Abouwaza:
A year and 4 months ? And u dey complain

20 years here bro

Angelfrost:


Just as I thought... Pressure!!!

Desperation to marry and settle down all in a bid to belong will end in tears.

studentofTruth:
Extremely hard o. Seriously searching. Wahala for an introvert who needs a loyal better half.

EVILFOREST:

Why not invest your WEALTH & Time in something more reasonable till you find a brainy Lady..
You don't really need a woman to succeed, but when you succeed a Woman can bring you down.
Som Ladies can also bcom hurdles 2wards ur success.
So, better take all your RISKS towards self-actualization of dreams before cleaving to one.
Only FEW LADIES are solution providers.
So be very very careful, before you leap.
Ur mates are marrying shouldn't be the issue here

Fussion1000:


So financial strength is ur yardstick to get good woman, I pity ur type!
Even though you need income to oil relationship machinery it never a yard stick.

Angelfrost:


She was never truly yours then... She had her path to follow, and you simply were not compatible. It doesn't matter how long it took her to realize this.

This doesn't exactly make her a bad woman... You should equally thank God cos it could have been worse!!! She might have kept on managing and acting along, only to be unfaithful in marriage.

botrix:


I THINK IT IS HARD TO GET COS I JUST LOST MY SUPPOSED WIFE TO ANOTHER MAN BECOS OF MONEY AFTER 9YEARS OF SUFFERING

helinues:


What was your argument about?

MadeMan01:
My brother it is hard.
That is my exact predicament. The simple truth is that Nigerian economy is so harsh that it has made people put a monetary value on everything even love.
My predicament is I met a lovely girl three years ago whilst working. She was in her final year then and just completed NYSC. I lost my job in first trimester of last year. But before my girl left for NYSC in November 2019, I was getting some unsavoury vibes from her. I asked her about it she didn't speak out. But as a guy, I suspected the stress of me being jobless played a role. Prior to this, the girl told me she wants to go o Canada and for this reason i started Canada moves.
Can you believe, this lady couldn't even wait for the outcome of the process despite knowing how far I'd gone with application and frequent teasing me about seeing her folks which I planned for December 2020. She messaged me in February 2020 to break it off for some guy in Abuja.
Fast forward to November 2020, Canada visa has clicked and the girl that should be enjoying it is nowhere around me. I really love her. My brain tells me to leave her, my heart says go back to her forgive her stupidity after all she planted the seed of Canada in my head. Also I have two bank job offers.
I am considering leaving her, going to Canada and getting a Canadian woman but a part of me holds her dear. I know Nigerian poverty caused her to make that decision. But my concern is whether she would have learnt her lesson and won't give up on me in Future joint project no matter how hard

Fussion1000:


Financial strength is not the yardstick to get good woman ooo, if its so, sooo many rich men all over the world that their marriages scatter won't be experience collapse in marriages.

Zzor:
I hope you posses exactly what you are looking for in a woman? you can not be a man LovePeddler and expect to get a good woman, no ooo, it won't work that way. May you find your type soon

Funkyswagzz:


Bro I have a business that am running and profitable one

deewhydoski:

My brother I have been in ur shoes for more than a year now, I just keep meeting frogs. Majority of them don't love me truly, na because of what they will get from me.

helinues:


To start the planning of marriage, no be money go involve?

Wedding itself, it's all about money.

After wedding even before kids, standard of living must be raised which all required money.

So yeah, financial strength is important

Fussion1000:



Oga its not all about money pls, am very sure you still a single, not only single you lack experience on relationship with women too, when you grow you will understand, I put it for you why rich people marriages keep collapsing you still adamant and insist on money. If you keep arguing blindly I leave you for experience to teach you properly, after all we like to experience from our own bitter experience rather than advice, bye

Just make sure you stick to your love map

EdoFirstBorn:
Yes too hard because 99% are whôres
Materialistic, manipulative, pathological lairs

Traininghub:
Not woman, rather, someone! No be only women bad.

Funkyswagzz:


I just need a companion. Also everyone in my family is married and I dont be left out.

Funkyswagzz:
This is roughly a year and four months I have decided to find someone to marry. It's been so dramatic all along and I'm getting tried already. I want a woman who I am compatible with. I don't need anyone that is hot tempered or stubborn. I want a woman that is hard workin who loves me the way i am. Is it so difficult to find? I came out from a crazy relationship and I don't want to experience something like that anymore. I don't want issues all the time.

The funny thing happening at the moment is that am "tryin to"(still at the process) date my ex's high school mate. The way our part crossed again was just ironic. Sometimes I feel stupid for tryin to date her tho she's not the reason why we broke up. Salute to those that got married. Abeg how una take do am..

ThEGodFaThEr101:

From your comment alone it's clear you're a very bad girl.

SpicyMimi:

I also thought it was extremely difficult to find a good man, until I involved God and submitted totally to him by abiding to His Laws. After series of prayers, I prayed to meet my husband within a time limit of 1month, just exactly 2days to the end of that month, God brought him into my life.

Do not underestimate the power of God Almighty, Trust Him for a Spouse, do not pick one on your own.