Bride's Family, Maternal Uncles Fight Over Traditional Food; Destroy Items.

It was indeed, the most disgraceful day in the life of the bride (name withheld) whose traditional marriage took place yesterday at Tudun Amba, Lafia, the state capital of Nasarawa State.

The bride who should have seen the day of her traditional marriage as the happiest day of her life like any other lady intending to go to her husband's house, turned out undoubtedly, to be the worst day of her life.

Traditional marriage,according to Eggon culture, is usually characterized by the number of basins of cooked local beans and other items, forming a woman's bride price— most of which are very outrageous and humongous.

Sadly yesterday, the bride price items usually seen as the pride of every parent and every woman as it brings honour to both the parents and their daughter who is being cleaved by a man to become husband and wife, were destroyed yesterday.

Sources at the traditional marriage event disclosed that the Eggon bride and her Ibo groom were celebrating and dancing to the rhythmic Eggon local music when a vicious argument broke out between the bride's father and her maternal uncles.

According to the sources, the bride's uncles insisted that the number of basins of traditional food required, usually in the form of local beans(Ebekpyen) were not complete.

While they could not resolve their argument amicably, the bride's father had no other option than to order that all the basins of the traditional food,including the contended ones by the bride's maternal uncles, be shared to everybody at the occasion. This got the bride's maternal uncles infuriated, resulting to a serious rumble or fight, pouring on the ground the basins of the traditional food and breaking all other things to a scathe.

It was also gathered that the bride's mother fainted as a result of the show of shame.

The bride who remained the only person in her family a proper traditional marriage was ever done on her head, assisted immensely her would-be-husband with many of the items for the traditional food,as well as other things to ensure proper bride price was paid on her in order to make her parents proud,but this turned shame instead.

The issue of bride price among the Eggon ethnic group of Nasarawa state has been in the front burner for decades with efforts initiated by the Paramount ruler of Eggon nation with a view to slicing down the humongous dowry paid on Eggon ladies in order to avoid the existing rumble and enigma surrounding the pride price of Eggon ladies, that forced some or many of them unmarried. But the efforts of the Eggon Paramount ruler only proved abortive. There was wide condemnation on that decision, especially from many quarters of Eggon people, with most of them protesting that the Eggon Paramount ruler didn't give birth to their daughters on their behalf and so,he should not decide on their daughters' bride prices.

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I'm yet to see a wedding abroad where the rice cooked is plenty than the attendees.

Wahala.
can this country give someone just one 1 1 1 only one joyful news?

on top beans soaked in Palm oil

Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright.....
Them for settle the issue amicably
For those maternal uncles....haha
I know how it hurts and feels sometimes seeing the father taking glory for the success of the girl...suddenly deciding what need to be done
Whereas the maternal uncles probably were the ones who took care of that girl...

Igbankpa:
Uncle weh no Know how pikin take grow go come deh form actor wedding day. some traditions sef deh somehow no doubt our forefathers no use clear eyes take establish them

Ogbeni nor talk so....in Bini here the children of our sisters are fond of us and always need our help...
This is to say children always disturb the family of their mother than that of their father
Infact they run to thier mothers family easily for any little problem..so it is possible those uncles were the one who ensure she becomes somebody in life but now the fathers family are trying to take the glory

bibbiana:
on top beans soaked in Palm oil

With no ingredients inside. That's their cultural food.
Just beans and either goat meat or Pig meat that's all

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright

This one is not alright ooo.
Na brutality casting.

chatinent:
I'm yet to see a wedding abroad where the rice cooked is plenty than the attendees.

uhmm

Uncle weh no Know how pikin take grow go come deh form actor wedding day. some traditions sef deh somehow no doubt our forefathers no use clear eyes take establish them

BECAUSE OF FOOD!

BECAUSE OF FOOD!!

BECAUSE OF FOOD!!!


You destroy lovely couples marriage ... CHAIIIII

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright.....
Them for settle the issue amicable
For those maternal uncles....haha
I know how it hurts and feels sometimes seeing the father taking glory for the success of the girl...suddenly deciding what need to be done
Whereas the maternal uncles probably were the ones who took care of that girl...

Ogbeni nor talk so....in Bini here the children of our sisters are fond of us and always need our help...
This is to say children always disturb the family of their mother than that of their father
Infact they run to thier mothers family easily for any little problem..so it is possible those uncles were the one who ensure she becomes somebody in life but not the fathers family are trying to take the glory

ogbeni read that writeup the girl papa never even die weh d uncles deh do rubbish. all this one na hungry uncle's ( may we not turn out to be hungry Uncle's fighting for basin of beans on our nieces wedding day) normal level if our niece or nephew need our help we go assist no mean say we go set mouth deh wait to cashout wedding day. My pman don mud for long my uncle's no deh try..no be say I day ask for money or say make them carry our matter for head like gala, something as little as calling to ask how we deh dem no fit for so many years but na when my elder sister wan marry them start quote tradition and the powers it confers on them regarding marital rites.

All because of stupendous bride price somebody cannot marry in peace again

Mheen

Liposure:
All because of bride price somebody cannot marry in peace again

E shock u ba.

:I'm yet to see a wedding abroad where the rice cooked is plenty than the attendees.uhmm

Why is the bride's uncle dragging that innocent cock like that.

Liposure:
All because of stupendous bride price somebody cannot marry in peace again

all because of BEANS

aʟʟ tɦɨs ċʀaք ɮʀɨɖɛ քʀɨċɛ tʀaɖɨtɨօռaʟ sɦɨʟ**t
օʊʀ ʍʊʍʊ ռɛʋɛʀ ɖօ ɨռ 9ʝa
ɦօա ʍaռʏ օʏɨռɮօ ɖɛʏ ċօʟʟɛċt ɮʀɨɖɛ քʀɨċɛ ʊռքaռɖaռ ʟɨҡɛ tɦɨs❓❓
ɨʄ tաօ քɛօքʟɛ ʟօʋɛ ɛaċɦ օtɦɛʀ աɦʏ ċaռ't ɖɛʏ aʟʟօա tɦɛʍ tօ ʟɨʋɛ tօɢɛtɦɛʀ քɛaċɛʄʊʟ tɦaռ ɮɨʟʟɨռɢ tɦɛʍ ɨռ tɦɛ ռaʍɛ օʄ ɮʀɨɖɛ քʀɨċɛ քօʋɛʀtʏ ʍɛռtaʟɨtʏ❓❓
ʟօʋɛ ɨs ċօstʟʏ ɨռ tɦɨs քaʀt օʄ tɦɛ աօʀʟɖ
ʟօʋɛ aɨռ't ռatʊʀaʟ ataʟʟ
ɨ ɖօռ't tɦɨռҡ ɨ աɨʟʟ ɢɛt ʍaʀʀɨɛɖ օʀ sɦ**t ʟɨҡɛ tɦɨs ռa ɮaɮʏ ʍaʍa sʊʀɛ քass
ʍʏ ռatʊʀɛ ռօ ɢօ աɨtɦ tɦɨs sɦ**t ɨռ 9ʝa
ɨ ʍaʏɮɛ a ռɨɢɛʀɨaռ ɮʊt tɦɛʀɛ aʀɛ sօʍɛ ʄ**ċҡɨռɢ sɦɨt ɨ աօռ't aċċɛքt, ɛʋɛռ ɨռ ʍʏ ċʊʟtʊʀɛ օʀ աɛstɛʀռ ċʊʟtʊʀɛ
ɨ օռʟʏ ɖօ ʍʏ tɦɨռɢs ʍʏ աaʏ
ɨ ɢat tɦɨռɢs tօ aċɦɨɛʋɛ ɨռ ʟɨʄɛ tɦaռ aռʏ ʄ**ċҡɨռɢ "ʍaʀʀɨaɢɛ tɦɨs ʍaʀʀɨaɢɛ tɦat"
aռʏաaʏs,tɦat's աɦʏ ɨ ʟɨҡɛ ɨռɖɨa աɛɖɖɨռɢ

Igboro ti Daru. Are they that hungry