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kushme:



only you, Abj/Lag/Enugu...

when you go visit our location?

Lols... Now see the breakdown

Abuja is for holidays
Enugu is my family resident
Lagos where my alma Mata is

Onyeasi:
Well said. Mothers, generally women.


For the first time in about 11 years ago I joined nairaland. Today is the first day I made first to comment.

Make Una show me love

Onye asi, continue

So true..

Indispensable85:



People just generalize thinking all mothers are as bad as theirs. Go deal with your problem and stop this foolish generalization. God bless you!

Not all mothers are bad, but advisable to hide ur marriage a little bit from 3rd party, not only ur mum even ur pastor and others 3rd parties.

post=97018860:


Aisha,
Your mother is not the same as all Nigerians mother,
is that understood?

Most girls/ladies best friends are their mothers,
Sisi Yewande of [b][/b] can testify to this.

Your mother sticks with you forever,
But your hubby can leave you anytime after turning your face to the face of one of Anthony Joshua's opponent or did what that Channels TV reporter did to the face of his wife!

So kindly speak for yourself and your family Aisha,
That is your family palava.

Next.......

She is simply revealing the kind of mother inlaw she's likely to be. Nothing more.

post=97018860:


Aisha,
Your mother is not the same as all Nigerians mother,
is that understood?

Most girls/ladies best friends are their mothers,
Sisi Yewande of [b][/b] can testify to this.

Your mother sticks with you forever,
But your hubby can leave you anytime after turning your face to the face of one of Anthony Joshua's opponent or did what that Channels TV reporter did to the face of his wife!

So kindly speak for yourself and your family Aisha,
That is your family palava.

Next.......

For the first time in your whole life you are making sense.

Congratulations!!!

On behalf of comment readers Association of Nairaland (CRAN) I have to say that she made a great point

Not totally correct.... you can not all issues... unless the mama be evil person pretending to be nice...!!

All women say that until their son start to keep them off their own marriage.. and they be like .


."pikin I carry for nine months and suffer for no de gree listern to me.

I disagree with you. She said keep your mother out of your marriage not out of your life.

post=97018860:


Aisha,
Your mother is not the same as all Nigerians mother,
is that understood?

Most girls/ladies best friends are their mothers,
Sisi Yewande of [b][/b] can testify to this.

Your mother sticks with you forever,
But your hubby can leave you anytime after turning your face to the face of one of Anthony Joshua's opponent or did what that Channels TV reporter did to the face of his wife!

So kindly speak for yourself and your family Aisha,
That is your family palava.

Next.......

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I agree with her. When it comes to family matter between a husband and wife, third parties should not get themselves involved. Parents (in this case mother) tend to be biased. This why the church made provision for marriage sponsors. They are meant to perform the work of parents to both couples and act without bias when marital issues are presented before them. If your sponsors cannot resolve it, present the matter before a Priest or Pastor. If the priest or pastor cannot resolve it, it therefore implies that you guys are incompatible.

its not a fact,its just her opinion,cos it is best known to her

ojuu4u:


Not all mothers are bad, but advisable to hide ur marriage a little bit from 3rd, not only ur mum even ur pastor and other 3rd party.

Absolutely! It would've made sense to say don't involve third parties in your marriage unnecessarily or excessively. I concur with you totally.

SweetCunt97:
Very simple. Remember your mother already enjoyed her marriage and I'm sure she didn't allow anyone intrude in it. So be wise and don't involve third parties until it's bleeping necessary

God bless you ..!
My grandma from my Father's side,has been in my house for over 2months now,since I got to know my right from my left,my mom and dad never had a fight. Since that woman arrived my dad have begin to keep grudges with everyone. His mother calls him to her room and talk about every issue of the house to him,the worst of it all she tells it to him that he is too soft on us..pls keep your marriage issues to your marriage until when it is necessary to get your mother involved. Your family will not scatter IJN oooo..

A word is enough for the wise.

Abeg e depend oo
their some friends that more blood to you than families, so it depends on persons

Indispensable85:
Rubbish talk! If your Man's Mother or your Mother is wicked it doesn't mean it's so for everyone out there. That my own marriage is a huge success today is because of my Mum. My wife is like a daughter to my Mum. I swear you would never know she's but a daughter in law. The rapport is simply amazing! I bless God for the Mum he gave me. In a nut shell,it depends on the mother involved,it's not a general thing.

your first two sentences and your last few sentences contradict each other. Everything revolves around the kind of family u have, if you know ur mom is not the objective type but the emotional type, then certain things are better left unreported to her cuz she will side u because of that motherly love.

Nightstalker:


Trash

See how bitter and angry you are

Did Aisha slap you ?.

You are bitter angry and sound very unstable



E pain am

Yet the world knows Aisha and no one knows you

Show us your own happy marriage photos with your partner ... You no fit

Chai don't drink sniper o

Hahahahaahahahaahahahahaahahahaaha

You're childish dude.
The guy made top-notch points
Deal with it.

Xcelentmac:
On behalf of comment readers Association of Nairaland (CRAN) I have to say that she made a great point

thanks so much our chairman

Oizee:
your first two sentences and your last few sentences contradict each other. Everything revolves around the kind of family u have, if you know ur mom is not the objective type but the emotional type, then certain things are better left unreported to her cuz she will side u because of that motherly love.

Maybe you need a lecture on the word CONTRADICTORY.

Poshriel:
And your ex's too

More reason you should monitor your spouse's phones before saying I do. What I found out when I monitored my man's WhatsApp still shocks me till date.

All thanks to the guy who helped me hack his WhatsApp.

Pls guys make sure to know what he or she does on the media

Mrs hacker keep on hacking into people's privacy like u are perfect.... every human being has a skeleton in their cupboard including u... infact the guy dodged a bullet and should be thankful to God for taking u away from his life... its certain that u are the jealous monitoring spirit type ....what u did is certainly some psycho bi.tch stuff....only a child will do stuff like that, u are definitely not mature enough to handle a relationship... so if u get married ( thats if checking ur partners phones will allow that even happen) and u find some stuff on ur husbands phone, u will leave him too?? Grow up

Goldenkrezi:


You're childish dude.
The guy made top-notch points
Deal with it.

Another monicker again?

You get time o

Indispensable85:



Maybe you need a lecture on the word CONTRADICTORY.

ok

nwekeugochukwu:
Aisha Yesufu Advises Married Couples: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It'

Activist, Aisha yesufu has taken to her Twitter handle to advise married couples to keep their mothers out of their marriage if they want their marriage to work, IgbereTV reports.

According to her, the moment you start sharing what is happening in your marriage with your mother, she will begin to interfere in your marriage which will cause you trouble.

Read her tweets below.


https://twitter.com/AishaYesufu/status/1337444817903742979?s=19

She is very correct but not entirely correct there are some mothers that are good like my own mother and their are some bad mothers too those are the ones you keep out of your marriage I'm talking of the troublesome over bearing ones who likes to be in charge in their sons lives dictating what to do or what not to be done, the over possessive moms

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Nightstalker:
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Just read this trash !!
If you are incapable of understanding a message why comment ?
Can't you sometimes skip?
She didn't insinuate she doesn't respect her mom but she gave sound advise.

But you are so blinded by hate because despite all you sai buhari from here to facebook no one knows you and you got served lengthy bans back to back

Aisha on other hand is an urban legend, she is loved across tribe and religion. She is the pride of Arewa.

Her husband has said time and again how proud he is of her..look at his smile in the photo that's love

Show us yours

You even went as far as using both accounts to insult her.. that looks pretty unstable to me.



From all of us here at nightstalker we love you Aisha

she's not arewa

Nightstalker:

Another monicker again?
You get time o

Lol... which yeye anoda monicker? Dude I no sabi anybody for NL... You're talking in the nonsense.

Goldenkrezi:


Lol... which yeye anoda monicker?
Dude I no sabi anybody for NL...
You're talking in the nonsense.

Talking In the nonsense?

I rest my case mannabbq guy

Poshriel:

Lols... Now see the breakdown
Abuja is for holidays Enugu is my family resident Lagos where my alma Mata is

correct.. nothing do you..