PastorandMentor:
Don't. I repeat don't. I'm suffering from such now. Don't Mr. Unless she is rich.
Don't marry a broke older woman.

Kindly share your experience for us to learn.

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sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

No big deal if you're matured enough to cope. Many have married older women and have no regrets. Everything depends on the people involved. You obviously love her. As long as she respects and loves you, you're good to go. Turn deaf ears to the amebos (tale bearers) and let it be known that you don't care. They'll learn to mind their business and let you be. Your life is yours to be lived to your maximum satisfaction and God's glory.

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Which Kain mumu mumu advice be dis na .......bro my uncle married an older woman dey ve 6 children .....infact na 10 yrs diffy and dey fucking love eachoda ...infact d woman respect am so tey she ask everything from my uncle ......bro u are super lucky ......if u go for d smalies and d trouble wey u come get big pass u nko ? Matured women are super understanding bro .....no listen to all dis mumu mumu talk ooooo.i married my wife against d wishes of everyone in my family.....na Dem dey rush us now cos she is super cool ....

PastorandMentor:
Don't. I repeat don't. I'm suffering from such now. Don't Mr. Unless she is rich.
Don't marry a broke older woman.

You are RIGHT.
She must have something to compensate for that.
LADIES also treat men likewise.
In Fact, they do it well.

POC, dating a woman 2 years older doesn't mean you are dating an older woman. As far as statistic is concerned, you guys are age group.

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

Adam was older than Eve, Abraham was 10 years older than Sarah.
Marrying older lady is against law of nature. Girls attain puberty earlier than boys. Women reach menopause around 50 years . Men can still father children even at 70 years.
If you are looking for a lady who will take care of you like jyour mum did. Look for a woman who is 20 years older than you. Just her as your mum and mother of your children .
Congratulations !!!!

generationz:


So you didn't know her age for 4 years?

It is well.

It is really well.

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

When you said older lady, I was looking at 5 to 10 years difference. Two years na may na. U hv no worries bro.

Dating for four years and it's now your asking this question? Well am married to one. Three kids together and we are the best couples in the world. Meanwhile, your two years gap is nothing compare to mine.

Op you're original Mumu, how can you get married to a woman 2 years older than you and still claim you love her. Wait till after 4 years of marriage and see if you'll still love her. Don't you know that women age at increasing rate while men at decreasing rate.

what do you mean by older lady? when I first saw older lady made it look like you're dating your mother's mate



I've dated ladies older than me with 7years before and all the younger ladies I dated end up being a pain in the butt for me, my woman is a year older than me but that doesn't mean she will disrespect me, she's a submissive person, let's assume she's not, no lady can disrespect me even if you're 6years older, I've never lose my Ctrl because I dey enjoy your vagina

ThEGodFaThEr101:
Op you're original Mumu, how can you get married to a woman 2 years older than you and still claim you love her. Wait till after 4 years of marriage and see if you'll still love her. Don't you know that women age at increasing rate while men at decreasing rate.

you're uninformed. a lady increasing and a man decreasing theorem is one of the absurd things I've ever read here


see giving birth early is one of the reflection of a lady's look, that's why I always laughed at all this career ladies, imagine you made money and you're still looking older than your mates


a lady that finished giving birth before she clocked 35-36years is tend to look ageless at least to a certain age. giving birth early is the secret behind ladies age look, not that your absurd belief

paul100:

I have thought of this before.Imagine you guys are quarelling and out of anger,she just say"Don't forget,we are not agemate" and her next words will be "sorry honey,I didn't mean that" ,I am so sorry,pls forgive me.

I perceive you are under 25.

The most important thing in ur relationship is love and understanding.

If u leave her for the younger ones, do u know what they re into?

Appreciate what u have make small child no go use ur heart play Ludo.

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

Nothing is wrong, the only problem is her immediate junior ( who may be your age mate) and her mother.
Check out if the two of them are comfortable with the relationship and will not give you troubles.
If either of the two are not comfortable, watch out for your woman reactions.
Best of luck.

Guy,my take is full speed ahead. Provided you guys are compatible. The only thing is that you have to notch up your comportment always. Think matured and act matured with self confidence.

Truth be told age is just a number in your mind. Yes there's biological factor in age, particularly in women but the age Gap is too thin to cause a stir. Find out if she truly respects you and willing to be lead by you as a man. Some ladies will not respect you once they know they are older. If yours is different then go ahead and thank me later...

If you knew age was going to be an issue in your relationship, maybe you should have broken it up a long time before now. Moreover, we don't know the lady. You know her better and if you're really in love with her like you claim, go ahead with your thing and if you are not.... please...meuveeee

Uniquekriss:
This is Africa and Nigeria, firstly, both families won't take it lightly, your self esteem won't remain intact, the man in you would always force itself to prove superiority which is supposed to happen naturally, her respect for you as the head would come with question marks, she'd wear out in your eyes shortly into the marriage, even younger girls do after few conceptions, you won't be bold enough to say it out that your wife is older than you're. There are so many ladies who are younger than you with such qualities as she possesses and so many men older than she is who could match her preferences in a man. Just let her be, except you both were born and bred abroad where such factors aren't considered.

What are u saying? U won go announce to the family her age?

Myhusband:



you're uninformed

It's better than being a Mumu. Your level of Mumu is unprecedented.

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

4 years and you still need to ask opinion on forum? Marry her or set her free to find someone else

fati2001:
CONGRATULATIONS

Ohhh Why?

Nigerian women age quickly so if you want to completely avoid that then marry a girl 25yrs younger.

Especially if you keep yourself fit

But if that's not possible then don't bother yourself.

If you are older than your wife by 5yrs she will look older than you by the time you are 70yrs

Kobicove:


The major con is that in the next 10 years she will likely be looking far older than you and you may be embarrassed to introduce her as your wife

I don't think there are any cons at all. There are also nothing much to look out for. She has all you want in a woman. Most stories of men who date older women seem to be interesting, especially when they share how satisfied they are in their relationship with them.

I am in a relationship with an older lady who is 7 years older than I am. Although, you won't tell the age difference much. She has all the qualities you described above. There's no cons at all. I love her and wouldn't wish for anything different.

If she is above 35, she give birth to slow children; the younger a woman, the sharper her children's brain

ThEGodFaThEr101:

It's better than being a Mumu. Your level of Mumu is unprecedented.

your existence as a human is a waste, you ought to be a prototype of robot with your absurdity theory


I doubt if you complete your elementary education

sKeetz:
I'm dating an older woman. The difference in our ages is just 2 years. She is everything a man can ever dream of.

She's very supportive. Doesn't bother me and let's me do my thing. She doesn't boss me or anything of sorts. She's also very independent, but the only thing that stresses me out is our age difference and it's quite obvious cause i even look quite younger than my age and she's quite matured both physically and mentally.

Are there any cons to marrying a lady that is older? Guys who are married to older ladies, are there any traits i should look out for ?

Ps: we've been dating for 4 years now, so its not like i just met her. So i know everything about her and she knows everything about me.

My wife is 4 months older than me. We have a great home. If this lady love and respect you, go ahead. Marry her.

Kobicove:


The major con is that in the next 10 years she will likely be looking far older than you and you may be embarrassed to introduce her as your wife

That's not true.

@oOP
Happy are you if your woman loves you.
Congratulations.
Send us the invite.

wolexy14:
Which Kain mumu mumu advice be dis na .......bro my uncle married an older woman dey ve 6 children .....infact na 10 yrs diffy and dey fucking love eachoda ...infact d woman respect am so tey she ask everything from my uncle ......bro u are super lucky ......if u go for d smalies and d trouble wey u come get big pass u nko ? Matured women are super understanding bro .....no listen to all dis mumu mumu talk ooooo.i married my wife against d wishes of everyone in my family.....na Dem dey rush us now cos she is super cool ....

Suffering and Smilling! Even you self know say na lie you dey lie. You're just trying to console yourself on the dilemma you've entered. Na like dis una dey take put people for trouble.

paul100:

I have thought of this before.Imagine you guys are quarelling and out of anger,she just say"Don't forget,we are not agemate" and her next words will be "sorry honey,I didn't mean that" ,I am so sorry,pls forgive me.

That kind of statement from her anyday and any time shouldn't bother you at all.
Watin you know no suppose dey pain u. You have to be mature in your emotions, else there will always be reasons .
Just focus on the feelings you have for each other. That's all.

The age matter shouldn't be an issue to you at all if you both have feelings for each other.
The only thing you should be worried about is if she refuse in doing some of the woman thing you truly love her for and vise vassal . And that is a normal medium for disagreement In any marriage regardless of the age differences.

ehinmowo:


What are u saying? U won go announce to the family her age?

if u take a woman to your parents as a wife to be and they don't know ask her age then it means they just told u OYO. It must be among d questions to ask.