legacystore:
First how old is your younger brother?

How many years u take senior him?

If he insults you publicly to ur face pls don't ignore, always caution him and remind you are his elder n demands some respects from him.

Overall kw that u can't force respect u earn respect. Are u being a true elder brother to him, beyond giving him advice how many times have I given him a gift even if na boxers n singlet?

U need to act like an assist father to him to earn the respect u seek n show him love.

kenwills:

He is 17yrs old and I'm 26yrs. Whenever I caution him he looks for another way to make fun of me. I do give him money sometimes.

Karleb:
If you can beat him, make sure you deal with him properly the next time he disrespects you.
If you can't, use your mouth. Abuse the hell out of him and let him know through your mouth that you are his elder and he must show you your respect.

Whenever those small kids he has influenced mock you, stand your ground. If you can beat them, do. If you can't, tell them they lack respect because you are not their mate and report them to their parents and guardians.

This will make them fear you and start minding their businesses.

Stop talking to him and those little kids unless it's necessary. Start behaving like a big brother.
The best way to act so is to mind your own business.

I'm very sure your brother respects people not up to your age outside so why would he disrespect you so much?

If he won't stop, tell him to stop talking to you and report him to your parents.

kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?

Janella29:
Lol.
Ignore him jor. See the age gap sef.

Show him that at his age there are still a lot of things he hasn't experienced that you have.

Make mockery of his own mockery by smiling at him and his co mockers and simply walking away as if you have better things to do.

Stop shouting and beating him that only shows how much the whole thing is getting to you.

Make it look like he's being childish and it doesn't get to you at all.

Ina short while it will all stop you ll see

Nazgul:
Best hell out of him. How can your younger brother openly disrespect you? As long as you keep quiet he'll continue deal with him by teaching him a lesson he'll never forget in his life.

kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?

kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?