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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by weslay: 12:26pm On Dec 08, 2020
I wonder how parents raised male children these days. A teenager making fun of a grown ass man and you are here seeking advise. Every parent needs to train their male children as men.

You need to beat the hell out of him the next time he disrespects you. Also, make sure to leave him scarred.
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Ghostmode2two(m): 12:26pm On Dec 08, 2020
Make you give am very sound and resounding beating of his life. Nor be by money, instill great fear into him. You dey fall my hand, you wey be uni student one small boy dey dull you unto wetin nah?

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Anfield247(m): 12:30pm On Dec 08, 2020
kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?
You just need to use wisdom to follow him up. 17years old pikin of nowadays is different from the ones of those days

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Psalmy2cute(m): 12:33pm On Dec 08, 2020
xProfx:
Pay less attention to him... The worst thing you can do is trying to force someone to respect you. I have realised age is a fake instrument that only worked in the past so don't let your age difference make you think he will respect you so much.

The best way you can get him to respect you is to stop trying, just be a more simple person and treat him like an adult, like your mate. Learn to forgive him in advance cos he will still offend you and you will still offend him...

Just be nice to him for no reason than the blood you share... Buy him little things like drinks and snacks when you go to the supermarket and just give him without asking. Advise him less, let him realize his own mistakes...
You've spoken like the kind of elder brother I want in my life

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by seyoops4u: 12:33pm On Dec 08, 2020
Please this might sound off but if you want him to respect you, get money, get money, get more money.

kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by WelcomeToBiafra: 12:34pm On Dec 08, 2020
Every blood of Nigeria in you, must be flush out.
Call your younger brother apologize to him, treat him as your friend, not as a child you presumes he is to you.

What is in his brain and yours are not the same, you feel me?
Respect your brother's talents, him will respect you back.

Women una sef talk too much.

Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Mutemenot(m): 12:36pm On Dec 08, 2020
Nazgul:
Best hell out of him. How can your younger brother openly disrespect you? As long as you keep quiet he'll continue deal with him by teaching him a lesson he'll never forget in his life.

The younger brother na Area while Op is living in the state of saints . If he dare touch the nigga na sorry go be him name. Beat way is to mind his business, he should make him self a respectable Man..

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Tony142: 12:38pm On Dec 08, 2020
DoubleEngine007:
The truth is ,he disrespects you because he feel he is senior to you,probably because the yahoo he does is paying him. In Nigeria of today,na who get money be senior. So,bro find money and see if the boy won't be kneeling to greet you..




u are mad, who told u na who get money be senior? idiot



my father is the richest in his family, my father is also the last born out of 7 children, if there is a family meeting if the elder ones are talking my father dare not open his mouth to talk, it is what ever the senior ones said that he will agree on, he did not have his one say.

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by MrJibana: 12:39pm On Dec 08, 2020
Report am to Efcc make dem come pick am..em go humble by force.
kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by tron23(m): 12:41pm On Dec 08, 2020
Just ignore him and focus on your career development. This means no good morning, no presents or gifts even recharge cards. Focus on yourself - career and money. Listen to me, there is nothing you can do that will change his disposition towards you. Look at Barack Obama, 2 term US President still getting abused by people who are not on his level.

I know what I am talking about, ignore him and face your front. Peace.

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by talktrue1234: 12:42pm On Dec 08, 2020
He is an immature fool, he will learn with time, I pray he is able to forgive himself by then, but what are your parent, especially your mom saying about it?

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by xtervaganza(m): 12:45pm On Dec 08, 2020
kenwills:


He is 17yrs old and I'm 26yrs.
Whenever I caution him he looks for another way to make fun of me.
I do give him money sometimes.
I won't give you advice I won't take myself. I get hot temper ooo
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Tony142: 12:46pm On Dec 08, 2020
kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?



it is better for people to fear u than to respect u, I do not like respect I prefer being feared



when u are too farmilar with someone that person will start taking you for granted, the reason why your younger brother is disrespecting you is because u are too close to him, it is because u laugh with him too much, as from today stop laughing with him, ignored him, act like he does not exit, if u follow what I told u to do he will start respecting you, when he start respecting u he will want to come close to you, but pls do not allow him, I repeat do not allow him to come close to you again, the more he try to come close and form farmilarity the more u should distance yourself away from him


if u want to punish him and make him humble faster, tell him that u will report him to EFCC for doing yahoo, he go humble sharp sharp, Lol

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by MissEfe(f): 12:48pm On Dec 08, 2020
helinues:
In an average family in Nigeria, if you don't have money, your opinion might not be needed...
you are right.
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by bigman001(m): 12:52pm On Dec 08, 2020
kenwills:


He is 17yrs old and I'm 26yrs.
Whenever I caution him he looks for another way to make fun of me.
I do give him money sometimes.
Are your parents aware of his disrespectful behaviors to you?
More over for him to have indulged himself into such act at an early age means he has been mingling with people of your age group and they welcomed him with all sorts of rubbish . What kind of friends he is hanging out with?

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by SavageResponse(m): 12:54pm On Dec 08, 2020
kenwills:


He is 17yrs old and I'm 26yrs.
Whenever I caution him he looks for another way to make fun of me.
I do give him money sometimes.

You're older than him by 9 years and he has the effontery to disrespect you?! angry

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Aguilar(m): 12:55pm On Dec 08, 2020
my 17 years old brother(last born) calls me "uncle", he's a bully and also rides people that are older than him. but when it comes to me he respects me and fears me.

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Judolisco(m): 12:55pm On Dec 08, 2020
As u Don warn am respect yourself.... Stay ur lane... E go soon understand jst pray it's not 2 late

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by alabi484(m): 12:55pm On Dec 08, 2020
xProfx:
Pay less attention to him... The worst thing you can do is trying to force someone to respect you. I have realised age is a fake instrument that only worked in the past so don't let your age difference make you think he will respect you so much.

The best way you can get him to respect you is to stop trying, just be a more simple person and treat him like an adult, like your mate. Learn to forgive him in advance cos he will still offend you and you will still offend him...

Just be nice to him for no reason than the blood you share... Buy him little things like drinks and snacks when you go to the supermarket and just give him without asking. Advise him less, let him realize his own mistakes...

You took this out of my mouth literally.

Reverse psychology at it's best.

Thumbs up

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by neonbash0: 12:57pm On Dec 08, 2020
Bid your time

Graduate
Get a job
Move out


And then cut him and anyone who makes you feel less than.
I know what you're going through.
My friend's mom literally went through all this and when she finally graduated, got a job and then moved out: it took them few years to realize that she ain't coming back to the family home to stay, only visit.

She got married and she and her husband left for the US.

At the moment: her immediate family is still trying to reconcile with her but she don't want them no more.


HEY THERE!

LISTEN.
THE BEST REVENGE IS SUCCESS.

DON'T FORGET THIS
❤️X�️

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by chris51(f): 12:57pm On Dec 08, 2020
kenwills:


He is 17yrs old and I'm 26yrs.
Whenever I caution him he looks for another way to make fun of me.
I do give him money sometimes.


9 years is a huge age gap.
Please report the matter to your parents. They should get involved

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Nobody: 12:57pm On Dec 08, 2020
lol, 17 yrs ke, he is just trying to claim your birth right by any means cos he feels he is better than you. dont fall for it. it happens btw jacob and esau in the bible too and esau fell for it. fight for your birth right dat all i will tell you.

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by chris51(f): 12:58pm On Dec 08, 2020
chris51:



9 years is a huge age gap.
Please report the matter to your parents. They should get involved
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Myhusband(m): 12:58pm On Dec 08, 2020
xProfx:
Pay less attention to him... The worst thing you can do is trying to force someone to respect you. I have realised age is a fake instrument that only worked in the past so don't let your age difference make you think he will respect you so much.

The best way you can get him to respect you is to stop trying, just be a more simple person and treat him like an adult, like your mate. Learn to forgive him in advance cos he will still offend you and you will still offend him...

Just be nice to him for no reason than the blood you share... Buy him little things like drinks and snacks when you go to the supermarket and just give him without asking. Advise him less, let him realize his own mistakes...



your post was becoming interesting until you mention buy him drinks, go to supermarket bla bla, did the op tell you his brother is doing birthday?


op, e be like say you no get anything wey dey bothered you, if you get you no go dey monitor someone that have his life to live


abeg give the dude freedom and mind your business, minding your business will give you your respect back, no be everything elderly people dey do cho cho to if you don't want to lose ya respect


mind your fúcking business and learn to overlook things that are not dangerous around him
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by blazebaba(m): 1:01pm On Dec 08, 2020
Them never born that pikin well....you fit repeat am again....

Mostly my younger ones are female only our last born....boy be feeling fly cos we don reach the same height,telling me straight to my face say if we fight nothing wey i go fit do am cos i no dey stay around them,i just laff it off and tell him mama say "our prick be of the same size no mean say the flesh no thick pass eachother ooo"....The day wey he do am reach,na joke him call am,boy later start begging calling for him mama...

OP ehn!!...that brother of urs need some thorough discipline,he still has the guts telling other kids in the neigborhood to step on ur EGO when he is supposed to be the one defending you when you not there.....bros no be soo....who born monkey,wey i don first you enter this world wey you still con be my junior brother...

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Aguilar(m): 1:02pm On Dec 08, 2020
kenwills:


He is 17yrs old and I'm 26yrs.
Whenever I caution him he looks for another way to make fun of me.
I do give him money sometimes.
ah see age difference and he dey disrespect you, I'm 23yrs(first born) and my dad gave birth to 3 boys, one girl. my last born na 17, na uncle he dey call me and the boy na bully, still yet that respect dey. where you bleep up be say you too gentle.

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Nobody: 1:03pm On Dec 08, 2020
Because him dey fit beat you
He wont disrespect u if u were stronger than him .
Go and gym. Attend martial arts class and let him know u have soared in strength and he will naturally stay on his lane.
Him go maintain come dey call u BROS!
WARNING!! No beat him up o.
No fight once u are into martial arts o..
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by pegix(m): 1:04pm On Dec 08, 2020
kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?
See ehn just leave him , do ur own alone is the best o
I've been in dix kinda situation b4
Knw how it feels the age difference was not even wide as urz...d disrespect was unbearable...until ti mo jara mi
As u can see the fella is just 17
He's growing up...try to give dat pace ...set a firm boundary dat ur a ready to defend with violence undecided (atleast for a while)
Actually i don't see any reason to give ur youngi money b4 s//he respects u...no na embarassed

Na becox say u dey house 8/9 month dey chop ,do wakawaka with am cause am sha grin grin grin...o normal bro

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by stephenponti(m): 1:05pm On Dec 08, 2020
You be woman? Beat shege out of his brain.
Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by Xano(m): 1:09pm On Dec 08, 2020
kenwills:


He is 17yrs old and I'm 26yrs.
Whenever I caution him he looks for another way to make fun of me.
I do give him money sometimes.

In some instances, parents are at fault, because when inform them, their response is not adequate.

My advice:
Treat him as if he does not exist. Do not respond or at look him. Walk pass him. Ignore him completely. Do this for several months.

If he deliberately walks into your lane, slap the hell out of him. Then walk away.

If he walks up to you when you are in conversation with your guys verbally humiliate him. He wouldn't come again.

The above advice might be extreme, but DON'T change for him to respect you. You are the elder brother, be one.

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Re: Help: My Younger Brother Disrespects Me Alot by gidado14(m): 1:17pm On Dec 08, 2020
kenwills:
Hello Nairalanders,
Ever since I came back from school due to the pandemic and ASUU's strike, my younger brother has never shown me an iota of respect. I discovered he is into internet scam, and I cautioned him seriously to desist from such but he never listened.

He mocks me indirectly to my hearing, gathers little children in the neighborhood, tells them all sorts of defamatory things to say about me. Whenever this children see me around the compound, they start making jest of me and calling me all sort of unprintable names.
I warned him sternly to stop all of that else he would regret it. But the more I speak the worse he becomes in disrespecting and defaming my personality in the neighborhood.

I have been emotionally down for some days now due to this issue, but I refused to use violence on him out of anger.

Pls help me what can I do?


just hussle and get more he will be your bodyguard

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