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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Chris2863(m): 11:55pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
From the way I dey see you, your suffer never start self. It's unfortunate how a grown up man will be blind folded in a relationship, God tried all His possible best to save you but you chose to destroy your life. Oga, bear your cross. I have no advice for you shikena 2 Likes |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by pulsa(m): 11:56pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: When last did you sleep with her and can you go onto more details regarding the whole business crumbling part? |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by bendike: 11:56pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Epicji:Wow. Egbon you really tried. 2 Likes |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by chatinent: 11:56pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
When buying a car, you look beyond outward appearance. How much more a marriage mate! 2 Likes |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Nobody: 11:57pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
coldFLARES1: Ask him. Forget what OP is saying about kids. It's sex that's turning his head on in own. I wonder why people always mix up emotions with serious life issues. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Robinson155(m): 11:58pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
So sorry but it’s never too late to pick up and start again..you lucky you know the source of your problem..so, divorce her and rebuild your life and your kids |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by jaxxy(m): 11:59pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: If u want to stick to one woman u must make sure the woman meets all or 80% up of ur standards. How can u marry just anybody and still plan to be faithful and not suffer the consequences. This lady has zero value I don’t know if u noticed then or now. Sex alone is not a value. U are cut ties with people that are not likeminded with u. They are extra Baggage. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by kenfarm(m): 11:59pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: I like your choice if word.....all I can tell you is "time and distance are the greatest healer" |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Xclusivedaniel6(m): 12:00am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: I just broke up with my gf of 3years cos of this Shes mannered but I discovered our visions are different, she waits for me to do everything 1 Like |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by ThEGodFaThEr101(m): 12:04am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Nigerian women and promiscuity are like Siamese twins connected by brain. A research carried out recently states thus; 4 in every 5 Nigerian women lead an adulterous life and also, 3 out 5 women are involved in one form of PROSTITUTION or the other. After seeing this statistics and experiencing it firsthand, I've come to the conclusion that it's better to remain single and live long than to get married to one of these daughters of Jezebel and die young. To every unmarried guys out there; CAVEAT EMPTOR! 3 Likes
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Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Hassanmaye(m): 12:07am On Nov 29, 2020 |
coolsegun2002:Hahah |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Hassanmaye(m): 12:08am On Nov 29, 2020 |
BiggyB242:Some men and the way they think |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by DisGuy: 12:11am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: Pay your kids school fees directly to the school, buy health insurance with a reputable firm/hospital When you're in town take them out or take them to your base on holidays Leave the family alone |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by AustineJohn908(m): 12:13am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Bros listen to the people advice leave that woman or else you will lose all you got. Go to court and with this evidence of yours every judge will give you full and absolute custody of your kids and please when you do, Keep your children faraway from that prostitute you call a wife 1 Like |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Xkale1234(m): 12:13am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Perfectsouth:bro make I no lie you ehhh, you're a fool E get why |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Originalsly: 12:13am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Bro.... haven't read through all the comments to know more details... just read part of page one. You took time to tell us about your father and his non commitment to your mom and siblings. You vowed not to be like your father so decided to stick with one woman... be loyal to your wife and kids.... and as far as I can see.... loyal no matter what. Did you think of being loyal providing your wife is as loyal and good as your mother?... or that part doesn't count? Did you consider your father made a good choice for a wife?... or is it you decided to do the opposite of what your father did in every aspect? It seems so to me. Look in the mirror.... you made a bad choice for a wife. I don't know why you are surprised by her family's actions..... the apple doesn't fall far from the tree. You know for sure your wife has been promiscuous... did it occur to you that you may not be the father of the children? ... I know you know about DNA testing... do you have the courage to have them tested?... or you prefer to live in mystery and misery? You seem more interested in making amends with her. Bro... stop labeling yourself an introvert.... be a man.... get the kids tested... use the results to file for divorce.... make up your mind and restart your life from scratch. Cut all ties with that family..... even if their house burned to the ground ... do not help them. They already worn you down... and when you are finally burnt out... the only way out you will be considering is suicide or killing them all. Move on with your life.... others went through worse that this and have rebuilt their lives. .... stop feeding on your vomit. 7 Likes |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Hassanmaye(m): 12:14am On Nov 29, 2020 |
legacystore:Wicked guy you want to add to his depression ni? |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by animides(m): 12:14am On Nov 29, 2020 |
collinsuchendu: Bros put the STUPID in capital letter abeg.. Some people will just open their mouth waaaaaa and say rubbish. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Xkale1234(m): 12:16am On Nov 29, 2020 |
ahnie:the man to mumu he still sleep with her and also help her bro |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Dreyton36: 12:17am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Damn this got me deep Bro on Friday this coming week Send me a mail and identify yourself , I'll bless you with 100K it's a promise INSHA ALLAHU but on one condition, you must let go of that woman , stay safe 4 Likes |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by BLoomfrancs(m): 12:19am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Are you even sure the kids are yours |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by pansophist(m): 12:21am On Nov 29, 2020 |
The red flags were everywhere, you ignored them, and after she proved her promiscuity to you, you forgave, and still surprised she didn't change. This is why it is necessary for a man to put reasoning before emotions and feelings. You do not marry a woman for beauty. You look at her heart, her childhood, and use your sense. If you accept her again because she can beg and cry, well, you set yourself up for another failure and this time, you won't get up from it. In marriage, feelings are not enough. And the way you write, I got a feeling that you have no balls. Shit like these hardly happen to real men, because they can see the game from far away and minus themselves immediately. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Nicoswit(m): 12:22am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Perfectsouth:You are a man...get your kids from her! Stop punishing yourself unnecessarily...she will just destroy ur life completely...be wise! |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by EmmanuelBanks: 12:23am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: oga you dint even answer the 3rd question ahnie asked you, which is..after you were warned not to sleep with her, you were still sleeping with her. I just tire for your matter, all this kind mumu men go deyy drag problem to their sef, wen is clear where the problem is coming from bros try use ur hand arrange ur life for better ooo...I don waka |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by kemicalreact: 12:26am On Nov 29, 2020 |
[s] Nuyokoi:[/s] 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 12:26am On Nov 29, 2020 |
I will even advice you do DNA test on the kids, so you will sure if you're the real father. Going by your story, that your wife is a hoe. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Happy2020: 12:27am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Nigerian men need to scrutinize their women much more closely because there’s a high chance she is selling her body do money, rent, goods, dinner, something. The saying “these hoes ain’t loyal” was written for Nigeria. They sell themselves to the highest bidder and most have no morals or scruples. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Pwhitelaw(m): 12:29am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Op from what you said so far you don't want your kids to be a product of a broken home,but want to risk the future of the kids due to your wife promiscuity.You need to decide and move on. You have failed business wise becauseof a lady who keeps cheating on you...Move on and always reach out to your kids. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by Sambaby7640: 12:31am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Perfectsouth:Go to court |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by AsiwajuNdigbo: 12:31am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: I dont know how to tell you this but you suffer from same syndrome (whatever its called) that cast its spell and compell a woman in abusive relationship to hang on for sake of her children and not leave. You are in an abusive relationship and you have become glued to it. Im going to tell you another thing. Qomen in abusive relationship always have a bad neptune placement, Im talking astrology now. Bas placement in the sense that they are sucked into a dark abyss and its very fulfilling for them because the darkness gives a certain reward, usually through pleasurable sex, the kind they have never experienced before or never imagined was possible. Two kinds of people find this level of existence fulfilling, those who practices sexual fetishes and thise who sacrifice themselves for sex. Are you pisces? Neptune rules pisces. Neptunian sex involves all elements depicted by deep libido, dungeon and submission. I ask you - 1. When you mate with your wife do you ever feel like you are fuckng a divine extrabeing? 2. Do you readily submit to her? 3. Do you feel yourself subsumed into her entity? 4. When you finish sex with her does your sorrounding appear different? I dont want to delve too deep, i need to respect your privacy but i must say this. There is love and there is life. They are connected but life is a malevolent force and love is a benevolent energy. You said when you have sex with your wife your gains dissapear. I want you to answer those questions honestly I will tell you the next step you should take. The clue to your loss is also contained in the sexual energy between the two of you. She has a sexual energy that can turn you to a very wealthy man but you are not connecting yourself to the outlet. |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by BigwayAfrica: 12:39am On Nov 29, 2020 |
AsiwajuNdigbo: Nothing comments reader no go read for Nairaland. How can I get across yo you privately. I need to learn more. Please! |
Re: I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) by bebeto94: 12:42am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Swallow the red pill 2 Likes 1 Share |
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