I’m always serious whenever i’m with my father. Our conversations is always like interrogations
He wants me to handle projects without issue.
I cherish those moments and made me a better person and, he said it to me once when I became independent that he liked my personality.
Oh my father!
I miss you Dr. Wire :�.

Many Nigerian men don't know how to show soft, tender love towards their male children. They are afraid it might make them look weak, or make the child grow soft. I don't think I ever heard my dad tell me he loved me, but of course I know he did to high heavens and would lay down his own life for me.

Because the male child no dey hear word

The Oedepus complex

YoonSung72:
Because the male child no dey hear word

True.

Naturally,

fathers tends to flow well with their daughters.

Mothers flow well with their sons.

Ceteris paribus

SHEAU:
I’m always serious whenever i’m with my father. Our conversations is always like interrogations
He wants me to handle projects without issue.
I cherish those moments and made me a better person and, he said it to me once when I became independent that he liked my personality.
Oh my father!
I miss you Dr. Wire :�

Would you be with your sons how your father was with you, or would you be different?

to some extent it helps the masculine side of the boy.
if severely done the damage might be in reversible

BlessedNuel:
Naturally,

fathers tends to flow well with their daughters.

Mothers flow well with their sons.

Ceteris paribus

Bros, no be everybody understand Latin o!

I only hear of this but didn't experience it because I'd one of the most conscientious fathers in the world. As a male child, it behooves on you to know that obedience is better than sacrifice hence more glorifying. Once you know this and apply the same in your relationship with your conscientious father, or parents in general, you'll definitely experience heaven on earth through him/them.

mariahAngel:


Would you be with your sons how your father was with you, or would you be different?

Same with different approach

SHEAU:

Same with different approach

What are some of the things your father did that you would do differently?

mariahAngel:




What are some of the things your father did that you would do differently?

Interrogation don start

AFRICAN MEN DON'T LIKE THEIR SONS TO BE SEEN AS WEAKLINGS OR WUSSIES, A MAN SHOULD BE A MAN AND NOT A SISSY, THEY DID NOTHING WRONG IN TOUGHENING US.

A male child requires a harsh handling because men are naturally born bold unlike the other gender that are easily submissive to their parents

SHEAU:

Interrogation don start

Your mind no carry am?

mariahAngel:


Your mind no carry am?

It is wicked and hard out there and it is the boys who become men who do the heavy lifting, planning and execution, guarding and protection, etc so a boy must be built to take on these issues and overcome them.

In my opinion, the girl too. My daughter gets the heat too for everything that hits the boy hits her too, whether starvation, ridicule, shame etc in fact, she should get more.

Because on top of those hits are also sexual crimes and offences she has to contend with which the male child has lesser attacks!