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Trying To Leave My Shell by Teena101: 4:32pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Hello everyone, Hope this meets you well,please forgive my grammar and blunders incase you come across any when reading this post..well I am an introvert and I hardly make friends because I don't want issues with people or "them say,them say",its not really affecting my relationship but I think my partner is using it against me because I don't have friends but now I am ready to make friends but I don't know how because I won't like to be snubbed by some people but I intend to learn how to mingle with people..you can advice me on how to go about it because I would like to meet new people and make good connections.. |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by paulsoniv: 4:33pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Yea I've got same issues too sha 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by dawnomike(m): 4:40pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Start by greeting and responding to greetings with a smile on your face... Smiles win you friends 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 4:45pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
I won't confuse you with the complex tricks and hacks that are online. I'm an introvert as well, and it's fine if you have few friends. If you need to meet more people, you'll just have to suck it up and make that bold move - yes, prepare for people to snub you. I will advise you to build a lot of self worth and confidence, that way you won't feel needy for friendship and see it as a choice of your own. Teena101: 2 Likes |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by Teena101: 5:42pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
nwaezeemmanuel:would love to..kindly put me through..can add me on whatsapp zero 8,one,8,8,five,five,zero,8,seven,3 |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 6:05pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Oh no, this won't be necessary because we'll end up talking so much and having little to no action. Start building confidence, appreciate yourself more. Then take action! It's as simple as going out for an event, communicating with people more or getting more involved in things. Don't rush anything or expect a scope or hack - it wouldn't matter if you don't love yourself enough to relate with others Teena101: 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by Teena101: 6:12pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
nwaezeemmanuel:okay thanks |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by Nobody: 6:15pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Teena101:Stop Dis Sissy Attitude. Be A Man Atleast 4 Once. How Can U Be Reasoning & Acting Dis Way Because Ur Gf Said So. |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by Uniquekriss(m): 7:14pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
nwaezeemmanuel:u nailed it. 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by tobechi74: 8:49pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
What do you love to do. Go out and do it You will meet those who do it do From there ,friendship grows natural No force yourself |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by gideon66045: 8:53pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Start by greeting and responding to greetings with a smile on your face... Smiles win you friends |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by AfroKnight: 8:56pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Your boyfriend is using it against you? With this mentality, it is not difficult to see why you don’t have friends. |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by Jodha(f): 8:59pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Be yhurself people that like yhu as yhu are will be naturally attracted to yhu... Biko don't go about desperately looking for else...else yhull see vipers... Be cool and study people very well...never be too clingy or too abstract...have yhur own self respect and worth...the rest will be history |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by Teena101: 9:15pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Truvel:am a lady boss |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by Teena101: 9:16pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
tobechi74:ok..got it..thanks |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by Teena101: 9:17pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
gideon66045:I do but I can hardly keep a conversation unless we are too close,I anm trying to learn to but I am not getting it right |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by Teena101: 9:18pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
AfroKnight:sorry can you explain better |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by Teena101: 9:22pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Jodha:thanks,I did try that sometime back and a suppose friend said I was to proud..all this unnecessary problems is what I keep trying to avoid but I can't satisfy humans |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by Nobody: 9:24pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Teena101:I'm An Introvert Too. I Also Behave Like U Too. I Barely Make Friends Too. U Don't To Make Many Friends. Very Few Is Enough. There Is Nothing Wrong With U. Dat's Just D Way U Are & Dat's D Way I'm Too. |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by AfroKnight: 9:26pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Teena101: You shouldn’t see life through the lens of a victim. I wouldn’t want to be friends with someone who’s guard is up, thinking I’m out to hurt or gossip about her. I’d rather not live life trying to prove that I’m a good friend to someone who thinks I’m going to hurt her. Better to avoid such people. 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by Teena101: 9:29pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
AfroKnight:well I ain't really guard up,if u get to know me then u will know the real me but I think the issue is not been able to be accessible at all time but that doesn't apply to my relationship |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by Teena101: 9:31pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Truvel:okay..thanks but I would love to meet new people and learn different behaviours in human especially female,I don't know how to keep a lasting relationship with females |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by Jodha(f): 9:35pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Teena101: Then that person is not yhur friend...he/she doesn't know yhu... Just be open...yhull come across the right friends...and please choose yhur friends and not the other way round.. |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by Nobody: 9:35pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Teena101:It's Not Hard. Just Hang Out With Dem & Av A Nice Chat With Dem. |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by Teena101: 12:22am On Dec 07, 2020 |
Jodha:Thanks boss 1 Like |
Re: Trying To Leave My Shell by Teena101: 12:23am On Dec 07, 2020 |
Truvel:Thanks boss |
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