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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by femi4: 9:03am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful
1. Move forward

2. Occupy yourself....get busy, get in the midst of friends

3. Remove any form of her memory in your surroundings e.g phone no, pix, social media acct

4. Get a passion and chase it!

5. Replace her

Nobody is indispensable and irreplaceable
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Seyzcham91(m): 9:04am On Dec 05, 2020
The same way every other victims of heartbreaks survive it so shall you!

Heartbreak is heartbreak regardless of the duration and this should train and prepare you about changes to make about females dealings

It's Time you wisen up and awake from your 6years slumber. These naija girls aint loyal and girls in the world as a whole

like i always said "don't take any girl serious, don't even try to be commited to any even if you felt she feels the same, i tell you it'a all scam" girls no longer love individual but the benefits they get from that person, thats how they keep choping every man here and there, they are like mosquitoes looking for blood to suck
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Obc1234(m): 9:09am On Dec 05, 2020
chinchonglee:

Ahh!
So cheating makes you feel guilty?
Ahh!

Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by placeofallure(f): 9:09am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:


Are you sure, there is happiness elsewhere for me?


Sure there is. We may think we have the best and so do not desire anything else until that supposedly best is taken away forcefully just for our eyes to open and see the vast expanse of stupendously beáutiful blessings lying in front of us.

I've never been heartbroken in relationships but I know it can be disappointing. You just have to take heart bro and brace up for the next challenge. You will meet your own.

While waiting for your own, do a self appraisal. Are there things she complains about that are genuinely negative? Work on making yourself a better person such that any lady will feel in luck to be dating you. Good luck.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by ItzWilly(m): 9:14am On Dec 05, 2020
Henryfour:
guy wen my own hppended I wanted to die. Cuz I dated her for 6yrs.pay her school fees. Buh since I relocated to Lag, I met Gr8 gals, who are working and I v seen a gal 1000 times betta Dan her. I'm now happy. Get busy n tink of all thinks u hate abt her. I now see her as notin na God I dey greet for making her to leave me



haha dis one pay skul fees for girl...!..i just dey wonder how you guys dey manage to dey enter all diz dia smellin' pussy traps!
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by ItzWilly(m): 9:17am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:


Every waking day seems like it just happened the previous day, that's my fear




haba OP sef na SIMP!
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by thatsleepboy1: 9:29am On Dec 05, 2020
nnamdico82:
AKuya,nlefu anuofia

mma gị, mpa gi, ndị ụlọ ụnụ nílé, wu ndị ara, agavu bu ihé jụrụ n'ezinolu gị.
adaka na enweghị ịsị
onye apari
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by thatsleepboy1: 9:30am On Dec 05, 2020
Morenikeji070:
You this motherfucker nitwit fuckoff dumbass

awọn òbí é nitwit

morenidara, moreniomoale, morenialailogbon

oloshi ara e
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Wolexdey(m): 9:32am On Dec 05, 2020
Sorry... Run to JESUS CHRIST...He loves you

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by mekuso89(m): 9:33am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:


Are you sure, there is happiness elsewhere for me?
yes there is, at first it will seem like there's no hope for happiness and you will feel like you are gonna get stuck in the situation but time is there for you and for us all, time is the highest miracle God gave to mankind

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by 2016easy2017: 9:34am On Dec 05, 2020
The heart is a strong insatiable organ.
When it wants something, it wants nothing else but that. Even if that is bad.
When it wants something in a particular time, it wants it not later.

The only people who fight of this are
Those who'd prepared this would happen one-day
Those who'd been prepared for this
Those who quickly as a matter of urgency, look for one else
And most those who don't play with marriages.they quickly get Wed to a lady, soonest as they meet.

Chose one
6 yrs was too much
She would break hearts else hers would be broken in due course.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Maobichek: 9:35am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:


Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her...

Why? Why?? Why what did you see in the other girl that she doesn't have? Were you in a no-sex relationship with her that made you cheat on her? Does she give you sex only when you buy her a gift or give her money? My brother, sex is not everything, as you said earlier that she is understanding type, that is a great features not just sex. it's quite unfortunate that majority of our girls believe that sex is the only and most important thing a man want from them. You have really lost something good but don't kill yourself OK, Avoid staying alone and engage in things that makes you happy. Since the relationship is over, be bold and delete her pictures and numbers from your phone and your house. send me a mail or send me your number so that we can talk or chat privately, thank you and take care, you will be fine OK.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by pacificom: 9:35am On Dec 05, 2020
Mr. Lovalova ! let it go bro, a lady you left six years ago must have shagging other guys. Stop being a slave of love There are many fishes in the river,waiting for fisherman like you to catch them. The singles market is reloaded everyday as long as your natural AK 47 still function well and you can pull the trigger. I am sure enough ladies will be gagging for your solvent.
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by chinchonglee(m): 9:41am On Dec 05, 2020
AmazonTopaz:

Take my advice and you will be better for it.
Girls cheat on you is not an excuse change your environment or the company you keep and see if you will still talk like this.It is because you are a cheat and you surround yourself with one.Is sex even everything like I advised earlier use your brains to think and not your dick stop using it change your circle if you won't know better after that.There are better ways to enjoy your youthful age na your mates dey invent things and reach out positively to people there are other ways to enjoy life not by having sex with every woman you see that is a bad lifestyle.Your life your choice have a nice day you will end up regretting it.What goes around does come around.
Preacher!
Continue preaching!!
Na ur type they go f*ck every dick outside kon enter inside house dey form saint. Come off it, I know ur type.
Naso one christ embassy girl behave that year. I later found out ahe even bleeps a youth pastor.
Madam! I'll go out and f*ck any girl that pleases me.
My mates re inventing things korh. The ones that dnt cheat, what have they invented
Nigeria is a poverty cursed country and girls are finding ways to escape that poverty which involves f*cking up and down for financial gains. Even the ones wey dey work for good companies still dey f*ck upandan. So sis, Am jst enjoying myself till am ready to settle down.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Donmoscojaja(m): 9:43am On Dec 05, 2020
Nazgul:

Suicide what....don't say that again. You want to kill yourself over a woman who has made it crystal clear that it's over between you too. Haba don't say that again.

One of the best way to make your ex regret leaving you is to work hard and attain massive success. She would sit in agony and regret why she left you. So begin your journey to the top, and forget about her. When you get to the top everyone including her would celebrate your success.

Good luck



among all points noted here





This is just the solution

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by gudugudumeje: 9:47am On Dec 05, 2020
U r lucky and u dont know. The worst sorrow and heart brokenness of the future is what God has taken away from you now. So move on to more prospering wt Ps.34. God bless u.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nobody: 9:48am On Dec 05, 2020
Lawliet:
Wetin cause the heartbreak first ?
Before I start to give advice epistles
you are beautiful, where in Benin are you ?
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nobody: 9:49am On Dec 05, 2020
Evidenx:
START MAKING MONEY, YOU WILL RECOVER FAST...
HOW DO I MAKE D MONEY?

JOIN CHYMALL AND MAKE MONEY EVERY TEN DAYS.
what's chymall ?
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by bet9ja(m): 9:50am On Dec 05, 2020
This is what works best. I have tested this before and it really helped.

Get a pen and paper and write down the list of good things she has done and while you should marry her.

Write another list of her bad characters that would not make you marry her.

Focus on the reasons you should not marry her every time you think about her.

Train your mind to focus on her bad characters and why you should not be with her.

There you go..... You have your solution.
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nkiruka35(f): 9:52am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:


Are you sure, there is happiness elsewhere for me?

Sure there is happiness else where, i felt dis way wen d man i cherish most left me i felt d world have come to an end, i felt i couldn't go on with life anymore but with time everything started going off my mind
All you need now is time tho is not really easy but u wil be fine believe me
I understand how you feel but definitely you wil fine

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Coolcalmcollect(m): 10:03am On Dec 05, 2020
hope you didn't see her tru school? if you did please just drink cement....no simp should waste our limited oxygen
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Phoenixblu(f): 10:08am On Dec 05, 2020
sorry bro..6 years isn't a joke@ all,but I assure you,you will be fine. I got out of a 10 years relationship this time last year and right now i'm in a place of peace and happiness.
what worked for me then was total self love and God. It wasn't easy but I survived. It's a phase,you will definitely get pass it.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Wittyglam(f): 10:08am On Dec 05, 2020
I have a video on this. Click on the link to watch, it will be helpful.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VRlazUVaHjM

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by OdefaGirl(f): 10:11am On Dec 05, 2020
thatsleepboy1:


your moniker says it all


odefa
m kwo ókwú gị gbụo onwé gí



Nke I di ò bū ndù?
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by thatsleepboy1: 10:12am On Dec 05, 2020
OdefaGirl:


Nke I di ò bū ndù?

olooh

òwú ọnwụ.

ọsọ gị wu onye ma ndị dị ndụ and ndị wuru anwụ. biko kposiri gị gáfè m n'azu

adaka
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by ursullalinda(f): 10:17am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:


Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her...



Funny enough she might also be hurt but playing tough girl......I love your personality for accepting your flaws......don't listen to anyone that advises you to cheat more and don't regret your saying the truth either.......as u said we are all humans.......if she is matured enough to handle your flaws she will come back but before then you need your life back......go get it.......enough of the self pity......some people have really advised you well so do the needful......you will come out better and stronger.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by surebona(m): 10:22am On Dec 05, 2020
ursullalinda:




Funny enough she might also be hurt but playing tough girl......I love your personality for accepting your flaws......don't listen to anyone that advises you to cheat more and don't regret your saying the truth either.......as u said we are all humans.......if she is matured enough to handle your flaws she will come back but before then you need your life back......go get it.......enough of the self pity......some people have really advised you well so do the needful......you will come out better and stronger.

Thank you very much for this... I have really received a lot of advices.. I'm thankful to you all. I pray we come back here to give a testimony of how life turns out. Put me in your prayers

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by surebona(m): 10:23am On Dec 05, 2020
Nkiruka35:


Sure there is happiness else where, i felt dis way wen d man i cherish most left me i felt d world have come to an end, i felt i couldn't go on with life anymore but with time everything started going off my mind
All you need now is time tho is not really easy but u wil be fine believe me
I understand how you feel but definitely you wil fine

Thank you I am grateful.. I will give time the chance to do the healing. It's not easy
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Evidenx(m): 10:23am On Dec 05, 2020
Acecards:
what's chymall ?
chyamll is an e-commerce company that allows u to buy a online shop in their online mall,and each shop has goods in it,when u buy any one,the company helps u to sell it and return ur capital and profit every ten days. Very legit.

Google it and visit youtube also..
If you join,by next year poverty will not know ur address again.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by ursullalinda(f): 10:25am On Dec 05, 2020
surebona:


Thank you very much for this... I have really received a lot of advices.. I'm thankful to you all. I pray we come back here to give a testimony of how life turns out. Put me in your prayers



Sure I will..... you will conquer

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Xammie001(m): 10:26am On Dec 05, 2020
OGA GO AND KEEP YOURSELF BUSY WITH YOUR LIFE PLAN

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:31am On Dec 05, 2020
chinchonglee:

Preacher!
Continue preaching!!
Na ur type they go f*ck every dick outside kon enter inside house dey form saint. Come off it, I know ur type.
Naso one christ embassy girl behave that year. I later found out ahe even bleeps a youth pastor.
Madam! I'll go out and f*ck any girl that pleases me.
My mates re inventing things korh. The ones that dnt cheat, what have they invented
Nigeria is a poverty cursed country and girls are finding ways to escape that poverty which involves f*cking up and down for financial gains. Even the ones wey dey work for good companies still dey f*ck upandan. So sis, Am jst enjoying myself till am ready to settle down.

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