERSON SON/DAUGHTER...# 1 Like |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Ade3131: 11:50pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: I've tried so hard not to comment bcuz so many things have been said and allot of advise has been dished out but somehow, you got me typing this bcuz of what you said up here. Bro, there's generational curse and there's also self-induced curse. Your dad is the genesis of the whole predicaments and it's gradually becoming hereditary in your bloodline. The chances that your son won't face similar family/spousal issue is slim but I pray the yoke will be broken before their time. I'm in similar shit as you are but the prize am paying to break that generational curse on my head is killing itself. Explaining the rationale behind your self inflicted stupidity to a third-party will always be a daunting task, but las las, please, for the sake of those children, seek divorce in court and save those evidence you have on Google drive so that you'll have them saved permanently bcuz those children might need to see it when they grow older. You equally have to find a way to be in custody of the children. Ride on the fact that your mother-in-law supported her to leave you for another stranger when the going got tuff. And you can't trust their parenting astuteness to instill the right value in your kids considering their questionable character. At the end, most men have this stupid decisions we've made in life but somehow, we stand by it and learn from them. It all started on a wrong note when she showed you all the rainbow coloured lights back in school but you ignored. Shit happens. Move on! 5 Likes |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by ThEGodFaThEr101(m): 11:51pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
CsRockefeller:Original Mumu, na your type go end up marrying the Op's type of women or worse one sef. Ewu Gambia 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Onliie(m): 11:51pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Perfectsouth:you be mumu 1 Like |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by millionboi2: 11:51pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
InvertedHammer:hahahaha U dey mad too |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by coldFLARES1(m): 11:52pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Epicji:Methinks he isnt sufficiently distressed by his endless rigmaroles yet. If he has situated where the problems lie, why not totally extricate himself even if it means not having access to his two kids. Hopefully, when he's had his fill, he would make the very tough decision. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by flokii: 11:52pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Your mother-in-law is a bad woman, her daughter (your wife) is and if care is not taken your daughter too will follow same path.. I don't know the problem with these girls, they never listen or learn till they fall in wrong hands and bring bad luck to innocent young men they end up with.. A ritualist driving benz is who you sleep with and you think you won't be a sacrificial lamb for his wealth. @OP sorry is your case o.. nothing we can do to help you. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by bendike: 11:53pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
coolsegun2002:Sorry to digress, why do you take 2 Valium tabs? Is that safe? What benefit do you get? Thanks |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Goldencheese(m): 11:53pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: Bro, I read your story with interest and although a lot of people have given you their advice, let me just say a few things to you: 1. Your father is not your problem. Grow out of that sentiment. From the age of 18, if you survive that age, your destiny is in your hands and not that of anybody. 2. You don't have a wife. You only have a bedmate. Divorce her. Scripturally, she's committed more things to even justify more than that advice. That woman doesn't love you but uses you to only meet her needs while junketing about with a wayward lifestyle. 3. This is Africa. This is Nigeria. Why should she keep your children from you? Are you OK at all? Didn't you pay her bride price? You are the one to keep the children and she'd be begging everybody to beg you so she can see them. 4. Cut your relationship with your bedmate and her family and move on with your life. You are blaming your father and saying you don't want your children to suffer what you and your siblings suffered. But have you ever given it a thought that your children should never stay under the influence of their mother? You are weak and it is embarrassingly annoying to me. I pity men like you who indulge in stupid sentiments until they now face their regrets in quantum dimensions. If you don't want your story to continue to ring aloud on Nairaland, so that some people will keep saying to you "You again!", man up and take the decisions above. Life happens but tough people take life by the horns and win their battles. Be a man and stop these guilt trips and sucking up to a woman who doesn't deserve to bear your name. I am ashamed and angry for you! 1 Like |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Nobody: 11:53pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
mmmmmmm |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by andyanders: 11:54pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
shortgun:Exactly. The guy is too weak for a man. No common sense. I bet you, those kids might not be his and he is dying and sleeping with a street girl. It is even disgusting hearing op say, my wife even works in a beer joint. Op, you don't have a wife and it is even a disgrace coming here to seek for advise. 1 Like |
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