ozome15:
Please my brother always do your best to keep an eye on her. It's not always easy to come out from losing love one.

konfusedgee:
Give that girl some space,, when she's done she'll come looking for you

She is always depressed most times she tells me she feels like commiting sucide that she is tired of life. I do my best to make her happy daily but it doesn't really work, she seem to loose interest in everything.

Sometimes when I call her she doesn't pick and wont call back, and this is someone that could not stay a day without hearing from me. Atimes I see her online chat her up but she doesn't reply like before.

At a point I started to suspect maybe she has lost interest in me or now seeing someone else, so I decided to limit calling her or chatting her up, but she will still complain that I don't care about her, that I don't check up on her, but most times when I do she ignores me.

She now picks offence with almost everything I do, compares me with her ex that he is more caring, most times all the past disagreement we had and settled, she now brings it up and stills attacks me with It, I'm really confused.

After taking time to monitor her I know she is not cheating on me, but she is not just happy, I try my best to put a smile on her face yet it doesn't work, pls advise me, I don't want to loose her, the Way she is going she might just commit sucide, pls how can I handle this?

ettaetta:

if I give her space she will still come to complain, I am not caring....

Agboki:
�����Grls no go make us craze

Whitecoal711:
See as this one carry woman for head

No carry this nonsense enter 2022 oono go hussle, dey carry woman matter for head because na him you come world come do

ettaetta:

Everything about her suddenly changed after she lost her dad, it's been few months now and she is still not her real self.

She is always depressed most times she tells me she feels like commiting sucide that she is tired of life. I do my best to make her happy daily but it doesn't really work, she seem to loose interest in everything.

ettaetta:
PLS HELP MY GIRLFRIEND IS GOING THROUGH SERIOUS DEPRESSION
I am a guy of 29, I met this caring and loving girlfriend earlier this year, she is 23 we have been cool together, everything was going on smoothly, and I know very well that she loves me so much.
Everything about her suddenly changed after she lost her dad, it's been few months now and she is still not her real self.

She is always depressed most times she tells me she feels like commiting sucide that she is tired of life. I do my best to make her happy daily but it doesn't really work, she seem to loose interest in everything.

Sometimes when I call her she doesn't pick and wont call back, and this is someone that could not stay a day without hearing from me. Atimes I see her online chat her up but she doesn't reply like before.

At a point I started to suspect maybe she has lost interest in me or now seeing someone else, so I decided to limit calling her or chatting her up, but she will still complain that I don't care about her, that I don't check up on her, but most times when I do she ignores me.

She now picks offence with almost everything I do, compares me with her ex that he is more caring, most times all the past disagreement we had and settled, she now brings it up and stills attacks me with It, I'm really confused.

After taking time to monitor her I know she is not cheating on me, but she is not just happy, I try my best to put a smile on her face yet it doesn't work, pls advise me, I don't want to loose her, the Way she is going she might just commit sucide, pls how can I handle this?

khingTony:
Maybe She's tired of you and wants to break up with you subtly
Maybe she's broke and need you to start paying her monthly salary
Maybe she's craving for an adventure and you are not the one to give it to her


....Just maybe


Give her space, if she doesn't come looking for you, then you just found your answer


Peace

realokopi:
The cure to her depression is money!!!

Twoclans:
It is always harder for a girl child to get over the passing of a father.I am a living example.Mine was even worse because I was standing right beside his bed when he passed on.

I can tell you from experience that she is going through alot,I went through something similar when my father died.Its been 9 good years I have still not gotten over it.

I don't envy you because she will drain you emotionally,try the best you can to make her happy.The bigger job of getting herself out of the moodiness and subtle depression lies with her.I wish her the best.

@OP kindly ignore those telling you maybe she wants you to pay her monthly etc.It is not always about money.When my dad passed I had money in millions in various accounts but they meant absolutely nothing because the void was real.

pocohantas:


You no lie. My dad underwent a surgery this year and damn, I had my heart in my mouth. I don’t know what I would have done if he died. I am not an undergraduate that still needs him to pay my fees, but it would have hit me badly.

While he was in the hospital, I was highly irritable. I remember lashing out at a friend and he was like “seems you are not in a good mood this period”. That was when I told him the situation. Never told him or many people before then (even after), I didn’t want anyone to say I also need urgent 2k.

Fathers are a daughter’s first love. The only man that will do giveaway for you without expecting anything in return. The only man that can genuinely wish for you to be greater than him.

Guys that ask you “Am I your father?” are not being so rude, they know it is only your father that would willingly make such sacrifice for you.

May your dad’s soul continue to rest in peace, Twoclàns. I am beginning to make peace with the fact that my dad is getting older and would go someday...

Twoclans:



@ Bold .......... Amen

I hope your dad is fully recovered now. Enjoy him everyday because I can confidently tell you that no man can ever love you the way he does .