Sixfeetbelle:


I'm just helping the normal chant for male on this forum to reach all nations.

"fear women" is the usual chant in a case about a woman committing a crime, but it changes to "let's hear from both parties" in a case about a man committing the exact same crime.


Should I chant more or is this enough?

Sixfeetbelle:


It's not like I'm getting a climax from this story cause it's just painfully sad, but in a way, paternity fraud is similar to a man springing up on the wife 25 years later an illegitimate child from an affair early on in their marriage. The betrayal cuts deep, knowing your husband was unfaithful and keep it a secret for so long. Cheat and confess before time overtakes you is my advice no matter the spouse


PS: I don't equate a one time affair with an affair that lasted 11 years and birthed all the children. I can forgive one child from a mistake sex, but 4 kids is just plain evil. The woman has no heart.

Korllami007:


How much did she spend on the kid? And what sacrifice has she made on the illegitimate kid?

Sixfeetbelle:


It's not like I'm getting a climax from this story cause it's just painfully sad, but in a way, paternity fraud is similar to a man springing up on the wife 25 years later an illegitimate child from an affair early on in their marriage. The betrayal cuts deep, knowing your husband was unfaithful and keep it a secret for so long. Cheat and confess before time overtakes you is my advice no matter the spouse


PS: I don't equate a one time affair with an affair that lasted 11 years and birthed all the children. I can forgive one child from a mistake sex, but 4 kids is just plain evil. The woman has no heart.

iamyemiakins:
This is really sad.

Fear women!

I've noticed that 50% of women attack people that suggests DNA/paternity tests aggressively on social media. Why?

pansophist:
I still cannot understand why a DNA test is not automatic at birth. You can not just pin a child to any man as the father, just because the woman said so. Things like blood group and DNA test should be verified, alongside other personal information that is recorded in a birth certificate. It will also serve as a deterrent to potential cases like this, will legitimize the unity and social cohesion of the family, and won't deny innocent kids the chances of knowing their real father.

Furthermore, it would save wives from being disappointed that their husbands didn't trust them if he carries a DNA test behind her, and also gives suspicious husband/kids no reason to carry such a test in the first place. This man is not only hurt, the whole kids now hate the mother, and the most ferocious hate you will ever face is one that is converted from love.

In a society that operates on the flawed idea that women can never be wrong, and incapable of cruelty, well, tragedies like these will persist. The sad truth is that as we speak, there are millions of fathers right now living with kids that aren't theirs, and most will never find out. A huge problem that can only be solved with legislation changes, which is, that a DNA test should be automatic at birth.

Inside life.

Korllami007:


How much did she spend on the kid? And what sacrifice has she made on the illegitimate kid?

hashtagged:


It's not the same cause in this case, the man raised the kids as his own and loved them, that's different from finding out the existence of an illegitimate child.
As a guy I might be able to forgive anything as long as you just tell the truth, if you had an illegitimate child just tell and don't make the man care and treat that child as his own, that's pure evil on the ladies part, and later you guys would be angry any time men bring up DNA test, just like we can't trust Muslims cause of terrorism, same we can't also trust women cause of cases like this
@bolded so if it wasn't deep as this you would have gotten climax from the story?

Sixfeetbelle:


I was thinking of finding her and asking her how she did it, you know? Cheat on the man for so long and then turn around to love him for a longer time period as if nothing had happened. She makes all these men tooting their horns about side chics and all look like amateurs. Oh how exciting!

I also would like to find out how she was so subtle in her affair that the man had no inkling of her infidelity at all. Not with a stranger ooh, but his best friend and neighbor for good 11 years. Surely, there must be levels to this cheating of a thing? What do you think?

Woah. Woah. Woah. What?! Cheated with the best friend and for eleven years the husband had no idea?

I'm not so much surprised about the fact that it's a woman, but more about the act, though... And this brings a new angle... So, why aren't the men here castigating the best friend who had no respect for the sanctity of his friend's marriage? He couldn't have refused, put a stop to it? Abi he was tricked into the affair without consent...?

Again, why did the woman cheat? No one is asking the important questions here or even trying to see things from the woman's perspective. What did he do to push her outside?

Sixfeetbelle:


It's not like I'm getting a climax from this story cause it's just painfully sad, but in a way, paternity fraud is similar to a man springing up on the wife 25 years later an illegitimate child from an affair early on in their marriage. The betrayal cuts deep, knowing your husband was unfaithful and keep it a secret for so long. Cheat and confess before time overtakes you is my advice no matter the spouse


PS: I don't equate a one time affair with an affair that lasted 11 years and birthed all the children. I can forgive one child from a mistake sex, but 4 kids is just plain evil. The woman has no heart.

Magnoliaa:


Woah. Woah. Woah. What?! Cheated with the best friend and for eleven years the husband had no idea?

I'm not so much surprised about the fact that it's a woman, but more about the act, though... And this brings a new angle... So, why aren't the men here castigating the best friend who had no respect for the sanctity of his friend's marriage? He couldn't have refused, put a stop to it? Abi he was tricked into the affair without consent...?

Again, why did the woman cheat? No one is asking the important questions here or even trying to see things from the woman's perspective. What did he do to push her outside?

khingTony:


WTF



An illegitimate child springing up 25 years is not as hurtful, I may forgive a woman if I found out that she has a 25 year old child that was raised by his legitimate father, it will take a lot, but I may forgive her, at least I didn't know about the child until then


But in this situation, you have made sacrifices and spent sleepless nights thinking about how to cater for the welfare of a certain child and have hustled day and night to make sure he/she will live a better and comfortable life only to find out the child is not yours.

paul100:
TRUST NO MAN OR WOMAN,even the holy books talk am.How will i have sex with my friend's wife and how will a woman think of having sex with my husband's friend.Some human beings are devilish.
Those people you open your mouth to call your friend,as you do anything with them,be careful.Mind what you say to your friend because Jealousy And Enviousness will never stop till our time on earth is over

Aileexa1:
Why is paternity test so expensive ?

Sixfeetbelle:


You should really read the post. It's intriguing!

I don't think the man did anything to the wife as far as the story goes. I mean he even dropped out of medical school to marry her when she got pregnant to prove his love commitment to her. From the post, this happened in the 70s so it was the proper thing to do back then. However I suspect she must have been a full-time housewife who got bored and thus couldn't help loving the attention the neighbor provided. Since her husband married her so young in life, he most likely had like 3 jobs to support the family and it would be expected to believe wifey was/felt neglected. Which explains how the affair could have gone on for so long without him knowing.

As per your first question, it's the norm here. Ain't nobody going to call out the neighbor cause he's a man. Once a woman is involved, they go blind to the culpability of any male in the story as if a cheating woman cheats with just herself. It's their way joor

Memberclub:
23andme is going to expose alot of women in future.

dominique:


I know that group illa otu or something like that. It was the admin that suggested all men should carry out paternity test and a lot of female members attacked his post, one even went to his inbox to issue death threats. The group has been shut down now.

I've supported the motion on a popular Facebook group that all men must carry out paternity tests on all their kids without their wives' knowledge and a number of women rushed into my comment section asking why a woman is making a comment like this. I asked them if they would want their sons to raise another man's child or children, na so they gentle.

With the level of depravity going on in the world today, next generation won't be any better. God sparing our lives, my sons must carry out DNA test on all "their" children no matter how holy their wives appear to be.

FredericMiracle:
Fake story!!!

Magnoliaa:


So I read it. Truly touching... and - this is not a justification - I wonder, taking into account this particular story (and others like this), if establishing paternity is worth it?

I think most guys here tend to argue for it for bants and in theory, talking about using resources on a child that isn't theirs, AS IF the only thing that goes into child care is material things and they can just turn off their emotions for a child they discover not to be theirs.

I wonder why it's so painful for them (this is not an invalidation), I wonder for all their bragging about being logically wired and how men are only required to donate and spread their seeds. So, why it is a breaking point for them??

I'll attempt to answer that: they care and love and experience more than they like to let on. And if this is the case, for men who are deeply committed to the upbringing of a child and a family they have given their all to - do you want to risk knowing that that child, their laughter with the sweet personality and dreams you cheer them on to achieve - isn't yours? Is that a kind of truth to be known? (I believe in complete truthfulness and openness in relationships, like even if you've had ten abortions and did a term in jail for murder kind of openness, but now I'm questioning that belief in because of this story). Is fatherhood determined by genes/biology or by social, legal and psychological consequences? What difference is it going to make if you know?
It's not every one that'll take the result well. For the ones who can't (and will end up committing suicide) - what happens?


P.S: I'm not referring to YOU exactly, literally, just saying generally and thinking out loud.

Sixfeetbelle:


Betrayal is betrayal no matter what was spent on the child or not.

thebosstrevor1:


FAKE STORY.

AN EMOTIONAL STORY TO ADVERTISE 23ANDME DNA KIT.

SEE HOW PEOPLE FALL FOR THE CHEAP SCAM

Sixfeetbelle:


You used climax first so I was just regurgitating your careless statement, you can't blame me for believing this when any thread about a man's pain you and your squad of bigot feminist come and try to make it the man's fault and you said you would have gotten climax of it wasn't dark

Did you honestly believe women are happy doing paternity fraud, especially one of this magnitude on their spouse that you'll generalise that women will get climax from this story?

Memberclub:
23andme is very popular already.
You can check reddit yourself

Magnoliaa:


Woah. Woah. Woah. What?! Cheated with the best friend and for eleven years the husband had no idea?

I'm not so much surprised about the fact that it's a woman, but more about the act, though... And this brings a new angle... So, why aren't the men here castigating the best friend who had no respect for the sanctity of his friend's marriage? He couldn't have refused, put a stop to it? Abi he was tricked into the affair without consent...?

Again, why did the woman cheat? No one is asking the important questions here or even trying to see things from the woman's perspective. What did he do to push her outside?