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Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Liposure: 9:11am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Shortyy:edo. I ve stayed there b4. |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by LEBEfirstson: 9:19am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Craig24:..sounds good |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by LEBEfirstson: 9:25am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Dreyton36:.. Bro thanks for your contributions. I appreciate even the bashing. Now, apart from what I have been told about her, another issue is that their tradition is somehow to me. You can imagine when a woman will be buried in her father's house and not the husband house. May I ask you please, is your wife from another tribe? 1 Like |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Beverlyjean(f): 9:39am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Zzor: Wow...did u actually post this ?? |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Nobody: 10:00am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Beverlyjean:. |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by emkz: 10:08am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Just say "the girl I am dating", not "the Esan girl I am dating". You can't castigate an entire ethnic group because of your relationship failure. Spousal choices are meant to be made by you through God's guidance. That is why you are meant to date, to get to know her. Nit know her sexually, but know HER characteristically which embodies compatibility, companionship, commitment, communication, character and charisma. Do you have any of those, i.e., do you have the integrity to be a husband? Didn't your Bible wen you to avoid fortune tellers? I think you are a cocktail of religious confusion for dabbling into Christianity and traditional systems. |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Uniquekriss(m): 10:43am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Craig24:state is even too big, community or LGA |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Uniquekriss(m): 10:46am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Zzor:my dear, your life is not too different from what u make people feel about u, u gave the impression in the first place , though some people are outrageous in how they interpret dispositions |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Nobody: 10:47am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Uniquekriss:maybe, just maybe, happy Sunday |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Dreyton36: 10:48am On Dec 06, 2020 |
LEBEfirstson: Yes my wife is from another tribe , and she's from kwara state so ?? Guy fvck those false prophets that can't solve their own problems No be everyday we they hear of their stories ? Love your life , what's yours is yours Lights up my kpoli in peace And don't forget to drag a joint too , it's very important |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by sammyesx: 10:53am On Dec 06, 2020 |
LEBEfirstson: Yes,, but u fit use money run am. |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by LEBEfirstson: 11:07am On Dec 06, 2020 |
sammyesx:.. Use money run am?? Can you please explain more on this please |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Obioramichael(m): 11:30am On Dec 06, 2020 |
We sometimes put ourselves into unnecessary trouble. The way I see you, you are not yet a man.. Yeah!!! I said it and would repeat it ten thousand times.. You think a man is someone that has penis and grows beards? Now let me educate you.. A man is one who knows what he wants, goes for it and is ready to damn the consequences. You are not worthy of my advice but I will just drop it for posterity sake.. So that you can reference it after making that mistake you wish to make.. First of all, should I call you a two edged sword or a confused fellow? You went to a pastor to seek advice for whom you wish to marry.. That one seems not to be enough you still give your brother some money to consult an herbalist to tell you if she is worthy of you wifing her.. Lol... Did you hear of the pastor that stabbed his wife in US few months ago?.. I also believe you are aware this people are also humans just like you.. You think there is someone so special that has been specially prepared and kept for your that would accommodate all your family excesses and swallow them right?.. You think the girl dont have other men wooing her who are more handsome and well to do than you? Where is your faith? I shall leave you with this but the only favour I need from you is as you dumb the girl for the one that would fight for your family unity please do well to help me with her digits I need someone like her in my life. I will give you a call few years from now to appreciate your kind gesture. LEBEfirstson: 1 Like |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Obioramichael(m): 11:34am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Unclekayfarms: SAYS WHO? |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Nobody: 11:38am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Myhusband: Yes, I'm from Esan sef |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Nobody: 11:39am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Uyi168: Yes |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Uyi168: 11:50am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Aileexa1:Ok. |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Myhusband(m): 11:57am On Dec 06, 2020 |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by LEBEfirstson: 12:04pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Aileexa1:@Aileexa1, .. Is it also true that when an esan lady that married to another tribe dies, she must be buried in her father's house and not the husband house |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by annford: 12:09pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
LEBEfirstson: Yes! it was one of the sound warnings given to me by my in-laws. That was said immediately after they placed my wife on my laps 7 times. |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by annford: 12:09pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Tonalphs(f): 12:10pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
all I see is a man trying to make excuses.(she never die u dey talk burial place.) you can't get a 10/10 woman nor man out there. but if she ticks 6 /10 or above, she's a wife material then. anyway, the bae is lucky. oil dey her head. you don't deserve her. she deserves a better man who can be responsible for his actions and not running upandan to blame someone else if he eventually makes mistake in the future. |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by annford: 12:10pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Unclekayfarms: You're very correct on that. |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Ishilove: 12:25pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
LEBEfirstson:Love is blind but na for inside marriage eye dey clear |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by LEBEfirstson: 12:34pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Ishilove:..Ishilove say more on this please |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Ishilove: 12:48pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
LEBEfirstson:You went the Christian way, negative. You went the traditional way, negative. Are you not aware that the spiritual controls the physical? Now, the last thing you need to do is seek God's face yourself. I am guessing that is when you will be convinced. Love alone is not working enough to make a marriage work. Stop focusing on the now of things, but look to the future. |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Nobody: 12:49pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
LEBEfirstson: Yes, that is why bride price isn't high in esan tribe. I think you will be asked to bring 1 million (in the case of my aunt) and out of the million, 20 naira will be removed Besides, marriage isn't based on just love alone. Circumstances can pull or push a marriage. The spiritual controls the physical and if spiritually, it has been said not to work, no chook leg. Because when person enter marriage, love dey clear from him eyes once gbege shele 4 Likes |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by LINTUNE(m): 12:53pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
kazyhm:are u for real?, like i dont believe in stuffs like this,but getting the same response from 3 totally different ppl that wont gain anything if he doesn't marry her is quite a big sign for him to end his relationship with the said woman...this is just common sense, |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by Uniquekriss(m): 12:53pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Zzor:Happy Sunday too. |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by LEBEfirstson: 12:57pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
LINTUNE:.. The 3 of them wouldn't say NO if something is right about the plans. I expected at least a positive feedback from one but it all came back negative |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by joseph1832(m): 12:58pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Ishilove:there's another way the young man hasn't explore yet, which is the rational way because, if it's anything, the Christian and traditional way have failed us tremendously this present day. Frankly, I don't see both ways helping us any time soon, neither will it help him. The young man needs to ask himself why he wants to even get married in the first place. Then, he needs to ask himself why he wants to get married to that girl in particular. If and when he can find suitable answers to both questions, he's almost getting there. |
Re: I Got 2 Negative Answers From Marrying An Esan Girl by LEBEfirstson: 1:00pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Ishilove:...thanks Ishilove., |
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