Yes I can date or marry
But I will always mind my business ooo

I wouldn't mind.

All these restrictions people place on themselves. If you get along well, such things should not matter.

Marrying into a family of five could come with additional responsibilities too like training the younger ones etc.

If you are not ready to deal with your in-laws, the good, the bad and the ugly, then marriage is not for you because no family is perfect.

popoolaopeyemi6:
Majority of male only children tend to be closer than usual to their mother.its logic no hard thing here,had it been they were like 2 or 3 then the mother would have shared the love between all of them but in the unavailability of that she tends to concentrate all that love on him only and trust me marrying someone like that especially if you guys are much in your own family is going to seem somehow cos the mother-son relationship,the way they converse ,the fact that he might not really be able to keep somethings away from his mum etc will seem so weird to the woman here except the mother-in-law is the really mature type,you know she knowing what is right and doing it.the worst part is if the father-in-law is dead.....omo na war.its Gon be hard kind of but with patience and little madness things will change

what I will advise you is that you open your yansh and born a male child and when that male child grow up to look for a wife, advise him to marry a stupid girl like the way you think so that he won't care for you and his siblings but only her stupid like-minded wife. that's when you will come back and delete this piece of shiit you wrote

one thing I know is that women doesn't think far ahead and logical. they all have a short brainwave length hence any rubbish coming out of there mouth waaaaaaaaaaaa like fish

Honestly, this is a serious issue for we guys that happens to be the only child. I am one of the clique.
I am having the same issue with my girlfriend. She is having this premonition that my mum will give her issues.
This as made me, not to be introducing myself as the only child of my parents. Because, we do suffer stigma and prejudice.

TONIOI:



Abeg help me ask am , na so some go dey pray make dia mother in-law die b4 dem marry dia husband , help me ask dem weda dem no get mama , it does not matter weda only child or not, character and understanding between u two is what matters the most .

No mind that girl joor

Karleb:




Look for whose attention? I'd rather watch paint dry!

Why don't you try marrying from a family where your woman is the only daughter.

presently dating one and there family are very lovely and excited!

do you think I will be dating those useless poverty Naija women

I don't date black women bro!

Hmmm not every post pesin go comment

Zzor:
I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum, all those mummy's boy type, your home will be run by someone else and not you.

What if he is very attached to his dad? Would you say the same thing?

I don't know how you people reason but it's a good thing to have a close and loving relationship with one's parents.

When u are truly in love, u will forget the person been d only child and give things time.... Only child isn't a joke, been it any gender.

Thatst what I want self.

Thatst what I want self

Zzor:
I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum, all those mummy's boy type, your home will be run by someone else and not you.

U no get talk. If na so boys go de run for dadys girl n mumy girl

Zzor:
Nothing childish here,what I see sitting down as a lady, you can't see it on top of the highest mountain as a man

Comments and positions like this on issues do come around later in life.

If you were a mother, would you wish your son was distant from you because of his wife?
Let's be careful of what we ask for sis.

Because, either you like it or not, you will be a mother someday.

Being an only child is not the issue. The question is does he have sense? Does his mum have sense? If the answer to this is yes then no problem.

Marrying an only child is not in my dictionary cos 98 % of them are spoiled brats and don't tend to take decision on their own thus allowing thier home to be run by thier mum n family members..they are Ill trained n doesn't have manners simply because thier parents over pampered them.. Just take look at how Buhari is running this country

She should not try it, I am a living example. I married an only child and I have seen hell through his mother. Marring an only child is what I call ' God forbid ' .

Aileexa1:
Only child or only son or first son, once in hear those three, I run. I can't marry a husband whose mother will be controlling my marriage.

And I can't date someone I can't marry

I de tell u. De worst na first daughter.
Na so my brother use en brain o. As joy tell am say na first pikin n first daughter untop say Dem dey 8 children n him self na first son for 8 children . Na so him leave an go marry last Born

Nigeria girls want man that they can control and put their head under their smell yansh 99% of Nigerians are just suffering from mental problems

CalliDora1:
Yes. Why not?

I really don't care how close he is to the mum. with time, he'll outgrow all that mummy's boy and get closer to me. So??

believe me when I tell you that a guy tied to his mother's apron will make a very baaaaad husband.
Him and his mother will make you feel like a stranger in your home.

NO I can’t their family go frustrate you

CalliDora1:
Yes. Why not?

I really don't care how close he is to the mum. with time, he'll outgrow all that mummy's boy and get closer to me. So??

That's how relationships fail, because some woman hope and think they can change people or situations.

You cannot change people, love what you see in a man or woman without hoping it will change. If you don't, you will be up for massive disappointment.

Human beings are not personal projects to change or hope they change.

Oizee:
thank you, I actually prayed against such men that doesn't have any good relationship with his mum, what ever is the cause means the family get as e b o.
If u ain't too close to ur dad it doesn't bother me much but ur mum...... No no no for me.
I believe such men won't value women like that.
Just pray for good in-laws and be good urself.

Value women in what sense. Beside if u value ur man, ur man will value u period

What about when a wife along with her mother want to control her husband and son-in-law and when the man stands his ground they say he is being controlled by his mother?

Zzor:
I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum, all those mummy's boy type, your home will be run by someone else and not you.

Very true. I don't see anything wrong with a woman being in good terms with her son ( I will be a mother someday), but everything is wrong with being so attached to him or her. A friend of mine is very scared that her father will ruin her marriage with his too much attachment. Always checking up on her unanounced. The man misses her like crazy simply because she is an only daughter.

Ladylawyer:
believe when I tell you that a guy tied to his mother's apron will make a very baaaaad husband.
Him and his mother will make you feel like a stranger in your home.

chineloSA:


That's how relationships fail, because some woman hope and think they can change people or situations.

You cannot change people, love what you see in a man or woman without hoping it will change. If you don't, you will be up for massive disappointment.

Human beings are not personal projects to change or hope they change.

I've not seen that man or even the mother. I don't approach such matters carnally. On my knees, I get things settled. So you guys don't worry.

Human beings are not projects to work on changing them.

Love what he/she loves. If you cannot love what they live, or don't like what you see, let go.

Stop setting yourself up for failure because you hope you will change a whole human being. They are not your special project.

What about when a wife along with her mother want to control her husband and son-in-law and when the man stands his ground they say he is being controlled by his mother? Isn't the girl or wife clingy to her mother?

Its true some time some mothers who are so closed to their child can be annoying imagine only son from an ibo land can never marry any girl from different tribe except from the same village and if you ask why she will tell you I need him to be around her reach

ymstar:

Oizee is there for you!
She's good

The name Oizee sounds strange to me & she may not have interest in inter-ethnic stuff

ymstar:

Oizee is there for you!
She's good

ymstar:

Oizee is there for you!
She's good

The name Oizee sounds strange to me oo & she may not have interest in inter-ethnic stuff

I be bona fide Afonja

Zzor:
I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum, all those mummy's boy type, your home will be run by someone else and not you.

Interesting.

When i read a statement, i would know; either it is from a childlike mentality or mature one. As regards the above quote, it is the former.