I had some rough play that leads to pregnancy with my girlfriend but I'm planning on getting married with her though but I think it's too early for me at the age of 22 I have my work which I'm doing but I'm still hustling. Please I need advice on wether it's too early for me to settle down with her. Though we both understand each other and loved each other but I'm just afraid please I need advice and suggestions.��

The feeling of fear is the issue. If you both got intimate and she's with child, go ahead and get married and take things one step at a time.

If you're both still planning. You can deepen your relationship and plan towards getting married in 2 or 3 years time.

Pellahblaze:
I had some rough play that leads to pregnancy with my girlfriend but I'm planning on getting married with her though but I think it's too early for me at the age of 22 I have my work which I'm doing but I'm still hustling. Please I need advice on wether it's too early for me to settle down with her. Though we both understand each other and loved each other but I'm just afraid please I need advice and suggestions.��

If it was not too early to have unprotected sex then it is not too early to marry.



Quickly go and learn about marriage from books and good videos and settle down with her.


If you knew she was not your wife.... You should have worn a condom.

Wahala for raw skin divers

We both loved each other really well I was planning on settling down with her in the future I was just thinking it's too early to settle down now

Pellahblaze:
We both loved each other really well I was planning on settling down with her in the future I was just thinking it's too early to settle down now

That's gone with the wind if she's pregnant
Do not seek for advice or validation to abhors the baby. Go ahead and marry her.

Pellahblaze:
We both loved each other really well I was planning on settling down with her in the future I was just thinking it's too early to settle down now

It's not bad as long as you are financially capable and you love her. Is their another thing married peeps do that you haven't done?

My sons will marry early.

LadySarah:


It's not bad as long as you are financially capable and you love her. Is their another thing married peeps do that you haven't done?

My sons will marry early.

Even if it's against their decisions?

Just help yourself by getting rid of that pregnancy yesterday.

You are still a kid at 22.
You don’t know what it’s like to raise a child.
You are not financially capable of being a father yet.


Please help your life.

grim33:
Just help yourself by getting rid of that pregnancy yesterday.

You are still a kid at 22.
You don’t know what it’s like to raise a child.
You are not financially capable of being a father yet.


Please help your life.

You're giving a murderer the tool he needs to kill. Validation. When he knew he was too young why did he do it? *



Where is ZZOR sef

That mistake have already been made.
The advice I’m giving him will permanently fix the problem..
it will also spear the innocent child that’s about to be born into “a suffer life” for what two stupid people did.

So I stand by my initial post...

MiQui:




You're giving a murderer the tool he needs to kill. Validation. When he knew he was too young why did he do it? *



Where is ZZOR sef

grim33:
That mistake has already been made.
The advice I’m giving him will permanently fix the problem..
it will also spear the innocent child that’s about to be born into “a suffer life” for what two stupid people did.

So I stand my initial post...

Smiles. How forceful. So to correct a wrong is to spill blood? To murder the victim of the wrong did of a wrong doer?


What if one has an unborn boy and in such condition and unknown to the person the person would die soon and that would be thier only offspring?


Have you considered that the right to give or take life is simply God's to determine and not anyone else and that no one has the right to take his or her life not to talk of an external life?



I was at a church gathering and guess what happened. The pastor called for couples seeking for children over 800 couples. Why! Many engaged in all. Forms of abortion in their youth and we're seeking for children by any means possible.?



Have you been taking notes of how couples are finding it hard to have kids of theirs these days?



Be careful when you hastily give counsels. As I write, I know two persons who were in this exact position but are late but thankfully they didn't committ the abortion each has just one child that has replaced them and for ten years before they died never had the opportunity to have another.

I still don't know why a lot of people go haywire at the mention of abortion.

Abortion is a choice that should always be considered even for married couples.

Guy God don’t give children to people.

Every human on earth is a result of unprotected sex full stop.

Or did you read him mentioned God helping him to wear condom ?

If the girl gets a miscarriage all this things you’re saying become 100% irrelevant.

#dontbringchildrentohellknow100%thattheywillsuffer
#endneedlesssuffering

MiQui:



Smiles. How forceful. So to correct a wrong is to spill blood? To murder the victim of the wrong did of a wrong doer?


What if one has an unborn boy and in such condition and unknown to the person the person would die soon and that would be thier only offspring?


Have you considered that the right to give or take life is simply God's to determine and not anyone else and that no one has the right to take his or her life not to talk of an external life?



I was at a church gathering and guess what happened. The pastor called for couples seeking for children over 800 couples. Why! Many engaged in all. Forms of abortion in their youth and we're seeking for children by any means possible.?



Have you been taking notes of how couples are finding it hard to have kids of theirs these days?

Even if they have done one or more before them go still talk nonsense.

Karleb:
I still don't know why a lot of people go haywire at the mention of abortion.

Abortion is a choice that should always be considered even for married couples.

grim33:
Guy God don’t give children to people.
Every human on earth is a result of sex full stop.

Or did you read him mentioned God helping him to wear condom ?

If the girl gets a miscarriage all this things you’re saying become 100% irrelevant.

#dontbringchildrentohellknow100%thattheywillsuffer
#endneedlesssuffering

What's with the outburst and energy. How come is it all of a sudden God's fault.


May God humble you.


Enjoy

Lol dude you’re the person who introduced God into this discussion .

I didn’t put any blame on God if you’re able to read what I wrote, I totally removed “God” by putting 100% of the blame on the only two people involved in this mess.

MiQui:



What's with the outburst and energy. How come is it all of a sudden God's fault.


May God humble you.


Enjoy

grim33:
Lol dude you’re the person who introduced God into this discussion .

I don’t not put any blame on God if you’re able to read what I wrote, I totally removed “God” by putting 100% on of the blame on the only two people involved in this mess.

... Not on blames or Responsibility


Your comment is a typical of an atheist hence your comment a reflection of your beliefs


Mate, have fun.

Lol. Make I just leave you.

MiQui:
... Not on blames or Responsibility


Your comment is a typical of an atheist hence your comment a reflection of your beliefs


Mate, have fun.

if you're both financially-ready, go ahead and marry her

Pellahblaze:
I had some rough play that leads to pregnancy with my girlfriend

rough play, lol. funny description

:What's with the outburst and energy. How come is it all of a sudden God's fault. May God humble you. Enjoy

OP, my favourite drink is "33" by the way.

Just in case you decide to throw a lavish naming/christening ceremony.

Just forward invitation to my PA.

Pellahblaze:
We both loved each other really well I was planning on settling down with her in the future I was just thinking it's too early to settle down now

..
Reality go soon set in.
That love go fly out of the window.
I wish u well though.

Awon raw skin diveres..

Simply yes,more better things ahead,don't put your self in unncessary stress

MiQui:




You're giving a murderer the tool he needs to kill. Validation. When he knew he was too young why did he do it? *



Where is ZZOR sef

ZZORRRR... You are summoned!

Since you are able to sustain erection at 22, then you should be able to sustain marriage

Wait a while, make.more money and grow mentally and emotionally then get married but be responsible for the child.

Zzor:
Since you are able to sustain erection at 22, then you should be able to sustain marriage

Lmao!!!

This thread is an indication you are not in the mental space to delve into marriage but the child must be provided for.

Since you impregnated ur girl, I won't advice you to get rid of pregnancy, but I pray God should give u requisite to be the man in the house.

(Infatuation rather than love will soon clear from her mind)

About loving each other at ur tender ages, experience has shown that any girl that was married at very tender age the marriage usually scatter on the long run, not even when the husband is also a teenager.

You are experiencing infatuation now, but you misinterpreted it as love, when the goings start tough you will understand the stuff marriage is made of, with God on ur side couple with ur ability to work harder in other to make ur marriage work, you will overcome any challenges.

just because you got a lady pregnant doesn't mean you should marry her. don't do what will make you regret life in the future

Pellahblaze:
I had some rough play that leads to pregnancy with my girlfriend but I'm planning on getting married with her though but I think it's too early for me at the age of 22 I have my work which I'm doing but I'm still hustling. Please I need advice on wether it's too early for me to settle down with her. Though we both understand each other and loved each other but I'm just afraid please I need advice and suggestions.��

pregnancy has never been a basis for marriage

Love is the very reason for marriage

Yes you are very young for marriage but if your parents will give you their shoulder to rest or lean on then go ahead

But don't come back to give complains because as far as I understand marriage, you are yet to know the nitty gritty of marriage

Women are more smarter in that game