Hassanmaye:

Hahha me yayi zafi ne Oga ko Kaima wata Tama kusa ne?

Ikillbrokehoes:
Wannan shegiya yarinyar zzor, wawiya ne walahi.

Zzor:
Why the need to act broke? for what exactly? Nigerian men and their anyhow mentality. Act or fake broke and watch me leave your sorry ass when I find out, rubbish

Nuttella:
Does suffering equate for being a wife material? What kind of poverty mentality is that?

OdefaGirl:
If you try me with this kind of test... you will completely fail, because if I love you, I love you and nothing can stop that.
And if you must act broke with me, you won't act lazy..... being broke doesn't make one lazy.

djon78:



Bros in this game of life
God honestly allows misfortune to come your way so that you will become wiser and know that almost everyone that's smiling and claiming your friends ain't one bit.


I personally learnt this important lesson.
Those I called friends, and close associates changed when I went through misfortune for a season.

I got the wisdom.

Minus my parents, siblings and very few people I call friends. I don't do close associates again even past friends.

Presently a bit by bit, I am coming into my glory and I am now realizing why billionaires, the super rich and the highly placed in the society don't have so much friends and associates and appear snubish.


It's because they realized that only just few people on Earth are your personal people. Every other person are around because of what they can get. So they act much wiser

This taught me a great lesson
Some say I am snubish now
But I really love, enjnd relish that tag

gracegrace668:


In other words, you've decided to marry her due to her willingness to suffer even though she is not your actual first choice? Lol. If only she knows what she is getting into...

Truth be told, when and if you become financially stable, you will still run after other women outside whom you consider your standard. Write this down.

Hassanmaye:


Oh my God where can I meet a lady that reason like this, God when? Abeg send me her number Biko

Godada:





Well I am feel compelled to drop my input here.

I may seem callous but who suffer epp?
Na who see fish wey dem put for im mouth, e spit am troway?

It's high time guys understand how these things work. You don't slither into a relationship when you wallet is as flat as mama Femi bedroom slippers booby.

You don't force people into relationships and make them suffer. Ever wondered why the rich marry the rich? Everyone wants financial security.

Brothers, make una go update una sef and stop screaming women love money.

No daughter of mine is going to marry a pauper


My G below get no chill. If you dey work and you see better job, you nor go update?

WrittyWritter:


But it is not fair..u suffer with a man and when he makes it..he goes outside and spend on other ladies leaving u to suffer..it happened to my mom..so I know what I'm saying..u think it does not pain d woman..and if not 4 d children it will be like she suffered in vain.

Dat is y my mom also suffered 4 us. .so dat we won't suffer 4 any man

inumidun2010:


who said something about me Golddigging.... lols, she herself said it... I Dont request money from women.. I no be Dangote, but I be Spec...
lols... How many Nigerian ladies know something about investment, Are you telling me taking a lady out every weekend is Investment...
Taaaaaaah... Na dem full shiloh pass, thank God Shiloh is around the corner, we dey see dem every year coming out last day of shiloh because of husband,
let me tell you what's special about this lady that is absent in Girls(Nigerians)I've met oh I forgot to tell u she's older than me....She's always talking about Useful things and not just food, clothes , shopping bla bla....
I see many single beautiful girls in my church( living faith) and I keep asking why are these pretty creatures single... I got the shocker of my life last 2 Sundays when a single lady I thought is a marriage material Fought aggressively in church after service.... Moya look away

greymiles:
Girl leave you to upgrade u dey cry
Men are not like this before but these days men have turned to cry babies.
A lady break up with a guy, he runs to social media to cry and gather sympathy

If u dey work for fuel station and chevron give u appointment, u go wait?

See this coming year, add it to your prayers that nobody should not use poverty to test you

RedPanthar:




Continue that snubbishness abeg you. What matters is results and peace of mind.

OcVoice:
Had a similar case. Everything was going well till I lost my job. She couldn't adjust cos she was used to enjoyment. We were going for our marriage course, I had done introduction sef. She just woke up one morning and decided to break ties with me. She aborted the pregnancy.

I had since moved on though.


I don't know what happened to the girls of our time. Our moms suffered well with our dads without complain. Love was REAL and TRUE then. It was beyond money.

God will help our generation!

Psych412:
wow

you attend winners chapel.


I'm a winner too.

LovesickG:
Not all girls are like that. I spent more than half of my scholarship fund on my ex, well, he spent and I didn't object.
Not all Nigerian girls are leeches, some are willing to help you grow, sometimes at the detriment of their own growth.

apple30:
this things abt guys n ladies r 50/50 ,a gal go crazy abt a guy d guy take her for granted she got harden ,anoda guy came loving her she takes him for granted too,d cycle keep going..d problem is pple don't love who love them,when a guy find lady dat love him he becomes an Alpha man,if d guy find a harden lady DAT he love he becomes a simp

Tozic:


It isn't bad if a guy act broke. You know we have vultures that feed on d labour of another animal's. Instead of fighting and struggling to look for how to survive, they settle for the labour of those that have done a superb job.

Nuel4:
you talk like a child who has never experienced anything in life.

Mitsurugi:
That's how I married my wife. She was the first lady to tell me to return my father's car and start taking transport till I buy my OWN. Predictably fair weather chics fled . She even gave me T. Fare to keep on at a job that was owing me till I got a better one. Bought me gifts too. That was when I knew she was THE ONE. I married her without a job, we slept on the floor for the first few months. But today, our home is a pride and I bought that my own car and I don't think it when it comes to spending on her. And yes, she's a Nigerian Igbo woman Jumoke is right because some specie of slay things we have these days ehn...

greymiles:
Girl leave you to upgrade u dey cry
Men are not like this before but these days men have turned to cry babies.
A lady break up with a guy, he runs to social media to cry and gather sympathy

If u dey work for fuel station and chevron give u appointment, u go wait?

See this coming year, add it to your prayers that nobody should not use poverty to test you

djon78:



See I am telling you it's the koko
All the so called friends and associates
You find out they have no iota of value they add to your life
So why have such time wasters around you

Results and peace of mind indeed
That's why the rich are snubish
They understand the whole play

inumidun2010:


hope say u no get chin chin 4 head... U look like those girls in my church... Papa don preach tire, una no go change.... Na fine face with Ugly character I fear pass... but anyways BREAKING LIMITS greetings to you....
from next week Na TURN AROUND GREETINGS

Nuel4:
you talk like a child who has never experienced anything in life.

kambili999:
Why are u guys so quick to tagging all Nigerian ladies as gold diggers?
Yes, some ladies are more interested in the money of guys but some just want someone who will give them peace, love and respect

Its really not fair on the side of ladies who work hard and pay their bills


Women generally love to be cared for but not every girl is after money.

Some nigerian ladies are very contented and even encourage men to be their best


Thats if you want to be fair in your judgement

Ogaonos:
sharapp.there.gold digger..if u be guy and Ur thinking is money buy true love and happy marriage I pity u.in every marriage of 20 to 30yrs there always a time where money no go too dey.esp. in Nigeria economic nature.that when u knw whether u get wife or stranger.

Toks2008:


If I were you I will bail her out now by advising her to strive for financial independence so that she won't make it a do or die thing to be with a rich guy...

Wealth is a continuum and most young guys in their late 20s or early 30s are still developing their wealth so it will be unrealistic for her to make that a criterion

Bizibi:
she knows her worth because he is a cleaner.... wonderful!!

RedPanthar:




Some of us didn't learn till we hit the rocks. Took me total loss of my entire livelihood to understand friends are simply enemies in disguise sticking around to steal anything beneficial they find

Zzor:
No need for all that

djon78:



See
Don't ever give up
You will bounce back
But whatever happened
Is a great lesson for you

I was grateful for what I went through
It made me extremely wise
Most people around us
Have no value they are adding
And the earlier folks learn that
The better for them
Especially if your aim is for the top most of the food chain
Not mediocrity or Just living ordinary life
If you are meant the top
You need those lessons