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Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by Pellahblaze(m): 1:42pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
I had some rough play that leads to pregnancy with my girlfriend but I'm planning on getting married with her though but I think it's too early for me at the age of 22 I have my work which I'm doing but I'm still hustling. Please I need advice on wether it's too early for me to settle down with her. Though we both understand each other and loved each other but I'm just afraid please I need advice and suggestions.�� 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by MiQui: 1:43pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
The feeling of fear is the issue. If you both got intimate and she's with child, go ahead and get married and take things one step at a time. If you're both still planning. You can deepen your relationship and plan towards getting married in 2 or 3 years time. 8 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by blackpanthar: 1:44pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
Pellahblaze: If it was not too early to have unprotected sex then it is not too early to marry. Quickly go and learn about marriage from books and good videos and settle down with her. If you knew she was not your wife.... You should have worn a condom. 4 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by Nobody: 1:46pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
Wahala for raw skin divers ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by Pellahblaze(m): 1:47pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
We both loved each other really well I was planning on settling down with her in the future I was just thinking it's too early to settle down now |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by MiQui: 1:52pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
Pellahblaze: That's gone with the wind if she's pregnant Do not seek for advice or validation to abhors the baby. Go ahead and marry her. 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by LadySarah: 1:56pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
Pellahblaze: It's not bad as long as you are financially capable and you love her. Is their another thing married peeps do that you haven't done? My sons will marry early. 2 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by Karleb(m): 2:40pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
LadySarah: Even if it's against their decisions? 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by grim33(m): 2:51pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
Just help yourself by getting rid of that pregnancy yesterday. You are still a kid at 22. You don’t know what it’s like to raise a child. You are not financially capable of being a father yet. Please help your life. 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by MiQui: 2:56pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
grim33: You're giving a murderer the tool he needs to kill. Validation. When he knew he was too young why did he do it? * Where is ZZOR sef ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by grim33(m): 3:02pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
That mistake have already been made. The advice I’m giving him will permanently fix the problem.. it will also spear the innocent child that’s about to be born into “a suffer life” for what two stupid people did. So I stand by my initial post... MiQui: 3 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by MiQui: 3:04pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
grim33: Smiles. How forceful. So to correct a wrong is to spill blood? To murder the victim of the wrong did of a wrong doer? What if one has an unborn boy and in such condition and unknown to the person the person would die soon and that would be thier only offspring? Have you considered that the right to give or take life is simply God's to determine and not anyone else and that no one has the right to take his or her life not to talk of an external life? I was at a church gathering and guess what happened. The pastor called for couples seeking for children over 800 couples. Why! Many engaged in all. Forms of abortion in their youth and we're seeking for children by any means possible.? Have you been taking notes of how couples are finding it hard to have kids of theirs these days? Be careful when you hastily give counsels. As I write, I know two persons who were in this exact position but are late but thankfully they didn't committ the abortion each has just one child that has replaced them and for ten years before they died never had the opportunity to have another. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by Karleb(m): 3:10pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
I still don't know why a lot of people go haywire at the mention of abortion. ![]() Abortion is a choice that should always be considered even for married couples. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by grim33(m): 3:12pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
Guy God don’t give children to people. Every human on earth is a result of unprotected sex full stop. Or did you read him mentioned God helping him to wear condom ? If the girl gets a miscarriage all this things you’re saying become 100% irrelevant. #dontbringchildrentohellknow100%thattheywillsuffer #endneedlesssuffering MiQui: 3 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by grim33(m): 3:13pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
Even if they have done one or more before them go still talk nonsense. Karleb: 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by MiQui: 3:14pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
grim33: What's with the outburst and energy. How come is it all of a sudden God's fault. May God humble you. Enjoy 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by grim33(m): 3:21pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
Lol dude you’re the person who introduced God into this discussion . I didn’t put any blame on God if you’re able to read what I wrote, I totally removed “God” by putting 100% of the blame on the only two people involved in this mess. MiQui: 3 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by MiQui: 3:22pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
grim33:... Not on blames or Responsibility Your comment is a typical of an atheist hence your comment a reflection of your beliefs Mate, have fun. 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by grim33(m): 3:24pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
Lol. Make I just leave you. MiQui: 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by Nobody: 3:47pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
if you're both financially-ready, go ahead and marry her Pellahblaze:rough play, lol. funny description 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by abosede93452: 4:59pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
:What's with the outburst and energy. How come is it all of a sudden God's fault. May God humble you. Enjoy |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by Nobody: 8:13pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
OP, my favourite drink is "33" by the way. Just in case you decide to throw a lavish naming/christening ceremony. Just forward invitation to my PA. |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by Uyi168: 8:28pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
Pellahblaze:.. Reality go soon set in. That love go fly out of the window. I wish u well though. Awon raw skin diveres.. ![]() |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by kodix(m): 8:33pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
Simply yes,more better things ahead,don't put your self in unncessary stress |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by Lamanii22(f): 9:51pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
MiQui: ZZORRRR... You are summoned! |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by Nobody: 9:58pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
Since you are able to sustain erection at 22, then you should be able to sustain marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by UndauntedYOCA(f): 6:07pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Wait a while, make.more money and grow mentally and emotionally then get married but be responsible for the child. |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by Alexaonfleek: 1:17am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Zzor: ![]() ![]() ![]() Lmao!!! 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by Mindlog: 2:09am On Dec 09, 2020 |
This thread is an indication you are not in the mental space to delve into marriage but the child must be provided for. |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by Nobody: 2:57am On Dec 09, 2020 |
Since you impregnated ur girl, I won't advice you to get rid of pregnancy, but I pray God should give u requisite to be the man in the house. (Infatuation rather than love will soon clear from her mind) About loving each other at ur tender ages, experience has shown that any girl that was married at very tender age the marriage usually scatter on the long run, not even when the husband is also a teenager. You are experiencing infatuation now, but you misinterpreted it as love, when the goings start tough you will understand the stuff marriage is made of, with God on ur side couple with ur ability to work harder in other to make ur marriage work, you will overcome any challenges. |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by MadelnNigeria: 7:04am On Dec 09, 2020 |
just because you got a lady pregnant doesn't mean you should marry her. don't do what will make you regret life in the future |
Re: Please I Need Advice On Wether It's Too Early To Get Married At The Age Of 22 by frozen70(f): 8:35pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
Pellahblaze: pregnancy has never been a basis for marriage Love is the very reason for marriage Yes you are very young for marriage but if your parents will give you their shoulder to rest or lean on then go ahead But don't come back to give complains because as far as I understand marriage, you are yet to know the nitty gritty of marriage Women are more smarter in that game |
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