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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 2:48pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
MJBOLT: I understand you very well bro but if we are to go with your line of thought, don't you think we also don't always see better ladies outside than our women? Should we always be comparing them with better ladies? Especially for ladies that virtually brings nothing to the table which brings us to another topic - Risk Mitigation/Management. Why are men not going into relationship with risk management and exit strategies? Don't spend more than what you can afford to lose. A lot of my colleagues say am stingy with ladies but it is not my fault. I see them spend ridiculously on women, infact they feel happy and joyous spending unreasonable money on different gfs. Some buying fridges, generators, rent apartment for ladies, giving 50,100k or more to them. Forming woke and offshore workers. Now that the industry is down, they are all worried of losing their jobs without alternative source of incomes. It was always enjoying, flexing, going to clubs and buying 15,30k and above wines and blowing 100k a night. For me, i hardly give women money. Infact giving women money is as if am throwing money into fire. I feel more joy helping people, supporting widows, giving to churches than women. E dey pain me well for body if woman chop my 5-10k but i give out more easily to people in need. Individual difference i guess 63 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 2:59pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
most men in relationships tend to come across better ladies but will find it difficult to dump their current spouse due to how much they have invested in the relationship(sunk cost). emmaodet: 28 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Vecto(m): 3:03pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
MJBOLT:Dang, bro! What's his handle name? |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 3:05pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
21cents: Ohhhhhh, nairaland. Nairaland has been one of the good few things i came across and really appreciate. My life has really improved ever since i joined nairaland because it opened my eyes to my flaws in relationship. At the initial stage or early days here, i was furious and depressed when people started bringing their issues to nairaland and it was very very similar to mine and i saw how i bleeped up. Now, am in charge and everything is in control. Dated a custom lady for about 7 years before she got married. Bad marriage and got divorced and kicked up from where we dropped it. I spent a lot in the relationship for she and her kid, calls, gifts etc but she took every for granted. I guess another guy in the pix, a long distant relationship. At a point she started giving me cold shoulder and insulting me, couldn't take it anymore, i had to take my leave. After 3 months, she called to know why i have changed but have had enough. During the break, i reflected on the relationship and i wondered why have been in the relationship for so long. Very very unbeneficial to me. 7 years of knowing each other, no gift from her side, my brother, No even sex(can you just imagine that - First class simp i be), why i come dey call that kind thing dating sef, abi i dey craze ni ![]() The life of a simp is not a life to be proud of abeg. It was at that time i started wondering if am not insane to be in such a relationship or situationship. I took my leave, learnt a lot from it and ever since that time, my one kobo for ladies dey pepper me like mad while i dey clear their doubt steady 52 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 3:05pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
MJBOLT: Hmmmmmm 100% correct 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 3:06pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
MJBOLT: No be lie. Stingy>>> Maga. 9 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 3:06pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 3:07pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Vecto(m): 3:08pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Vecto(m): 3:18pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
luminouz:The problem here is that some guys don't know how to say "No" to sexual advances from females. They can't seem to possibly wrap their head round why they should reject free pusyyy, ya know. If most men can control their sexual urges then we will have less betas and more alphas since sex is the female dominion of power. 39 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 3:19pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
MJBOLT:When young,yes but as they get older, the pool of better guys dries up exponentially. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 3:20pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
MJBOLT:.. Lol...either way,you are fuqed when she cheats because she will.somehow make it all seem like everything was your fault. 8 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 3:30pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
emmaodet: Lol...there was a time one ex took my shiit for granted and I ghosted her. She called and sent texts that I ignored. Then, she started uploading 'my new crush,my babe boo, boo took me out' stuffs on WhatsApp. I didn't check but my friend checked her statuses and told me. I gave her zero chills. 3 months 12 days later, a knock on my door sounded and ex was the one. Said she missed me and bla bLA blaaaa. Not only was she looking fat in the stomach, she was sounding stressed too. Immediately, she gave me her excuses and I told her to get out, she made moves to kiss me and said 'I need you babe inside me'. I was boiling to kick her out till I saw the pile of laundry I had accumulated and wanted to wash that very day. She washed and ironed my stuffs and afterwards, when she thought, I'd give her, her reward? I kicked her out. ..... The shocked look on her face as I slammed the door made my week 59 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 3:32pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Vecto:........... You are right. You should see the shocked looks on their faces when they are in heat and you say 'another time'. They lose face and become insecure and unsure of themselves. ... Men should try hoarding more 21 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 3:37pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Skepticus: Imagine a jobless lazy woman cheating when she can use such free time to develop herself or learn a skill. Most women don't even know the gravity of their crimes until such crimes are flipped or switched to male gender. Now imagine a jobless man at home, whose wife is doing everything possible to bring in income to the family so that they can survive only for her to get to know that the man is banging the house lady. How useless again will such a man be? will you advise such woman to marry again? especially jobless lazy useless women? Most women that are even working and doing fine don't want to marry. Reason, they don't want man palava or wahala. Then why should a stable man marry? i still wonder why. When their ladies cheat on them with drivers, gate men, house helps etc 30 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 3:40pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
luminouz: hahahahahahahaaaaa you are a real nigga bro 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by 21cents: 3:44pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
luminouz:abi. their window of shakara is within 18-24. girls within that range thinks the world will revolve around them forever and will so bullshytte so many guys their age then due to the mammoth attention they get everywhere especially SM. but I figured their shakara dies slowly from 25 upwards. and men should have it in mind that tons of girls turn 18 everyday. 35 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Trex4(m): 3:53pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Skepticus:immediately the woman was caught she ran to the divorce defence attorney. The lovren self was still trying to make his marriage "work". He went begging. He also missed Euro 2016 because of it. Life eh. Additionally it takes only the grace of God for a woman not to cheat. Wether you're powerful, rich or even handsome, a woman who wants to cheat will do so. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 3:56pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Regex: ![]() ![]() ![]() ohhhhh Charlieeeee.... men don sufferrrrrrrrrrr 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 4:50pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
21cents: Lol..true |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by LordAdam16: 5:11pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
emmaodet: See, if you are a guy in a relationship, and you're not always comparing your SO with better ladies, that's on you. Laydees do it subconsciously. Not having a risk management or exit strategy in a relationship is like going on a voyage without life vests. Absence of life vests will not stop the ship from floating, but if sh*t hits the fan, you'd wish you had never set sail without life vests. Einstein left his first wife for the sake of his sanity. Bezos left his wife, it cost him $40b, but if he doesn't give a f*ck, I wouldn't give one on his behalf. Brad Pitt left Aniston for Jolie. He wanted it to be a civil union. Jolie insisted on marriage. Didn't work out, he used the exit door. Currently, he is in a romantic/sexual relationship with a woman who is married and the husband is aware. Everyone can tell he's not exclusive with her. This is the same Pitt that Mike Tyson caught screwing his wife and didn't do sh*t. DiCaprio sisterzoned Kate Winslet after Titanic and has had more romantic partners (that we know of) than toothbrushes. To this day, he takes Winslet and her kids on vacations if their schedules allow, regardless of her marital status. If you know your worth as a guy, there's no rule in the universe that says you can't upgrade if that's what you want. Especially since our market value increases exponentially with age. Hypergamy is gender-neutral. Maybe if women know men are regularly shopping for their replacement (even subconsciously), they would not have the time to be keeping in touch with exes or be looking for something outside that's not missing. They would spend that time working on themselves and making your life as smooth as possible. But even after them give us expo, men go still dey act lyk say na swear to think of their own happiness. -Lord 57 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 5:31pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
LordAdam16: Exactly bro, exactly. You have said it all. I think the problem with men is the years and years of conditioning that we believe we need to take care of women for us to be happy. Some will even say that the true wealth of a man or his money will only be acknowledged if it shows in his wife and kids. Can you imagine that? Not from the workaholic horse himself rather the wife and kids 16 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DharmieDhrey(m): 5:59pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Regex: Thanks man, ghosting her wouldn't make much sense. Its okay to be angry and resentful, we must analyze our feelings but I wouldn't allow sentimentality cloud my sense of reasoning. She has been doing the most work for the past few months, I only brought my story as I've considered withdrawing completely but with answers I've gotten from the great minds here, I have realised what to do. #NoToSimping 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by LordAdam16: 7:10pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
emmaodet: To be fair, it's not simply "years and years" of conditioning. It's literally how we've managed to come this far since we evolved from our hominid predecessors. Whether it's taking on cave bears or Sabre-tooth tigers, we rolled our women and kids into caves and went on what was usually one-way expeditions to hunt or take down predators that threatened our immediate commune. In that regard, it became genetically imprinted in us to derive satisfaction from sacrifice. Be it for own women, kids, tribe, or nation. Until World War II, this was a fact of life. As any man who wasn't at the always-ongoing wars, was at home devoting his life to his King, Lord, or Chief to keep society functioning. In return, laws of antiquity bequeathed men universal control over their households. That's why our kids and wives took on our last names. For all intents and purposes, they were our property. Like cattle, land, or gold we own. It's also why it was essential for us to get married for social and economic reasons. So that every able-bodied man had skin in the game. So that whenever an invader is bearing on your city or village, you don't scour off, you pledge your fealty to your King and hope he can marshal a defense (which you'd be a part of) that'd save your kids, wife(s), and whatever wealth you have to your name from rape, slavery, pillaging and horrific death. Nonetheless, change is constant. The never-ending wars for the most part are over. In addition, we've decided that to spur economic activity, we have to increase our labor force by adding women. The result has been seven decades of relative prosperity. But with a sky-high barrage of unforeseen consequences. Seven decades sounds like a long time, but it's actually less than two generations ago. As such, norms that have advanced mankind over 300,000 years and were a thing in the times of our grandparents (and for some of us our parents) are now being discarded. Unfortunately, most men can't read the tea leaves and realize the days of altruistic sacrifices are over. And it's why the Western manosphere has been obliterated by feminists. It's like when our ancient kingdoms here in Nigeria tried to mount an opposition to the British Empire with sharp sticks and machetes when they had guns and cannons. It's a different era. Formerly, marriage wasn't a partnership, it was a transfer of property from father/guardian to husband. To give an analogy, after we paired up in the past, men ran the arrangement like a sole proprietorship. Now arrangements are at best partnerships. With a sole proprietorship, you can make unilateral sacrifices. But with partnerships, you have to watch out for your own interests. Most men have not understood this yet. Which is unfortunate. They're still naively trying to plug their beloved Sega cartridges into brand-new PS5 consoles, and are ![]() -Lord 32 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 7:33pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 8:54pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
pansophist: Are you still wondering why I didn't get these mention ? You're not going Scot free for spelling my moniker wrong,mr pansophist. Issue public apology and come with the whole elders of your community , with 3 bags of rice, two cows, teeth of a female scorpion, an eye of a pregnant tigress and most importantly, you're going to credit the account of the gods of our land with the sum of 5 million naira only ! ****** You're still interested in them ? 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Savagethe21st(m): 8:55pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
LordAdam16:so what do you advice men should do since many women are joining the feminism wave. Should we just seek women who are into the culture of previous generations 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by demanuel(m): 9:26pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Chai.... "See as Men dey spit Bars!!!" "Sulphuric Knowledge" "deep calleth unto deep" I swear, any lady that stumbles on this thread will be scared to death. ![]() ![]() ![]() For the female nature has been demystified!!! 55 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 9:34pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
GLYCOLYSISS: No vex. I no go school ![]() Yes, send it please. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by XshegzzyeeiX: 10:58pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
GLYCOLYSISS: ![]() Professor Pansophist, please pay up ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 10:59pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
XshegzzyeeiX: I de compile am na, make I go market come back 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Saviolamemphix(m): 11:58pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Redpill song of d day ![]() ![]() 1 Like
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