Zzor:
Be careful with marriage and the choices you make, just be careful

kazyhm:
You're not good for the girl either......very fetish blockhead.

LEBEfirstson:
.. I just don't want to make mistakes

kazyhm:
You're not good for the girl either......very fetish blockhead.

Zzor:
Exactly what I'm saying, you must not make mistakes in marriage issues, don't get carried away, put your emotions and feelings behind you while you bring your brains into full active play

Unclekayfarms:
Why b say Igbo no like to marry their sef

LEBEfirstson:
Greetings Nairalanders.

I'm from Anambra and was dating this esan girl. She is hardworking, religious and homely.

At this point, I decided to take things to another level and needed to seek or make consultation about my future with her in marriage but lo and behold, I got a shocking answer.

A prophet told me that it won't just work for both of us. He said that its fine if I want to go ahead and marry her but if I want to listen to what God is saying, that I should not go ahead.

I then had to send my brother to consult traditionally, The traditional man said that my ancestors doesn't approve this very girl as she will bring division in the family when she enters and will be spoiling things for me.

Before then, I had gone to see a particular pastor, before I say Jack Robinson, this pastor ask me to be careful of a girl by my side,. That this girl is spoiling things for me but I don't always understand what they mean because I don't see what this girl is spoiling for me.

I really really love her very much. She is not perfect and I'm not perfect too but she is kinda girl I want to Marry.

I'm just confused.

LEBEfirstson:
..Chai, easy nau! So na only the traditional way you read abi? Holy person

Unclekayfarms:

Have u fecked her?

kazyhm:


It takes a fetish fellow to be jumping from one God of men to another looking for what is not missing.........

zang:
Where in Esan is the girl from ??

Uromi I guess

LEBEfirstson:
..its not about been fetish bro. I'm not sure you are married and when the time comes for you, you will surely find out what I'm passing thru

kazyhm:



Lol.........I married the best woman in the whole world.......no one choose her for me.......

LEBEfirstson:
.. You are lucky then.

Craig24:
Young man! It's good you decided to make consultations, very nice. However, you have been forewarned. The decision is left to you to make.

Do not give ears to those who'll call you fetish cos they lack knowledge. It's your life, you own it, the choice is yours.

This life is very much spiritual than physical.

Ask your CHI to give you answers!

Unclekayfarms:
Why is it that Igbo don't inter marry?

Craig24:


It's a culture.

We dislike distant marriages.

My both parents are from

One Town: UMUOJI;
One LGA: IDEMILI NORTH
One State: Anambra.

Good thing is I can visit my maternal home, spend hours there n still return to my paternal home at night in a hour on foot or 20 minute by transport.