I had a misunderstanding with my girlfriend. She has some bad attitude like disdaining me sometimes and while I was telling her how that attitude is bad, things happened and I ended up telling her to get out and hung up the phone. She blocked me immediately (WhatsApp and phone probably) and later unblocked me when I was having my birthday. She didn't send any birthday wishes. Ever since she has unblocked me, I just keep getting provoked every day by day.

The thing is I droped a complaint on this forum a while back and I was told to ghost her for sometime to reset her brain to default. Now, I want to ask if I should continue ghosting her now that she has unblocked me. I'm having a difficult time with it because I keep getting more angry as the day go buy and I just feel like blasting her with words she'll never forget... I just feel like fire right now.

Should I continue ghosting her or should I bomblast her? I just dey vex like mad.

GO HUG TRANSFORMER.


EVERYDAY COMPLAIN ABOUT CHILDISH THING YOU GUYS CALLED RELATIONSHIP.

fati2001:
GO HUG TRANSFORMER.

Are you okay? If you can't drop a sensible comment why bother typing.

Who told you it's a childish about making a summary of my problem.

auntyTania:

Are you okay? If you can't drop a sensible comment why bother typing.

because you are not sensitive....




are YOU A MALE OR FEMALE?


REAL RELATIONSHIP DON'T HAVE COMPLAINS,AS FAR AS THE PARTNERS CAN GET OVER A PROBLEM WITHOUT NOTIFYING THE THIRD PARTY.

fati2001:


because you are not sensitive....




are YOU A MALE OR FEMALE?

What do you mean I'm not sensitive?

auntyTania:


What do you mean I'm not sensitive?

FORGET ABOUT THAT...




Apart from the birthday wishes and whatapp era... what's the main problem you are having with her.

fati2001:


FORGET ABOUT THAT...




Apart from the birthday wishes and whatapp era... what's the main problem you are having with her.

More like sometimes, she will just be mute while talking to her. No amount of cheering changes her mood. Plus, she will sometimes just act like a stranger. Some other times, she'll be pestering me everywhere. If while talking a slight misunderstanding should happen, her mood will just change and that's the end of the conversation for that day. I mean these things are things that happens in conversations and one is supposed to just laugh it off and continue talking. I've been trying to correct her for a long time. And the thing is if I don't call her, another wahala.

When reverse is the case, wahala too. This thing is making me sick and it's annoying. When I avoid her, she'll complain too.

auntyTania:

More like sometimes, she will just be mute while talking to her. No amount of cheering changes her mood. Plus, she will sometimes just act like a stranger. Some other times, she'll be pestering me everywhere. If while talking a slight misunderstanding should happen, her mood will just change and that's the end of the conversation for that day. I mean these things are things that happens in conversations and one is supposed to just laugh it off and continue talking.

maybe she's not comfortable with you...
or that kinda person dat dislikes talking...

how long is ur relationship?
do you live together?

fati2001:




maybe she's not comfortable with you...
or that kinda person dat dislikes talking...

how long is ur relationship?
do you live together?

We don't live together, it's a little bit over 2 years

auntyTania:

We don't live together, it's a little bit over 2 years

just sit her down and ask what is/are the reasons behind the traits she's displaying.

fati2001:



just sit her down and ask what is/are the reasons behind the traits she's displaying.

She hates what is wrong with you questions. I've asked her many times what the problem is but she has not even giving me any tangible reason. She'll only say I was normal. Mind you, I've tried all angles to know what the problem is.

The only thing left in me now is just anger.

She is suffering from bipolar condition. Take her to a shrink.

auntyTania:

More like sometimes, she will just be mute while talking to her. No amount of cheering changes her mood. Plus, she will sometimes just act like a stranger. Some other times, she'll be pestering me everywhere. If while talking a slight misunderstanding should happen, her mood will just change and that's the end of the conversation for that day. I mean these things are things that happens in conversations and one is supposed to just laugh it off and continue talking. I've been trying to correct her for a long time. And the thing is if I don't call her, another wahala.

When reverse is the case, wahala too. This thing is making me sick and it's annoying. When I avoid her, she'll complain too.

You're seeing all the signs now o...pls just avoid her and let her be. She doesn't wanna be corrected and she's rude. It may not be easy to let her be cos it's been 2 years. For your peace of mind, let her be. Not all relationships should end with hatred

Kiddams:
She is suffering from bipolar condition. Take her to a shrink.

The thing has just become so toxic, because the behaviours are correlating with gaslighting and others. So I just don't know. Except that sometimes she'll be extremely lovely.

Awa fierce gan to ba n wa mi

auntyTania:

She hates what is wrong with you questions. I've asked her many times what the problem is but she has not even giving me any tangible reason. She'll only say I was normal. Mind you, I've tried all angles to know what the problem is.

The only thing left in me now is just anger.

just avoid her since she Lik that, but you can still search more about the attitude if you are willing to.

Thattallgirl:
You're seeing all the signs now o...pls just avoid her and let her be. She doesn't wanna be corrected and she's rude. It may not be easy to let her be cos it's been 2 years. For your peace of mind, let her be. Not all relationships should end with hatred

I honestly cannot turn blind eye to these things anymore. But I'm really attracted to her, I dunno how to stop that because I've put my mind in it too much.

auntyTania:

I honestly cannot turn blind eye to these things anymore. But I'm really attracted to her, I dunno how to stop that because I've put my mind in it too much.

I understand. You've seen so many topics on Nairaland about married couples having serious issues? Do u desire to come here in years time and say similar things? The most toxic people are not so easy to let go in relationships (dating). I only pray you find it easy to let go and meet God's appointed partner for u. Every relationship has its own issues but the right partner will make it easier for you to manage with Jesus on your side. I wish you the best!

Op, I have one question. How old are you?

dude what's in you now is anger .
and you have to let it out or you won't ever forgive yourself
neglect all the consequences of what you will say and say everything on your mind to her ..that way you will have a settled mind..if she's ready to be with you she will assess all what you said

auntyTania:


What do you mean I'm not sensitive?

Why would a male be using AuntyTania as name for his moniker?

You people are making it difficult for us to chase girls here!

fati2001:
GO HUG TRANSFORMER.


EVERYDAY COMPLAIN ABOUT CHILDISH THING YOU GUYS CALLED RELATIONSHIP.

Swrs.

D tin sef tire me.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:



Why would a male be using AuntyTania as name for his moniker?

You people are making it difficult for us to chase girls here!

Lol
Na just one old account I created a long time ago.

Luckyheart:


Swrs.

D tin sef tire me.

What is childish about the whole thing I posted here?

auntyTania:
I had a misunderstanding with my girlfriend. She has some bad attitude like disdaining me sometimes and while I was telling her how that attitude is bad, things happened and I ended up telling her to get out and hung up the phone. She blocked me immediately (WhatsApp and phone probably) and later unblocked me when I was having my birthday. She didn't send any birthday wishes. Ever since she has unblocked me, I just keep getting provoked every day by day.

The thing is I droped a complaint on this forum a while back and I was told to ghost her for sometime to reset her brain to default. Now, I want to ask if I should continue ghosting her now that she has unblocked me. I'm having a difficult time with it because I keep getting more angry as the day go buy and I just feel like blasting her with words she'll never forget... I just feel like fire right now.

Should I continue ghosting her or should I bomblast her? I just dey vex like mad.

Leave All Dis Ur Ghosting, Blasting & D Rest. Do U Still Love Her?

Truvel:
Leave All Dis Ur Ghosting, Blasting & D Rest. Do U Still Love Her?

If yes, then what?

auntyTania:


What do you mean I'm not sensitive?

Lol..Lol

Chai!

OP u dey kolo no be small

Nigga.....I mean real nighas are already lashing and hoeing ur so call holosho GF and u are here doing like an Arindin

Go get a life biko

Thattallgirl:
I understand. You've seen so many topics on Nairaland about married couples having serious issues? Do u desire to come here in years time and say similar things? The most toxic people are not so easy to let go in relationships (dating). I only pray you find it easy to let go and meet God's appointed partner for u. Every relationship has its own issues but the right partner will make it easier for you to manage with Jesus on your side. I wish you the best!

A catch u again

Cerebellum:


Lol..Lol

Chai!

OP u dey kolo no be small

Nigga.....I mean real nighas are already lashing and hoeing ur so call holosho GF and u are here doing like an Arindin

Go get a life biko

Damn! This is the last thing I want to hear.

Leave her alone,


If naj real thing dey sup between two of you she for don call,


She is not interested again dats all,


If I don't call any lady for two weeks and she will start calling me uf she really need me but if she didn't dat mean she don see better and mumu nigga

auntyTania:

If yes, then what?

Go To Her & Talk To Her. Talk To Her Like D Way U Would Talk To Ur Younger Sister.

auntyTania:

More like sometimes, she will just be mute while talking to her. No amount of cheering changes her mood. Plus, she will sometimes just act like a stranger. Some other times, she'll be pestering me everywhere. If while talking a slight misunderstanding should happen, her mood will just change and that's the end of the conversation for that day. I mean these things are things that happens in conversations and one is supposed to just laugh it off and continue talking. I've been trying to correct her for a long time. And the thing is if I don't call her, another wahala.

When reverse is the case, wahala too. This thing is making me sick and it's annoying. When I avoid her, she'll complain too.

Dump her childish ass. You don't need that kind of drama at this point in time in your life.