Aisha Yesufu Advises Married Couples: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It'

Activist, Aisha yesufu has taken to her Twitter handle to advise married couples to keep their mothers out of their marriage if they want their marriage to work, IgbereTV reports.

According to her, the moment you start sharing what is happening in your marriage with your mother, she will begin to interfere in your marriage which will cause you trouble.

Read her tweets below.

“When you get married, the first person you have to ensure you keep out of your marriage is YOUR MOTHER! Those love and concerns and wanting to find all is okay in the guise of love? It is not healthy! You start sharing what is happening you are done for! They begin to interfere!"

"As a new couple, learn what works for you. It is unique. Develop it yourself the way you want to. Keep everyone out of it! Do your thing and it is never easy marrying two different lives together. So take your time."

Keep everyone out and do you!”

https://twitter.com/AishaYesufu/status/1337444817903742979?s=19

Well said. Mothers, generally women.


For the first time in about 11 years ago I joined nairaland. Today is the first day I made first to comment.

Make Una show me love

Aisha, u sha just dey cap fire

According to her, the moment you start sharing what is happening in your marriage with your mother, she will begin to interfere in your marriage which will cause you trouble.

Aisha,
Your mother is not the same as all Nigerian mothers,
is that understood?

Most girls/ladies best friends are their mothers,
Sisi Yewande of [b][/b] can testify to this.

Your mother sticks with you forever,
But your hubby can leave you anytime after turning your face to the face of one of Anthony Joshua's opponent or did what that Channels TV reporter did to the face of his wife!

So kindly speak for yourself and your family Aisha,
That is your family palava.

Next.......

omenka:
She is simply revealing the kind of mother inlaw she's likely to be. Nothing more.

True that!

johnmartus:
I always know you as a sensible person...
Me personally I can't do anything without informed my mother.

A good mother that will always stand with you even she know when everything is fine or not.
Before I got married I have already told my wife that I dont take my mother joke because after God is next.

Thank you Mr John M.
You've said it all.
You are also one of the very reasonable and sensible member we have on this forum.

kambili999:
What works for family A may not work for family B.

It didn't work for u ma, but it works for a lot of people

Words from a wise lady.
Na ur mama born u.
God bless your mother for giving us a Queen like you!

She said the truth here though
If you want your marriage to work out.....You need not to involve your mum into all matters in the relationship......Especially men
.
But I hope she is talking to both gender sha??

Gbam !!!

She has a point tho....not totally correct

what worked out in their generation...might not work in ours....simple

Nonsense.... Wife that can leave anytime but mother is for ever

What works for family A may not work for family B.

It didn't work for u ma, but it works for a lot of people

Absolutely true

Dd

Ok

This one don use her evil mother generalize. Mtcheew

Hmmmm....... Many will not accept this cos they can't decode.

Truth but if it go sour you return back to that your mother

Hh

So true.

And your ex's too

More reason you should monitor your spouse's phones before saying I do. What I found out when I monitored my man's WhatsApp still shocks me till date.

All thanks to the guy who helped me hack his WhatsApp.

Pls guys make sure to know what he or she does on the media

Of course, for you to choose to get married, you already believe you are mature to handle things. So why involve MOTHER all the time? If you keep telling them about the mistakes of your spouse, I wonder what you are putting their minds about your spouse.

Stop it

She has a point for real. A good point

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Aisha,
Your mother is not the same as all Nigerians mother,
is that understood?

Most girls/ladies best friends are their mothers,
Sisi Yewande of [b][/b] can testify to this.

Your mother sticks with you forever,
But your hubby can leave you anytime after turning your face to the face of one of Anthony Joshua's opponent or did what that Channels TV reporter did to the face of his wife!

So kindly speak for yourself and your family Aisha,
That is your family palava.

Next.......

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Just read this trash !!
If you are incapable of understanding a message why comment ?
Can't you sometimes skip?
She didn't insinuate she doesn't respect her mom but she gave sound advise.

But you are so blinded by hate because despite all you sai buhari from here to facebook no one knows you and you got served lengthy bans back to back

Aisha on other hand is an urban legend, she is loved across tribe and religion. She is the pride of Arewa.

Her husband has said time and again how proud he is of her..look at his smile in the photo that's love

Show us yours

You even went as far as using both accounts to insult her.. that looks pretty unstable to me.



From all of us here at nightstalker we love you Aisha

I hear

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ILoveDemMANNA:

Only a foolish nonentity that grew up in a household of hate, beatings and bitterness will ever say such rubbish against her mom.
It is obvious she is not raised in a family full of love and happiness.
No wonder she go dey strong face everywhere like one she devil.
Bastard pikin.


Na bastard pikin now, wetin u expect.
She think say every mama be like her own mama.
See as she wash the old woman for public.

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See how bitter and angry you are

Did Aisha slap you ?.

You are bitter angry and sound very unstable



E pain am

Yet the world knows Aisha and no one knows you

Show us your own happy marriage photos with your partner ... You no fit

Chai don't drink sniper o

Hahahahaahahahaahahahahaahahahaaha

Rubbish post ...

She's right. Get your mother involved in your marriage and regret every bit of it

Aisha Yesufu, the latest motivational speaker in town

kizolo:
This one don use her evil mother generalize. Mtcheew

Na bastard pikin now, wetin u expect.
She think say every mama be like her own mama.
See as she wash the old woman for public.

Very simple. Remember your mother already enjoyed her marriage and I'm sure she didn't allow anyone intrude in it. So be wise and don't involve third parties until it's bleeping necessary

helinues:

Here we go