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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by foreman: 9:11am On Dec 07, 2020 |
https://www.nairaland.com/6299878/pius-angbo-channels-tv-reacts It's coming to our clime gradually. Note that both Men and women are calling for the guy's head without bothering to find out what happened. 6 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Regex: 9:12am On Dec 07, 2020 |
emmaodet: It look like. In my head we was dating. I can't say such for hers! 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Regex: 9:13am On Dec 07, 2020 |
DharmieDhrey: Leave her and never return. Don't ever turn your back. She's doing the most work because all her first choice rejected her. Bounce mate. 10 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Regex: 9:26am On Dec 07, 2020 |
LordAdam16: Who is this guy, so wise in the ways of science? 9 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 9:44am On Dec 07, 2020 |
Regex:So you no see his moniker abi? ![]() He is Adam ma nigga ![]() |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Regex: 11:42am On Dec 07, 2020 |
luminouz: Omo, the moniker fit am! He is really what the moniker talk. |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DontBullshitMe: 12:44pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
Martinez39s:Do you live inside my brain? ![]() I am relieved I am not the only Nigerian who thinks this way. ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by LordAdam16: 12:50pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
foreman: Let me just say, right out the gate, I will not tell you what you should do. Mostly because I don't know anything about you. I don't know your personality, values, experiences, goals, and all of the bits and pieces that shape you and your reality. What I can do is offer an expose and you can form an independent conclusion one way or another. === With that out of the way, I don't suppose the natalism debate, at this period in our history is one that merits a definite conclusion. We are at that weird period in our timeline where it's not necessary to procreate but we can still procreate because the Earth is not overpopulated yet. Consider this, our population went from 100 million in 500 BC to 1 billion in 1800 (that's 2300 years). Then we went from 1.6b in 1900 to 7b in 2010 (that's 110 years). In the last ten years alone, we've topped our population by 700m people. It took us 6700 years to go from 5m to 700m. You get the point. Personally, I'll have kids for the primary reason that they should get a shot at life as I did and because I'm lucky enough to provide a good life for them. If they make something of themselves, great. If not, that's on them. Now besides this, there are several other reasons people choose to have kids. Whether it's selfish--so they have someone to care of them when they're old or cheesy--because it's a box to tick on their to-do list. I don't think I'm in a position to grade any person's reason to have a kid. Not to mention, these reasons in a strictly anthropological sense are sort of masks. The reality is that the vast majority of people--I'm talking above 85%--have an innate desire to procreate. To give an analogy, it's a lot like our innate desire to connect with other people because we're social beings. --- So that's the for part of the debate. Now the against: There is such a thing as too many people. The optimum population of humans on planet Earth is 1.5 to 2b people. We've known that since 1999. At almost 8b, we're 400% above where we should be. By 2100, we could be at 16b; which is the maximum carrying capacity of the planet. The implication is that sooner or later, anti-natalism will win the debate, and much of the planet will re-introduce China's one (or two) child policy. Believe it or not, if we hit that magic number, people will be incentivized by many governments (such as by tax credits) to preferably have no kids. Besides the overpopulation point, there are plenty of other credible reasons not to have kids. Whether it's just how they feel (not everyone has the innate desire to have kids), or because they don't think they can give the kid a good life or be good parents, or they're not sure about the direction the world is taking, et cetera. Again all of these are valid. Especially since procreation is no longer necessary. Add the progress made in the field of ectogenesis, gene sequencing, and the inefficiency of our current reproductive process; and it can be said that the rational, purely intellectual conclusion to this debate should be that unless you're in an at-risk country like Japan or Spain with real danger of challenging negative population growth (with corresponding severe economic impact), choosing not to have kids is the ecologically responsible decision to take at this point in time. === As far as conclusions go, that's as good as it'd get in the natalism debate based on what we know currently. Note that I said nothing about the ethics. It's because I'm not a moralist. But you're not deciding whether to have kids or not. You already have kids and let's just say your marriage could be better. Now if I were a feminist, your question is easy to answer. Suck it up and stay, since you're a man. But if the question was directed by a woman, she should leave yesterday and replace you; because her happiness is paramount. I'm tempted to do the same with a gender switch. But this is not about agendas. This is about the lives of your kids. As any parent or godparent here knows, our children are our world, and we'd without hesitation trade our lives for theirs. In that regard, staying in an unhappy marriage to provide a stable environment for your kid, is one of the few if not only reason to actually stay in an unhappy marriage. The only caveat is the key phrase stable environment. If staying together is making the kids' environment toxic, whether it's because your partner is literally driving you insane or your interactions are sending the wrong life lessons to your kids, or whatever else; you have to get out of there. For both your sake and your kids'. === Now, there are those of the school of thought that believe staying in a toxic marriage is better for the kids than going separate ways. Or attempt to rationalize a toxic marriage as a "happy marriage" with flaws. You know, the 'no marriage is perfect' crowd. All of that is a load of horse sh*t. As a man in the 21st century, you have zero reason to spend the tail-end of your life eating away on the inside and ruining the childhood of your kids to keep appearances. In the past, I can understand why leaving was not an option, because no matter how much of a screw-up your partner turns out to be, you had to stay to guarantee both the physical and economic security of your kids. Plus, polygamy was often an option. Today, you can be a phenomenal parent without sharing a bed or the same roof with a woman you no longer recognize. In any case, the choice is yours. Men need to hear that more often. So before you take one of the most important decisions of your life, do more reading, communicate with people who share the same predicament, and get first-hand accounts from both men who left and the kids who were left behind. Check for biases and prejudices, but most importantly, try to make an informed decision and regardless of whether you stay or leave, do your darn best to be an amazing father to your kids. And don't do it because you're expecting adulation or you're thinking about what they'd do for you in the future. Do it because one of the virtues of masculinity is wearing your responsibility like a cape. And it is possible, in fact, imperative, that you simultaneously look out for yourself while you nail your fatherly duties. *** PS: @Savagethe21st, I'd answer your question sometime tonight. -Lord 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by A305: 1:45pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:Na man you be. 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by A305: 2:18pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
emmaodet:A wise man once said: Marriage turns men to a philosopher. From what you wrote above -- I can honestly say; You more like an intelligent Professor taking a class full of freshers on Social Psychology course -- And 'A' is guaranteed by the way you explain complex concepts seamlessly. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 3:38pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
As the rain flows downward to the earth, so happiness ought to flow from a man to his woman. As the cloud doesn't need the earth for nourishment, so a man mustn't depend on a woman for his existence. As the ground gazes upward for water, so a woman must towards her man. If she becomes histrionic and rebellious like the desert, she will perish without water. Water here is pure masculinity, and any woman lacking it in her life will live miserably e.g feminists. As the cloud doesn't give the earth all its water, so a man must act towards his woman; if he's completely opened, he will be quickly exhausted and abandoned. As the cloud leaves the earth dried during the sunny days, so a man must towards his woman, because only true scarcity of materials, a material becomes valuable and appreciated. You give her life and not the other way round. You don't need her but she definitely needs you. Authority: Take the upper hand. 54 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ElasmoBranchii(m): 4:53pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
Malcolm X preaching 8 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kazyhm(m): 6:11pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
GLYCOLYSISS: 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by itsRhamzy: 6:11pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
I share this page link on my WhatsApp every single fawking day. Kindly do same to liberate the millions of simps out there under the shackles of pussy. 22 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 7:33pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
pansophist:Sent. |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 7:37pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kazyhm(m): 10:01pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
GLYCOLYSISS: 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kazyhm(m): 10:02pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
GLYCOLYSISS: 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by EmeraldHash(m): 10:35pm On Dec 07, 2020 |
GLYCOLYSISS:Thanks, man. Much Appreciated |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Liposure: 7:50am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Martinez39s:hmmmm |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by stevesawo: 10:38am On Dec 08, 2020 |
https://www.nairaland.com/6301340/feel-suicidal-because-marriage What will make a man to contemplate suicide because of a woman? |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 10:54am On Dec 08, 2020 |
The more you try to please her; the more it becomes impossible to please her. She will definitely use it as a leverage to bolster her ego, treat you as bullshit, and substitute you for another. Let her derive her pleasure from your pleasures. Authority: Make yourself happy and she will automatically become happy. 59 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by oyolohi: 12:02pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
foreman: Ok, I got interested in this... So here's my take: I promise it's going to be short. Some will say you've made a lifetime mistake and there's no escape right now... Me? I say there's an escape route. Matter-of-factly, --many: run away, strangle the child to death, sell the child, etc... if you want freedom. Oh wait... We're in the age of MORALITY, and you might not like to pay with your life --or risk being seen as irresponsible. If that's the case with you, then take this route: First, you'll have to accept these things: 1. That you've brought a life to earth. 2. You'll spend millions on that kid if you want that child to get a good life someday (health, clothing, feeding, school, upkeep, --bills --for many many years). 3. Your wife may turn that kid against you (almost all wives do this things even unintentional --its the default case--even my mom did this) 4. The kid will give you nothing but joy in the very early years, but as time goes on, its gonna be more pains --emotionally, financially (especially if your income is average --or below), etc... Be prepared. With those 4 points above, I just hope you the mother doesn't ends up cheating in the end -- after all those sacrifices. Also, about your wife (if you get married) turning your kids against you... you can do something about that: use wisdom and avoid your wife pushing you to become the evil dad. Discipline your kid with wisdom. Hold your kid often (physical contact. Look in their eyes). Wives turn their husband from being nice to their kids by pampering the kids in a way that seems excessive and disgusts the husband --making him turn into an unsympathetic hardass ...so reverse that psychology by doing most of the pampering! Your wife will get disgusted and automatically will become the harder one on the kid! ![]() Warning!! If your kid is a girl, do everything manly possible to make your relationship is even stronger in her teenage years! Girls at that age can easily trust their dads (contrary to what people think) and are easily mesmerized that they'll tell you (dad) everything, even about the guy they like --depending on how close you are to them! After capturing her, you then change whatever you feel will lead her the the wrong path in your grand wisdom! Thank me later. *wink* So, what authority do I have to drop advise on marriage and the kid stuff? Right from my teenage years, my friends have always been men. Really matured men --family men. I didn't find wisdom in things I discussed my age group! If I've learnt anything from my many old men friends, its how miserable marriage and kids have made most most of them! You'll be shocked How many have categorically told me this! Anyways, Congrats man... I know it's most unlikely that the whole me on this thread will congratulate a guy for bringing forth a kid ![]() ![]() My older brother is not married to my niece's mother yet. My niece is so cute but I see through. She's just a tool my brother's girlfriend used to glue him to herself (fear women of over 30 years) which reinforces my idea of kids mostly being tools used by women to project a relationship for a lifetime of gains for themselves and their kids. --my brother's girlfriend has succeeded in capturing him 80%. So, my advice to you? 1. Don't add more kids to the one you already have! I repeat. I can't overstate this. Or wait... Are they already more? Your wife will do everything WOMANLY possible to make you add to the numbers: you'll have to do everything MANLY possible to avoid it. She will open the matter's wrapper waaaa and take it to counselors, church, your family, hers, babalawo ![]() P.S: ...and to every guy here (who claims that he wants to enjoy his life) and still dream of kids? I have strong reasons believe that your desire is instinctive and not calculated. Oh wait! One more thing... You could do a paternity test and if it comes out negative, you dump the kid and the mother's Sorry ass without staining your conscience! ![]() If the kid (kids?) is/are yours. It's totally fine. Someone said "life is what happens while we're busy making plans for the future." Move on with life. With your knowledge of the redpill, you'll be more prepared for disappointments --which indeed, will make you a happier man. P.P.S : My apologies for not fulfilling my promise of a short article. Thank you. 31 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 12:48pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Women understand each other. Yesterday, I was eavesdropping on my mum's and sister's discussion about the Channels news staff that allegedly beat up his wife. My sister told my mum the news, and my mum said IMMEDIATELY "women have sharp mouth, who knows what she could have been telling the husband." Yeh! ![]() If I said I was shocked by the secret women talk, I would be a liar. Women don't trust each other, but simps and team "I am a 'real' man" will trust a woman in the name of love ("there is no love without trust" nonsense). Women understand each other yet they don't trust each but you want to trust them and #believeallwomen, who you be sef? Some simps even crucified the reporter even though they never listened to his side of the story. ![]() ![]() ![]() CAPSLOCKED, Yamiriflathead, Ubunja, GLYCOLYSISS, oyolohi, MJBOLT, caveadullam, pansophist, ichidodo, Dpsychologist. 48 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Skepticus: 12:50pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
i926: Don Jazzy is an entertainer and as it is with a lot of entertainers, the image they portray to the public may be far different from what they believe and do, in their private lives. It's too "early" to judge his regular open display of "crush" on rihanna as simping, even though, the act might be seen as one. We have seen folks in entertainment sing or act red pill in open display and turn out to be miserable wussies in their private love life and vice versa. Personally, I prefer to judge people's awareness of the red pill by what they do in their private lives than what they do or say in the open. Anyone can say anything. I also, judge them by the consequences of the actions they do, in the long run (in relation to their personal growth and the society where they live) whether those actions appear blue-pilled or red-pilled at the moment that it was done. In my own opinion of Don Jazzy, I do suspect that the guy is low-key anti-natalist, MGTOW putting on an act (he may have a natural crush on Rihanna, as a sex symbol, though) to wow his mostly blue-pilled fans and also deflect them from his noticeable action of choosing not to commit to any woman or having kids despite having a high sexual market value (by Nigerian standards). The late JT Tom-West is also suspect. I may be wrong about both, though. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 12:59pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Martinez39s: Lol, women know what they do wrong na. They all do. But outside where men are, they pretend otherwise and heap the blame solely on the man. 17 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 1:05pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
luminouz:Women understand and are sceptical about each other and they don't trust themselves, but stupid simps will take a woman's word hook, line and sinker to throw their fellow men under the bus. Women will always support each other against men, but men will throw each other the bus for women. Simps need to wake the hell up. 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Liposure: 1:10pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Snow02:a sentiment driven system creates imbalance in the socio-cultural scheme of things. The higher you earn the better for her 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 1:10pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
You are right. The only time I have seen where women deviate from the norm is when love/husband or kids are involved. Then, what they practice is 'ALL IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR' Believing a woman's word without vetting it is pure suicide. I don't do such. Martinez39s: 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by pansophist(m): 3:05pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
Martinez39s: Observe the female psyche, biology and motivations, it all evolves to receive from men. The private part collect semen, hypergamy wants status, attention, money, her weaker self wants protection and to be provided for, and so on. So yes, women understand love by receiving, and manipulating men are a vehicle to achieve that. They integrate into the society men create, their job is to manipulate men, same way men manipulate from nature. Women discover and understand men same way men keep exploring and discovering the world. Instagram created through the ingenuity of men, but women integrate perfectly into it for ego boost. Benefitting from mens creativity. Her jackpot is a man that compliments her infinite upwards facing hypergamy, just as for men, its making something out of the world. So called jobs like online influencers, Instagram models, YouTubers, content creators, and so on, are all birthed out by the ingenuity of men, but of course, women adapt by integrating and cashing out of it. So the discussions between your mum and sister is not surprising, you just do not see it often. Its their way of life. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sweet7oyin(m): 3:19pm On Dec 08, 2020 |
The basics of this is for you to work on yourself Money Females Power Fame Etc Everything comes from working on yourself, making money, doing what you love to do. You can't ever remain stagnant Try to be better Try to do what you love Many guys hold women to love I dont even get why We need to stop that and see them the way they are. Not hate them but accept them The more money you have The more power you have The more fame Etc This would get you them chick's Forget all the fairy tales love. This even goes deeper A woman can love you for what she sees you can become and as soon as she sees you are going the wrong direction or you are taking longer. She leaves you. And you shout she has been with him even when he had nothing If he kept on having nothing she would have left bruh In some cases she could even get to a point that your dreams are no more an elevation Then she leaves Yh thats how she is. The main point is to stay on making yourself better in everyday. Stop holding women to love Hold them to what you can give them now or in the future. You wanna Bleep her Bleep her well You Wanna give her attention Make it priceless. But the main thing is be a better you Work on yourself. They say money doesn't bring happiness Lol Lets make money then we know whether that's true or not Its that simple. This could apply to interactions with anyone not only females Thats what I feel 15 Likes 1 Share |
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