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Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Nobody: 2:35pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
ILoveDemMANNA:ma/sir calm down ... I love my mum more anybody/anything in this world ... she never said she hates her mum .. drink a glass of water, chill then read that advice gain ...if you still dont see any positives from it..then sorry I cannot help you |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Spectaclesawe25: 2:35pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
It is deep. Only few will comprehend. Keeping your mother out of your marriage isn't like not speaking to her or hearing from her but avoid giving her too much details about yourself and your spouse. It can expose the weakness in the home and the consequence is always not palatable to both parties. |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by JIREN01: 3:24pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Poshriel:Can you please gist us? |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by plana1: 3:43pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
She is absolutely right. There is a case in my compound currently about my neighbour's wife whose mother helped her to insult her husband and even helped her moved her belongings out of the guy's house a forthnight ago. Since last week they have been coming around to beg the guy to accept his wife back. The guy has refused to even open the gate for them to enter his house. Now they are appealing to neighbours to help beg the guy to accept his wife back. |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Caseywilliams(m): 3:48pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Oluwapluto:so the women are free to involve their own mothers abi? |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Caseywilliams(m): 3:50pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Poshriel:u wey hack ur senior man WhatsApp account fit hack person to death.....incase u don't know nah me talk am |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by chrizzyace: 3:52pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Digitalwitch: Because the bible is the manual to the life You live in today. |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by dominique(f): 3:54pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
What about the fathers? Don't they also involve themselves in the lives of their children or their involvement should be allowed? |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Boobysmith: 3:56pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
"As a new couple, learn what works for you. It is unique. Develop it yourself the way you want to. Keep everyone out of it! Do your thing and it is never easy marrying two different lives together. So take your time." Letting my family knows everything about my marriage is what collapse it. Wish I knew this sooner. |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by oluoma1: 4:04pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Onyeasi:This is my love for you?
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Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Michelle28520: 4:12pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
I think to some extent I understand and get dis msg clearly and I can say it dis woman is right, involving one's mother into one's marital home either of d spouse is not too good especially when d mother is on d side of her child, its not healthy for marriage, but one can inform dem but not to take sides. |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by DimIsaac10(m): 4:40pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
To keep my ever patience mother out of what?. she must be high. |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by yoursidenigga(m): 4:51pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
My mom will always stick with me all day, every day as long as she breathes. I no come understand what Aisha talk. But I think she is referring to not divulging sensitive information that could cause trouble to your mother when married. |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Coinbased: 5:00pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Nonsense |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by bukatyne(f): 5:12pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Barristter07: |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by King44(m): 5:36pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
What works for family A may not work for Family be, there are many marriages that are still waxing stranger today because of interference from either mother or father, thus their role can't be downplayed. There are also some marriages whereby the reason why everything is upside down is because of their mothers, especially the ones that take sides and dishes bad advice to their children. But for me o, my mom may not be able to give me the best of advice without being taking sides fortunately, I understand her and I know how to handle things already so taking her out of the equation is not an option when I am not a bastard and that is how it should be. Just get familiar with your partner's mother during courtship know what they are capable of, make a decision so that all these werey advice won't come back to hurt you. Why would you take your parents out of your marriage when they are not trouble makers and bad advisers whom you can't control... So it depends what works for A may not work for B. |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Rashford22: 6:30pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
not some women who doesn't want to see mother in law. [/quote] Bias talk.! There is vice versa in that case also..some mother in law who doesn't want to see your wife. Just a comment reader. |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by omojesu202(m): 6:53pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Angelfrost: continue speaking grammar to defend nonesense. the fact that you love her doesn't mean you shouldn't criticize her when she posted rubbish. I love her. it's a simple English, there's nothing to crack brain here to understand. An SSCE holder can understand that, stop wasting and cracking your brain for ordinary comprehension. if you're cracking brain for comprehension, then what are you going to do for integration Don't discuss your marital problems with your mum.... you're a dullard for not understanding such simple statement. |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Angelfrost(m): 6:58pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
omojesu202: How do I say this without coming off as rude... Let me try... My good sir, you are not making sense at all! Please, try again. |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by EndRape2(f): 8:00pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Simple English, she did not say leave your mother, or not care for your mother, she said , do not involve your mother in all marital iisues, simple as ABC, that is the best advice you can ever get, the way you reason is different from the way your mother reason, if you keep involving your mother in your marriage or you keep talking about your wife to her, she will hate your wife, and there will be conflicts between the two of them, which might crash your marriage, keep your marriage from third party. ot tell your mother everythinuote author=fuckdemrepented post=97018873]Nonsense.... Wife that can leave anytime but mother is for ever [/quote] |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by EndRape2(f): 8:22pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Mumu, you can not read? did she talk about her mother, f****l she gave the best advice you can get in this world, you can not involve your mother in all issues happening in your home, because it will lead to more problems. quote author=ILoveDemMANNA post=97018950] Na bastard pikin now, wetin u expect. She think say every mama be like her own mama. See as she wash the old woman for public. [/quote] |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by crafteck(m): 8:52pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Nightstalker: Everything about this country, news, peoples reactions just de depressing |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Digitalwitch: 9:07pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
chrizzyace:Why would Christians force their beliefs on non believers especially traditional worshippers? |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by CioAngels(f): 9:16pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Just like a man beats his wife because she said she won't be going to the market to check for clothes for his sister whenever she needs to buy clothes and send the videos to her now that she is married to her brother. The wife said to her husband, we should be thinking of how to start their home and her job hunting, and that earned her two or three slap. From that time till now there has been regular beating at the slightest provocation which he will claim it is anger. Her first pregnancy she miscarriaged as a result of beating that she has no character. He made sure he starved her during her second pregrancy, thank God she delivered safely. Her mother was called for omuguo and because the wife had a little issue that needed extra hospital care but he was always angry of his wife complaining of pain. The story had it that the girls mother would always tell him to take her to the hospital for checkup, unknown it did not go down well with him. His little son cried endlessly because of the unblical cord pain but he refused to buy medicine that he has to call his sister to get directions first. His in-law begged him to buy medicine for the boy, still he refused until his friends wife came and witnessed the cry, he agreed to buy grapewater. On the naming ceremony day, his in-law told him to call his sister to cook and he refused that his wife will cook. His wife cooked the indoor naming food on the seventh day alone while his in-law cared for the baby. They moved from one apartment to another on same floor, it is this women who dilievered barely a month that he used to carry the heavy chairs and tables. The man practically drove the wives mother on lies that she was contorlling his marriage after her has told him she was ready to go back but he kept quiet unknown to her he had ulterior move to disgrace her. His wife got pregnant again and she miscarriaged again all these miscarriages are always at three months and as a result of beating, as usual, reason, anger. Another pregnacy at three months the wife ranaway to her mother to save the pregnacy, we heard she delivered four months ago and at three months of delivery, he beat her, he tragulated her and for him to release her, she slapped him, at that point she said he intensify the stangulation with warning that he will cut her throat and kill her. He gave her blow in her eye with blood over her eye. The husband said because he paid dowery he has every right to beat her because of the money he paid on her head. We heard the wife has gone to her mother's house and she is attending eye clinic were the doctor said the eye is infected and has to be treated before he can talk about the flashes. The lady in-laws told her that because of the ordacity she had to travel the marriage is over, apparently, the believe that because they paid dowery the wife has no right again to her family, she becomes a total save which was how her husband was treating her. My question to Aisha, is, should the wives or husbands hide this brutality from their mother to keep the marriage? I'm sorry everyone for the long story, the narrator wants Aisha to answer her. |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by ferking(m): 9:26pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
She is 89percent correct, because marriage is a puzzle you find it out your self, marriage is a secret you discover it your self, your mother marriage will never be the same with your own, because your husband is not your father and they don't have the same DNA |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Nobody: 9:46pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Considering the kind of breeds we have as either wife or hubby these days, I think leaving one's mom out of the marriage is gonna backfire someday. Unsatisfied/uncultured kids getting married nowadays A sensible partner would always know what to do to protect his/her marriage. |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Nobody: 9:49pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
crafteck: You can't let that get you down bro , you gotta stay positive Only focus on the people whose vibe tallies with yours the rest can go away |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by goodheart02(m): 10:07pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
post=97018860: You're here yarning about mother, are u not aware that people are accusing your darling daddy Buhari with fake news of kidnap in the north?? How can they accuse your darling daddy when he has defeated insecurity and no one was kidnapped, all fake.. Lol. I even had to remind them that Nigeria is very peaceful and that you're still receiving your 30K chop money from the FG, and that all Zombies are also enjoying the barbing from Sai barber |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by crafteck(m): 10:09pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Nightstalker: Thanks bro 1 Like |
Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by Nobody: 10:10pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
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Re: Aisha Yesufu: 'For Your Marriage To Work, Keep Your Mother Out Of It' by backbone503(m): 10:40pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Good mothers have a big role to play in the success of the marriage of their children. This doesn't imply they'll call the shots. Apart your spouse (if married), no one loves and wishes you well like your mum. I don't joke with mine. |
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