crafteck:


Her mum is like most

My friend where you dey since?



Welcome back

Rashford22:


The best comment on this issue..
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Thank you.

And who is such guy if not one of your boyfriends. A case of pot calling kettle black.

Poshriel:
And your ex's too

More reason you should monitor your spouse's phones before saying I do. What I found out when I monitored my man's WhatsApp still shocks me till date.

All thanks to the guy who helped me hack his WhatsApp.

Pls guys make sure to know what he or she does on the media

So unfortunate we are in a generation where mother in-laws of the women, are hated by default.

What a terrible social construct, we allowed to thrive.

You will notice that most Ladies are already apprehensive about their mother in-laws before you even proposed marriage.

What a shame!!!!

Same lady wants you to love her mother and want you to abandon your own mother as a man.


If you think it's about the mother in-laws, how come that same woman (MIL) to the lady, will go see and stay with her own daughter after child birth and there will be no problem.

How many of these DIL, put their own mother in arms-length the way they want from their MIL.

their own mothers can advise them and it won't be interference, but their MIL can't even ask about the whereabout of her son, because it will be seen as interference.

What a shame.

Nightstalker:
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Just read this trash !!
If you are incapable of understanding a message why comment ?
Can't you sometimes skip?
She didn't insinuate she doesn't respect her mom but she gave sound advise.

But you are so blinded by hate because despite all you sai buhari from here to facebook no one knows you and you got served lengthy bans back to back

Aisha on other hand is an urban legend, she is loved across tribe and religion. She is the pride of Arewa.

Her husband has said time and again how proud he is of her..look at his smile in the photo that's love

Show us yours

You even went as far as using both accounts to insult her.. that looks pretty unstable to me.



From all of us here at nightstalker we love you Aisha

Beverlyjean:


Mrs hacker keep on hacking into people's privacy like u are perfect.... every human being has a skeleton in their cupboard including u... infact the guy dodged a bullet and should be thankful to God for taking u away from his life... its certain that u are the jealous monitoring spirit type ....what u did is certainly some psycho bi.tch stuff....only a child will do stuff like that, u are definitely not mature enough to handle a relationship... so if u get married ( thats if checking ur partners phones will allow that even happen) and u find some stuff on ur husbands phone, u will leave him too?? Grow up

You see this hacking of a thing, someone did it to me and I never confronted her after discovering. I simply allowed her to be fooling herself and reading all my chats while I got a different line for my family members to be chatting with me on. Everyone I told about the hacking stuff told me to be careful about her. In her mind, she was being smart but unfortunately for her, it changed the dynamics of things. If a lady wants to check my phone, I have no problem allowing her to read through. But hacking me and monitoring everything that goes on in my life including my biz chats and family conversations, is totally unacceptable.

Rehdasignature1:
Hmmmm....... Many will not accept this cos they can't decode.

Exactly, many won't understand... But she is right. Tell ur mom every other thing but dont say bad things about your spouse yet, no matter what unless ur life is endangered.

Your wicked inconsiderate selfish insecure Mother is not to be concluded as being the same with all other Mothers. Besides, a clear conscience fears no accusations.

Aisha, one day , you will become a mother inlaw, then your son or daughter wouldn't listen to any of your advice in his/her marital home, be it good or bad one and I will be waiting for your reactions.

Remember, blacks are fun of easily forgetting their or the past and always looking for ways of self defence.

Fellow Nairalanders, pls keep this date in earnest.

kambili999:
What works for family A may not work for family B.

It didn't work for u ma, but it works for a lot of people

Don't miss the point...

It is not a question of what works! It's about the right and proper approach to the institution of marriage.

Opening the door fully for your parents and relatives to be all over your marriage and home is never always prudent, even if your spouse is friendly, accommodating, or accepting. There should be boundaries!!! You don't take a spouse's generous and friendly nature for granted... This is how crisis come into once peaceful homes.

Nightstalker:
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Just read this trash !!
If you are incapable of understanding a message why comment ?
Can't you sometimes skip?
She didn't insinuate she doesn't respect her mom but she gave sound advise.

But you are so blinded by hate because despite all you sai buhari from here to facebook no one knows you and you got served lengthy bans back to back

Aisha on other hand is an urban legend, she is loved across tribe and religion. She is the pride of Arewa.

Her husband has said time and again how proud he is of her..look at his smile in the photo that's love

Show us yours

You even went as far as using both accounts to insult her.. that looks pretty unstable to me.



From all of us here at nightstalker we love you Aisha

forget it.
we all love Aisha, but this admonishment is rubbish.
every human being is unique and different, what works for A may not work for B.
And she just told the whole world she has a bad mother. Yes.

She is damn right. Countless divorces are due to interferences from the mother of the couple

nwekeugochukwu:
Aisha Yesufu Advises Married Couples: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It'

Activist, Aisha yesufu has taken to her Twitter handle to advise married couples to keep their mothers out of their marriage if they want their marriage to work, IgbereTV reports.

According to her, the moment you start sharing what is happening in your marriage with your mother, she will begin to interfere in your marriage which will cause you trouble.

Read her tweets below.


https://twitter.com/AishaYesufu/status/1337444817903742979?s=19

OyinO:
Your wicked inconsiderate selfish insecure Mother is not to be concluded as being the same with all other Mothers. Besides, a clear conscience fears no accusations.

Sigh... This was your deduction from what she posted??!.... What a shame!!!

Just look at the kind of graduates and so called educated youths this nation is breeding!!! Smh.

omojesu202:


forget it.
we all love Aisha, but this admonishment is rubbish.
every human being is unique and different, what works for A may not work for B.
And she just told the whole world she has a bad mother. Yes.

Nah... It is only rubbish to the uncomprehending.

Those who properly understood the wisdom in that simple statement are better for it.

Please, work on your comprehension skills. Thank you.

And you succeeded in dragging politics into this, as for Aisha maybe she has an evil mother no doubt but I bet you on this, if not for my mother,my elder brother's marriage would have crushed immediately after the church wedding

Nightstalker:
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Just read this trash !!
If you are incapable of understanding a message why comment ?
Can't you sometimes skip?
She didn't insinuate she doesn't respect her mom but she gave sound advise.

But you are so blinded by hate because despite all you sai buhari from here to facebook no one knows you and you got served lengthy bans back to back

Aisha on other hand is an urban legend, she is loved across tribe and religion. She is the pride of Arewa.

Her husband has said time and again how proud he is of her..look at his smile in the photo that's love

Show us yours

You even went as far as using both accounts to insult her.. that looks pretty unstable to me.



From all of us here at nightstalker we love you Aisha

It depends

showafrica:


Exactly, many won't understand... But she is right. Tell ur mom every other thing but dont say bad things about your spouse yet, no matter what unless ur life is endangered.

Just read what most of them are posting all over the thread, even the ones who claim to be smart and exposed... The bias against the woman is so evident in their pointlessly vicious posts.

Education is dying in this nation!!! Seems we are no longer raising smart youths!!! I am deeply ashamed!!!

True!!! Some mothers are evil

Wow.. now turn to marriage counselor

Angelfrost:


Sigh... This was your deduction from what she posted??!.... What a shame!!!

Just look at the kind of graduates and so called educated youths this nation is breeding!!! Smh.

Her statement is straight to point. No parabolical or allegorical assertions. Don't try to twist it by your emphatic and shameful body-shaming tactics. Mother is precious but a stewpeed selfish wife will separate a man from MOTHER, father and every other family members by every means POSSIBLE! Just so that she can have him all to herself and suck him dry. It all begins with statements like this. So take your useless insults elsewhere because I'm already immune to online insults and attacks by attack dogs and toothless electronic bulldogs like you.

Well it is two ways thingy.... what if u dont have mother, wont you handle your marriage..


But u also need your mama's input in some way or the other too..as a sensible and capable man , u have too balance the two sha..

But I will not keep my mama totally off my marriage. ..

Something happened recently that if not for her something would have gone sour for my brother..

Onyeasi:
Well said. Mothers, generally women.


For the first time in about 11 years ago I joined nairaland. Today is the first day I made first to comment.

Make Una show me love

Na lie; onye asi ki bu

IJEYdiamond:
Not totally correct.... you can not all issues... unless the mama be evil person pretending to be nice...!!

A mother doesn't have to be evil to ruin a marriage. They don't do it out of wickedness most times they so it out of love.

Rehdasignature1:
Hmmmm....... Many will not accept this cos they can't decode.

Don't mind them. Some foolish men are acting on this thread Asif their mother currently knows every tiny details about them. My mum is the most loving and peaceful woman you'll ever meet but once I get married, especially for the first 5 years, she's only going to sleep in my house when I have a baby and I learnt this from her.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
A mother doesn't have to be evil to ruin a marriage. They don't do it out of wickedness most times they so it out of love.

Exactly. Sometimes the intention is pure but based on a misconception or false information.

post=97018860:

you!

You've started commenting like someone suffering from depression again. .
A leopard can't change its skin. Emotional breakdown and desperation for attention are part of your life. You can't change it.

fuckdemrepented:
Nonsense.... Wife that can leave anytime but mother is for ever

But if your wife usually consult her mother before taking decisions, u will vex ... No be so ?