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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Gabbriell: 3:05pm On Nov 30, 2020

They say, A MAN WHO DOESN'T HAVE MONEY TO MARRY SAYS ALL WOMEN ARE WITCHES.

In a simple form: WHETHER A WOMAN IS GOOD OR NOT HAS 70% TO DO WITH U.

So ask yourself this question:
AM I A GOOD HUSBAND?.

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by petitejolie(f): 3:06pm On Nov 30, 2020

It’s good to be intentional about what u want not just entering in between d legs of ladies by mistake. There are good wife materials I tell you. Don’t listen to all dis ones saying hoes or watever ain’t loyal wen dey are only interested in having varying sex partners of course dey will find whores like demselves. But with this Precise and straightforward mindset u will find just look in d right places. What’s your age range

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Nobody: 3:07pm On Nov 30, 2020

Not so hard but, open ur eyes wide when chosen life partner, don't focus too much on outward appearance, invest in ur marriage and make sure you let her knw ur takes and dislikes right from the very beginning of ur relationship.

You also need steady income to power marriage, don't have kids ur income would not be able to take care adequately, you too should discipline enough on extramarital affairs.

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by anthonyuncle(m): 3:07pm On Nov 30, 2020

stop analysing boobs & asses

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by MadeMan01(m): 3:08pm On Nov 30, 2020

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Nobody: 3:08pm On Nov 30, 2020

Funkyswagzz:
This is roughly a year and four months I have decided to find someone to marry. It's been so dramatic all along and I'm getting tried already. I want a woman who I am compatible with. I don't need anyone that is hot tempered or stubborn. I want a woman that is hard workin who loves me the way i am. Is it so difficult to find? I came out from a crazy relationship and I don't want to experience something like that anymore. I don't want issues all the time.

The funny thing happening at the moment is that am "tryin to"(still at the process) date my ex's high school mate. The way our part crossed again was just ironic. Sometimes I feel stupid for tryin to date her tho she's not the reason why we broke up. Salute to those that got married. Abeg how una take do am..

Bro, not really hard as such, sometimes, you may need to try a few tricks, or do few lifestyle changes

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Funkyswagzz(m): 3:08pm On Nov 30, 2020

SweetCunt97:
So what's the rush for? Kids? Companion? Tired of kongi? Getting ooold?

I just need a companion. Also everyone in my family is married and I dont be left out.

Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Nobody: 3:08pm On Nov 30, 2020

Funkyswagzz:
This is roughly a year and four months I have decided to find someone to marry. It's been so dramatic all along and I'm getting tried already. I want a woman who I am compatible with. I don't need anyone that is hot tempered or stubborn. I want a woman that is hard workin who loves me the way i am. Is it so difficult to find? I came out from a crazy relationship and I don't want to experience something like that anymore. I don't want issues all the time.

The funny thing happening at the moment is that am "tryin to"(still at the process) date my ex's high school mate. The way our part crossed again was just ironic. Sometimes I feel stupid for tryin to date her tho she's not the reason why we broke up. Salute to those that got married. Abeg how una take do am..

Why not invest your WEALTH & Time in something more reasonable till you find a brainy Lady..
You don't really need a woman to succeed, but when you succeed a Woman can bring you down.
Som Ladies can also bcom hurdles 2wards ur success.
So, better take all your RISKS towards self-actualization of dreams before cleaving to one.
Only FEW LADIES are solution providers.
So be very very careful, before you leap.
Ur mates are marrying shouldn't be the issue here

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by seemegold: 3:08pm On Nov 30, 2020

how are you sure you are a good man any lady will like to marry? you will always come by a wrong woman cos you are also a wrong man. check yourself before searching for a wife.

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Elxandre(m): 3:09pm On Nov 30, 2020

If you care about modesty and core womanly values, it's tough I suppose.
But again, the modest intelligent women are often less flashy and many guys don't even see them. lipsrsealed

Just keep living your life and evaluate yourself. I think you have to be at least close to the type of person you seek.

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by lekki1444: 3:09pm On Nov 30, 2020

brother, women are punishment for men. once you understnd that you will stop looking for a good woman but will start to make your way good and righteous with God, then God will tame your woman and will let her be at peace with you. but to think there is a peaceful woman out there is foolishness. they are luna beings aka lunatic. only God can tame your woman for you and that is incumbent on you taming yourself first

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by KLand(m): 3:10pm On Nov 30, 2020

Pray for a wife from God.

Be ready to be a husband.

Don't demand what you can't give.

Stop test-running and focus on finding a wife.

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Angelfrost(m): 3:10pm On Nov 30, 2020

botrix:

I THINK IT IS HARD TO GET COS I JUST LOST MY SUPPOSED WIFE TO ANOTHER MAN BECOS OF MONEY AFTER 9YEARS OF SUFFERING

She was never truly yours then... She had her path to follow, and you simply were not compatible. It doesn't matter how long it took her to realize this.

This doesn't exactly make her a bad woman... You should equally thank God cos it could have been worse!!! She might have kept on managing and acting along, only to be unfaithful in marriage.

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Seyzcham91(m): 3:10pm On Nov 30, 2020

talk true! right lady no dey close anyone and ni even dey anywhere again cuz the person ln you see as right today will change story for you in no time

Sundrus:
Very hard oh...cuz life no be bed of roses. Marriage institution no be beans oh. Na why many people don dropout from the institution. Sometimes the thing wey we dey find the most hardly come to us, bcuz we dey always focus on the wrong direction. Wetin we dey find for sokoto fit dey our shokoto. Channel ur mind-eye properly, the right lady dey close to u.

Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Thattallgirl(f): 3:11pm On Nov 30, 2020

I heard from an elderly person that the prayers intending couples should pray is this:
For the man: Ask God for His appointed woman for u and watch out for a lady who has similar aspirations, beliefs and purpose in life as you.
For the woman: Ask God also for His appointed man for you, a man who will love you as Christ loves the church. Also watch out for a man with similar beliefs, aspirations and purpose in life as you.

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Seyzcham91(m): 3:11pm On Nov 30, 2020

haha

Abouwaza:
A year and 4 months ? And u dey complain

20 years here bro

Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Nobody: 3:12pm On Nov 30, 2020

Zzor:
I hope you posses exactly what you are looking for in a woman? you can not be a man LovePeddler and expect to get a good woman, no ooo, it won't work that way. May you find your type soon

Dont mind him, if he is Godly, God will direct him to Godly woman.

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Seyzcham91(m): 3:12pm On Nov 30, 2020

nice choice!

Oluromantic:
God bless your wisdom. You aren't married yet but you are on the right path thinking properly. Compatibility is very important and germane. I still wonder how some girls think they can reach the depth of a man's heart with lack of respect and submission. Honestly it baffles me, even nature is confused because that's not God's original plan. Well they say some men like it, that's why I don't argue it at all. I was once in such a relationship too, she was impatient intolerant and always want all my decision to be about her in the name of caring. I couldn't cope I had to opt out. I boldly told her to her face that we had to quit. She asked why, I said we're not compatible. She left with dramatic grudges which included calls, chats, utmost rudeness, abuses etc. I felt emotional trauma at first but today I'm thanking God for the decision. I have peace of mind.

Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by when2(f): 3:12pm On Nov 30, 2020

[quote author=EdoFirstBorn post=96575017]Yes too hard because 99% are whôres
Materialistic, manipulative, pathological lairs

Most of them have lost what makes them women that's why when you are with them you quickly feel the need to exit that conversation or just have her leave.

They feel like men ... Yurk

They are a lost course.. that's why you have so many over aged unmarried women in Nigeria

I predict that in the coming years more and more of these over aged women will become nuns .

[/qurote]

Including the females in your family. Good to hear!

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by baby124: 3:14pm On Nov 30, 2020

wisdomiskey:

E pain am
SweetCunt97, Zzor & baby124 are all the same person.

Not at all. Only 1 Baby124 on NL.

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by MrNipplesLover(m): 3:14pm On Nov 30, 2020

planetx13:

Exactly, thank God you know everyone must move with his/her class.... So stop looking for a rich, decent, real man when you are a broke, ill-mannered biitch.....

Ciao

savage dawg. cheesy

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by bigman001(m): 3:16pm On Nov 30, 2020

Funkyswagzz:
This is roughly a year and four months I have decided to find someone to marry. It's been so dramatic all along and I'm getting tried already. I want a woman who I am compatible with. I don't need anyone that is hot tempered or stubborn. I want a woman that is hard working who loves me the way i am. Is it so difficult to find? I came out from a crazy relationship and I don't want to experience something like that anymore. I don't want issues all the time.

The funny thing happening at the moment is that am "tryin to"(still at the process) date my ex's high school mate. The way our part crossed again was just ironic. Sometimes I feel stupid for tryin to date her tho she's not the reason why we broke up. Salute to those that got married. Abeg how una take do am..

My brother you cant have it all , just pray over it. Not every married couple you see smiling always makes you think everything is just fine, Na lie , we dey patch am ni. you must have a high level of tolerance, respect and love for your partner . There is nothing like a perfect human being , just have patient with her and try grooming her to your taste, thou its extremely difficult doing such knowing fully well you both have different back ground and was raised by different people from different environment / community .

I wish you all the best in your search but always remember to pray about it. He no easy as you think am bro ...

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by jaxxy(m): 3:17pm On Nov 30, 2020

Funkyswagzz:
This is roughly a year and four months I have decided to find someone to marry. It's been so dramatic all along and I'm getting tried already. I want a woman who I am compatible with. I don't need anyone that is hot tempered or stubborn. I want a woman that is hard workin who loves me the way i am. Is it so difficult to find? I came out from a crazy relationship and I don't want to experience something like that anymore. I don't want issues all the time.

The funny thing happening at the moment is that am "tryin to"(still at the process) date my ex's high school mate. The way our part crossed again was just ironic. Sometimes I feel stupid for tryin to date her tho she's not the reason why we broke up. Salute to those that got married. Abeg how una take do am..

Don’t go out looking for a wife u will be misled even by ur own emotion go out looking for a friend. Genuine Friendship is the best foundation for a relationship.

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by macjireh: 3:19pm On Nov 30, 2020

Zzor:
I hope you posses exactly what you are looking for in a woman? you can not be a man LovePeddler and expect to get a good woman, no ooo, it won't work that way. May you find your type soon

Y not marry him? He needs a wife and u need a husband,,, two of u may be good for each oda,,who knows?

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by drLammy(m): 3:19pm On Nov 30, 2020

All I knw is A woman who wudnt go the traditional way with you doesn't deserve the traditional priviledges

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by studentofTruth: 3:19pm On Nov 30, 2020

Thattallgirl:
I heard from an elderly person that the prayers intending couples should pray is this:
For the man: Ask God for His appointed woman for u and watch out for a lady who has similar aspirations, beliefs and purpose in life as you.
For the woman: Ask God also for His appointed man for you, a man who will love you as Christ loves the church. Also watch out for a man with similar beliefs, aspirations and purpose in life as you.

You pray all the prayers and know the qualities you are looking for, but the problem is that all the women that tick those boxes you meet are either married or in serious relationships. What do you do?

Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by phorget(m): 3:19pm On Nov 30, 2020

If I talk ehen!

Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by CaraJewel(f): 3:21pm On Nov 30, 2020

Are there still good men?

Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Angelfrost(m): 3:23pm On Nov 30, 2020

Funkyswagzz:

I just need a companion. Also everyone in my family is married and I dont be left out.

Just as I thought... Pressure!!!

Desperation to marry and settle down all in a bid to belong will end in tears.

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by mrdharkchild(m): 3:23pm On Nov 30, 2020

A good woman isn't just hard to find, they actually don't exist.

Just pick your own wolf to marry.

Or choose to pay girls to bear u a child and stay d Bleep off

For those that love the December vibes,
My birthday is tomorrow o.

1st Dec, 199?

I need people to know.
I need birthday messages, that's all.
Thanks in advance. kiss

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Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Pweetyccee(f): 3:25pm On Nov 30, 2020

Re: Is It So Hard To Find A Good Woman To Marry? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Nov 30, 2020

helinues:
Probably you have been going to wrong places.

If you are really serious and have the financial strength, within 6 months you should see better girl to date/marry.

Just make sure you stick to your love map

But, if you get some bad attitudes that are somehow unknown to you, trust me, nobody wants future calamity

So financial strength is ur yardstick to get good woman, I pity ur type!
Even though you need income to oil relationship machinery yet never a yard stick.

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